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FamilyRe: Help! My Father Inlaw Bite My Mum by Tallesty1(m): 8:06am On Oct 14, 2015
Time wey you suppose do something don pazz and you failed your mom big time.

BTW, why were they fighting?
RomanceRe: Maturity In Relationship by Tallesty1(m): 8:02am On Oct 14, 2015
Aromas:
Yea at 25 shouldn't I go? grin
Why do you want to go into one and how stable are you financially?
PoliticsRe: I Challenge Anyone To Bring An Invoice Of A N50m Bed — Fayemi by Tallesty1(m): 8:00am On Oct 14, 2015
Politics In Nigeria sha.....
PoliticsRe: Boko Haram Insurgents Killed In Okene By Nigerian Troops (Graphic pics) by Tallesty1(m): 7:58am On Oct 14, 2015
I thought I was the only one that noticed
BlackTechnology:
This is not Kogi


The vegetation is toooo dry
The guys where killed in and around a mosque not in a forest.
RomanceRe: Maturity In Relationship by Tallesty1(m): 7:54am On Oct 14, 2015
Do you plan to go into a relationship?
PoliticsRe: Snakes Bite 85 People In Kanke And Kanam Community by Tallesty1(m): 7:43am On Oct 14, 2015
Built2last:
What was their Sin..they shud look up to the brazen serpent
Same question snakes have been asking since Nigerians started killing them here and there.
Christianity EtcRe: What Could This Dream Mean? by Tallesty1(m): 7:35am On Oct 14, 2015
First you were climbing a ladder and then some attacks.



#Thinking!
RomanceRe: When She Ignores You by Tallesty1(m): 7:33am On Oct 14, 2015
Every woman who's no longer a virgin has @ least one chap who's tired of doing her.



You are right.
Forum GamesRe: Who Can Answer These Trick/riddle Questions by Tallesty1(m): 7:26am On Oct 14, 2015
coolebux:
You de bury the living?
gringringringringringringringrin




Yes if they are politicians.
FamilyRe: Husbands And Future Husbands, Please Step In. by Tallesty1(op): 7:23am On Oct 14, 2015
Kimoni:
Waoh! You write with so much wisdom, tallesty1. Where have you been?
Thanks, I am learning.



I have been around oo, just busy working on my blog.
RomanceRe: Nobraday...which Of These Is Your Breast Type (pic) by Tallesty1(m): 7:16am On Oct 14, 2015
Some breasts these days are like onions, you open the bra and the content will make you cry.
RomanceRe: When You Say You Are Handsome by Tallesty1(m): 7:14am On Oct 14, 2015
You are handsome to be honest but the story won't be thesame if you were dark-skined.


BTW, I suggest you go get anal insurance cause a gay could be trailing you...........
PoliticsRe: Are Youths Not Worthy Of Leadership Under PMB? by Tallesty1(m): 7:12am On Oct 14, 2015
I will forward this to Buhari.
RomanceRe: Who Is Your Celebrity Crush by Tallesty1(m): 7:09am On Oct 14, 2015
I don't crush on celebs
HealthRe: Snakes Invade Communities In Plateau State, Attacks Many by Tallesty1(m): 7:07am On Oct 14, 2015
dulux07:
U guys wer kilin them anyhow of recent, n uploadin them on nairaland, now its paybck time lipsrsealed.
The snake kingdom rily planned their attack, for them to send 3 of der most venomous species. Viper, cobra, black mamba lipsrsealed i pray dey find a solutn soon.
Nah the first batch be this oo.


The main the main warriors never show facegringringringrin
RomanceRe: You Won't Believe What I Saw Last Night!!!!! by Tallesty1(m): 7:03am On Oct 14, 2015
That mosquito wey bite you fit be oga Seun's pet.


Stay away from farano if you want to enjoy your lifegringringringrin
CelebritiesRe: 10 Nigerian Celebrities We Don’t Want To See Na'ked by Tallesty1(m): 7:01am On Oct 14, 2015
There's no Nigeria celebrity that I want to see naked.
RomanceRe: The Trick I Used On My Girlfriend In Order To Know She's Been Cheating On Me by Tallesty1(m): 6:52am On Oct 14, 2015
Blessinzy:
why does some girls cheat?
I honestly don't know why people cheat on each other.
PoliticsRe: Did You See The Mistake On The Ministerial List Sent To The Senator Saraki? (Pic by Tallesty1(m): 6:47am On Oct 14, 2015
iliyande:
The secretary is a PDP saboteur cheesy
People will someday blame PDP for their inability to mount a woman.



tonguetonguetongue
RomanceRe: How Do I Advice My Friends by Tallesty1(m): 6:45am On Oct 14, 2015
All of you need advice.
Nairaland GeneralRe: Breaking News From BBC by Tallesty1(m): 11:07pm On Oct 13, 2015
The link below doesn't look like something that belongs to BBC.
AgricultureRe: Photo: See Creativity. What A Boy Of 10years Did With Water Melon by Tallesty1(m): 11:03pm On Oct 13, 2015
Prove that he's just 10yrs old?
RomanceRe: My Girlfriend Told Me She Is One Month Pregnant When Am Preparing For My Nysc. by Tallesty1(m): 10:42pm On Oct 13, 2015
Wait first......


