₦airaland Forum

sunidexsike:
are you actually stupid or you are just to dumb to kno that a mad person cant confess voluntary..habaa

I am not a woman neither am I cheating on anybody.

Did you forget your reading glasses or do you simply have problem with comprehension?

The story up there is what somebody told me, if you wanna argue or investigate it then hola @ me and I will give you directions to his village.

prissyluv:
I was shocked when a lady from Ebonyi and a man from Abia states told me tales like this of recent.
The lady's story happened to her aunt. So she was sure of what she was telling me. I was all ears ooo.
She said the man is free to sleep with a single lady but not with a married woman.

Same in a Nsukka.

Even a pastor dare not touch a married woman otherwise the gods will deal with him.

MizMyColi:
Aii

This one is heavy

realglob:
Same in my village. We share boundary wit d village in question.

Like seriously?



We are brothers then

Tamee:
Easy dude Are we defending a term paper on gods and chauvinistic traditions huh
what's all that you typed up there? easy ok, chill out.

You made it seem like all Nigeria men are Chauvinist, barbaric and women beaters.

That hurts the many of us who are against such traditions and ill-treatments that men dish out to women.

All the part bout amadioha were jokes anyways and I found the tradition rather funny, you would be shocked if I tell you how they divorce or punish their women.

I skipped that part in my post cause it a story for another day.

BIDOO:
And if the woman the perpetrator I mean resist to confess







His first born will dissipate from this earth





And u call that a culture?






Does that sound good for your ear







A part of bennin is a part of *make I no talk am sha*

Nothing happens to the son.

She dies if she refuses to confess.

peterphd:
hey tallesty, where are you from?

Nsukka

Tamee:
Even Amadioha recognises that he can not mess with white women the way he does with black women. Amadioha is a man, ain't he?

Amadioha is a god. Are you a Nigerian?

Tamee:
He may not respect Nigerian women but he sure respects white women, the same way Nigerian men slap their wives around in Nigeria but dare not raise a finger against women abroad.

Your generalization/accusation that Nigeria men slap their women around in Nigeria is silly, annoying and most importantly unfounded.

I have been dodging it since but you just keep robbing it in.

Tamee:
These archaic and chauvinistic traditions don't cross borders at all.
That's what I think.

You need to start thinking differently.

People who beat their woman around do it because they have issues with women. It has nothing to do with, gender, race or tribe.

http://www.lailasblog.com/2015/07/nigerian-man-kills-white-woman-over.html

They don't just beat white women, they kill them too.

http://www.persecondnews.com/index.php/aviation/item/3702-nigerian-woman-fatally-shot-dead-by-her-white-ex-boyfriend

Anybody following your comments would think white men are saints that do not raise hand on women. That link up there says that they kill too.

http://pulse.ng/gist/sleeping-with-the-enemy-nigerian-woman-kills-white-husband-for-insurance-id4174328.html

Your comments also suggest that women are saints and innocent creatures that are always victims of men's wicked oppression but the link above proves that they wicked and heartles as men.

http://www.punchng.com/feature/jebose-boulevard/concern-as-more-us-based-nigerians-murder-their-spouses/

The last but not least, the wicked Nigeria men that hate women cross boarder with their chauvinism, but they can't according to you...........


You are hating on men for nothing and if you are a feminist then I suggest you get your facts right.

Tamee:
Amadioha dare not kill a white woman cos of some archaic chauvinistic tradition meant to kill Nigerian women..don't you think?

A Nigerian in Rome must obey Roman laws, likewise a white woman married to a Nigerian man must obey the laws of our land.


That's what I think.

cococandy:
So many curable illnesses killing people and they blame it on adultery.

Blessed are those who did not see and yet they believed

doublex:
lol,this is funny op.that means you are a traditional man in all aspects in your life?!if you believe such that you are saying,then please be traditional in everything about your life too,no hypocrisy....!

Hahahahahahahahhahahaha.



Seeing is believing oo

Tamee:
What happens if a man from your village marries a white woman and she cheats on him?
Do the gods who kill and make Nigerian women mad board planes to go kill white women too?

Amadioha has more than 10 private jets.

Taking alcoholic drinks is not a sin, drinking to stupor is

3 pix dey enough@OP,


have mercy on some of us that browse with airtel.


Btw, airtel and these guys have one thing in common, they're thieves.

This vivian like gossip pass food.

That No2 though.


Farano threw a silent one in the church last week. See pix for evidence.

SOURCE: ishilove

Good.

