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freecocoa:
Ofcourse I get your point but then, something needs to be done about the men, otherwise things will only get worse. I bet you that, most said cases of women passing off another man’s child on their hubby, had something to do with how irresponsible said hubby is/was, as the case may be.

I concur
Your assertions are on the mark.

However, I'll state that a good percentage of these women knew the birth fathers were not ready to marry them or accept the child, for whatever reason. But they went along hoping he'll change or be pressurised through friends, family members or via Social Media.


I believe intuition is a woman's great friend as ambitious doggedness is a man's.

These women "knew" but felt they will be able to "sort" themselves out.. Which was done by deceit.

The years of deceit and treachery is often the painful part to the wronged man... Not the "initial" mistake!!

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Sirpaul:
so far he is not into drugs,robbery,yahoo all manner of crimes..... I support that....

at least that would put food on the table rather than calling one uncle up and down. some uncles can frustrate your life ehn..

I rest my case

Hopefully with some diligence, he can open a little eatery with nifty packaging

Don't despise the days of little beginnings.. Better things are o on the way to the top



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RIP young miss

May your killers be brought to justice



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freecocoa:
If only men were the ones who get pregnant, then 99% of kids wouldn’t be their mum’s.

Seriously, with how useless most Nigerian men are, it’s hard to feel sorry for them, mschew!

2 wrongs don't make a right.

Women remain the main moral compass of a society, if that is lost, a shipwreck is inevitable!!!

Do good not for the kudos but it's good to be GOOD!!



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Amberon:
Those figures are obviously exaggerated but I think men should take paternity tests.

Those figures were arrived at after due research but conjured up from thin air!!!



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frenzyduchess:
thats not entirely true. So you think the man pays for everything?, have you been to welfare before ?, do you know some judges recommend as low as 3,500 naira for monthly upkeep of a child?, only SMA gold alone costs 2500 if not more and that might last for at most a week.

Honestly, go out more and get more info before you speculate . And if we are to quantify other things a mother does for her child and compare it with just the money the man claims to bring, I am sure that of the woman will be more,except you are basing "the so called man" on just wizkid alone and not other numerous cases of deadbeat dads littering the entire country.

That is why I said earlier that you dont support blindly unaware of the ripple effect it will have. if a popular figure like wizkid thinks he can get away with it,do you know how many more people out there thinks it right to "money hungry hoes" by abandoning the eir kids too.

This should also serve as a deterent to those girls thinking their baby-making abilities will always guarantee a decent upkeep...
Make them go work and be self-sustaining...

Do you see Linda dragging future child support with Baby J's father... Now that's true feminism!!!



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frenzyduchess:
so in your mind ,you think a grandma will be the best person to take care of a child. Also I think the examples you gave are far from being like your wizkid,have you seen how timaya treats his kids? Also olamide is marrying his baby mama. Which means your wizkid is just an iresponsible sperm depositor . His inability to make a good judgment every time he deposits his sperm speaks volume of the kind of person he is,after all,likes attract likes . And the way you passionately defend him,... .Anyway have a nice day.

I read with interest the argument you've presented.

Blame has to be levelled at both parties.
Binta herself has acknowledged receipt of some monies. Her grouse is the amount.



I find it grossly inaccurate and a disservice to tag both Binta and Shola together.... There's a difference, a great difference!!

Wiz has gone to concert with Boluwatife.
Shola's story is very different to Binta's and should be treated differently, from SM stories.
He definitely acknowledges the child. He may not spend as much time with the young man due to his commitments but there's some love there.

Binta however was a groupie, a career babymama, whose initial target was a popular ? rich SM entrepreneur's brother but swapped over unfortunately to Wiz.

His relationship with Jada was initially business related before other feelings came along.
He definitely will relate to these women based on the relationship etiology.





This doesn't absolve him of his duties though.
But it takes 2 to make a baby... Its not the man's onus to put all the money down.
How many women are working, keeping the homefront and still showing love and attention to their children?? Even the married ones who have to juggle a load of things..

Binta thinking she's got a Atm card to an easier lifestyle, should have a rethink!!

It was her choice to fall pregnant and keep the baby. She lives in America where contraception is readily available.. She was no novice either, having had a previous child. But she was keen to be a sperm-recipient!!!


So I find irritating, the public need to "saintify" this Binta woman when her attitude and actions have been all shades of wrong from day 1. It sends the wrong messages to our young women..





The Maga-Mugu theory becomes a national code. Slay Queen syndrome is another to worry over. Transactional s... e... x becomes extremely normal..



