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RomanceRe: Why Is It Difficult To Woo Guys On Nairaland? by Tallesty1(m): 4:02pm On Sep 04, 2014
mcangelo: @3cycle, that dude is not from Enugu, sure Enugu boy surely will give you attention. Even if he actually had hanged his boots, he can still bring it out and dust it. Their are many abokis in the street. They Will help him if he can't.....
I MEAN HELP TO DUST THE HANGED BOOT......
Tell me more about Enugu Guys.
RomanceRe: Why Is It Difficult To Woo Guys On Nairaland? by Tallesty1(m): 3:55pm On Sep 04, 2014
olashas: Tallesty grin grin grin
Yes ma
RomanceRe: Why Is It Difficult To Woo Guys On Nairaland? by Tallesty1(m): 3:54pm On Sep 04, 2014
jcflex: madam, I salute ur courage, very rare to find ladies doing dis, bt mind, d guy did nt kill ur moral, he is only honest with u, u let urself down, pls put urself together, cheer up, and give it anoda try.

for d guy telling you, he has hang boot since lst yr, that you shld go for anoda guy, sincerly speaking that is a guy most lady will lik to av as deir partner, cus he let you knw d truth dat he is no more flirting arnd and wnt to stay wit his partner. and does not wnt to cheat on his partner and you as well.
think abt this, what if he accept ur advance and ur bth hook up and start a relationship and you later find out he is cheating on you, hw will you feel.

so pls put youself together, and give it anoda shoot.
FamilyRe: Is It Ever Acceptable To Hit A Woman?? by Tallesty1(op): 3:43pm On Sep 04, 2014
Godmystrength: True that.
When we were young, if one parent beats you, who born you to go and report to the other parent if you will not earn more beating. Even when it is so obvious that a punishment is too much, the other will only beg the ''punisher'' to tamper justice with mercy ni o and then scold the hell out of the ''punishee''. We no dey know how them dey take settle their issues.....
How can your mother finish SLAPPING you for something and you still went back near her shocked to receive another RESOUNDING SLAP grin grin
How can you SLAP a child so much that the child fell down shocked shocked and the ECHO of the SLAP was HEARD OUTSIDE shocked shocked
How can you be questioning your spouse on how/why he/she discipline a child, in the PRESENCE of the CHILD shocked shocked and OUTSIDERS shocked shocked
How can you TEAR shocked shocked the cloth your wife is sewing because she kept MUTE shocked shocked shocked
How can you SLAP shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked your HUSBAND for whatsoever reason?
nonsense nonsense nonsense...
lols, who do we blame then?
FamilyRe: What Will Be Your Reaction If Your Wife Do This To You. by Tallesty1(op): 3:40pm On Sep 04, 2014
GboyegaD: Do you know if the husband is the type who acts as the alpha and omega of the home? Issues as this for me are too one sided.
there is absolutely no good reason that can justify her action.
FamilyRe: What Will Be Your Reaction If Your Wife Do This To You. by Tallesty1(op): 3:38pm On Sep 04, 2014
SeaGold: .
You still dey book space on second page?
RomanceRe: Why Sex Should Wait Till Marriage by Tallesty1(op):
HFOG: You just told NL now :-P
Only this one nah, and I ain't telling nobdy again.
RomanceRe: Being Unmarried Is Almost A Crime In The Nigerian Society by Tallesty1(m): 3:32pm On Sep 04, 2014
MisterLongman: Lol...... Make the guy setup rural extension programme for them
Abi.


