₦airaland Forum

I don't believe selling puff puff in secondary school is the best option for you now. Though it's only God that knows that. I'd advised you don't look forward to having such quick money but to something that will last you long.

Bro you requested a matured advice and I think I have it. It doesn't worth it. If a girl should do at the early stage of a relationship what do you expect her to do when it reaches some extent. Saying she used that to test you is a typical Nigerian way of giving reason to a fraudulent act. Be careful

All I see here is fiction oh

Do anything you desires doing and be the best at it. If it is to academics, fine and if not, it is also good.
Just do your best and leave the rest.
It'd be rueful eventually if you fail to bring something good at what you're good at.

I hope to be among these men someday...

We still need to be well educated, both kids and adults, I think. You rarely see an ofay using such styles even when they are chatting on social medias.

It's good to be a mathematician and mathematics itself becomes more interesting when you know its applications. I'm proud to be a mathematician.

Maybe your little isn't enough. Try to work in yourself to know those little things you don't know before, it will help you.

I wonder why rich ladies always desires for a family without fights. Has there ever been any? I believe it's normal for a man and a woman in a union to have some misunderstanding and settle it eventually. This their talks of it is getting odd and I think they are just cowards and highfalutin who can't bring themselves to the level of getting married to a man.

We all know that the truths sometimes hurt but its always seems to have been the best option eventually. No matter how, it's good she revealed the truth although might not have been in the best possible way for her.

Consequently, biological or no biological, blood or no blood, it does not really matter. What matters most is the relationship between the two. The relationship between them will tell what they are to each other and not what blood says or what people are saying.

Inasmuch you’re willing to stay with your husband, you should also be willing enough to calm your self-esteem in all manner of levels. Do not be weak, be strong in all areas. Being a teacher doesn't mean you can do things even greater that building a house. God will hell you Inasmuch you're willing to do.

She even seems to enjoyed it and doesn't seem she was forced to it. I don't see the reason why people should keep mute about this. It's a licentious matter—ethics matter—she cannot go Scot free. She'll be known for this for life even after her demise.

This is nothing else but foolishness and deceit. Whatever might have instigated her to do something like that is nothing else but nonsense. Our mentality is full of fact-ful lies that's drawing us back on any forward step we take. I hope a time would come when light will be shed to our unwitting minds.

Really, i knew many of you guys would rebuffed me on this, but i support Buhari.

I don't support any form of maltreatment of women, but everybody have his/her duties to play.

When women abandoned their home to interfere in politics or contributing entirely to the societies in the detriment of her home, who do we expect to stay?... The man?

Mentally, physiques, behaviors, idiosyncrasies, men is different from ladies. I don't wish to be sarcastic or bias, but i think nature has already made the plan for everybody.

We shouldn't place white in wherer black is supposed to be. We shouldn't put a square peg in a round hole. We could see the juvenile or puerile decadency in our societies today.

The relationships between women and their bairns is beyond what we can say. It's most easier for women to influence their children than men. Women can easily teach their bairs ethics and the father will tell him the applications of what he has learnt to societies.

Civilizations shouldn't blind us and take away our humanity. You guys can fight me for saying this, "women will never be equal to man". We're seeing the influence of this in the US where women left their home believing they could rub shoulders with men or even be more like men.

Religuously speaking or not, it's obvious that man's work is to lead, protect and provide for his family. Let's embrace nature to favour the humanity so that we can develop.

It's needed we ask ourselves this question, "who're the men cheating with; opposite gender among animals or humans?" Ladies are mostly the one attracting faithful ones into this sort of filthy things. Good women is the society will breed faithful husbands.

From what you've written, i guess you're a rich ass from a wealthy home. You stayed there for just 5 days and travelled back because you saw Nigerians on the street living low lives? I guess you're not aware that people strive before they make it. You have to work hard for the opportunities that comes your way and not expecting any luck or well paying job. To me, this is not a lesson to be learnt. Rather, it's a piece of a nonsensical write up.

TPAND:
No one is stopping Buhari from fighting corruption, but fighting like a dictator and tyrannical autocrat is what we are not I support of. Everything should be done within the ambits and provisions of the law.

Buahri should understand what a democratic system of government is. I see the arrest of the alleged corrupt judges as a show of Shane and defamation of character

My brother, at a point like this, what's needed to be done needs to seems despotic. You can't tackle some powerful people in this country and say you wants to follow the law wholeheartedly, it's not done.

Obviously, these northerners are only for a northerner's president. Why should he named mentioned of Jonathan again when everything is all done. Is it even that, there's no positive outcome of Jonathan led administration at all? Ethnicity is now something we should really. We should really be keen about this and take it prudently or else, the unity they named mentioned would scattered in no time.

25 is young? And can you guys tell me why we say "age isn't maturity". If there's other important reason, your parents should kindly tell you because i don't see your age o be a barrier here.

Do the needful to please others and not the hardened. It shouldn't be to the detriment of yourself before you can help others. Kindly be patient and see if he'll get necessary treatment and be fine. Don't go for something you'd regret. He might later seems not worthy after all.

Nollywood's movie can be quite ridiculous at times, but dear brother, It clearly showed that you doesn't read and write that much. You need to brush up on history—the facts. Christianity is an adopted religion in Rome back then and it wasn't a religion founded there. Just try and read. It's imperative you do.

I should say mine: I see nothing wrong there. It's a work of art; You either appreciate or keep mute.