I agree with him

xynerise:
Tradition like this can lead to temptation. If there is no law, there will be no sin. A woman whose husband beats her always doesn't need to bother herself. A way to eliminate the man smoothly is already in her hand

Plenty bad things full your mind walahi





A woman bleeped outside and gave her man one of those short explanations, he bought it.

My dear, come see madness.

The man just dey pull out hairs from that area they chop am like grass, he was mad for a year then he died.


Old men said he was silly, that he shouldn't have believed her story or better still, he should have told her that "he only believes what he witnessed" or that "he's only aware of what happened before him not behind him".

According to them, the above statements mean that he believed only the one she told him and not the ones she refused to tell".

Traditions dey!

Yomieluv:
the creator of the stupid law must be a male chauvinist, why would the law favor only the males.


funniest thing,cheating isn't specific to a gender.

If you call the inventor of the law a chauvinist then what will you call the creator of the universe?


He is not a chauvinist. Not even close to one.

ammyluv2002:
Back to sender!

why nah?...


Their men are rich and romantic.



Or don't you trust yourself

xynerise:
And if she confesses, she lives?
Wow! If I were her, confession will be my hobby

hahahahahahahahhahahaha

onye mmehie.

Men suffer it sometimes because the women are wise or should I say, wicked.

Instead of telling the man what actually happened, you will hear something like. "a man touched me", "a man asked me out".

Y'know.... Short and incomplete explanations like that.

eherbal:
Because Women Are Very Loose. Why DO You Think Satan Approached Eve And Not Adam?

I hope you are ready for this?




E-attacks loading

vfactor:
Obollo in Enugu state. Yeah so I heard. But it will finer if they should make it unisex!

Abi?


Make everybody just lock up.

ammyluv2002:
Well said! God bless you for dis

I promise to find you a husband from obollo

vfactor:
Obollo in Enugu state. Yeah so I heard. But it will finer if they should make it unisex!

Maybe we should carry out an experiment.


Let a woman from that place marry a man, ie marry him the same way man marry woman. Pay bride price and all.......


Thereafter the man will cheat on her to know what will happen.


If he runs mad then they should scrap paying bride price.

xynerise:
Many traditions have not been fair to the women. The men are free to cheat but the women can't because they are robot abi? Such tradition was created by a selfish man.

On the contrary, I heard that a tradition in Edo state is doing the opposite. A woman cheats and the husband dies

In my village, if you know that your woman is cheating on you and yet you continue to eat her food, you will die.

A woman that cheats and refuses to confess will run mad or die.

But you are safe if you confess.


Being a woman is really had.

Mynd44:
So their tradition only recognises female adultery. Okay na.

BTW, I think it is bullshìt. If anyone wants to be taken seriously, the same rules that apply to men should apply to women.

Abi?


I asked the same question in Facebook group yesterday and a guy from that village said that the reason it is applicable to only women is because the men paid their price(bride price).

Didn't make much sense to me but @ least they have a reason.

A married woman was caught in the act here on Friday. It happened right in her husbands house so neighbours were there to witness what happened. I was there too to witness the taboo cause her husband was just shouting that whoever was around should come and witness a taboo.

Sha, that is not why I am writing this post.

What actually necessitated this post was a convo I had with a man on my way back.

Man: It is stuffs like this that makes me appreciate where I come from.

Me: Huh

Man: I appreciate my village the more anytime I hear or witness something like this because married women don't cheat on their husband in my place.

Me: How is that possible?

Man: They Know what would happen to them if they dare cheat on their husband.

Me: What will happen to them.

Man: If a married woman sleeps with another man, or collects money from another man, or spends her husband's money on another man without telling her husband, she will run mad.

Me: And if a man sleeps with another woman?

Man: Nothing, except the woman has a husband.



What he's saying in essence is that a married woman who sleeps with a man that is not her husband or collects money from a man who is not her relation or spends money on another man without informing her husband will lose her sanity. The madness is curable but she must confess her sins to regain her sanity.

So Nairalanders, what do you think of this people's tradition?

BTW, the man is from one village at obollo.

acenazt:
True talk. Guys are scared of approaching em cos they think they will get bounced and girls aboid em due to jealousy

Some guys oga.

Our politicians and bloggers give us bad name.



Nice one@OP,

Necessary but not compulsory.


I was praying with my friend one night and he won't just stop speaking in tongues.

Protameninoko, protana hanapade, yokay, malokay sanatapa. Rebo balia kalia ka dumalia.

I just said Amen and went to bed.


Can't pray with you when I don't know what are you saying.

Followed him to church one day and discovered that the pastor speaks the same thing. My friend obviously crammed it without knowing the meaning

I crammed it too.