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Do not lay up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy and where thieves break in and steal, but lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust destroys and where thieves do not break in and steal.

marksonrick:
Long Read

I started work for this organization in December last year and I am heading my department. A new manager, a female was brought in January from a different state as the overall head. It wasn't easy for her as a lot of junior staff fought against her decisions. I was her go to person even though there are other people heading various departments.
As time went on, some junior and senior members of the organization began to disassociate from her. This made us come more closer. We hug each other every morning on resumption of duty, she visits my office, eat there if she came with food and most times, will sleep on my office.
She is always jealous whenever she sees me holding other female colleagues. I don't go beyond the hugging because she is married and I respect her marriage. Even the hugging, I don't hug in the front, but at the side.
With time, she was able to push a lot of junior staffs away and new ones were employed.
One of the new guy employed last month, knows the game to unlocking women's leg.
Within last month and this month, he has slept with almost all the girls in the organization and even the girls I usually play left me, both the one that has visited me in my house although, we didn't do anything.
Some weeks ago, he began coming close to the overall manager, and the woman, started developing emotions for him and becomebtoo attracted to him. Last week, I and the guy were having some good time then she appeared, came to the chair where I sat and looked straight into the guys eyes. I caught her, and she became uncomfortable. She left my office and then closed work after 5 mins even though it wasn't her closing time.
She lives with her husband and I do go to visit them. I never knew I had feelings for her all these while until that particular act happened. Well, after that act, I restrained her from coming to my office. She came begging me. She asked me what was wrong. I couldn't tell her because she is married but i was dying. She even asked me if i am in love with her but i kept mum. Two days ago, I was with her in her office when she heard the guy's voice and how the other women are happy, chanting and laughing. Immediately, she became uncomfortable and after 5 mins, she told me that she was coming and left. 10 minutes later, I went out and caught she and the guy in a happy mood. I became very angry and hurt, the only friend I had was gone.
Yesterday, I called her to her office and asked her if she loves the guy. She was furious but I continued by pointing out all that I have observed about her and the guy. She became cold, and her countenance changed. After i left her office, she sat there without stepping out the whole day except the time she closed for the day.

I don't know if it was wrong to have told her about the guy since I'm not the husband.

As it stands now, I've decided to cut close ties with her as I know clearly, the guy has won.

Before she went home yesterday, I went into her office and noticed that she was crying and then, her hand shaking. I asked her why was she crying and why is her hand shaking. She did not say anything, so I told her to do what's on her mind, because I know clearly that that I've lost her.

Ever since yesterday, I've been feeling jealousy towards them.

She didn't come to work today but I'm worried about her, me and the guy tomorrow.

Faber:
You want tell me say Nigerian girl never bill u before. Oya swear with ur left blokos and see whether e no go die by 2morr morning

tanigororo:
One or Two, non virgin in any form differentiate. Since there are bases for comparison she will always compare forget.

Orubebe01:
How do you feel?

Lawag3:
Nicholas Jackson

Holyfic:
Village chicken de game gan, the taste, egg I wish we can breed more of them

EreluRoz:
Lol, I love goats, sheep and dislike dogs because I know they have the ability to bite. I fear dogs ehn

diamond68:
The Igbo man does not have good leadership quality, look at all the states that he leads, everyone is japa out of the states to Yoruba states which this is how you should determine the best rulers in the country is to which region is everybody running to and away from and based on this criteria the Yoruba man should hold power forever and the Igbo man should just be content with his buying and selling as his leadership qualities is in compArison to cow dung. The Igbo man should not be dragging power in Nigeria. That man will run the country down . Look at peter obi building 1800s primitive borehole structures in 2024. Thsts the Igbo man for you.

As the man so eloquently boasts, ' the Igbo man does not bow down to anybody' , suggesting he is destined to be a bad leader because if a man refuses to be led, it means he would be a bad leader. The best leaders are those who don't mind being led just how you have to be a good listener to be a great leader. If you refuse to listen them you can't be a good leader

All the roads soludo and otti built, the next day rain will come and wash the roads away. In 2024 ?

Sassha:
I bet she has dick too.

tellwisdom:
Na when one big man carry u enter there, u go change ur mind for this statement

Bintabisiriyu2:
Keep eating nonsense

AAAA67:
A desperate lady with no other option will surely be comfortable with it.
In as much that the guy is loaded and financed everything.
And his also taking good care of her, what else?
Apart from been busy, if the guy doesn't have papers to allow him leave his place of abide, he won't cos of marriage take such risk.
They should have married on oom , since they met on Facebook.

immortalcrown:
Yet-to-be identified?

Una dey joke.

Bintabisiriyu2:
Big pot of Ogbono, Ogbono wey dey spoil within 2 days, weda u warm am o or put in fridge

stacyadams:
I can't eat in such a disgusting environment

erai30:
Nice one tit for tat, never raise your hands to hit a woman. Reserve the strength for a man or better still go and fight your mate.

pocohantas:
Not even as a pet sef.
I am tired of reading that falsehood.

pocohantas:
A man is not marrying someone who has nothing to offer because she isn't financially stable. Men know why they go for such women and avoid their mates who supposedly has something to offer. He simply put youthfulness, extreme submission, homemaking skills...etc, above financial support. Nobody marries someone who has NOTHING to offer in the real sense of it. Definitely not men. You people should stop telling this lie. We all know why you date/marry down.