Yes, the men should zip up or live up to their responsibilities too. But women are traditionally the more vulnerable ones. These are the ones that need preventative help.


And its fundamental that in order to achieve a good national welfare, having a good family welfare which can rapidly be instituted by properly trained and enabled women is a definite MUST!



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How many things were distributed?? ..

All the pictures would indicate 2 or so wheelchairs and some crutches after much fun fare.

Please clarify in the report!!


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Not hating

Her face has changed.. Expect some change thanks to hormones..

But this is really major!!




Happy birthday and congrats on your son, surrogate or natural!!

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Are they back together

I'd like to know who holds the remaining 68.9% shares

Who are the majority shareholders??

And why was this done in a seemingly hush-hush manner, strategically now.


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Good stuff..
Wonder how extensive their coverage is..
And what Government initiatives it's linked through.



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BiggyB242:
Don't blame her, she was just smart. This is what we call entrepreneurship, the lady doing all the work (tailor) earns just 1500 while the seller makes over 10,000, work smart not hard. That's a lesson we should all learn.

There is the popular northern lady that has made a fortune from selling those concoction sold by Hausa by packaging it, can't remember her name.

I don't think that's her main selling point.. That's just on the side


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JustCare:
Cool
Ambode should keep working and make sure he picks the governorship form from any party at all. We Lagosians ain't stupid. This guy has achieved in four years what Fashola couldn't achieve in 8 years.

Tinubu may have his tricks but he still relies on the vote of the masses. The fate of 40 million Lagosians can't be sealed by a group of corrupt "mandate group" who we barely know their names. That's absurd, this is not growth and very unhealthy to democracy.

There's nothing honorable about being a coward, if he's begged Tinubu,chased him from from one state to another, one occasion to another, sheded tears like a nursery one baby and yet Tinubu has refused to have a change of mind then I urge him to take a manly step, put up a fight like never before. His children would be happy for him, sane Lagosians would be happy for him and his name will go down in the annals of history for it

When a warrior was born in a particular territory, another was born at the other side.

As is always the case, creating the infrastructure to engage grassroots effectively takes money and a great degree of craftiness..

That's Ambode's Achilles heel.

Except a very dynamic campaign manager starts a grassroot movement via Social media to garner financial support NOW!

Let pple put their money behind the support. Yes austerity isn't helping, let them volunteer services alternatively!!

This saves the govt coffers being emptied to fund a campaign.


Different programs can be designed and delivered at timely intervals, to maintain the attention on Ambode's achievements and future plans, not any political party.

I acknowledge its a rough road to travel on, but well worth it due to the legacies it bequeaths to the forthcoming generation.

This is the civic reawakening!!
We the electorate determine the way forward, rather than some few people with selfish interests.



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Amberon:
Wether it is the 100th child, the father is required by LAW to pay child support and contribute to the child's overall well being if he earns better than the mom.
If wizkid lived in America, then he would be required by LAW to also spend quality time with the kid on weekends.

Not arguing the above with you...

I made mention earlier that my sympathy lies with the children...


However it doesn't exonerate the very despicable actions of a very desperate uncouth woman!!

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Amberon:
Gosh! Do you guys not understand that she lives in America? Who would she leave her kid for to go and work? Or you think you have full time housemaids in America? Even the few you have , do you know how expensive they are? If she decides to enrol the child in a creche which I think she's done already, do you know how expensive that is ?

Why didn't she think of all the above and use some contraception at the time..

If the tabloids/glossies are to be believed, she made her intention of wanting his kid prior to the activity... That makes her a culpable party not a hapless victim as she would like to portray: intention to manipulate to her advantage!!

Correct me please, but this is her 2nd child. isn't it: so no naïveté claims there ...***stylishly she don turn am to business.. ATM machine****

I feel sorry for the children..
The adults all need to be told off.


Shola keep your cool. You are way ahead of this league!!
Bolutife will bless you soon enough for not getting muddled in all this tasteless display.







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marv1:
Eyaaas. That's what you get when you open your legs for celebs to come in and out freely without common sense. At least it would teach you since that not all that glitters is gold.

Well said..

Kcee will look at this drama and thank his good fortune...

I wonder what her other baby daddy is up to..

Tufiakwa!!!


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wink2015:
The death of the Major General reminds me of the death of an Ijaw born senior naval officer by name Admiral Ikoli in Lagos in 2017.

http://sunnewsonline.com/how-admiral-ikoli-died-in-lagos-home-police/

Definitely has similar trends

Both men were introverts, operated without the usual fanfare and held portfolios in sensitive offices.

