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Pasima:
I told my girlfriend to post my pics on her Whatsapp profile and she refused to do so, but I post hers telling the world how proud I am to have her.

I was very angry I want to end the Relationship. You see all this Catholics girls na now I fear them wella. Full of games and cheating.

I am not sure you are up to 21 years. See what you are complaining about.
Clearly, you don't have problems.
Trust me, when you get older, you would see that this was never an issue

qekng40:
The Americans are the best in enlightenment and giving equal opportunity to it's Citizens, but won't give equal opportunity to raging nations. Double standards!

You want another country to give you equal opportunity?
Every country has what it takes to build itself.
America built itself so every country should do the same

Brighton1:
My post might be lengthy, but Pls read because I need advice.

I've been living in Lagos for 5yrs now, even before the death of my father (R.I.P). I lost my dad 4yrs ago. I'm the eldest and I have two younger ones. I'm a contractor.

My mom and my siblings are based in ekpoma edo state. I call them regularly, I advice them, I send them money for up-keep, I visit home once in a while. I play both role of a father and elder bro to my siblings. I don't want them feel the absence of my father.

My construction team got a contract at Auchi, it was an opportunity for me to visit home often.

My younger sister is a 300L student in AAU. She is 22yrs old, she don't read, she's always on social media (tik tok & Co.) Nobody can touch her phone, if my lil bro wants to browse something important or play game with her phone, she will just be screaming at him as if Ogun is about to strike her... Don't touch my phone o, drop it down.

Even the phone (iPhone 7) I was the one who gave it to her when I bought my current phone (Samsung). I promised my lil bro he shouldn't worry, as soon as I get paid for the job I'm currently working on, I will get him a phone before I travel back to Lagos.

Okay, Yesterday I only said, now that ASUU is on strike, find something to do, get busy, learn a skill, even if it's fashion designing, make-up or catering.

She was just giving me flamzy excuses, and the annoying part is she will be raising her voice while talking to me. I almost used a belt to flog her if not for my mom that held me.

My father's house is a bungalow, and we have a tanent, Anytime I receive the house rent (200k yearly) I send everything to my mother. My mom would be like I should hold some for myself but I said NO, they need it more.

AAU school fees is now x4 compared to what I paid back then when I was there. Yet I'm the one providing 80% of her school fees while my mom 20%.

My Lil bro who's just 18 yrs old is more hardworking than her, he goes to my mom's shop to help her out, he's learning how to cut hair and he plays instruments very good (piano & bass guitar). He plays for a church that pays him 5k per week (he plays weds & sun for the church). I pray uniben grant him admission this year.

My father was a nice man, he disciplined us and his death won't change that. I want him to be proud of me wherever he is now.

Nairaland family, I need your advice. My sister depend so much on the money I give her. I don't want her to be a leech.

Take it easy my brother. No one is perfect.
We make not get alone with all our siblings.
Do not think that you can change her. Just continue to do your part as the provider.
Advise her a little and if she gets rude, just let her be.
She would make her mistakes you can really do anything about it. Let's just hope she learns her lesson on time

Mynd44:
The world has trabaye-ed

I am expecting India to give a warning on Bangladesh and Pakistan soon.

Seriously though, the US needs to mind their business more

And China could mind it's business and leave Taiwan alone.
The US would be foolish to let Taiwan fall into the hands of China.
I am sure you know that Taiwan is the world's chip manufacturer.
Anyone who controls Taiwan controls modern technology

backbencher:
Well, things can change, but for now, this is a straight Russian victory. They have the weapons and logistics, and Ukraine , while doing better than expected, is probably on its reserves by now.

But then again,things can change.

Actually, it's not going the Russian way.
No major city captured.
And wars are not fought by weapons and logistics. If you don't believe, ask the Americans in Afghanistan.
The Ukrainians have the goodwill of the world and the backing of much wealthier nations.
Russia has become an isolated country.
They are on the losing side

backbencher:
At the end, Ukraine will lose this war. It's just a matter of time.

Russia is too strong and too powerful. About the only surprise is that Ukraine is resisting well, but in the end it is inevitable.

