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pocohantas:
Lol. It is no more respect, now honour.

Before it is was men crave RESPECT, not LOVE.

Soon it would be WORSHIP.

Then same men would complain that women don't marry who they LOVE.

You respect him
Honor him
and Worship him.

That is the complete package.

Eunoiaa:
I wonder if she finally seized your phone because of something she saw. 😂😂

You don't see Folake's handwriting in my disappearance?

Nwatulee:
Hi guys am not a good writer and will try to keep this post as short as possible.... I met a girl 5 years ago at first year we are just fiends and bedmates, a year after we decided to take things serious.. First forward to covid 19 she moved in with me a year after my precious business collapse due to China scam.. She tried her best to contribute the little she have even upto changing my boxers and money for hair cut she provided... The relationship has been good with the off and on.. But my gf have a bad habit that she is quickly to adapt to things both good or bad things.. Which to me I worry a lot... she cheats on me with other guys one time I hacked her WhatsApp I saw all her sexpades with other guys... I talk to her about it.... she begged but to no avail she refuse to change.... Fast forward till last week I keep complaining how she always come back late.. Snext 2 days after complaining she texted me with a picture that she is out chilling with her girls.. I was so angry because we just hard a semilar argument about, late nights days ago I told her if she didn't drive home next 30min she should just remain there.. She replied she is on way.. I was so angry and tell not to worry omo this girl stayed back.. Went clubbing and stayed in the hotel next morning she sent me a video of her and the girls in the hotel.. I didn't reply because I was angry.. Talking to you like this she is yet to come back to the house since Friday called all her siblings.. She was with none of them. .. and I began to wonder na person wey I Wan marry be this? what if we get married and it got worst? Thank God I got back on my feet in business and now am doing all possible best we get married this year and relocate to abroad next year.. One part of me have actually decided to let go and just block her off the other part is not willing.. What should I do guys.. Because me am am 33 years and trying to settle down..

I can understand dating a woman who is cheating on you.

I can even understand dating a woman who is cheating with more than one man, especially if the sex is good, because many times when men claim to love a woman, that is all they want.

But to date a woman who is cheating on you and rubbing it in your face, to plan to marry such a woman and relocate abroad with her is beyond me.

No offense to you, sir, but I think extraterrestrial forces are after you.

You need deliverance and steady flogging until you are okay.

Thundafireseun:

Ask questions….one village woman is missing from your village

I am surprised that he has not recognized her.


The bird is his aunt from the village, the one he didn't greet the last time he was there.

If I can't then she's not my partner

pocohantas:
And their generation was more discreet. Unlike ours that open mouth waaa. Only if you are opportuned to eavesdrop on their meetings or have parents that like gist, then you will know. Some of these old aunties were never married. We only assumed they are widows. Whereas they never married, but had kids for a man.

My grandfather's concubine was living in our compound. She was outside, but when her kids grew and had money, they used their share of land to build a small house for her inside our compound. So my grandmother was seeing her everyday. By fire by force.

She even outlived both my grandfather and his two "legal" wives.

Grandpa na confirm alpha male.

Nothing is new under the sun.
One Christmas like that I decided to barb one crazy style, P man called me and showed pictures of himself with even crazier hair styles, I shock. Told me to go barb something 'normal" because gain no dey am.

My friend told me that it was from his mom he heard about his father's side woman, his mother was telling her friend that she is happier now that her husband is sleeping with the other one because his demand for sex has reduced.

Crazy times.

EreluRoz:
Send your driver to come pick me.

Call bike man, when he comes give am phone

Kobojunkie:
In addition to that, Jesus Christ declared that He was sent only to the Lost Sheep of Isreal, by His Father, YHWH of Israel. He went ahead to warn His disciples not to give that which belongs to the Lost sheep of Israel to the dogs — Non-Israelites— Matthew 7 vs 6 & Matthew 15 vs 22 - 24. He explained in John 3 vs 14 - 18 & Matthew 11 vs 28 - 30 that the World which He came to was the very same world to which God caused the bronze Snake to be raised in the desert up to — the condemned ones among Israel aka the Lost sheep of Israel(Ezekiel 34 vs 1 - 31). How then could the same Jesus Christ, who declared that His Word was everlasting — Unchangeable, the same yesterday, today, and forever — be associated in any way or form with a religion largely founded by non-Israelites? No be Juju be that!

This is an intriguing perspective, and I'm eager to delve deeper into it. Based on my understanding, if Jesus' mission were exclusively for the Israelites, it would contradict numerous instances in the Bible where he interacted with and ministered to people from diverse backgrounds.

