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temigracie: lol..tanks alot, sis....

No-one loves violence...No-one prays or wish for it....since marriage is for enjoyment not endurance....

snazzylove: @carefreewannabe, read my post again. No, alcohol is not an excuse.
@kreamidiva, am talking about a husband here not some boyfriend or fiance. And NO again, I will not walk out on my hussy cos he hit me once. If you go thru my post again, I s said if am sure my hussy is not d abusive type. For instance if in a 7yrs old marriage hussy just hit you once, so instead of finding out what led to that you pack your bags and go? No, I will not do that.

carefreewannabe: I don't see why it is not easy to walk away from a violent partner because you are married.

I would not hesitate. It is the peak of disrespect to hit your spouse.

laidol: If you partner hits you just once, my dear then it means he /she has violent tendencies and that hardly ever changes. If you are still dating you better take a walk immediately but if u are married, it wont be that easy to walk out. Once is enough to decide

stanogb: From my purview, Africans are mainly logical beings as we were taught by the whites. We think and act logically. Although poverty has a role to play. For instance, an african girl will not value a flower given to her by her lover because she can't eat it, sell it or use it for any meaningful thing. She prefers gifts in monetry form.

On the other hand, the whites are logical and emotional. That is why they don't joke with their citizens.

rawpadgin: will u say handsome guys are not good in bed too?

anyway, ur friends are still young & naive

imas: Me I love booobs to a fault, and mine has a milk factory.

Dygeasy: Sameer1212, this is officially your heartbreak. Sorry bro.

3cycle: Going well, thanks to nairaland.

IfyAngela: Tallesty, is someone wooing you?



EPIC

betterpikinn: Pls let us not deceive ourselves. the latter you mentioned only comes after attractions.
What attracts you? Beauty!

3cycle: Wow
wow
The chase is getting harder

How was mass today?

bizprowess1: I am becoming convinced that true love between a man and a woman doesnt exist. Maybe it does exist between the oyinbos.i have no idea. But for the nigerian man or woman, is there such a tin as true love? I am a sadly married mother of two . i met my husband years b4 we got married. I actuali knew him to be a renowed liar. But t didnt mata because we werent even friends then. I just knew him. Years later we met again and one tin led to another, we got close and then we got married. Funny tin is everybody around him had notin good to say abt him. His mother only had one good attribute abt him "him sabi spend for woman sha". Foolishly I swore in my mind dat there was a good side to him dat nobody saw and I would bring dat good side out of him. Two kid later I wake up from my slumber. He is just being himself. The late nights, the lies ,the secret phonecalls, the sex chats and texts. He s just being himself. I am actually disappointed in myself for believing in him. I am angry at myslf for deceiving myslf into tinking he was worth it.I refuse to go sleeping around just because he is doing it. because D thing s, I actually still believe dat true love exists. I believe that i chose a partner for the wrong reasons. I was a hopeless romantic. Or am I still deceiving myself tinking that true love still exists? No bashing please. I discovered that writing helps me let off steam hence dis post.i only need reassurance that love does exist.

Zammy123: There's this girl which i dated for 2years..we loved each other so much. Last year she gained admission into ladoke akintola university{LAUTECH}..few months after that she changed towards me. One day she texted me and sed she lost her virginity b4 nightfalls she called me dat it was a joke,weeks after dat she broke up with me..may 6 ds year,she called me and start begging me to cum back to her and also she already lost her virginity to her new boyfriend..please what should i do? Accept her back or decline her plead?

3cycle: Lol but we can atleast start from somewhere.
Stop playing hard to get, am not a monster sugar.
The more you keep rejecting me, the more I get to like you and I don't know if I can accept a no from you. Think about it

DailyNews: lol, bia Tallesty1, pls save this honest heart But 3c, let this not be a bait o, hmmm. Anyway, like she said, Tallesty1, give her a try....or what's ur fear or are u engaged/married Do u mind making it open for us to assist u guys

DailyNews: He is a guy....guys aren't like ladies that want more push from a guy wooing them to show he truly means it or adores them...for guys, d more u push it...the scarier they become to say yes becos many things will be going on in his mind as u push hard. You care to know d things Here are some:

1. He will be wondering if u were sent by someone just to ridicule him @last
2. He will be wondering if u have high expectation(s) that he may not meet wen u guys meet n know- cos I'm sure u must have been imagining too many good things abt him...and this may not be good for u or him in case u guys finally agree to date/marry/whatsoever...so lower ur expectation now; be it in terms of handsomeness or goodlooking, financial ability, religious belief or character, just take him as every other guy u have been turning down n dnt xpect too much.

3. He will be wondering if u are as physically and mannerly (if such word exist o) pretty as some said u are. He may be afraid u may not be as beautiful as he would want when he meets u in real life, u know ladies appear more pretty on pics than in real life n its always a barrier to online realationship.

4. He maybe wondering y on earth u just chose him....maybe u sensed that he has money, of which he may have but won't wanna throw about or he may not have as u may have fantasized...

All these are my speculations based on d fact that I am a guy....and its obviously the truth if he is single and not taken

Neldrizzy: that baba that cast a spell on you tried.. His juju is rilly working tallesty1. Abeg were dat baba de stay, i need am oo

3cycle: Hmmmm, tallesty1 are these your fears?

Elypsis: .....hi bro, pls I really wanna see what u look-like maybe u shud use ur pic as a profile pic. Or sumfin I asked 3c the same.....fenks

DailyNews: I doubt he will come out straight to answer this qstn. Meanwhile, when next u meet a guy u admire n wish to move on with, pls dnt go straight n woo him; ignore what some boys do say here. Just give him enough green lights.

If its here on nl, always quote his posts, etc...n put up a nice (not provocative pic)...and lure him into doing d chase...cos if u come out open n direct, u may scare him away if he's matured o. Dnt blame him, blame nature.

If its in real life, I am sure u knw wot to do. That's assuming u n Tallesty1 didn't end up together. I wish u guys d best, I think he likes u too...give him time n pls no fall his hand in any way wen he gives in pls

3cycle: You are catholic too?
Accept me nah, so I can show you what love is all about. I really wanna spoil you with true love, don't Say no pls