But bro, this ur moniker na die.
RomanceRe: Why Is It Difficult To Woo Guys On Nairaland? by Tallesty1(m): 3:03pm On Sep 04, 2014
Xcapist: well, thanks for the advice. But I don't see the fun part in hurting other people except you're some sadistic prick.
If being honest hurts then so be it.
Xcapist: And sorry for speaking ill of you, I'm certainly not better than you. I still don't think she deserve that treatment and I believe a nicer world, where people take in to account how their actions may affect other people, is a better place to live. Once again my apologies bro.
It was a simple question that needed an honest answer and a direct one was given so speak not of the things you don't know.
RomanceRe: Being Unmarried Is Almost A Crime In The Nigerian Society by Tallesty1(m): 2:53pm On Sep 04, 2014
Unfortunately the people you are supposed to be telling this do not use internet
FamilyRe: Please Advise Me! by Tallesty1(m): 2:40pm On Sep 04, 2014
walexzee11: I see no biggie in scouting in someone apartment...... Have you been to Lagos?.. If No!.. then you need to get a clue on how life is there... .people scout for many year with strangers they Don't know, they may be up to seven in a room face me i face you...It's part of life, just be yourself and arrange your own apartment as soon as possible..... BEST OF LUCK!!!
what is wrong is wrong even if the whole world is doing it.
AdvertsRe: Over 200 Billion To Be Disbursed In 10 Days. Grab Yours by Tallesty1(m): 2:35pm On Sep 04, 2014
I smell lies
CelebritiesRe: Mikel Obi Reportedly Engaged To Russian Billionaire’s Daughter by Tallesty1(m): 2:33pm On Sep 04, 2014
Good for them
RomanceRe: Why Is It Difficult To Woo Guys On Nairaland? by Tallesty1(m):
Xcapist: @OP, oh c'mon, this is just one isolated occurrence and it is by no means sufficient evidence to draw a general conclusion about NL guys. I checked your dp and... my oh my! I dare you to try wooing me and I'll show you how wrong your generalization is! wink and how wrong the that guy is too... His being icy is uncalled for. If one doesn't share a mutual attraction there's absolutely nothing wrong in letting her know, but it's the approach that draws the line between being a boy and a man, what does it cost the guy to put her down nicely? I guess some boys are just jerks that will always descend so low to feed their cheap egos are the expensive of hurting other people's feelings and thats sad. Kpele! And better luck next time.
You sayundecided

I'll advice you not to rush into adulthood because it is not fun. It is churlish to speak ill of other people just to prove that you are better than them.
RomanceRe: Till Lies Do Us Part: Part 1 by Tallesty1(m): 1:27pm On Sep 04, 2014
Tannie: Its ok. Atleast you told her truth.
Enjoy the rest of your day.
Here is wishing you thesame.
FamilyRe: How To Choose Your Man by Tallesty1(m): 1:24pm On Sep 04, 2014
ihedinobi2: It seems that it is in that particular place that we find the two apparently conflicting expressions in agreement. A woman can actually express both the, shall we say, demand to be taken care of
By a maga that she is fooling
ihedinobi2: and the strength to stand with a man through dark, turbulent times.
She can do this for a guy she wants to marry. This guy if lucky, unknowingly enjoys the maga's wealth.

Lemme read the one wey remain.
RomanceRe: Till Lies Do Us Part: Part 1 by Tallesty1(m): 1:03pm On Sep 04, 2014
Tannie: I'm fine.

Your admirer dey cry say you turn her down. Why you tell say you don hang booth
Because I don hang boot nah. What else?


But honestly I didn't mean to hurt her and I didn't even know she is a lady. It was when she asked that question that I checked her handle and realised she is lady. There are places that I even addressed her as "sir" but I later modified them when I discovered my mistake.

I decided to be bluntly honest with her because sugar-coating things when I know deep down inside of me that I'm not ready for anything like that will only make it worse. Flirting is a risky game my dear.
RomanceRe: Till Lies Do Us Part: Part 1 by Tallesty1(m): 12:38pm On Sep 04, 2014
Tannie: Lolzzz wetin you dey do here.

How you
nah thesame thing carry me come.grin



I'm ok, how is life with you?
RomanceRe: Confession Time by Tallesty1(m): 12:31pm On Sep 04, 2014
temigracie: hmmmm...i av alot to confess....but my mindt is teln me not to confess now...
Bring them outgrin
RomanceRe: Till Lies Do Us Part: Part 1 by Tallesty1(m): 12:27pm On Sep 04, 2014
Tannie: I'm in. Can't miss this
You too like stories
RomanceRe: What My Grandfather Told Me About Finding The Right Woman For Me by Tallesty1(m): 12:26pm On Sep 04, 2014
wharlzywee: dumb fella,, u wanna say there is no sense in what he posted huh?? undecided
You have concluded that I'm a dumb fella so why are you asking me? Do you need another dumb answer?

Use your brain when you are reading comments.

RomanceRe: Please I Need An Advice As I Don't Want To Make Her Feel Bad by Tallesty1(m): 12:18pm On Sep 04, 2014
LaurelP: You can't do anything until she has told you your crime. So ask her what she means by you breaking her heart cos from wat u wrote here, she's d one who broke your heart.
The hand writing is very clear bro.

@Op. Everybody is reponsible for their destiny and should take the responsibilty for their actions. Don't allow anybody to blame you for anything. That said, please don't get too close to her(she started with tears, which is a huge trap, no sane man will like to hurt a woman who is already crying. She then blamed you for her troubles, which is another huge trap. She wants to put you in confusion and slip into your life while are you are still wondering what's your sin). I repeat, don't get close to her. Married women are the hardest people to get off your neck when they are after you.
FamilyRe: Aren't Mostly The Femalefolk Their Own Undoings? by Tallesty1(m): 12:05pm On Sep 04, 2014
aisha2: .
You have spoken well my dear, but sometimes girls do assume that honest guys are just pretending.

