Romance › Re: Could This Be The Reason Men Disrespect And Degrade Some Ladies. by Tamakay(m): 1:15pm On Jun 29, 2016 |
sinaj: It's a pity 
I apologize on our behalf  One decent one spotted here. At least I'm happy that they are all not the same. U r welcome dear |
Sports › Re: Olga Allegra In Bikini, Enjoys Vacation With Family by Tamakay(m): 10:31pm On Jun 28, 2016 |
CFCman: What's wrong in her wearing a swimsuit to beach? Why won't u support it because u are seeing what ur elder brother is enjoying secretly for free |
Sports › Re: Olga Allegra In Bikini, Enjoys Vacation With Family by Tamakay(m): 4:30pm On Jun 28, 2016 |
Somebody close to her should pls remind her that she is about getting married to an African-- an Igbo man at that and we don't condone such. When our girls open theirs we understand they are just copy copy attention seekers |
Career › Re: My Boss Asked Me To Go Back To School. Before I Slip Into Depression, Help Me. by Tamakay(m): 9:08pm On Jun 27, 2016 |
fragilebeing: Summary: I got to know about a consulting firm here in Lagos and without second thought, I decided to start doing freelancing with them, reason being that it will be a great opportunity for me to put into use what I learnt in school. The freelancing agreement was not without a baggage that I will get absorbed into the system once there is any chance.
Fast forward, recently, the company underwent some expansion and restructuring and I was properly interviewed for a position that fits my ability and profile. While at this, I was rated by the other higher personnel to be very okay in terms of performance as I not only deliver on time, but also assist in fixing some office computer systems that had software problems which was not part of the job prescription anyway.
Problem: It all started when we asked to do presentation on some topics. In my case, I concentrated on identifying problems and suggesting possible solutions to them, surprisingly, the feedback I got was that I wasn't right. I immediately asked for another time to re-present it and my request was granted. Now, even before the time for presentation, I did a pre-presentation to all my colleagues and they say that it was ok, but surprisingly when they were asked to air their views on my performance after the presentation proper and I was given 70/100%, only one of them gave a positive comment, the rest said almost negative stuffs concerning my performance.
The climax was when the Boss asked me to go back to school as I don't know anything.
These got much better part of me and the thought of coming to work is no longer appealing. I can't even think straight anymore... Staying amidst of people is no longer fascinating let alone being among colleagues in the office. I feel like it would have been better if I never existed in the first place.
Some of them laughing to my face consistently is bullying the crap out of me.
Please how can I overcome this?
Please don't mind my punctuation... I can't think straight right now. E Don't feel bad at all it's a ploy for them to use u like Jacky and pay little. You might even be the best and your boss is using this to test ur temparament too. Keep it cool boy. I'm talking from experience |
Romance › Re: @Kingtblakhoc sharing photos with the women That slept with him by Tamakay(m): 8:45am On Jun 27, 2016 |
skywalker495: Na ppl future wives na im only one bastard d fvck  Looooooooool |
TV/Movies › Re: Michy Shatta's Slippers-Breasts On GMAA2016 Red Carpet, Fans React by Tamakay(m): 4:53pm On Jun 26, 2016 |
She never envisaged that one day those boobs will be useful at a time like this. |
Celebrities › Re: Bibi Bright At Golden Movie Awards, Exposes Bare Butts (Photos) by Tamakay(m): 4:48pm On Jun 26, 2016 |
Just giving out what the pervert world wants and she got the ungodly attention |
Romance › Re: Woman Marries Her Unknown Caller Whose Calls She Missed by Tamakay(m): 1:39pm On Jun 04, 2016 |
CaroLyner: most wrong numbers here are always from hausa guys  Hahahahahahaha |