Firstly, despite initially stating that he was sent to the lost sheep of Israel (Matthew 15:24), Jesus demonstrated compassion and inclusivity in his actions. For instance, when a Canaanite woman approached him seeking help for her daughter, Jesus ultimately healed the daughter, commending the woman's great faith (Matthew 15:28).

Jesus' encounter with the Samaritan woman at the well (John 4:1-42) challenges the notion of exclusivity. Despite societal and cultural barriers between Jews and Samaritans, Jesus engaged in meaningful dialogue with the woman and revealed himself as the Messiah. This interaction underscores Jesus' universal message of salvation transcending ethnic boundaries.

Jesus' response to the plea of a Roman centurion for the healing of his servant (Matthew 8:5-13) exemplifies his willingness to extend grace beyond the confines of Israel. Despite being a Gentile, the centurion's faith impressed Jesus, who commended it as greater than any he had seen in Israel.

Additionally, Jesus' commission to his disciples to make disciples of all nations (Matthew 28:19-20) and his declaration that he would draw all people to himself when lifted up (John 12:32) emphasize the universal scope of his mission. These verses underscore Jesus' intention to offer salvation to people of every race, ethnicity, and nationality.

The account of Peter's encounter with Cornelius in Acts 10 further reinforces the inclusivity of Jesus' message. Despite Peter's initial reluctance due to societal norms, he obeyed God's command to go to Cornelius, a Gentile, and proclaim the Gospel. This event marked a significant shift in understanding that God shows no partiality and accepts people from every nation who fear him and do what is right (Acts 10:34-35).

In essence, while Jesus' earthly ministry began with a focus on the Israelites, his ultimate purpose was to extend salvation to all humanity, thereby fulfilling the promise made to Abraham that through his offspring, all nations would be blessed (Genesis 12:3).

Therefore, to assert that Jesus was exclusively for the Israelites overlooks the abundant evidence in the Bible that demonstrates his universal love and grace for all people.

EreluRoz:
😆 Oya come do Easter for me

Come make I do for you.

This man is a very likeable person, he's free spirited and radiates positive vibes but it ends there. As for what he is doing, I can only say that he is good business man.

pocohantas:
Lmao! I have heard of these stories that is why I think some of the pseudo-alphas on NL do not know their culture because strange things have been happening. I do wonder why they did it __To spite the other man, abi they are sterile. These men were not broke asses o. Ever since I got closer to my parents, I have heard shocking stories of innocent-looking aunties and uncles.

I think it is because of the archaic believe that whoever pays a woman's bride price owns her and therefore owns what she owns. The man in my story already has 5 boys and a girl.

Nobody is innocent anything. If you are opportuned to sit with elders and hear their tales, you go shock.

Way back when a girl's nude was leaked, first in my village. I was with my aunt that day and was like na only God go help us wey never marry, unto say good girls don finsh. Madam told me to shut up. Say there have always been and there will always be good women. Said the difference between then and now is that they didn't have phones and internet to upload some of the things they did, mentioned that they had fear and respect.

No be today nyash dey back.

Nazgul:
He said culture not law.

Let me rephrase the question for you... which culture in Nigeria openly accepts children an unfaithful wife gave birth to?

A man and his wife were separated but not divorced, the woman got pregnant and formally filed for divorce. The man accepted, bride price was returned but the man told her to use it to take of his child that she was carrying. Claimed it was his own since she took in while still married to him. Court ruled in his favor. Whether that is still in practice today is what I don't know. The man was my neighbor and I believe you know where I'm from.

EreluRoz:
How do people make enemies with faceless people abi na me no well kos I don't understand? I don't even remember people I bant with aside redpill thread that I go to look for trouble. Na wa sha

Normal normal

helinues:
Distorted history story

Why should Palestines settle for crumbs in their own land?

But you want Biafra to take the 5 states carved out for them by Nigeria?

CORPSEFUCKER:
There are no introverts in Nigeria, I'm talking about people that stay indoors mostly and very shy even to talk

Are you looking for introverts or shy people?

SpatialKing:
Aren't you ashamed that a state ravaged by gully erosion is competing with your region in positive indices including Urban Areas..

It is not even about the erosion, I am personally not okay with the dick measuring going on here but for SE states to be dragging shoulders with regions that jointly leveled them in a civil war means they are doing something right. I'm impressed.

Blakjewelry:
Nope it's not about dollar rather it is just the Nigerian factor. When I was telling people the hike in price has nothing to do with dollar some fools were arguing silly like they understood what is at play, oya dollar dey trade about 1200 something oya make price come down na.

They are not fools, price of goods were okay until Tinubu happened, fuel price jumped all time high, gas too and dollar moved from 700 to 1900 and then dropped to 1300+ and you expect price of goods to return to normal? Prices are going down, I restocked two days ago and yesterday, shop and house respectively and prices of goods are dropping.