I doubt. Putin made a bad move. The resistance is getting bigger. Weapons are coming in.
The Russia soldiers are not as determined. The know they are only fighting for Putin pride. But the Ukrainians are fighting for everything.
And they have the world on theit side.
Don't forget that the Russian economy is smaller that Italy.
Russians resolve would be broken at some point.
The war is not even popular in Russia

Tsfari:
It's really funny how the media is cheering civilians resisting well equipped soldiers who just simply refuse killing them. If these Russians get angered now and start shooting sporadically, the same media would twist the narrative and call them war criminals...

So you mean the Russians are invading but refusing to kill anyone. This is the funniest war tactics I have ever heard about.

Dollywood:
We know they are not winning shit. It's only a matter of time before the whole Kiev will be surrounded by armour tanks and forced to surrender.

War is never that straightforward.
It has a starting date but one one knows when it would end.
As you grow older you would understand these things

SugarPapi:
So... I'm 39/m, married with 3 beautiful kids. Wife and kids are abroad, while I'm gainfully employed here in Nigeria. This is my story -

I've always been a chilled introverted guy with almost zero worries. I'm committed to my work and my work is also committed to me, at least, I'm able to send a healthy amount to my wife and kids in the Queen's country, every month. As a 'Manchelor', this is my daily schedule - wake up, go to work, close late, get home, play PS, skype the fam, sleep, rinse and repeat.

I seldom have time for social media, but once in a while, I log into Facebook and IG to catchup with friends. This was the beginning of my dilemma.

December of last year, I was scrolling on my timeline when I got a notif. Someone had liked my picture. I clicked through her profile and saw this young pretty girl. Honestly, I did not exactly fancy her at first, but I reciprocated the like on one of her pictures and logged of to bed.

When I woke the next morning, she had followed me. I followed back and thanked her for the follow in her dms.

This damsel was around 6ft, pretty, fair and easy on the eyes. She did not have any revealing or tight fitting clothes on her profile so at the beginning, I could not exactly place her physique.

We started chatting that day and as satan will have it, one day, I got leave from work. It was an unfateful Friday so I invited her to a day out at The Palms. We ate , watched a movie then when I wanted to book a ride for her back home, she said she'd like to know my house.

Tbh, I thought this was quite forward and voiced it. I love my Wife dearly. I love my children as well. I would never do anything to deliberately hurt them so I turned down her offer and booked the ride. She stays at Yaba, I at LP1.

She entered her ride and I did not contact her again.

Well, hello next morning!

Her WhatsApp call woke me up. It was a Saturday so I was at home. We spoke at length, she thanked me for the previous day and told me to at least allow her pay me back. "This girl sef!" I thought to myself.

We got to know each other better across the phone in that singular call and I felt it in my soul that she was a genuine one... not an 'InMessage' girl. She was a student at UNILAG in her 300l, studying Accounting. She was a really homely girl, light spoken and very respectful.

It was not yet mid-day when her cab to my house was 10 minutes away.

She came in, looking like a queen. Jeeez! Remembering that day sends shivers down my spine. Thankfully, I leave in a building all to myself so there no prying eyes to call Mama omo SugarPapi in faraway Ireland. My security guy opened for them, she alighted and paid the cab herself. WAWU!

She came and hugged me, we held hands as I pulled her in. She had not fully entered my house when I swept her off her feet, our lips crushed together in intense canoodle. Her tongue was probing inside my mouth as mine hers. Before I could process what was happening, she went on her knees and I felt my soul leave my body.

By this time, I had still not seen her body, so I led her to my guest room and my God!

Brief history... before this day, I had always considered myself an 'ass guy'. Actually, the few guys I consider friends know me as an ass guy. I loved huge melons but 'the behind' gets me most of the time.

Dear NLers, this girl's bossoms where neither ginormous nor small. They were just the perfect size and they stood! My God they stood! Firmly in my face, begging, begging to be...

I'm a 39yo guy and I confess that I have never experienced sex like that till that day! She was so sensual, so soft, no rush, no wrong. She mounted and rode me that day till I came. It has never ever happened before... not even with my partner and my she can f*ck!

It took every fiber of my being not to cry like a child as she rode me with ease and finesse. It was not that type of riding where the girl tries to burst your kidneys or emasculate you. It was focused on just my shaft and its cap. At some point, I was afraid I will pass out.