Before I started my last relationship, I was chating with her on facebook one day when the issue of guys and cheating came up. (I haven't made my intentions known to her by then). She was just going on and on about how guys cheat and stuffs they do on facebook. I didn't know how to change her mentality bout us so I sent my pwd and username to her and asked her to check my inbox. Hopefully that will make her understand that all men are not thesame.

She was surprised to see that but after checking my inbox she called me on phone(she took my number from my account)to tell me that I have deleted all my chats with ladies. Can you Imagine? So I told her to keep checking, hopefully one of the ladies will reply my deleted chats.

What I have come to understand is that these girls that have this mentality of all guys being cheats ar cheats.
RomanceRe: What My Grandfather Told Me About Finding The Right Woman For Me by Tallesty1(m): 11:49am On Sep 04, 2014
And what did you learn from it?
RomanceRe: Wtf Is Wrong With These Ladies by Tallesty1(m): 11:41am On Sep 04, 2014
Your lady?undecided. How is she your lady?
RomanceRe: Till Lies Do Us Part: Part 1 by Tallesty1(m): 11:39am On Sep 04, 2014
Following
RomanceRe: Why Is It Difficult To Woo Guys On Nairaland? by Tallesty1(m): 11:21am On Sep 04, 2014
Elantracey: I don't know why I've been a little bit harsh these days , just thank your stars that I couldn't type what came first to my mind .
Some comments on Nland are better over-looked.
RomanceRe: Finally!! 10 How Too Woo A nairaland Lady Styly On Nairaland (playa guide) by Tallesty1(m): 11:06am On Sep 04, 2014
SpaceGoat: smh. bruv you dont gerrit !! angry

-were is your jeep motor car in your back in your profile ?
This one will never get you a good girl.
SpaceGoat: -do you always speak correct english tens? ( broken = they will think you dont know book )

-have you read how to get girl codes ?

- finally dont be mean when you comment like your comment in up (study no.10 ) this is why you havent get crushes angry
lmao, so no hope for GBAGUNNERS like us that speak good English on serious topics only or on the ones that made fpsad.
RomanceRe: Trauma Of A Nigerian Young Lad. Pls, Help!! by Tallesty1(m):
I can't say it's very simple but I can say it's very easy if you understand the power of positive thinking.

You have same-sex attractions but you can choose your behavior and set personal boundaries on your actions. You need to modify your habits and addictions using positive thoughts.

What does your mind speak to you when you think about it? It condemns it right? Good, that is a good way to start.

Pray and Focus on dumping that behaviour, that's all. So simple right? I will explain how it works.

"You can change who you are by changing what you say when you talk to your mind." speak to your mind what you want to be and it will manifest in your system. Focus on what you want to be(straight) because focus gives us powerful leverage over our minds. When we focus on a thought, it forces our mind to look in the direction of that thought. When you focus for a minute, you push your mind in that direction for a minute. When you consistently focus on it for weeks and months, your life moves in that direction. The focus of your mind expands into your life.

We can think only one thought at a time. When you focus on one thought(being straight), you displace all others(being gay) from your mind. Focus enables us to displace unwanted thoughts which directly or indirectly rules our actions.

Focus selects the programs that you run in your mind. When you select a program using the power of focus, you take control of your mind. And when you take control of your mind you automatically take control of your life, actions, sexuality etc
RomanceRe: Why Most Beautiful Girls End Up With "Poor" Husbands by Tallesty1(m): 10:10am On Sep 04, 2014
*sighs* No guy is poor or of low quality. The highest naira note we have is 1k so any guy that has it is among the richest here.


Talking bout quality in the sense you presented it here, every guy has a desirable quality and every lady has what she wants in a guy and once she sees a guy that has it, she will automatically stick to him no matter what.

Love, dating and marriage are mysterious, we really can't understand them.
RomanceRe: Why Is It Difficult To Woo Guys On Nairaland? by Tallesty1(m): 10:05am On Sep 04, 2014
abdulwastecx: when you have the material resources, girls will be like can we hook up sometimes and I will be like..... hmmm u want a ride right
WICKED
RomanceRe: Why Is It Difficult To Woo Guys On Nairaland? by Tallesty1(m):
vizkiz: lmao...now don't make me create a thread about ladies being hard to woo grin
Or a thread for people wey don hang boot.

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