Politics › Re: Cct Trial: Efcc Witness Admits Saraki Was Charged Without Petition by Tamakay(m): 3:27pm On Apr 19, 2016 |
tigerclaws: remove the log from your eyes first eze ule The simple reason why I responded to ur post. So don't insult others zombies |
Politics › Re: Cct Trial: Efcc Witness Admits Saraki Was Charged Without Petition by Tamakay(m): 1:38pm On Apr 19, 2016 |
franchizy: whether APC likes it or not Saraki will won this case. i dont blames all dis illitracy zombies spoken rubish against saraki. saraki remains innocence as this is just a mere witch hunt for disobey his party. we the Nijeria youths stands with saraki. this case is mere plopaganda and noting else. U call people "illiteracy zombies" and ur English is smelling like ur latrine toilet.Lol |
Politics › Re: Budget: Rep Slams Amaechi Over Lagos-calabar Rail Project by Tamakay(m): 12:16pm On Apr 19, 2016 |
It is boring.... |
Politics › Re: Senator Ita-giwa At Adaeze Yobo's Birthday Party by Tamakay(m): 10:23pm On Apr 18, 2016 |
Don't really know what OP is trying to portray here because I do know there's nothing absolutely wrong with her outfit. |
Celebrities › Re: Actor, Nonso Diobi Involved In Accident by Tamakay(m): 3:59pm On Apr 18, 2016 |
Noted. Get well soon bro |
Romance › Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy Who Is Handsome And Educated, But Poor? by Tamakay(m): 7:39pm On Dec 05, 2015 |
Just come here to read ladies comments.Reading... |
Romance › Re: Some Statements Guys Don’t Want To Hear From The Ladies by Tamakay(m): 2:30pm On Dec 05, 2015 |
When the guy is not mature enough but wants to taste what real men do he will complain or get angry with 1-4. Number 5 is the opposite of the guy. |
Politics › Re: Murray-Bruce Cruises On Small Boat To Get To His Constituency (Photos) by Tamakay(m): 8:06am On Dec 05, 2015 |
Na still big man thing na I thought he's on a canoe paddling to his village.Anyway I like him style |
Romance › Re: Lady Exposes A Married Man Stalking Her On Facebook (Screenshot) by Tamakay(m): 9:04pm On Dec 04, 2015 |
noblegrex: Is it that difficult? I guess she's enjoying it too if not she'll have done the needful. There's always a DELETE,BLOCK or REMOVE botton. So simple. Don't mind her. She is not married. The guy dumped her and she resorts to blackmail. |
Romance › Re: Lady Exposes A Married Man Stalking Her On Facebook (Screenshot) by Tamakay(m): 9:00pm On Dec 04, 2015 |
A big lie. They were dating the guy dumped her and in revenge she blackmailed him with this. She just add she is married to her story to rubbish the man more. Think of this, can't she block him or delete him from her friend's list? Some of us here on NL think deeply before commenting OK. |
Romance › Re: See How This Guy Killed His Girlfriend (photo) by Tamakay(m): 9:12am On Dec 04, 2015 |
Pheals: So Nigerian girls are still killing them self because of guys?  Babe them yakpa... |
Romance › Re: He Deletes Me Everytime We Have Issues! by Tamakay(m): 9:04am On Dec 04, 2015 |
Lizabeth25: Been awake since 3am....trying to figure this out. Throwing it here might give me an answer to my disturbing questions. I hope the topic catches attention because I really need to read other people's opinion on this.
I'm 29 of age. I have a 41 years old guy whom I've introduce to my relatives and I've also met his.
We've been seriously dating for the past 5 to 6 months and within that period, every time we have a slight misunderstanding, he deletes me from social media starting from BBM to Whatsap then to FBK.! So whenever we settles, he begs me to re-add him.
This is the 5th time he is deleting me again and this has started giving me concern.
And I've started thinking that he's not right for me! Then what if I end up marrying him, any issues that comes up or we have slight misunderstanding, will he send me out of the house 
Please, guys, is this how your react to your woman? And why do you do that?
Ladies, have you ever experienced issues like this and how did u cope?
I'm confuse and I don't understand why an adult will be thinking or behalving like a kid!