I had to quickly pull her off me before I pass out.

We ordered some take out, went at it three more times and around 8pm she was on a ride home. I told her to send me her account for me to send her something for the weekend. She out rightly refused and also refused me paying for her transport. WTH?! Abi na mami water tins?

Well it's been three months now and I can't seem to let her go. I have never experienced sex the way she does it. I confess that I may be catching actual feelings for her. I see myself jealous when she receives a call from her male counterparts, she once showed me a video she made with her ex. I was so angry. When she noticed my demeanour, she came, sat on my naked groin and whispered in my ears - "he is in the past, THE PAST".

I have to come voice out my predicament because she is now taking space in my heart. I can't do this to my family.

Guys, how do I 'divorce' this girl?

How to spot a fake relationship story on Nairaland
The writer would always talk about their financial status
The girl must be incredibly beautiful
They must always describe body parts and give sexual details.

SugarPapi:
So... I'm 39/m, married with 3 beautiful kids. Wife and kids are abroad, while I'm gainfully employed here in Nigeria. This is my story -

I've always been a chilled introverted guy with almost zero worries. I'm committed to my work and my work is also committed to me, at least, I'm able to send a healthy amount to my wife and kids in the Queen's country, every month. As a 'Manchelor', this is my daily schedule - wake up, go to work, close late, get home, play PS, skype the fam, sleep, rinse and repeat.

I seldom have time for social media, but once in a while, I log into Facebook and IG to catchup with friends. This was the beginning of my dilemma.

December of last year, I was scrolling on my timeline when I got a notif. Someone had liked my picture. I clicked through her profile and saw this young pretty girl. Honestly, I did not exactly fancy her at first, but I reciprocated the like on one of her pictures and logged of to bed.

When I woke the next morning, she had followed me. I followed back and thanked her for the follow in her dms.

This damsel was around 6ft, pretty, fair and easy on the eyes. She did not have any revealing or tight fitting clothes on her profile so at the beginning, I could not exactly place her physique.

We started chatting that day and as satan will have it, one day, I got leave from work. It was an unfateful Friday so I invited her to a day out at The Palms. We ate , watched a movie then when I wanted to book a ride for her back home, she said she'd like to know my house.

Tbh, I thought this was quite forward and voiced it. I love my Wife dearly. I love my children as well. I would never do anything to deliberately hurt them so I turned down her offer and booked the ride. She stays at Yaba, I at LP1.

She entered her ride and I did not contact her again.

Well, hello next morning!

Her WhatsApp call woke me up. It was a Saturday so I was at home. We spoke at length, she thanked me for the previous day and told me to at least allow her pay me back. "This girl sef!" I thought to myself.

We got to know each other better across the phone in that singular call and I felt it in my soul that she was a genuine one... not an 'InMessage' girl. She was a student at UNILAG in her 300l, studying Accounting. She was a really homely girl, light spoken and very respectful.

It was not yet mid-day when her cab to my house was 10 minutes away.

She came in, looking like a queen. Jeeez! Remembering that day sends shivers down my spine. Thankfully, I leave in a building all to myself so there no prying eyes to call Mama omo SugarPapi in faraway Ireland. My security guy opened for them, she alighted and paid the cab herself. WAWU!

She came and hugged me, we held hands as I pulled her in. She had not fully entered my house when I swept her off her feet, our lips crushed together in intense canoodle. Her tongue was probing inside my mouth as mine hers. Before I could process what was happening, she went on her knees and I felt my soul leave my body.

By this time, I had still not seen her body, so I led her to my guest room and my God!

Brief history... before this day, I had always considered myself an 'ass guy'. Actually, the few guys I consider friends know me as an ass guy. I loved huge melons but 'the behind' gets me most of the time.

Dear NLers, this girl's bossoms where neither ginormous nor small. They were just the perfect size and they stood! My God they stood! Firmly in my face, begging, begging to be...

I'm a 39yo guy and I confess that I have never experienced sex like that till that day! She was so sensual, so soft, no rush, no wrong. She mounted and rode me that day till I came. It has never ever happened before... not even with my partner and my she can f*ck!