You dey buy always for her?
PoliticsRe: PRESIDENTIAL MISTAKE! See Error On President Buhari’s Letter To Saraki [photo] by Tallesty1(m): 10:41pm On Oct 13, 2015
It could be the Typist's fault.
PoliticsRe: Graphic Photo: Man Beheaded In Lagos State At Oyingbo by Tallesty1(m): 10:37pm On Oct 13, 2015
Not doubting the authenticity of your post but showing the body or at least trails of blood will go a long way.
FamilyRe: Husbands And Future Husbands, Please Step In. by Tallesty1(op): 10:30pm On Oct 13, 2015
pickabeau1:
I no gree
When a woman makes that decision she accepts that she will respect the man

Saying that the man acts below expectations hence she thrashes him say more about her.

She made the choice
gringringringrin





Even a saint will get tired of respecting a disrespectful partner.
FamilyRe: Husbands And Future Husbands, Please Step In. by Tallesty1(op): 10:27pm On Oct 13, 2015
AfricanApple:
that is why girls will always 'chop' your money probably without remnants because of this mentality that some of you guys have really imbed into your brain
FamilyRe: Husbands And Future Husbands, Please Step In. by Tallesty1(op): 9:34pm On Oct 13, 2015
pickabeau1:
The crux of your post is tailored on one sentence

Do/How many women believe the man is the head of the household?

Then there is hope
A lot of them brother, the problem is most times from us.

We lack the qualities of a good leader.

Every woman stepping into the home of her husband comes in with some fear and good measure of respect. But the trash them quickly because the men act below the expectations.

A good leader is first of a all a servant.

Once you see yourself reminding your wife every ten minutes that you are the head of the home then you have completely failed already.

To lead a woman, you should first of all assure her in your doings that your are the leader but yet she's an equal partner.

When she's bout to do something you can say "hold it there" and explain to her the risks involved in what she's about to do and provide a better alternative. If you are gentle, she will listen to you.

Call her in, table what you plan to do before her and seek her opinion, she will definitely have something to add, combine them with yours and do it.

If it works, thank her mightily for her contribution and if it fails, don't let feel her feel like she's the one that ruined it.

It takes gradual process to build.

When she comes to you with a plan, suggest a better alternative if you have and is sure that it is better otherwise tell her that she should go ahead that you trust her judgements.

Those little things means a lot to them and a woman would hardly let go of a man she can rely on.
FamilyRe: Husbands And Future Husbands, Please Step In. by Tallesty1(op): 9:21pm On Oct 13, 2015
Aitee1:
So lala na Igbo shocked

Noted! lipsrsealed
I am not sure.
FamilyRe: Husbands And Future Husbands, Please Step In. by Tallesty1(op): 9:20pm On Oct 13, 2015
xynerise:
#Raises Hand....Erm...I think I have some observations and adjustment....my opinion though.

The part you talked about spirituality and leadership, I think for a man to lead his wife spiritually, he needs to be spiritually stronger than she is. Not everybody walks on that devoted route in dealing with issues. How about a man who is not that spiritual? These pastors are psychologist and women tend to believe that anything that comes from the pastor is always right. Argument in marriage is normal but you can't argue with your pastor. The same way they argue with their husbands in dealing with issues is not the way they listen to their pastors. A woman that listens to her husband doesnt fall mugu easily
You are right, that's why Christians are warned to be very careful while choosing a spouse to avoid the issue of "Spiritual mismatch". gringringringrin.


The emboldened intrigued me in a special way, y'see eeh! Even in a situation where the woman is spiritually stronger than the husband, the man can still get the respect if he can @ least fulfill the role God designed for him in his marriage.

If the man is spiritual at all, then one thing is established already. "They both deeply lov God". There is no better way to star than this.

They should start building a spiritual foundation as a couple. They should start working hard to deepen their spiritual intimacy.

Once such an atmosphere is set properly, the wife, instead of consulting her pastor every now and then, would seek her husband's opinion and will also listen to his suggestion. She will enjoy the journey of growing together spiritually. And that will make her to listen to her husband's instructions which brings us back to the benefits of the emboldened.
RomanceRe: What's Your Opinion On Break Up Sex? by Tallesty1(m): 4:48pm On Oct 13, 2015
KashyBaby:
shocked hell to the N-O...
Ur breaking up already, who will still in the mood of having $ex when u are both hating each other eh?
Not all relationships end that way.

Some part ways amicably.
FamilyRe: Your Wife Or Mother?which Comes First In Your Priority by Tallesty1(m): 4:46pm On Oct 13, 2015
They have different roles in the man's life so none comes first......

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