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r231:
part 2 is coming

venue, date and time for part 2 please.... I no go miss am. God bless your new age Bro.

Good evening house.

Ewuro4:
Tearoses, Tayour... Any idea if Dele Taiwo still exist in Nigeria?

Thanks in advance

yes he does sis. saw him at an occasion I organised. Good evening sis. how family and work.

pickabeau1:
Lets be open minded

I think she is now concerned about the family dynamics after such a grievous accusation

Because those brothers can never b friends again

Hmm true but at least I expected some sort of concern on her own part being that it wasn't only her brother inlaw that was accused wrongly. Seem to me like she is more concerned about how her brother inlaw feels rather than the effect this will have on the relationship between her and her husband.
Am kinda tempted to think she has a stronger feeling for her brother inlaw than for her husband.

* just my opinion, I could be wrong *

Acidosis:
From a psychological point of view, I can deduce you have a "thing" for your in-law (your husband's younger brother).

You seem to care about him so much. Why? Are you crushing on him?

Very true. And to think she isn't even bothered about her face, I doubt she feels bad for being wrongly accused of adultery by her own husband, worse still with her brother inlaw. Its surprising

Baddo101:
To the married and those in a relationship or courtship


How possible is it to have a relationship or Marriage where there would have never been any misunderstanding/quarrel/troubles?

Practically is there anything called a perfect combination?

For those who have experienced this please share to this is possible...

It is NEVER POSSIBLE !!! If there is a couple that don't have misunderstandings in 1 year then they are harbouring hatred in themselves or having extra marital affairs, they will soon kill themselves.

delly2015:
my husband is accusing me of wanting to sleep with his junior brother, based on the fact that his brother came to the house when he wasn't around. infact he is just speculating. I have never cheated on my husband ever since I knew him even when we were dating.. and now his family have heard about it and they are not happy with him. how will he face his junior brother now, pls I need advice[color=#990000][/color]

What's your business with how he will face his younger brother. You should be more bothered about how he will face you his wife for loosing trust in you and accusing you wrongly.

Wait a minute, for your husband to accuse you of such act then something is wrong somewhere. Do you both trust yourselves at all

ayolight:
goodevn house.
praise be unto d.name of d Lord. I ve collected our.visa.
we ve contacted someone as regards ticketting, she has booked for.Friday. I ll see her tmrw to fill some medical form stuffs.
we now have #2.6m
someone sent us 10k, another 5k, 2persons 1k each.
God bless u real good.
everyone who has been cheering us up, God bless u all.
I ll update more tmrw, I'm so tired now.

To God be all the glory. Now there can be a sigh of relief. Weldone sis.

ayolight:
Good morning house.

Good morning mama. Trust you had a great weekend. How is our baby light? A very big thanks to all the supporters both financially and in prayers, may you all be favoured in Jesus Name. AMEN

[quote author=Funjosh post=39333913][/quote]Am still here with you sis, in my thoughts and in my prayers. Already done financially and will still do more by the grace of God. I don't comment to often but trust me am right here on this thread. Light still has 100yrs and more in good health so relax ma and be at peace, this trying times is almost over. Just a step away sweerie and we will all celebrate with you In JESUS name. AMEN

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Acidosis:
Okay in a situation where you get a confirmation from two or three witnesses, what would you do?

Are you speaking from EXPERIENCE If I may ask.


For me I could careless if the prophecy is real or not, I just go with my heart and be happy as long as it gives me rest of mind. When the going gets bad, I get to carry my cross and bear the consequences alone.

akike:
I can't slap mum because she is my mum

You cannot compare my mum to my mother in law because she is not my mother and she can never be my mother

so if you had a chance to hurt her in secret you would SIMPLY BECAUSE SHE IS NOT YOUR MOTHER AND CAN NEVER BE YOUR MOTHER

akike:
What if your mum slapped her first and she just reacted?

what if the mother in law slapped her first? and so, whatever happened to walking away till her hubby returns. what if it was her own mother that slapped her first? will she slap her mother back asides the fact that she is her mother in law or they are related, she should try slapping an elderly stranger due to bad temper and see the reaction of the elderly person children. an elderly person is an elderly person.