I see no problem here

You are the elder sir. You are the one we should be asking questions about things that surpass our understanding.

Dammycouch:
I took a 19 years old girl to the hotel today and note that I’m 25 years old and penetration was impossible. I even regret wasting my money today.

Her vagina was too small and penetration was impossible and my penis was not able enter. I romance her and tried different style but I was unable to penetrate.

Is it that I should go for 23 years girls or what?

Jesus dey grave but nah wetin dey your mind be this?

Jackson nah the kind pikin person fit wrap as gift carry give a wicked landlady as a birthday gift.

folake4u:
Hahahaha. I nor talk anything.

Still I understand

folake4u:
I am nobody's ex.

I understand, once I breakup with someone, she becomes my distant cousin's 6th cousin. I bet you xs are like that too.

How about I eat the two and take 7.5 while you keep 2.5 for yourself?

Chukwuka319:
There's nothing to like again about an ex, once the relationship is over.You have no business living in nostalgia over your ex, unless the relationship breakup was due to circumstances beyond human control, and not due to attitudes, infidelity and all that.
But the bottom line is: Avoid being in a relationship with any man or woman who is still nostalgic over their ex, because it never ends well.
If they happen to coincidentally bump into their ex, they will cheat on you without hesitation.

Guy, our exes are regular people with great traits and personalities. Stating their positive qualities doesn't imply that we want to get back together with them. I don't date trash; everyone I've been with is great, and the things I liked about them remain unchanged. However, the relationship didn't work out due to issues I didn't know or like, and those aspects remain unchanged too. This means that nothing will make me want to reconcile with any of them.

Let's not paint our exes as bad people while portraying ourselves as the opposite. Some of us were the ones causing trouble in the relationship. Whether or not you talk about it doesn't change the fact that you'll always appreciate something about your ex. That's why we should strive to keep our number of exes low. There's no benefit in having several exes

folake4u:
Yes oh.
They said for screening and miscellaneous.

SMH.
Corruption don finish this country and almost everyone is guilty.

Nah you ask what women want, na you still say that that they go for the highest bidder.

That one never answer your question?

Up your bid and stop disturbing us

folake4u:
This is not peculiar to only LASUTH alone. It is very common in almost, if not all public hospitals in Nigeria.

I've experienced this first hand in the hospital in my state. I donated 3 pints of blood for my sister but they gave flimsy excuse and we still paid small money on top.

The problem is the corrupt officers who always take advantage of this "life and death" situation.

I donated another 3 pints of blood about 3 months ago and really hope it saves an innocent person's life.

Wait, you donated blood needed and still paid extra money, for what?

Feldie:
I'm a traditional man. There's nothing in redpill or whatever. You will end up looking like a weirdo. Enjoy your life and stop scouting the internet for some rules made by people you don't know. I'm a traditional man, I prefer my woman submissive and feminine. I don't need any girl being on top of me to know that I'm not a simp. Enjoy your life guy forget all those mumu rules and regulations. I'm not in any world of gender equality. We're in Nigeria guy, forget Twitter nonsense

One minute you are saying you're a traditional man, and the next you're advising him not to follow rules made by unknown people. Isn't that a bit contradictory?

I mean, tradition is basically peer pressure from dead people. You have no idea who made those rules, not even your father, yet you're still adhering to them. When you mentioned being a traditional man, I pictured you in a round fenced compound with two huts for your wives on the side, a shrine at the entrance, and an Obi near a big barn at the inner part of the compound. I even imagined your wives kneeling to serve you food and waiting until you've eaten your fill before having a taste.

My good sir, don't limit your sexual styles to the one where you're on top just to prove you're traditional. Explore many styles in different places. For instance, she could bend down to plug her phone, and if you're up for it, you could just tap her ass for approval and plug in while she plugs in.

You can do it anywhere – in the kitchen, parlor, dining room, under the table, under the bed, inside the cupboard, on top of the deep freezer; You should try this one, very important. Comes highly recommended; believe me, you'll ask for more if she's the type who knows how to use her muscles to milk you. It's a great experience. Just make sure the freezer isn't Skyrun or Hisense; those two could use that as an excuse to develop compressor problem.

Even in the shower, nobody needs to be on top all the time. Switch styles and enjoy the wife of your youth. Even the Bible supports it

Ejiakusmith:
Na tribalism go send una to early grave 🪦🪦🪦🪦🪦 ........ Watin we "southeast ↘️↘️↘️↘️" do you........ Live Igbo alone before you die of heart attack

IPOO is not IPOB