₦airaland Forum

Maxidoe:
This is sheer rubish,whatever you are on nairaland,ure just been biase,for crying out loud this dude was just expressing himself,simply for the fact that his opinion does not tally with yours,should not make you threaten him,is nairaland the only forum around,or do you pay posters anytin?Please lets always be man enough to call a spade a spade,because for me the poster has said it all.
Once again Nigerian movies,actors,actresses,producers irrespective of whom they are,does not deny the fact  that they are all Craaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaap,do watever u want,yanks us off if u want,who gives a fuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuck.

OMO IBO:
is it just PH girls? besides y u dey generalise?

darequam:
Guy guy guy guy u no fit beat me 4 fifa O
I think its better if u just maintain your champion the poor level and don't go about exposing your ignorance. what's a football game when u don't use realistic players and stadiums with club logos on their jerseys. I mean , this makes u feel like you're handling the real club with real players with real attributes. I can bet wit u #5000 that u can't defeat me in 5 good games if we play head to head in fifa07.

jennykadry:
@tboy1

hehehehehehehehe this guy u too like i too sabi,y e be say na for only married woman matter u dey pit ya mouth,abi don't u know that what God has joined together ,let tboy1 not use his fighting skills to put asunder

jennykadry:
tboy give us another hokogan story

jennykadry:
buhehehehehe undertaker's story roflmao

4 Play:
Nope. . .actually,what I heard yesterday was about the woman who tried to strangle her husband who was crippled with arthritis.She said she couldn't cope with living with a crippled man and tried to kill him many times,including bashing him on the head repeatedly with a stick before trying to drown him.
These are still isolated cases.Women face greater physical danger by staying than leaving.

4 Him:
tboy i have a question - why are all the women you know in abusive relationships?  

4 Play:
@sheniqua

Most of those women in the NYT story are women who decided to stay and endure the abuse.You are much safer leaving than staying and hoping your man will change.Another good reason to pick up and leave.

jennykadry:
buhehehehehehehehe lazy hokogan

Uche2nna:
@ t boy1

It is kind of dangerous to get involved like that. You had good intentions obviously but You have to be careful about getting into domestic situations that aint none of your biziness

4 Him:
tboy, who told you that its only lazy people that are spineless?

4 Play:
I can understand if we are talking of some illiterate women in a Fulani village but a Nigerian woman living in the West?
There are many no-nonsense Nigerian women living in villages whose husbands won't even dare touch them.Is their own societal climate different? These spineless women need to learn one or two things from these women.
Haven't you seen Nigerian women who beat up their husbands?

4 Play:
Society is made up of men and women.Of course,Nigerian society delivers its criticism and I'm sure you women cheerily join in attacking women who divorce their abusive husbands.

My point is,its mainly spineless women who stay with abusive husbands and claiming you have to stay because society will look down on you is ridiculous especially if the woman is living in the UK.I'm sure you know many women back home who left their husbands.

4 Him:
You can see it however you like. I know its difficult for you to understand why your sister stayed for so long in an abusive relationship.
The fact that not many gfs/wives press charges against their partners does not mean it is not the right thing to do. What if your sister gets into a similar relationship in future, she'd be waiting for you and her mother's soldiers again to save her?

when is she going to grow a spine and learn to stand up for herself?

4 Him:
Bullshit? maybe maybe not.

Your sister lived in the UK with this man for 6yrs . . . didnt she know the way to the nearest police station?
Did anyone tie her legs to that house and declare she must never leave?

There are several ways to look at this, going to beat up the fellow in his home solves no problems but simply brands you all as being only marginally better than him.

4 Him:
Your mom got soldiers to go beat up her daughter's boyfriend . . . that in my book is totally unecessary. I can only imagine what she did to her husband. I don't excuse husband beaters but there are more logical ways of solving such issues without getting overly paranoid.
We are in a generation were we now think women who exhibit wild behaviour are said to be "standing up for themselves".

4 Him:
by being violent in return? i beg to disagree. A right can never two wrongs make.

nightrider:
Listen you need to see what i mean here,

For someone with that amount of skill, He should be leading the premiership in assists. Or scoring goals. He is Fantastic player. But i think all season hleb had only 8 passes that lead to goals, from more than 40 matches. That's crap. With all tha ball control thats def crap.

nightrider:
Ok BAKARI SAGNA SCORED AGAINST CHELSEA SO HE IS A GOAL SCORER. DNT BE Blind man, for all that skill, hlen should lead the premiership in assists

Busta:
Hehehehe . . and are your parents still together?

To answer your question,
Once u're in love . . u automatically signed to be a fool to the person.
But honestly . . if u love someone, why would u raise your hands on them in the first place? the love don die be that now.

nightrider:
When I say Hleb can't pass, i dnt mean he cannot pass the ball from one player to another.


HLEB CANNOT GIVE A THROUGH PASS THAT LEADS TO A GOAL DESPITE ALL HIS BALL CONTROL. LET US CHECK THE NUMBER OF ASSISTS HE HAS. FABREGAS HAS 20 . HOW MANY ASSISTS DOES ALEXANDER HLEB HAVE? FIND OUT

He controls the ball well. But for him to give a pass that leads to a goal from all that ball control is absolutely impossble. Maybe he'll learn it next season, but as of this season , he just couldn''t do anything except control the ball. YES I SAID IT. HE CAN"T SHOOT, CAN"T SCORE< CAN"T HEAD AND CAN"T GIVE A THROUGH PASS THAT LEADS TO A GOAL TO SAVE HIS LIFE.

IF ALEXANDER HLEB COULD PASS FOR GOALS TO BE SCORED> FOR ALL HIS BALL CONTROL HE WOULD CERTAINLY BE AS GOOD AS ZIDANE.

Bblak:
First hot slap ke? I doubt if i can wait to receive that before i take to my heels._{Once a wife beater always a wife beater}

manchibabe:
@ tboy1
men r heartless sha o,

i think one of d  signs is if the dude has a quick temper nd uses fowl words, like slot, bitch, LovePeddler

i had a family friend who had a quik temper ( i mean quicker than a concord airline) and he used to flare up over d slightest tins nd his gfriend used to call me to complain of ow abusive he was but she never told me that he beat her nd i knew he was capable of doing  it until one night d gil call me for middle of night say d boi wan kill am nd she had to call her mum to get her out of there, despite al this she still came back to my fam friend after a few weeks,
it seems some gils enjoy this beating,