It took every fiber of my being not to cry like a child as she rode me with ease and finesse. It was not that type of riding where the girl tries to burst your kidneys or emasculate you. It was focused on just my shaft and its cap. At some point, I was afraid I will pass out.

I had to quickly pull her off me before I pass out.

We ordered some take out, went at it three more times and around 8pm she was on a ride home. I told her to send me her account for me to send her something for the weekend. She out rightly refused and also refused me paying for her transport. WTH?! Abi na mami water tins?

Well it's been three months now and I can't seem to let her go. I have never experienced sex the way she does it. I confess that I may be catching actual feelings for her. I see myself jealous when she receives a call from her male counterparts, she once showed me a video she made with her ex. I was so angry. When she noticed my demeanour, she came, sat on my naked groin and whispered in my ears - "he is in the past, THE PAST".

I have to come voice out my predicament because she is now taking space in my heart. I can't do this to my family.

Guys, how do I 'divorce' this girl?

Another wannabe novelist. good job

Daniel058:
As a humble upcoming billionaire,I would like to marry a young tall beautiful lady with flat tummy

Even poor men marry girls with flat tommy. You don't need billions before you learn to toast and date the girl of your dreams.

Righteousness2:
What a Pathetic and Unfortunate way to Depart!
Sexual immorality has Collasped, Destroyed and killed so many Glorious Destinies...

Hear this! No Prayer on Earth can Change the Eternal Destination of a Man/ woman who dies in act Immorality. Don't waste your RIP!

Run from Immorality!
Run From Evil! Run Fro Sin!
Embrace Holiness and Righteousness that comes through JESUS Christ..

As a Christian, you should know not to judge. How do you know they are not married or have you confirmed what killed them. Fake Christians everywhere.

Horus:
White-on-White Crime: When White people attack their own. The White people killed many Africans, Native Americans and Aboriginal Australians. Let them kill each other in plenty. The world is in a bad place because of them

You are wrong. the world is in a better place and the best place it has ever been because of white people.
Who stopped slavery?
Who stopped the native Americans from plucking out the hearts of men for their Gods?
Who improved science and launched us into the modern world.
Global poverty has continued to reduce.
Human rights as we know it today came from the west.
The whites are not perfect but they have done more for the furtherance of the human race in the last thousand years than any other race.
Again, you are wrong, by all known indices, the world is a better place than ever before.

Quitam:
It's unquantifiable, although it should be better than the current situation. Ask yourself what will PH, Warri, Benin and Uyo look like without oil money?
For me, the major problem of Niger Delta is sheer greed especially by the leaders(governors, kings,...). Everybody want for himself only

You miss the big picture, have you ever visited the creeks? Port Harcourt was already the 2nd biggest port in Nigeria before oil and one of the best cities in the 60s hence the name garden city as with Calaba. Oil has not been a blessing to the Niger delta. Rivers are polluted. Have you ever visited Ogoni land? Do you know the suffering of the people? Please you need to travel to see what oil has caused.
The Niger Delta is one of the biggest deltas in the world with wonderful biodiversity. Oil has destroyed all that.

Hi there,
I travel a lot so I don't get to watch many matches hence I would love to know the best places to watch the matches live on the internet for free

Quitam:
Great comeback. If the people around that place refuse to allow the project progress, it's a 2-0. They won't get the forecasted economic boost and it'll be difficult to get reputable investors like Shell to come

how much economic boost has the Niger Delta gotten all these years from oil.

Ugaboy:
When a man talks too much, he looses his self respect...Reno will loose it all.

I'm not into politics...don't mention me over defending any politicians...but it pertinent to say the truth.

Reno needs mental cleansing and rehabilitation

You are obviously into poiltics. Be a man and own up, no one would beat you.

Loverofpeace:
Good evening nairalanders I have a little challenge I am facing in my workplace at the moment and I am suspecting my boss to be responsible,I started working in this new company December last year it's a a real estate company,but the office were I work in particular we run a pos there too,so I when I come to work in the morning I first go to my bosses place to collect cash for customers withdrawal.


