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Cool but..................

She is not cheating on you.

She calls to tell him how good you are and how she is happy to have you.


On a Serious note, get her people involved, tell your own people let them sit her down and call her to order.

If she fails to listen then become her ex-husband.

THUNDER FIRE THE GIRL THAT WILL CALL HER EX FROM MY HOUSE.

Ceasar1: Your perception of dark-skinned people is totally wrong. I'm pretty sure you've been surrounded by the wrong set people. I'm light-skinned myself, but most of my friends are dark-skinned. I tell you what, they are the nicest folks you'd ever come across. Same to say for my few uncles and aunts. Coloured brethren ain't insecure at all. Change your mentality.

She is just telling us that she has a bf that takes her out.


Don't take her serious

Do what your likes usually do, Get a Pet.

IfyAngela: Or you die together.

Is it possible?

And she will lock you out

rafeelly: and become the landlady of the room

If you come home late.

My only fear is the fact that it has no happy ending. It is either your divorce the person or you die and leave them or they die and leave you.

She is marking her territory or trying to move in.


That is how it starts, panties, One bra, then a hand bag, a trouser/skirt and before you know it her clothes will out-number yours in your wardrobe.

Then she will move in completely

I have never approached a lady on the street and I don't think I will ever do that.

falcon01: We left our ancestos and came into africa in search of food then we got burnt due to the high rate of sun

Even our DNA were burnt??


@OP. How did you come to the conclusion that Adam and Eve were white?

Church Of Satan

Become a BADASS

Okokoro: ooh rozzay! you look very beautiful , your backside make me shake jigi-jigi everytime i view them in your profile . you are a virtue of priceless cost' i join nairaland because of you .


please be my heart

You are on a long thing.

mencade5: they planned it. No naija lady can ever open their arrogant mouth to propose to a naija guy. but you will see them carrying feminists placards up and down, but cant do what a normal feminists do.

But they do give guys money to come and marry them.

AfricanApple: dis thread is for u

lols, I don't feel bad or embarrassed otherwise I wouldn't have chosen Tallesty as a nick. The only time I feel shy is when I hit my head on something while entering someone's house or shop.

SkinnyDude: haha. you mean i should have called her babe. but the auntie showed i respected her.

Maybe but most ladies hate to be called aunty

kekakuz: Av never read anything this lame
all my life

It is also lame to comment on lame topics.

@ first it feels bad but when you sit down and examine it, you will see the positive side of it. Rejection is part of what makes us who we are. Living is about experiencing....the good....the bad. They hurt but they are necessary. Without rejection, how would one improve?

Jerryolumide: wats d difference??

Maturity

Girl NOPE.



Ladies Yea, 100%

Onyiridike: I am a Nigerian lady with a lot of experience about life especially when it comes to relationship and marriage. Experience is NOT just passing through a situation but what you did with the situation.

Very true.

Onyiridike: Obviously, our young ladies always list ridiculous criteria that a man they will date/marry MUST possess. Among those ridiculous criteria, height is always a priority. Gone are the days when character is placed above physical appearance.

What's wrong with that? You attract what you focus on. There is no wrong in wishing to marry a Tall guy, it becomes a problem when you start rejecting short guys. Everyone wishes to have what is good and Tall guys are good. They don't have terrible temper like some short guys.

Onyiridike: When I was an undergraduate, a certain young man approached me and told me how he loved me and wanted to date me. He is an enterprising young man, very intelligent and handsome. However, he is not very tall; just 5ft. 7 inches in height. Of course, young ladies don't take decisions independently. This is why they are easily influenced by friends and relatives. My friends then said: "Never! My man MUST be 6ft and above, so tell him capital NO". I rejected the young man.

You were young then, barely know what you want, full of vision, hope and opportunities. It happens to every girl.

Onyiridike: Today, he is happily married with a lady who is by far more beautiful and talented than me.

He is not Yours. Simple.

Onyiridike: I almost shed tears on their wedding day. Meanwhile, all the so-called very tall men that I dated are ONLY interested in my vagina.

