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ggrin:
I be kerosine

Ok..


Go enter lantern

ggrin:
Yawns

Go to bed

Glowstone:
I only read your point two and I quite agree with you., I tend to love women who try to ask me out first so much if I had feelings for them already or if I start developing. feelings for them and I respect them so much

They are difficult to please

Rukkydelta:
Tallesty threads always make fp

lols


I don't think so

bronzegoddess:
Too long.
Nigerian men are not scared of rich girls, they are scared of girls richer than them.

Thanks for reading.

You need to understand, money brings out the demon in women.

Richer women are control freaks and that's what men don't want.

It is a wise decision to stay a way from what will give you troubles in the future.

That's wisdom, not fear.

bronzegoddess:
Yes, nigerian men take ladies for granted if they initiate romantic gestures and stuff. Even if he wasn't into the girl prior to the girl asking him out, he'll force himself to tolerate her just to get whatever he can. Men will always be men, they can never turn a woman down.

You made a lot of mistakes. We turn women down.

I personally have, not one, not 2. Reason is because of what I passed through dating a woman that asked me out.

It is something that I will never try again.

Did I take her for granted? No.

When I noticed what she was up to, I had to pretend I wasn't aware of what she's doing and asked her out just to spare her ego but did it go well?

No.

She dated me because I am tall and intelligent(her words).

What happened when she saw a tall, intelligent and fair guy? She ported.

Apparently because he has something that I lack.

I no fit talk joor.

BTW, she ported again when she saw a tall, intelligent and fair guy who is financially stable, unlike I that was still trying to stand.

ALKARULEZZ:
S£un's new auto-FTC


#off-point comments all the time

He's doing business nah. You no see the advert on its siggy?

Highcuerayte:
I came here to check profile pics.

Wrong Thread

2. Men Don't Value The Women That Asked Them Out: I shouted holy ghost fire the first time I heard this, because I have been in relationships where ladies made the first move.

I don't wanna go into details but what I learnt from dating them is that the women who have the guts to ask guys out also have cheating tendencies and security issues.

Though the later is not a real problem but who wants to reminded every ten minutes that the reason you did this was because she asked you out.

If she called and I didn't pick, it was because she asked me out

If my number is not available, it was because she asked me out

Truth is, Men value them but they're too difficult to date.

I almost fainted when I checked someone's inbox and saw that she's using the same "scope" she used on me on other guys.

No man wants to date a female version of himself.

3. Beauty Intimidate Men: False: If you are a beautiful woman and you are not in a steady relationship or no man wants to stay committed with you then here is why.

When I say beautiful, I mean the 10/10s.

I have dated one of the 10s and the experience was hellish!

Her beauty didn't intimidate me 1 bit neither did I feel insecure around her but the relationship didn't last because:

A: She initiated it. You already know the problem that is involved in dating a woman that asked you out.

B: She was always telling me how guys were on her neck. @ a point it started sounding like she was doing me a favour by dating me. One day, I gave her my Facebook password.

What she saw there calmed her down and she stopped telling me how guys were on her neck cause I had ladies on my neck too.

Handling a 10/10 is difficult and not many men can do it so they chose to stay away.

It is not intimidation, not insecurity, it is choice.

Most 10s are quite demanding and also incredibly self-absorbed, why? Because they feel they can pick and choose.

This is because they're constantly being bombarded with male attention.

Men fall all over themselves to try to please her in any way they can.
Endless compliments, outrageous gifts, free shopping sprees on Rodeo Drive, all expense paid trips to the finest resorts in the world, invitations to parties with the rich, famous and powerful men and women.

This always gets into their heads and spoils them.

A recent analysis revealed that having an attractive husband or boyfriend was no barrier to a relationship succeeding. But, if the woman was extremely beautiful, the relationships tend to last only a matter of months.

It is difficult to state how challenging it can be to get involved with a 10s.

Men consider this and backdown.

This post is very long so I will skip introduction and go straight to the three misconceptions that women believe about men.


1. Men Are Intimidated/Feel Insecure Around Women With Wealth: I don't know where this mentality is from but I have this to say about it.

Nigeria men are not scared of successful women rather they are scared of control freaks. The type of woman that only feels good about herself if she makes you feel less than her.

These are the women that my brothers are scared of. It is called being careful and not insecurity.

Men are scared of women that have personality disorder.

Secondly, if a host of studies are to be believed, marrying these women(career women) is asking for trouble. If they quit their jobs and stay home with the kids, they will be unhappy ( Journal of Marriage and Family, 2003). They will be unhappy if they make more money than you do ( Social Forces, 2006). You will be unhappy if they make more money than you do ( Journal of Marriage and Family, 2001). You will be more likely to fall ill ( American Journal of Sociology). Even your house will be dirtier ( Institute for Social Research).

