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agarawu23:
which setback are we talking about ?
Some ladies just like to play smart

I tell you.



Where was the pastor when she was dating other guys?

xynerise:
Have they had sex before?

Nope...... They met just once and there was no sex.

MizMyColi:
It's all about perception.
It shapes our reality.

If the guy knows of a truth that he can't stay in a relationship without sex, and at the moment, he doesn't see himself getting married to her, he should let her go.

If he does this and the lady starts considering sex just to keep him, on no account must he give in, because that'll make him a manipulator and someone who used her.

He knows her stand. He knows that if she ends up having sex with him, she'll become a miserable person because she has an already formed thought process.

It is better that he doesn't pressurize her into doing it, let her do it if she is psychologically and emotionally ready, for now, there must be other ways she adds value to his life, there has to be....except he loves her not and he is so fixated on sex.


Just for education purpose...
Since when did sex become an exchange, something to gain or reap from your partner? I'm asking this question based on the context that two hearts beat as one....that they are looking out for the common good of each other.

Finally, I'll chirp in this advice..
Act like you trust your partner, trust them actually, until they give you cogent reasons not to trust them.

Happy Weekend.

Thanks sister. The emboldened is what I want to know....

These guys connected online sometime last year and fell inlove. They have been professing love for each other both in words in action since then.

They met offline months ago and I think they really connected well because things have been flowing accordingly since their first date.

The guy is doing business here (ABJ) and the girl is working in Lagos. Problem started three days ago when the guy called her to know when they will meet again. They chatted about different things and she told him at a point that she doesn't want sex in the relationship.

According her, a pastor linked the cause of some the setbacks she's having in life to premarital sex.

This new development didn't go down well with my guy so he came to me for advice.

I told him that I cannot keep a sexless distance relationship, reason being that if I cannot have sex with my gf then I will atleast have her around me for other things.

I also warned him not to allow her to brainwash him with the old manipulative technique of, "If you really love me you would do it".

But I still want to know what you guys think of such relationship.

What Does A Guy In This Relationship Stand To Gain?

Later then will come online to rant that they are not interested in marriage.

Nneka123:
Okay where is your source?

My Own First Dates Dey Different Sha.....

It Is Always In A Room.



Either in my room or in a hotel room.





Not Time To Check Time.




Where is your angry partner?

And it has never occurred to you that men are being compelled to make those promises sometimes?

And religion too should leave government alone.




It's alright

Fatdon:
This dude is relly possessed.

The spirit that possessed him is possessed too.

ice25:
We already know what mr president have. One million naira and 150 cows ONLY

Pastor Osibaba prayed over the money and it multiplied overnight.

The total amount is close to a billion naira.


Fear Miracle.

sinaj:
i cant do skelewu buh I can twerk

Lmao.....



Skelewu nah drink oooo

These Lies Must Stop.

axiliborha:
Lol if this kind guy be woman Na only self servicing he go they do because no man no go sleep with am

No matter how ugly a girl is......




There's a guy wey dey trip for am.

sinaj:
I want chocolate

I need skelewu.

cktheluckyman:
Tinubu should understand that Lagos politics is very much different from national politics. He cannot always have his way

That's not possible at all.

Dygeasy:

See as u rush go be the first to comment on your own post.


Close that your 98 teeth before I chisel them out for you...........





@Op,
Teacher: How Do You Know When APCs are lying.


Akpors: When Their Lips Are Moving.

Things Jesus Never Did

@OP, did you hear about Oshiomole's new bride?





She was a virgin when they met.

orogodoganyin:
u do know jezebbel is a queen ryt?

Queen in kuvuki land bah?

Some people made cash from this insurgency thingy

Jezebbel:
I see that you are one of the silly ones.
I can smell your sillyness from afar

I don't want to be your friend either....so, go jump in a lagoon....mtcheeew.

It is obvious that you are on heat.


Quote me when the heat is over

Who wan be Jezebbel's friend b4

There is no change yet.



Everything APC have been doing are the very things they accused PDP of.

OREMUSSANCTUS:
I love transformation

I prefer it to change.

alberto2k:
[color=Teal] check again. . Op is passing a very Clear message

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The lady is high

Whizzcute:
nawao..so what re we gon do now

Check your pm

Whizzcute:
yea,but i dont use it

I prefer it to whatsapp.

DullardBuhari:
FOOL

Is that all you can do??