I am a type of person that barely misplace my money or phone,these two things are very important to me so I am very careful with them,but since I started working in this company it has being a different case,there is no week I don't loose up to 6000 from the pos money I will try all my best to trace the money with the machine transaction history but I will never trace how the money went ,and the most painful part is that I usually pay the depths with my salary so end of the month I usually go with half of my salary as a result of debt.
There are 3 reasons why I suspect my boss,no one the first month I started work a friend of mine told me that he doesn't like my boss,that he looks diabolic to him I laugh and told him to stop being too supersticous because I don't believe such things he told me his instincts don't disappoint him.
Secondly there was a day I borrowed money from my boss I told him I want to buy some stuff that I am broke at the moment ,since I have worked half of the month I need a little change from my salary I only requested 10k,after thinking hard for about 10 minutes he gave me the money,actually I wanted to use the money to pay a loan app I was owing so I payed 5k and kept the remaining 5k to get a t-shirt the following day ,I put the money inside my deep pocket and went to work in the morning even when I was on the road I check my pocket and the money was there,did you know immediately I got to my shop I swept the floor of my shop and tidied the whole place,as I was about to leave for the market to my surprise I deep my hand inside my pocket and the money was gone,I searched evety nook and cranny of the shop i didn't see the money,I just laughed and shook my head.

Thirdly, there are two workers my boss just employed because we have up to three branches in my area,one is a girl and one is a boy,the girl seem to like me dlso much she always like telling me how the work is going for her she usually tells me about every issue she has with my boss, did you know this girl has lost up to 20k in the pos money in just one month of work?..
One day I went to our head office to check our debt book because we always have a book we all money we borrowed from boss plus or shortages are recorded did you know this two new workers have lost more than their salaries,I went through the boys record I saw ,5k,3k,4k etc there is no day this guy doesn't loose money I usually blame myself for all my mistakes until I saw that I am not the only one.now the girl has stopped work.

Pls nairalanders,I am tired of working for people I want to quit start up my own biz but capital is the problem if I can get up to 100k between now till May I will start up my own biz ,can someone just help me with a good idea on how to make money online because I don't always lack data here in the office you contributions will be appreciated thanks .

You are obviously the kind of person that blames everything on others. You need to grow up and take responsibility. Your boss is not responsible for your carelessness and incompetence. And trust me, the average Nigerian pastor would tell you what you want to hear. They would tell you that your boss is a cultist or a witch. Get a grip of your life bro.

Sex is used as a tool or a weapon by the weaker to negotiate with the stronger. Because men are mostly richer and basically men mostly have sex with women lower in the social ladder, they are not able to use sex as a tool.
So basically, a woman can get you to promise stuff in exchange for sex or as a reward for good sex.

Southernigbo:
They turn young good decent girls to spoilt ones and leave them to face the complex world with their already defiled and sex hungry bodies. Every now and then u see sex hungry girls looking at innocent men expecting such men to demand sex from them as if every man is as bad as the ones who spoilt them in the first place!
They grow up believing that men are all the same.

I am sorry but you are not making much sensense here.
How do guys turn girls into sex machines?
In case you don't know, both men and women desire and enjoy sex.
No body is turning anyone into anything.
It is human nature to desire sex, both in men and women.
Now if men turn women into sex machines, who turns men into sex machines?
Again you claim the victims are young decent girls. If these girls are the decent ones, how come they agreed to having sex with these dangerous men? Or were they forced?

Righteousness2:
This war is bigger than just Russia -Ukraine.

The Bear(Russia) and the Red Dragon (China) are set to unseat and take on the Sleeping Giant ( Nomerica) Financially, Economically, Warfare and so on.

Like I said before, the World is being set for major Wars across the Planet. Ukraine is just a Sacrifical lamb to kick it off.

Let no one Deceive you! These are Endtimes Events that Signals the RAPTURE, the Great Tribulation and the Second Coming of JESUS Christ.

To avoid stories that touch the Heart, Take your relationship with JESUS Christ very Serious . The Rapture is soooooooo Close.

They that Have Ears to Hear! Let them Hear..

Another false prophet.

PENNYSWAP:
Shallow minded onliners will start calling him names because they are too naive to comprehend the vital points Reno is trying to buttress .

Woman’s wickedness man is giving another man’s child to another

Secondly most nairalanders haha been brainwashed by Propaganda news network that’s calling Ukrain Russia conflict a world war. When a comedian is your president , Ukrain will happen

You are a negative soul. In just 4 sentences, see your choice of words; Shallow minded, naive, Woman’s wickedness, brainwashed, all in one small post.

