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solomonbrown64: I am just following my bible, sir.

solomonbrown64: ....maintenance tins now.....
....buh seriously, a man(i mean a real) should cater for his lady's needs........
....# dats the law.....

temigracie: hehehehehehehehe.....



Mizmycoli and Mr Bruce Lee.....



Hehehehehehehheheheheehhehe.....


Can i ask a question too?? ....or i should just sit and observe??

MissBritney: But some of them don't even get a single like on a photo they uploaded since 2008.

sugarsoul: hello peeps, I recently met a girl and we've kinda been into each other. Of recent, we were chatting and then she asked why I was too straightforward; why couldn't I lie a bit. now the problem here is I know I ain't supposed to bring this here but I thought some matured answers could help too. Am I losing my grip on her or is that her way of appreciating my honesty.
P.S: criticisms are allowed.

carefreewannabe: If you bothered to read my comments, you would know that I am quite forgiving and that I said that everyone can make a mistake.

And yes, someone who slaps his/her spouse is abusive. It should be a taboo to slap your spouse.

unyours: Translate the following words in standard igbo language.

1. Bomb=Ogbunigwe
2. Bell=Mgbịrịgba
3. Flag=
4. Kidnapper=Onye ohi mmadụ/onye ntọ
5. Exactly=otua/Kpọmkwem
6. At all=ma ncha ma ncha
7. Technology
8. Pen=Mkpisi ode
9. Toilet=Ụlọ mkposi
10. Pineapple=
11. Banana=Unere
12. Spider=Udo udo
13. Pillar=Ogidi

Lol! I know some gurus will devour this. Oya your time starts now. You can post yours and let the context begin

carefreewannabe: What are we saying?

carefreewannabe: What if it's the second time he hits u that would cause the untimely death or cause serious bodily harm or brain damage?

carefreewannabe: Maybe I could forgive it once but not a second time.

festusfeezy: For quite 8months now we ve been in love seriously, and I met her as a Virgin. she promised to do everything to prove her love for me, but never to loose her virginity till I do the necessary things. Pls nairalanders I need advice.

carefreewannabe: I have already answered it.

charlesng: I like you, but I hope you can really do what you stated here.

carefreewannabe: The divorce rate won't rise because women/men decide to walk out of violent relationships but because some women/men don't understand that it is absolutely wrong to be violent against your spouse.

Enahi: There is a mysterious man stalking me,he seems to be everywhere I go to. He keeps staring at me,even when I go for a walk he is always at my back. When I stroll to buy something around my neighborhood,I always find him standing and looking at me not too far from where I am.

I don't want to talk to him or find out why he is stalking me. Don't know if he is shy of talking to me,but he should stop stalking me. I feel very uncomfortable.

polymathic: Loool guy, must he be on Nland before u answer her question..

tgbaba: Good day nairalander, pls I need your advice concerning someone close to me. His dad entered a bike from oshodi going to mafoluko yesterday and another dude climb the same bike with him. When the dude wanted to come down he gave the bike driver dollar note. Then they started exchanging words (the bike driver and the dude) . My friend's dad tried stopping them from fighting. And one thing lead to another the dude said he's a foreigner and he didn't trust Nigerians so he said my friends dad should follow him to Apapa to take his belongings. There @ Apapa he was given water to drink then he told my friend's dad to go and get 80k and his fixed money too. That they will give him 200M. Since then, the man had been planning on withdrawing money from his account today to give to them. I am afraid they've jazzed the man. Your prayers and suggestion is highly welcome!!

Dygeasy: As in MizMyColi just has to say more.

*spreads mat*

gmyguy: Have you ever had that embarrassing experience when you are taking some lady friends out and your car messes up. Mine occurred last year. It was so embarrassing. The car broke down on Awolowo way Ikoyi, after picking up a friend from Apapa. It was so horrible. I had to push the car off the road myself with 2 lady friends who didn't lay a finger to help comfortable seated snuggly. And GEJ was coming to Ikoyi that day, had this policemen i blocked when it broke down, threatening to beat me up. How was yours?...have since gotten a more reliable car

MizMyColi:
Sure thing!

imo, it takes commitment.
After all the romantic hullabaloo
What most of us are yet to realize is that Loving at that point in time becomes a decision.

Most times, it is the guy who falters.
Woman are very intuitive and can smell a pending breakup or change in their man's character from afar.

What I advise young people is this:
Never rush a relationship journey.
Give it time.
Let it bud.

Guys,
Don't pretend to be what you're not.
Don't call her for one hour when in reality you know you're not that kind of person.
Don't love bomb a lady only to withdraw psychologically and emotionally from her after you feel she has given body, spirit and soul to you.
In other words, do not raise her hopes, until you are very sure that the connection you share is beyond feelings.

Ladies, you have to realize that in the beginning, the guy will always think he loves you, you have to be disciplined enough not to let those advances of his get to your head, thereby leading you to make hasty decisions, which in most cases, you might regret.

For those who have already made the mistakes listed above, there is still hope.
You need to take some time to cool off.
You need to go back to the start line.
Just give each other a long space.
Within that time, you'll reach a decision, whether or not to love this person.
That's when love becomes a will, a decision.
If you decide in the positive, love ferociously, love compromisingly, love sacrificially.
If it's negative,
Move On - For Good.

MizMyColi:
On this topic, I think my siggy says it all.

youngalex: This is what most marriages/relationships suffer from yet we fail to admit it,the law states that the affection/attraction you have for your partner tends to reduce over time and gives the feeling of "there is nothin more to it than what I have been seeing/doing"..what can one do to rekindle the spark?