My brother, don't you think what you wore to the first interview might have made you succeeded for the second interview? They might made a comment you don't like but proved to them you so much have the managerial confidence they wants. Don't look down on yourself, rather try and know what they really want.

The world of a reality is the world of fulfilment. It's the world where dreams becomes realities and where pipe dreamers are no where to be found. Realists and achievers dominates this world and it's a place where humanity has its complete sense of values.

In our world today, failure is the order of the day. People sleeps and wakes in failures and it has become the norms in our societies. There's always an element of 'set back' in almost everything we do. There have been many failures that tends to reduced humanity values, amongst many we have the chronic ones like economic recession, forest and wide life mismanagement, abilities to moderate the population, crime and robbery, mortality rate and many others.

Realists are now idealists who only thoughts of ideas that robust only in their imaginations. People are now very weak to executes their plans. Ideas for developments floats in the air like a dangling plane and humanity greater qualities keep on depreciating day by day.

In the world of some realists, the ideas that comes into realities are the ideas that reduces man's values. They are the ideas of crimes that even after executions do intensively ravaged the world of man.

Sometimes, the realists are even too weak or lazy to keep their already realities in motion for long or the required time. These persons do achieve their desires but it fades away in no time after quick and little achievement of it. In regards to this phenomenon, eventually, they become too weak to think of ideas not to talk of executions. They eradicates any thoughts of benefitting-ideas that appears in their mind immediately it occurs. These weakened realists, fear what the results might be; the fear to failure reduces their own self value. It's being said that risks taking is one of the greatest sacrifice that is prerequisite and sine qua non for any successful man. Every great entrepreneurs and leaders out there had taken one forms of risk or the other.

In life, there are quite a lot of things one has to do for his dreams to become realities. Many of us know this, but the abilities to carry them out is a what we lack or it's perhaps laziness that stands in our ways. Some, among the necessities are focus and determination, perseverance, hard work, wisdom, mentor(s) and the greatest of it, sacrifice.

However, a factor that connects these aforementioned necessities is the wisdom on what to focus in; what to set our determination on, the very best way to persevere, how to wisely work diligently, who to choose for mentorship and what to sacrifice. The above necessities is so important that if it's not carried out properly, no results or desired results would be generated eventually.

Consequently, we all need to take our stands. The abilities in our choices defines what and who we are. It's essential we choose to achieve our dreams and do the necessaries for it to be accomplished. A world without regrets should be our aim and focus. Thus, this could only be achieved in the world of realities.

Let's strives and vies for our dreams and not to strive or vie alone but to also triumph. In doing this, we're building good days ahead of ourselves.

I don't know what could have happened if she become one. But i have to commends her effort. For a woman to have reached such a stage, not to talk of being black has been a hell of a hard work. God bless you ma.

Muafrika2:
Only coz you asked. This is how I would write ...

Thank you sir.

CRITICISM AND COMMENTS IS WELCOMED. You guys should know that I'm trying to improve my writing skills. I would really appreciate if you can points out errors/ grammatical errors for corrections. Thank you.

Our lives has solely been a very precious gift to us from the creator. He had given everybody this life to live and not only a life to live but with a freewill of choice making in our lifetime. While some people may have a very long life time, it may be very short for some. Some have a great sheer of happiness in life while it's saddened for some.

"The ball is in your court"; so they say. To some in their lifetime, they tends to believe that their achievements are ultimately been through the choice(s) they made or making while some believes it's all being predetermined for them by an or some external factor(s). What is really important is the state of our mentality.

In our lifetime, the states of our mentality affects almost everything in our lives viz: beliefs, culture, social settings and others. In this lifetime, you will see many beliefs and in this plight lies the religions. There are series of attitudes towards individuals religions. Some are fanatic, dogma and we have those who shows nonchalant attitudes towards theirs as if it doesn't even exist. And we also have the atheist who with his personal reasons believes not in God's existence. Whatever we choose to believe lies the reality — our beliefs has no effects on realities; it's just the state of our mental abilities.

Apparently, the states of our mental abilities to the culture is another factor that plays a vital role in our life time. Each social settings has their unique culture and this has been greatly a result of their mentality. Where there's a strong mentality, there's high tendencies of development in the culture which will ultimately affects their standard of living in general.

If the culture is poor, surely the social settings has no options than to be affected. The occupants in a society that experiences ill relationships among themselves is greatly susceptible to under development. A society that has a bad settings needs to work on their culture. It might have been through a faded culture or poor one.

However, the truth must be in told; we builds our mentality. Whatever our mentality seems to be has partly been through our choices. At times, we would have to make some hard decisions in order to enrich ourselves mentally. The inability to make this important choices will eventually leads to a "common-mental ability", either good or bad.

Consequently, what our lifetime seems to be is through our choices unless your mentality tells your otherwise. Let's build a good mentality and make the right choices so that we can have a good lifetime.

I don't like being an hulk–an excessive muscled person. I only exercise to keep my body fits and i don't need to impress anyone.

It's when the started killing the opulent people or making an attempt on the government that they would find solutions to this mayhem.

it's quite bewildered why Nigeria government can be so careless and heartless. May God help us.

It's unfortunate that the needy in Nigeria, keep glued to their faith for a change while the people in power keep on fighting for power—they don't really care what really happens to the country.

If something good will ever happen in Nigeria, we must all want it. And if not all, majority must wants it.