@op that's certainly the end of that marriage. no amount of tears, am sorry or kneeling can erase such impudence. EOD.

IYADARA:
I grew up without a plastic spoon let alone a silver spoon....


If any thief had come to our house then. Eehen, am sure they will leave money sef ...so u see, we had no reason to worry over them

Now, I am grown , blessed and grateful, now am being faced with my worst nightmares

My encounter :

Just few days ago, I heard dis strong knock behind my flats,...I hardly sleep soundly and later I heard this swift steps behind my flat.....I woke up terrified and woke hubby up........like few minutes later, d steps dwindled and some persons jumped over the fence

To go back to sleep was a huge wahala as I kept on imagining what could have happened if they had made it to our flat....hummmm...till now am still scared to my marrow

Pple, please what shud be done....do you just open d door for them?

Or you will scream like hubby said he might have if they have come to our door step

Those who have encounter with them, pls share

Hummmm...may God save us from these pple

You will NEVER encounter them by the grace of God. So wake up from your nightmares dear, life is beautiful.

ALocoVivaVoce:
Hello guys, it’s Feature Friday! Every Friday I would be sharing a real life experience and situation of a reader who needs my opinion. If you have a situation that you need my opinion on, email me on featurefriday@alocovivavoce.com.

Read the situation and my opinion after the cut. The names have been changed to protect the identity of the person being featured. Enjoy!


Hello OUR,

My name is Alondra and I need your advice. About a year ago, I met a guy here in Nigeria. He lives abroad but we met during one of his long vacations and we hit it off almost immediately then started dating shortly after. Few months into dating, I got pregnant. Although he wanted me to keep the pregnancy, he wasn’t really bent on getting married just yet.

My mother on the other hand would not hear of it. She insisted that we should not welcome the idea of having a child outside wedlock. After a little bit of pressure from our parents, he finally went ahead and did the introduction to my family members stating that he was the one responsible for the pregnancy and has intentions to marry me in the near future.

This introduction finally put the mind of my mum to rest since we were on the right track leading to marriage.

My “fiancé” in the making, went back to work in his country of base while I remained here in Nigeria, PREGNANT!

Six months went by and it was time for me to travel abroad (a different country from his) to have my baby. After my baby was born, we stayed a few months then went over to the country where he resides to visit him so he can get a chance to see his newborn son.

(Please note that this time when my son and I went to visit him is the first time we both were not only living together but also staying in the same place for a long period of time).

It was during that visit that reality more or less hit me.

As time went on while we were living together, I realized that he not only had a really bad temper but he would get upset over the slightest thing and I had to brace myself for a few days before I speak to him or even ask him for a favor or for finances for our son.

This behavior was the exact opposite of the sweet and loving man I fell in love with back in Nigeria while we were dating.

His temper is so bad that there was one time he got very upset over pretty much nothing and locked my son and I out of his house on the streets. I had to go to a friend’s house to spend the night so my son doesn’t get exposed to the cold.

After that incident, it dawn on me that not only was he a BEAST but also completely inhumane and callous. As a result, I decided it would be better to live as a single mum than to endure another second of his torture and ill treatment.

That was until I returned back to Nigeria and heard the cries and pleas he had been raining down on my people even before my arrival. He says he is sorry and wants to go ahead with the marriage plans if I would have him.

The question now is WHAT DO I DO? My gut is telling me to walk away but then I’m currently unemployed and with a brand new baby. How do I take care of him and me too? But then my so called “fiancé” treats me so badly and frankly I’m only considering going back simply because of our son.

Please advise on what I should do. Walk away or go ahead with the marriage? I need your help!

Click on the link below to read my reply

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first and foremost how can you address a newborn baby as BRAND NEW is he an object?

