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AfricanApple: yinmu

HFOG: Scary? Pix or I don't believe ya sir! I'm good just been busy lately preparing for resumption. Very nice signature you put up. Food for thought. Are your boots still hanged? :p

Freest: Haba oga... Inasmuch as players know these signs, factually there is something about love players have no idea about, simply cos they don't feel it. They can fake it, but what is fake cant be original. Love with time gets to an obvious point!!! Thats where caution is taken esp loving who doesn't love you back when its at that obvious point when the person already know you love him/her, and that's exactly what player$ use as an advantage (the obvious)

mikron: @OP u couldnt have summed it up better than me, you re so on point, thats my exact problems with two girls im datting now, they just like taxing me as if i be their papa, so annoying. The one in suleja niger state (i live in garki, abuja) kept telling me i must cough out N45,000 for her to buy electric sewing machine and Another N20k for shopping and more money for her to make her hair for me (i nearly tell her to go barb gorimakpa o) the second one in calabar kept demanding for money for upkeep(wen i neva marry u abi i be ur papa wey send u go sch for calabar)?. The thing tire me. i just hate it wen i come across demanding girls, and unfortunately they are everywhere. They are just leeches. I call them market sellers not lovers.

snadguy007: That's why i need to draw the line now while we are still dating so that by the time we get married, it wont be new to her.

If after spending for her and decided to stop after a while, then she's opened to many options. Because it will be so foolish of me to go extra miles just to satisfy her appetite for money

SirAweezy: Any lady that cannot afford to pay for her hair, rent and accept few challenging responsibility for herself, guys pls be very careful do not go there, even if you have too much to spare, if you spoil her you are not helping her, it's okay to treat and also assit her, but don't and never let her see it as your responsibility.

One thing guys don't know is; the more she comes to you for money, the more she goes to other guys for money too. I hate it when a lady can't draw a line as to when to ask for help, but take you as the ATM....

Although, guys like me tried to behave foolishly by spending on lady(s) that we know we just want to fool around with, but ladies you know what, after you have finish evaluating me and I've done few things for you, you see that your major problem, I won't solve to till I ex you by forming busy! Wetin concern me, I know as e dey go now. Lol

Lesson for the average income guys: Ladies like "this Topic" won't allow you plan. If you insist on meeting their responsiblities. Pls be wise!

mikron: no mind me o, experience don teach me not to keep only one girl o. Wey one break ur heart d oda one go dey as back up. Na so d game be o.

Subom1: It is possible to know when someone loves you. Trust me there is a big difference when someone actually loves you and someone pretending to love you. It can be seen not only through their words but their actions and it's constant.

edozie04: Yes of course,she wan chop wen I nvr chop?

AfricanApple: anybody tall reach u for dis forum?

jmoore: If we travel out together, I can pay for her transport. If we go to a restaurant, I can foot the bills. But for monthly request for BB subscription etc, mba oh!!

edozie04: When she never give me pomo it is #teamNOspending#

snadguy007: There is nothing bad in giving a girl some cash if i can afford the amount she's asking for without making myself uncomfortable..... and I'll draw the line when i see that the rate at which she is asking is becoming unbearable.

Emmysteve: I dey smell front page

Ceasar1: Wow Bro, It seems I've found myself a mind reader. Honesty, this should be like the third time you said something as I wished to say it.

See, mine goes exactly like yours with a little bit adjustment. Unlike you, I've made my mind to be generous when dating in a sensible way. A little there wouldn't hurt.

brownlords: Oh you self follow me wonder

vizkiz: baby, if i don't spoil you...those guys will wanna seduce you with cash

yuncka: I will draw the line on my Cheque book.

jmoore: I have never been in that ship called relationship before. From observation, I have developed a mindset not to be a maga. I will spend when I marry her. She can manage the money from her parents while dating.

brownlords: Wonderful

Epathra: imo, girls that demand see it as a recompense for their wifely services or duties rendered. alarming demands is usually recorded in rel where intimacy is a norm.
for me, i believe smone who is matured to date u shld know when to come in at all times u dont have to ask him. His discretion shld tell him. besides, it's a relationship and not a job opportunity. so financial independence is key. Though birthdays n other fxnz mean much to us and we expext guyz to make it special, u shldnt go into debts doing that.
summary: Girls that do that are girls and not very wifely. overfamiliarity too can be a factor.

zeelo2014: Back then when I was in sch, when a girl ask me for money, I tell her to meet her father or whoever sent her to sch.

Odoemacyril: der are meant 2 demand 4m dir parent BT smtim its Gud 2 assist her 4 her upkeep(its not compulsory oo) just 2 make sure DAT she is lukin Gud 4 u,..BT sm gal misunderstand dat

vizkiz: yeah, i can give her cash, even though if am a lil broke...i do find lil cash for her.

There was a time she even told me, baby don't you think you are spoiling me??

sameer1212: yh i tink is nt dat bad if ur gal request frm u, bt it shld nt be a do or die affair,azing she shldnt take it dat is most for u todo it. doh i also prefare an indepent gals because dey no d value of money n wen u give den a little dey apreciate.

Epathra: I wld have said smth. Buh u seem specific for guys.