Now that you have made it clear that you are going to Judge and condem all the Tall guys in universe because of your little experience with one or two of them, lemme brace up and scroll down to see what you have for us.

Onyiridike: So far I have learnt the following:

1. Most tall men believe that their height is a 'master' key to every ladies heart and therefore, their ONLY achievement is ' I am a tall dude and ladies are dieing for me'.

You haven't been with most of them so how can you tell? Anyways it sounds more like what Tall boys think, not men

Onyiridike: 2. Most tall guys are NOT caring because they have this notion that a lady should count herself lucky to date them.

You really had a bad experience of them, very bad. What has being romantic to do with ones height?

Onyiridike: 3. I am yet to understand that unique or remarkable thing about tall men.

Tall men are like every other men, but God gave us a bonus(height). You are hating on us for nothing. Every woman knows how nice it is to be with a man who is a bit taller than her.

Onyiridike: Fortunately, I repented because it occured to me that all those times, I was ONLY playing my friend's script. I wanted to feel among and brag that my boyfriend is equally tall. I gave a guy who is not very tall a chance and I started enjoying my paradise on earth. We are married now. All my life, I have not come across such a wonderful person. He has it all:

1. He is God-fearing and generous.

2. He is handsome and a great orator

3. He is educated and intelligent

4. He cooks for me when I am tired (caring)

5. He satisfies me sexually ( oh! What a heavenly feeling)

6. He got a good dress sense

7. He is social

8. Among others

Stop showing off, you can make all the good points in the world without showing off. You are lucky to have a good man but your post is full of hate and anyone reading it will think you are still angry because you couldn't get a Tall husband.

Onyiridike: I am not in any way trying to say that tall guys are bad. As a lady, I am only advising other Nigerian ladies to see a man beyond height. The height issue is over-hyped and even unnecessary. You may NOT get a second chance like me.

You don't need to say it b4 we know what you think of us. Tall guys are not bad but all of them want your vagina right
They are not bad but none of them is caring huh. Like I said, your post shows that you hate Tall guys. Maybe they took your virginity or a tall guy broke your heart but You don't have to generalize.

Onyiridike: Finally, based on my experience, I have come up with a quote:

"A man is NOT known by his height but by his heart (bravery) and meritorous achievements".

So true.

I'm not against your post, you made valid points but I believe you can do better than this. You really don't need to tell us about your man because he is not perfect

You also don't need to condem Tall guys. We have done you no wrong. Most of my friends that are short are angry stingy people and sometimes I do wonder how their women cope with their attitude but should I condem all short guys cause of them? No way. Matured people don't think that way.

MisterLongman: Which of the gods told her that you are her husband

Amadioha.

Missprettyface?



I no believe.

Nonsense

SkinnyDude: me i no dey talk to girls again. make them carry their wahala. i was snubbed by a strange girl in school, who i approached for a help. i was stranded and my mum sent me airtime to sell and get money for t.fee. so i approached this lady, greeted her politely. and was like "auntie, do you need airtime, am selling with a discount". she didnt talk. rather she looked at me from head to toe and murmured "hmm hmm". i felt bad and left in anger and shame.

That is why.

HFOG: I see. But 'excessive' is a relative term you know. If you do not mind, what do you consider mild makeup?

Common, don't ask questions on what you already know the answer.

3cycle: Yeeyyyy ;
How have you been?

Just came back from Niger State.


Did I miss much??

Nah small girl dey worry her.

GodswillAJudins: My guy all the jeans I buy are just ma fit no need of cutting, so I no understand that one wen u yan cuase I remember a short an average guy commenting that they wish they were taller so they would stop cutting jeans after buying.
Then each time I hold a girl's hand I alway see that smile of satisfaction and show off on their face. So walking wit a girl is no a problem though I prefare tall and average girl to Short ones no beef o.

Agree about the sitting thing cause I get slightly discomfort with ma long legs wen on a long journey.

I'm taller than you