Secondly am sorry but I don't feel sorry for you cause you walked into the lions den with your eyes open. am 95 percent sure you hooked up with him because he is not based in Nigeria, and still went ahead to get pregnant, what ever happened to protections or pills?

well you saw this coming and you jumped into it. count your stars that you meet him single when you visit him in his based country. now you know he has a very bad temper, he even locked you out with your new baby. hmmmm that man doesn't love you as far as am concerned. The choice is yours to make, you are not married yet, I wonder what he will do when you are married. good luck.

bellong:


Your graduation is suspended.

Tearoses, were you awarded any damages? The gods can reclaim your lost ground. Just bring 5 white fat cows only.


Efe, how you dey and the boys?

Abeg, make una two make up. When the gods are back from vacation, you guys owe them 21 white fowls each...

You still haven't returned from vacation ni This your vacation they sweet you wella o. Lol

tearoses:
My dear this is why I always tell people to flee far far from tempation cos when it starts many people just get so mixed up with its very dificult to unravel themselves from it.
Many polygamous familys today started like this . . giving her a lift, friends in the office and all what not
They always say the same thing . ."im in control" " I know what im doing" " I can stop when im ready". . .but they forget that the devil is busy doing pressups to build muscles to wade in and scatter things
Meanwhile the woman may have other motives that the man doesnt even know.
You said it already, Instead of the woman to send the man home, she is cooking eba and egusi for the man

Very true sis, na so e dey start, later they will say it's devils work.

it's, so annoying sis, hearing this from a grown up man. The man no be baby na, he must be in his 40s and to think his been married for 10 solid years. What you will not eat DO NOT perceive it.

How else do you want to be told that woman is not nice to you in anyway but a DEVIL!!! are you a teenager or rather a baby to know the woman has a good plan up her sleeves and you already playing her game. what sane woman would cook for a married man and welcome him in her place She no get her boyfriend to cook for and share her free time with, no you she get time for.

You better wake up, from your slumber man or prepare for your own doom. what nonsense. oh please cut the crap, what do you mean he is very religious man and doesn't want to hurt her, doesn't know how to end the friendship, she has been so nice to you. friendship my foot, what stupid friendship is that A friendship that has taken away your sense of morals and dignity of married man? what religion a beg? does the same religion allow you keep such relationship outside of your home

I just hope for your own good your wife doesn't find out about this before you reset your brain....

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GHoJes:
You think its history? Wait until weekend then you would know why i didnt want a repeat of what happened the last time i ignored the inkling.

looks to me like you really want this ish to continue, what if nothings by weekend weekend is still 4 -5 days away o. drop it already please and stop fueling it.

Ewuro4:
Someone made a derogatory comment on an innocent picture , she was politely called out and all hell wanna break lose coz of what??

Ewuro4 ee yaff do you oo, take your time oo. oya come and sit down beside me here *winks*

GHoJes:
I knew you were coming 'indeed' but can you just dissapoint me and come in peace next time by ignoring.

Cut her slacks on the ground that she doesnt understand you. 'who understand you or do you even understand you?!'

Btw, the sight of two 'old mama tearing each others blouse and bra' is offensive to our sight as Africans.

would have been better if you just let sleeping dogs rest. last time I checked these topic is history.

SAMBARRY:
is a lie joor.youre a professional. With all those fine fine cakes and small chops I saw you wan still dey lie give me at my age

she's a guru o.dont let her deceive you

AMEN AMEN AMEN IN JESUS NAME.!!!!!! I claim it in JESUS name and am working hard to get there, meanwhile am addicted to loving what I do. **winks** . Thanks sweerie, God bless you real big.

tearoses:
Yes o! Awon Black beauty Awon Back and shine Awon Ebony susie Awon Cappucino Babes

egbon hmm, e Don dey turn poem small small o. We go title am ......

Timbuktou:
No w ahala. Se owo n ya?

Adupe o. God is faithful, thanks

RoyalRoy:
[color=#000033] Hey Sisi Boash, mo wa okay oooo.

Work and stuff got me grounded jare.

Trust you are doing okay too?[/color]

am fine Bro, doing very fine thanks. eiya eku ise, free day for me just tossing on my bed.