KingEverest:
I'm not a fanatic supporter of the West just incase, but trust me the West propaganda they learn for were Russia they

Well propaganda is propaganda and its both a weapon of war and a tool of government.

KingEverest:
Russia and propaganda, I guess we should call it a dance or a ball, Putin said he's trying to free the good people of Ukraine from tyranny, drug taking, neo-nazis zelensky government, but the same people he's trying to free are fleeing, the ones staying are fighting against Russia, Russia and propaganda are 5&6

I don't not support the invasion but then propoganda is a weapon and the western world especially the US media are experts.
They told us that Iraq has nuclear weapons.
The called the January 6th riot an insurrection.
The called the truckers protest in Canada an insurrection.
The claimed the Hunter Biden laptop story was false.

Jostoman:
the support the EU are giving to Ukraine now is the best for now. You people want world war to start.

Did you learn anything from the last world war?
The allied forces continued to pamper and negotiate with Hitler. Don't fool yourself, Bullies like Putin only react to power. Never pamper the devil.
Why do you think Putin chose this time to attack? Its because he saw Biden's weakness in Afghanistan and he knew there would be no consiquences if he invaded.
If Ukraine was well defended, he would never have attacked. He knows western leaders have become so weak.

Kingpin1000:
Putin was a strong man in the Russian secret police.
Putin has seen bad things and done very bad things.
We know Ukraine will bend and they will negotiate with Russia. I see the invasion coming to an end on a round table.
The Ukrainians now know who to call friends.
My greatest lesson learnt so far is that any friend that cannot help you in times of need should be cut iff. I will start calling my friends and give them the new update... my friends too plenty but na only few be paddy men.

The lesson here is. Don't expect anything to be given to you. Learn to take it on your own. Ukraine expected too much from the west and they had Nothing to give in return.
Russia is the gas station of the west. Like them or hate them, you still need their oil.
Ukraine should have developed it's potentials in agriculture, uranium, steel and shale oil, then they could have bought the weapons needed to defend themselves and their friends would be prepared to do more for them.

oldtruth:
Can't you guys just sit down and think for a minute? Now look at it from this perspective, If EU had earlier supplied them with weapons how do you think they will look?

Is this what you mean by thinking?
Do you think Putin would start a fight with a strong army?
If Ukraine had a strong military, Putin wouldn't feel encouraged to fight.
He is fighting because he knows he would win in less than a month.
The EU and the US showed great stupidity and weakness.
They clearly learnt nothing from ww2.
Show of strength would put off the bully

Igbofam:
https://www.wsj.com/livecoverage/russia-ukraine-latest-news-2022-02-26/card/RsvTAr5xRh7kjDaPA0QJ

They waited until the war began and Russia invaded. If the people of Ukraine had these weapons before the war Putin would not have invaded.

bizhop01:
Trump the empty vessel Russia is not Iran

Russia was quiet and well behaved during Trumps 4 years presidency. He clearly has the bragging rights.

smallsmall:
Trump is just a scallywag who likes to take advantage of the misfortune of others.
I dont attach any ounce of weight ot his Words.

This Russia issue did not start today, it is more than 8yrs old, at least in the recent times.
Was it not this same Trump that was Peddling Influence for Weapons with Ukraine?
Revolting Criminal like Trump.

The issue with Crimea began 8 years ago as you say. It was during Obama's presidency. Putin annexed Crimea and the US did nothing. Then Trump came and for 4 years Russia was quiet until now under Biden's presidency. The only person who peddled influence in Ukraine is Biden. He got a judge sacked who was investigating the company his son worked for. I am sure you know nothing about hunter Biden and his many deals

tillaman:
Trump has been gobbling on putin’s Balls since inception
He speaks so highly of Putin, probably the Russian hackers really played a important role in getting him into that whitehouse

I don't know the source of your fake news but under Bush, Putin invaded Georgia under Obama, he harnessed Crimea, Under Trump Putin was quiet. Now under Biden he has invaded Ukraine.
If that is what it means to be Putin puppet then I agree with you.

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