Alkali's death was no roadside killing or kidnap.. This was a "job" with potential witnesses killed as well..

May the souls of the departed r.i.p



Looks like names are being ticked off a list

Wonder who is next??


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akdjr:
Imagine if wizkid was not a superstar. This babe will call WizKid small boy.

He won't be in her vicinity or radar..

Have you heard of any preggie woman calling out some broke-assed man on SM..
They don't forget contraception when they are with men with no "starry" future, no matter how good the bedmatics may be..


Behaviours like this...
It just gives women a bad tag



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This lady better mellow...
Boy go carry himself find papa before age 18





BTW, why u dey ask for maintenance if he no be part of family

Hogwash if I ever saw any


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bigtt76:
Ok.

Madam, make uno vex ooo..

Its just that the poor chap has just discovered the deceit..... After a 17 months + 9 months pregnancy time...

And then to ask him to accept responsibility, at a time like this --- is like placing a gunpowder keg near a light source...
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Intwestinnn..

Always looked at 0-60 figs..
Need to look at the other figs

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citizenY:
So there will be cross examination after judgment has been passed. You try.

I thought I read wrong...

? 7 weeks for possession and intention to distribute...for the citizen - a non-juve


I'm certain the law would have been meted out differently if Osi was in the dock.


What message is being passed across....


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drkass:
I yam still confuse with those pictures " clones abi they kept repeating same picture with different names" even the photographer self no try, please wash that suit before another person use it cos the recycling is too much. Gbam!!!

Gbammmm..
Thought it was commendable to recycle.....
But hair pieces , jacket and make up...
erhmmm, a bit OTT.. ..



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bigtt76:
Exactly! For the love of the child, he shouldn't let go. He should fight to keep her if no guy showed up. It would traumatize the baby when she's old enough to under why no father in her life.

What arrant rubbish are you uttering...

Wetin concern him

Let the mama go find the papa..



Your justification regarding the child's emotional state is baseless...
Should relationships be based on deceit??


When issues arise in the future, na you couch- surfers agony aunts/uncles that will rise and blame him, asking why he didn't move on with his life and start afresh with someone else.



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Association of flexible principle-less justifiers, biko


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seborrhic:
Story.
The only reason Kemi resigned is because she I'd a British citizen too and the forgery would have had an adverse effect on her when she travels back to Britain.It has nothing to do with this goverment.
She knows and must have been adviced that this government would last at most another 4years,of which she isn't sure of being in the cabinet again,but her long term future in the UK and her family could be jeopardized if she doesn't admit to the forgery, only that she should blame it on her naivety.
Please when will she be charged to court?

As a naturalized citizen, yes there may be problems, but jurisdictions and or mitigating factors may play a part here..

As a national, its not an issue.



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Alexreports with his ?sanitizing bus-corner exposés.


Half-baked irrelevant noise.

Reminds me of musicians that hail different clients depending on their "spraying" power.


Gossip mags or blogs at least state things as they are.... Not trump up some goodwill gestures as some massive community development projects....


I best stop.... Where is that popcorn, for crying out loud!!





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Millenniumlady:
No man will try that pop with me...... I hope you know that all guys are not the same

Ma'am



The oil wey you work hard for, go Neva finish for house..
The one wey you borrow, steal nor dey last...
Na disgrace, trouble upon trouble you go dey find there....
Success using that format is short lived



If the man is able to keep his wealth, despite your incessant demands, na other Otukpo orisirisi you'll be battling.. Vultures have a way of congregating and fighting each other sometimes when the carcass has nothing nutritional to offer. Several stories abide on the net to serve as examples.




In other words create your world and not look for someone to piggyback on..




Boys, men are getting smarter, nobody wants a liability as a wife or liability-in-law... Eyes are opening despite intensive manipulation whether original or efo-induced!!!




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As much as Wiz has to deal with the money drama, Binta is stuck with a little boy who will constantly remind her of a night(s) of indiscretion and would not hesitate to throw in her face on a regular basis, the circumstances of his birth mired with his father unwillingness to accept his paternity but also his mother's alarming uncouthness!!
..particularly during those hormone-fuelled years of teenage angst!!

Now that's emotional and moral pressure!!

In today's world and pressures, that's heartbreaking for this child
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My appeal to Shola...
You've done well so far staying out of drama..
Keep it that way..

Don't go joining forces in a manner that will open you up to ridicule for a little change,!!!
Not worth it...so not worth it


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Like durh

Fathia me likey

The machinery is being put in place
Watching..



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She needs more lessons from Tonto D!!



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