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daniel9202:
this girl tooo fine ni o....

Bibol:
My sister, I had to quote your long post just to type this;

YOU GET BRAIN!

Ceeesaw:
I know all u have said. That's why am trying to point out the original aim of that movement. Over the years a lot people have misunderstood it and adulterated it to suit their wickedness. They are no more seeking for equality they are seeking for superiority.

Thats why someone will now say there are different types of feminism. I believe in feminism if its helping out a woman that is being battered or raped. Or helping to educate parents to send their female child to school.

On the issue of equality. Equal rights,yes, men and women should have that.. but the two sexes are different in their abilities and strenghts. If only both men and women will accept their different roles on earth and stop trying to drag who is superior to the other..

And also the double standards thing annoys me the most about modern day feminism. If a man slaps a women everybody will condemn him some other men will even rush in her defence. But when a woman slaps a man he is expected to take it like a man. That just shows that we have accepted that women are weaker and need protection. The same woman tomorrow will be chanting equality. For a woman to raise hand and slap a man that means you are equal to him, so dont cry if he slaps you back.

I can go on and on about misconstrued feminism. The worst part of it this days is dat children bear the consequences. They are left in the hands of wicked house help because the mother has gone to pursue her useless dream. Somebody once asked 'who made the rule that women are more responsible for the kids?' My answer was simple.. The fact that the baby grew in your belly and that the breastmilk is on your chest is enough reason.

Yea and am a happily married woman and will not allow idle women to advice me out of my husbands house. your post is enlightening. But dont hate feminism treat ur male and female children equally. Defend a girl if u see her being battered.

valmunich:
Hmmmmh... No wonder... I think I know them


I know a place shaa,,, Holla me whenever you get down to Asaba,, that's if you wanna be cured

Ceeesaw:
I agree with your write up entirely, except for one. Feminism advocates for equal rights of men and women. Its a movement to stop the oppression of women, domestic violence and marginalisation of women. Feminism does not preach that all men are beasts or evil..

Unfortunately a lot of women have done despicable things to their husbands and marriages under d guise of feminism. They have so misunderstood the original teaching of that movement. A woman will not cook food and keep at home before running off to work and then claim she is pursuing her dreams. Some women will insult and humiliate their husband in public in the name of being equal to him.

So the problem is misunderstood Feminism.

donbenedict:
Wen I get married, I will read this..



Tallesty1

lilmax:
Tallesty1 watch out for confused women (fake feminists) to oppose number 3, when clearly they live in a man's house especially the Christian feminist , i nor wan call her name

valmunich:
I'll come back to read when I get married...


BTW, Tallesty1 how come you know this much....?

Are you married

code6:
When d man can no longer provide for d family as usual

buygala:


A list of stuff that literally cripples a marriage are absolutely inexhaustive

Even little things like picking one's nose, leaving the toilet seat up, eying the maid, spending more time in church than in the house, etc can actually 'boko haram' a marriage if not properly handled

buygala:
In addition

Failure of the couple to properly set their financial standards..... If the wifey is not satisfied with the husband's income, that's the foundation for disaster.... Why give a girl the impression that you are worth some millions, when indeed, You are so wretched that you budgeted the wedding on the basis of monetary handouts you were expecting to receive from people you had invited to it?

Unresolved relationships. ... Nothing puts stress on a marriage than the wifey missing or secretly communicating with her ex or the hubby doing same.... Instead of spending time to make the marriage work, they end up wishing, daydreaming, or even secretly fuccking their exes

Secrets... She hides the fact that her womb has been damaged due to the abortions she had while she was a 'rock-and-roll' spinster..... Na when pikin no gree come and dem go hospital for tests, na him doctor go come tell husby say him wife don use her womb play baba Ijebu.... .... or the husby, throughout his fornicating years, has never gotten any girl pregnant, even by 'mistake'.... and instead of confirming his virility before tying the knot, he keeps silent, hoping for a miracle, and continues the deception until the wifey finds out about his impotence on her own ..... How will that marriage not enter 'one chance?

chibwike:
Nice one tallesty..that number two..waht are you gon say about prostitutes...the other points are cool..am learning..btw do you have a source..or twaz just from your head.


Where is lalasticlala?

donbenedict:
please.. D fact dat u are alive is love... Dnt twist love.. God is love, any oda love is man made.

falconey:
archaeologist please expatiate you can't just make mere remarks and expect me to believe.

How else will this thread get pass page (0)?

Can you defend your assertion? What are the terms and conditions?

AfricanApple:
you too bad

falconey:
archaeologist please expatiate you can't just make mere remarks and expect me to believe.

How else will this thread get pass page (0)?

Can you defend your assertion? What are the terms and conditions?

Pinkiedearie:
Sharp babe!! ..she dun catch maga

falconey:
you earn love? I know of trust but love?

Love is an unconditional feelings, if it isn't I can't imagine myself dating any chick.

Ishilove:
Any free mb?

pato255:
Believe me u need people to succeed in life and if they don't like u, they are not gonna trust u.
YOUR NETWORK DETERMINES YOUR NET WORTH.

obailala:
Chaiiii... This is serious.. Warri no dey carry last at all... I heard they sold-out even before 3pm yesterday... and they said people had no money

Borrussia:
In memories only

Borrussia:
E.g Tallesty1

Merlissa:
my nails from my mum


my height from my dad

Borrussia:
Some peeps can't just stay outta the zone.