Just want to be sure that it's a normal and general reaction guys exhibits when they are not happy at their woman otherwise, I will just be on my own. Because my common sense is telling me to run away from him!
Please, don't just view, kindly type in your opinion. I will appreciate them! Hmmm...it is never a general thing guys exhibit. Don't look at his age.He is childish. With the way you carefully select ur dictions u are far more matured than him. I will not advise u to run away yet but be very careful. He is the autocratic type I guess. |
Culture › Re: Alaafin Of Oyo Trains With Larry The Boxer In London (Photo) by Tamakay(m): 8:42am On Dec 04, 2015 |
Imagine...a whole four women to one man and they are living happily while our present day feminist propagandist will set ur house on fire when u smile with ur neighbour once a day |
Politics › Re: Gumsu Sani Abacha Eating At The Restaurant In Cameroon (Photo) by Tamakay(m): 8:34am On Dec 04, 2015 |
queenoflafia: If she like make she eat the apple Wey her dad eat remain  Loooool. Hey...we've got some talents on NL |
Career › Re: Is It Advisable To "INSULT" Your Wicked Boss When Quitting? by Tamakay(m): 10:50pm On Dec 03, 2015 |
Capital NO. I would've loved to say more but ma ba3. Just let go OK! |
Celebrities › Re: Mercy Aigbe Vs Linda Ikeji:Who Rocked The Denim Outfit Better?(photos) by Tamakay(m): 10:45pm On Dec 03, 2015 |
They are just defining responsible and irresponsibility and I think Linda defines it weller!! |
Celebrities › Re: Mercy Aigbe Vs Linda Ikeji:Who Rocked The Denim Outfit Better?(photos) by Tamakay(m): 10:39pm On Dec 03, 2015 |
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Education › Re: Water Scarcity In Nigerian Schools by Tamakay(m): 6:37pm On Dec 03, 2015 |
EverestdeBliu: Only if u stay in the school hostel. Off "k" peeps barely know what this means. Yes oo |
Phones › Re: What Do You Think About People Who Use A 'tablet' As A Phone? by Tamakay(m): 2:45pm On Dec 03, 2015 |
To me it's really awkward. But ur last paragraph spoilt ur good observation. You show ur anger, arrogance and trying to force every other person to buy ur idea hook, line and sinker. Pls next time detach ur emotions from the subject matter to enable u make a sound observation and judgement. |
Romance › Re: 7 Things Men Notice Instantly About A Lady by Tamakay(m): 2:32pm On Dec 03, 2015 |
1 & 3 my turn on |
Celebrities › Re: Yemi Alade Flaunts Her Backside In New Photo by Tamakay(m): 2:24pm On Dec 03, 2015 |
She always reminds me of Goldie like Olamide to Dagrin. Nice one unlike some yanshless old beauty queen I saw yesterday |
Politics › Re: Old Couple Who Lost Their Only Child To Boko Haram (photo) by Tamakay(m): 6:36pm On Dec 02, 2015 |
Oh God pls bless my hustle and use me as a point of contact to bless people like this. So pathetic.... |
Family › Re: Which Is More Important In Marriage? Love Or Character by Tamakay(m): 4:22pm On Dec 02, 2015 |
My guy go for love. If u really love the girl her bad character can never be noticed. The simple reason why they say love is blind. Let me also add this, u can never get the true character of a woman until three things happens to u. They are; 1. When a man is broke 2. When there are issues(children). 3. When u cheat on her. When all these happens and she is still with u then know that her character is stable and the marriage will last. Don't forget also character is made up of so many components. She might have a good xter in respecting u but she might have a bad character in preparing ur meal not on time. But in love no components attached. Sometimes u might not even know why u love her. |
Romance › Re: My Boyfriend Hunting Experience In Lekki by Tamakay(m): 10:10pm On Dec 01, 2015 |
What a weekend indeed. Enjoyed ur story sha but the amount u wrote spoilt the embellishment technique u applied |