Have you seen that it just isn't a Nigeria thing?

The same studies have found that professional women are more likely to get divorced, more likely to cheat, less likely to have children, and, if they do have kids, they are more likely to be unhappy about it.

Men are not scared of women with wealth, they're simply not ready for their endless troubles.

Nobody will willingly pierce his body with many sorrows.

Now lemme bring it down to Nigeria women.

This is what happens when a guy asks for the hand of a rich girl in marriage.

Each member of the family will buy one Laser-Sharp Binoculars that can pierce through his flesh and bones and zoom the guy's soul to search his spirit to know if he's after the woman's wealth.

Even when the Binoculars reads negative, they still won't believe it, they will become very envious and are likely to disrespect the guy.

The guy have alota work to do to prove his not after their sister's money before they can respect him.....

The mama will be like, "My daughter, that guy is after your money. He's not good for you, wait my dear, when a good guy comes I will tell you".

Who wants that?

Finally, these women, especially those working in an office or something of that nature do not know that there are things one needs to succeed in business and work.

These things are direct opposite of what we need to have successful marriage and most of these successful women do not know where to cut the line.

To succeed in business, you have to be stubborn, in control etc. Bring these things into your marriage and you are in trouble.

Some successful women would rather blow the house up and everything in it than compromise or take personal responsibility.

Who Wants This?

Women Naturally want to exert control over everything. They enjoy to make those around them feel inadequate, insecure, nervous, angry, anxious and physically sick.

Go to married men that have richer wives and ask them, they will tell you that the message their women pass in everything they do is I don’t trust you to be able to do it right; I don’t respect your judgment; I don’t think you are competent; I don’t value your insight. I can do it all alone.

Stay Alone Then.

Happy Birthday Dear,


I wish you many more years in Good health.

Who's stopping them from going to school?

gamaliel121:
Not coooool

At all.



Maybe the husband's ex was there.

Freemanan:
Lwkmd.... Between the devil and the deep black sea.... ..

Well, it's the same in Bayelsa here... Dickson is a thief and a poor politician it terms of ideas and policies... Sylva is a Chieftain in Looting and also in thuggery! So the people are confused now...

The kogites are silly, that's my annoyance with them.


Despite all they have been passing through since this present governor assumed office, they will still sell their votes to him.

I pray God to let another party win so that these guys will enjoy life a bit.

I don't think it is right to just approach a woman you barely know and start talking nonsense.

I won't take you serious if I were her.

The best way is to get close to her, plant the seed of friendship and watch what it grow into.

Eye problems loading.

Freemanan:
Lol.... Soon, their cry will be turned to smiles...
CHANGERS are coming!

Who? That 11 billion thief?


Sha, to be honest with you, I think the APC candidate is a better thief compared to the present governor.

He steals 90% and leaves 10% for kogites but Wada takes 95% and gives out 2% bribe to cover his track.

They are both thieves but the APC candidate is a better thief.

Though I am not a member of APC but I would gladly vote for him when the time comes, ie if I am still in kogi state.

When karma visits the lady in the form of a boyfriend, she will come online to lament how wicked men are without telling anyone what she has done to men.

Freemanan:
Lwkmd.... Wada is capable according to an unreliable source.

Thank God the source is unreliable.

Naija pastor fit copy this and drop it to his members in form of prophecy.

Jollyjoy:
ooooh u are from kogi

Nope. They share boundary with my state.

Great Khali will empty you in three days.

Advising from the friend zone. That's cool........

Kogi state Nko?


Hunger just dey terrorize them anyhow

Opening this thread

Who said that we can't tolerate the cultural diversity of Nigeria?



Born to rule mentality is nobody's culture and that's our problem.

CHANGE

Alas she slept with her two legs together

EroticAngelina:
women are wiser. if ur using garden of eden as an example, then Adam was so foolish to eat that apple.

Madam chill.

Eve was deceived not Adam so she was foolish. Just like girls of today, she got carried away by Satan coated words and quickly believed that God had lied, Eve believes Satan and disbelieves God. That is foolishness.

But 4 Adam.

His sin was a deliberate act.

In the bible, Jesus begs men to love their wives. Paul instructs men to do for wives what Christ does for His Bride: die for her. That's what Adam did. He died for Eve when he sinned, knowing she would die and life without her not worth living.

That's love not foolishness.

Adam is the first model of the Lord Jesus, who sacrifices himself for the sake of his bride.

I salute your ability to confuse people.

Ok..

*In My Uncle's Voice*



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