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Sijo01: Don't stalk!

Gbasky! Don2 stalk and don't pretend you are fine cause you are not. Spend time with people who support, value, and energize you, Share your feelings with them, it will make them realise how deep your are hurting and they ll put extra effort to see that you are happy. Friend-zoned guys are very useful in a time like this

Mynd44: Why?

Isn't it funny that the same pastors that preach "Faith" and that "There is no situation that God can't change" are the ones writing this off? Is this a lack of Faith or a limitation of the abilities of "God"?

Tempt not the Lord thy God.

Some of the things you said are nothing but the truth and the rest are just lies. I wanted to ignore them, because maybe you just used them to spice your story but they are too many to be ignore.

2buff: The average cost of dowry and wine-carrying in Igbo land today runs well over a million Naira on the cheap.

This particular lie got me crying, now I'm trying to deny that the cost of dowry is expensive in some places like IMO state but you don't generalize it. And i'm sure it is not even up to that in Imo state. With 75k you will able to do all the needful in Nsukka. Tell any youg man you know that I ll personaly refund him his money if the expenses involved exceeds 75k.

2buff: [/quote]I do not have any problem whatsoever with inter-tribal or even inter-racial marriages, but it is alarming to know that several Igbo men are now fleeing their own kind just because they are no longer affordable.

Another lie, guys from the place that the cost of dowry is cheap still do come to Igbo-land to marry. And for your info, the states(like Imo state) that give list have a different list for strangers. So it is not expensive for the Imolites. Some married guys in that state have not touched 1mil in their life and yet they are married with kids, so how come.

2buff: [/quote]The poor man as I recalled was from Imo state and back then, the high cost of dowry and wine-carrying was limited to Imo State and a handful of other enclaves. Not anymore, ask any young Igbo man wishing to marry today and they will tell you how terrified they are just from thinking about these prohibitive costs in any part of Igboland.

I have not been to all the states but I can tell you with assurance that it is not so In Enugu. My elder bro married from Ogbunike in Anambra state and it is not so there.

There are truths in your post but the lies out-numbered them. They are way too much.

Those are Christian lies

Tattoo 4 wetin? U dey put stickesr 4 ferrari.

It is annoying to see ur gf cry, kick her legs in the air or even get wet for a guy on screen and you go just dey dia dey look like person wey fail waec.

Honestly you are on point, I know you will be criticized, reply the ones you can and ignore the rest because those who are meant to benefit from your post shall surely benefit from it. Keep up the good work.

Now to add to what you have said, women are easy to decieve. That is one thing. If you take a look at what happened between Eve and the serpent in the garden of eden and what is happening in the life of some women today you will know that same satan is behind it all.

When satan spoke to eve, he was able to convice Eve that God is not loving. By planting that seed of doubt, Satan wanted Eve to believe God was withholding goodness from her; therefore, God Himself was not good. She would think God was cruel, harsh, and unloving. Same thing he is doing to our women today via feminism. I don't always talk about it because God knows his people. Alota women have been made to believe that they are living in bondage by being submissive.

He said to Eve “you shall not surely die” in response, Satan wanted Eve to believe God would not really hold Eve’s sin against her. Some today think, “God is too good to punish sin.” He’s too good not to punish sin. He is holy and righteous. I told one lady that the life she is living will surely affect her in the future but she though I was joking. Girls do all sort of things just to pass through school but when nemesis catch up with them they will start running from church to church. If you dare to blame somebody the will tell you that everybody is got past, ofcours we all have past but why must yours be so dirty? The height of deception is that the man meant for you will love you with your past. I lol'd. Even after Adam and Eve had made clothes for themselve God still made cloth from animal skin for them because they were not properly covered. Now look at our women today, they only thing they cover is the nipple.

Satan’s temptation is for Eve to believe God’s plans for her were not good, and she should look out for herself. He tells Eve, “If God is not gracious, then you’d better become your own god and take care of yourself. Have your own way.” our women were made to believe that they don't need men to complete them, they do almost all the works that men do just unsurp power and authority from men but in so doing they are exposed to temptations that are too much for them

Now back to media like you said. Women are rushing to get plastic surgery and breast implants, fix nails, butt implant, all sort of hair and weavon, go half-nude, so they can look like celebrities. Everything from the clothes people wear to the words they speak are affected by media. People's minds are absolutely saturated with celebrities! I'd call that idol worship. Yes Idol worship. You know what really annoys me? If you try to correct them they will tell you to let them be so far they are not disturbing you.

We have become a stiffnecked generation of child murderers, fornicators, liars, idolaters, Bible-corrupters, whores, homosexuals, pornographers, promise breakers, feminists, drunkards, gamblers and perverts. And yet we claim we are Christians. God cannot be mocked. A lot of us say we care about God, but then hypocritically we despise, reject, and loathe God's Word...no wonder the scripture says that This people honoureth me with their lips, but their heart is far from me" (Mark 7:6).

An increasingly large number of young people tend to focus on sex and relationship instead of planning their future. We term fornication making love to make it sound attractive. If you tell somebody to repent they will call you hypocrite, thinking that everyone is just like them.

Today’s society has been infected by these substitutes for the truth of God. The big daddy liar is behind them all. I thank God who opened your eyes to all these and I pray that he shall open the eyes of many that will read this thread.

When I see a waiter coming to my direction with the exact thing I odered then suddenly when he is close enough he then turn to next table. It brakes my heart more than failed r/shp.

There are two ways to do it, it might take some time but it doesn't fail

1: Start treating her like a gf, call always, text when whenable, be caring like say you be romeo, treat her like a queen, when you are sure has started enjoying them then withdraw.

2: Apply reverse psychology, pay attention to everything around her but Ignore her. It doesn't work on everybody thou.

Pity the guy wey go fall inlove online with a gal from that village.

OlamiB:
Lol. How do I friend-zone him bck pls?

nah, nat possible

You don't av to be nice all the time, atleast not to people that do not use their brain. Be blunt, tell him your friends are complaining or better still tell him you are not comfortable with way her enters your room. Haba, to enter woman room anyhow get as e be nah. E dey even fear person like me

Ishilove: Its like your brother has "eaten vegetables" to his satisfaction

I tell you

Oh gosh!

claireshan: and I said God forbid... I reject am

hahahaha, marry am, I ll direct you to the person that ll make him fine.

claireshan: Meaning

Yhu fit marry am

Isaiah 4:1 And in that day seven women shall take hold of one man, saying, We will eat our own bread, and wear our own apparel: only let us be called by thy name, to take away our reproach.

claireshan: For what,, God forbid

I hear

CuteCynthia: Oh. Okay

So would you marry his son if he looks like one these guys in pix

The best you can do for him as sister is to pray for him so that he will not lose everything before realising his mistake.


You don't know the power of that thing inbetween a woman's leg until you see it in action.

STENON: Snc they were many then.....

Nah! I will be able to remember atleast one person if they were many.

STENON: Yes na.....No time for all those stuff again.....I did that wen I finished my secondary sch evn till 100 level.....

The truth is jst that there is no meaning things to gain frm mid9t calls.

Yup, can't even remember who I called during those times.

Abi, who go even dey awake to answer the calls.

STENON: Oops!!!.....Gone are those days .....

I did it then, Bt not interested in such again.

Stop thinking about somebody who doesn't think about you. Go get a gf to fill the void she created if you cannot stay single. Breakups aren't always meant to make-up;
Sometimes they happen to give you a chance to wake up! Be a man and stop crying over spilt milk.

She is Generous.

Lordabas: 10k?, Ur toto dey show Dstv channels?

Maybe nah diamond dey dia.

Ask ur fellow ashewos in lag how much dey charge. With 10k you can get two of 'em 4 all night.

Accept what I can afford or wait for next guy, everything will be discussed b4 introduction.