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chagga: Have been married for a about 5 months now and have been finding it hard to make love to my wife cause the urge is not even there. Before we got married , the reverse has been the case . I have been really sexually active even with my wife. I just dont know what's happening to me its ruining my marriage and something needs to be done fast

I noticed you did not say 'not able to get it up' which seems to be what most are diagnosing here but rather I guess the attraction to do so copulate.

Firstly I would recommend going back to the drawing board and get right those things that got her body desirable to you in the first place. All those things you appreciated in her in the first place. The togetherness should be revisited while not thinking about sex or the stress that is generating in your body at the moment. By the time the stress wanes away and you appreciate your wife as a person and friend you once cared to always be with, your 'John Thomas' is ssoon to start receiving signals and direction again.

However, discard the advice of friend that might tell you to find solace in the arms of other girl. Just think about a lifetime of happiness together you might end up destroying.

Finally, thrusting is not the only part of love making is it? Get the whole thing right and you will have a fulfilled sexual life as well for your wifey and yourself (She comes first). Cheers

One thing though no one can take away from Seun is the fact that he at a time when not much was being done positively to the nigerian internet image, he actually did something. A lot were sleep walking, day dreaming of their shoulda-coulda-woulda project like yahoo, google and more recently facebook and are yet to lift a finger.

Many more minds are yet to make their impact on the web space but this one I know has done something remarkable.

Looking forward to nairaland's 1 millionth member Seun. Kudos awe.

Each post could have a 'X' image button that deletes that post from the db

ujchief: I would have asked the mod to ban u

That would be something to laugh about.

Check out your own PC Automatic Windows Updates as well as chat apps like digsby

@seun. Ma take e personal

*dhtml:
I use nairaland for different things:
- Doing business
- Meeting other business people (dual core et al)
- Making friends
- Reading news and events in Nigeria and its environs
- Toasting babes
- Playing pranks
- Learning new stuffs from other intelligent people
- Disturbing seun & mukina2
- Assisting other developers
- Spamming the boards (just for the fun of it)
- Rigging votes (i know that is bad, but i cant help it)
- Pirating usernames
- Frustrating some idiots
- Relieving boredom
- Relieving boredom
- Relieving boredom
- Relieving boredom
- Relieving boredom

(In no particular order*)

And so many others. . . . .

I can vouch on that, no be lie.

One thing is nairaland is a wonderful field to play, laze, work and meet with people of like and oppositely unlike minds. A world of its own or do i say, a world of our own and I do give oluwaseun the kudos of taking on the initiative. 3 gbosas! The guy try talk am.

*dhtml:
All these people that are saying burn down the biatch na lie them dey lie - even me sef no fit carry out that threat -
because (even if i can burn it down) and i do - my income from web development projects will crash dramatically - and i may have to return to the old drawing board!!

Business man!

Try instantexchangers.net. the guy seems pretty good. Never seen him before but his services are fast. I always sent money via online transfer so I do not need to queue at the banking halls

I believe you are yet to update your domain name account to possess the nameservers of lagos host. While managing your domain with your domain registrars edit your name servers to something like ns1.lagoshost.com and ns2.lagoshost.com (not sure if they are the correct ones, contact lagoshost to give you the actual ones).

Free world Seun. You could make a 'bashed' plugin that tags the user similar to the 'banned' tag. Making the profile image blurred would make it more hilarious.

If you were to fight a war against an enemy with an effective super weapon at only the locations that made you fail in the last battle, it makes sense to gain an upper hand over the weapon and then announcing a specific day of attack. Surely, your enemy gets all locations the super weapon and waits for you to attack. The key to a possibility of bringing down the net could be a glitch in Anycast itself that has now being known to Anonymous and they are cornering the big boys to install Anycast on all their servers. Smart thinking if this is their plan. Just my own two dimes.

*dhtml:
The other 10k job i did aside www.lasumsa.org is www.emeraldaccessories.com (for my very lovely GF )

Sweetie darling!

yawa-ti-de:
2) Why is the url inside the php script block?

I guess it is a reference to the page contents. @poster, you probably need to give a few more details.

It was a 15k site I started with then and I did learn a lot on the job though troublesome. Looking back now I can say it was worth it.

guru01:
This is a joking room, this is a serious mess on the table.
How can this 10k problem be solved?

If you are in this line of business for yourself, you need to have another business to shock it with so you can do shakara if the 10k guys come along. History has it that those low bidding clients are the most troublesome as well as greedy shoppers. Decide your pricing before collecting any job. Break free dear.

Wow! The good old bling bling. My bet is the ringed ones top the charts over all adornment types. More money needed for bachelorhood status change. My clients' bill just went up. Abi dhtml?

yawa-ti-de:
I guess you are still a newbie wen it comes to women.   

@yawa, I prefer to be newbie than put myself in trouble with issue wey no reach my level. Dhtml will say it is true. I was referring to what is the weakness of the female gender. P.S - edited by self duh! Back once again to my question. So yawa-ti-de, what brings women down?

yawa-ti-de:
As they say, there are 2 things that will certainly bring down a man: money and "that thing"

Woman nko? 411 access required

*dhtml:
*caramba* i dont wear helmet make head no swell burst.

Lol. Anyway sha, you truly deserve a much more credit. Let's give honour to whom it is due. More Aboniki to your chin.

yawa-ti-de:
2) I will make a N10K bet with anyone on here that the site was done for N10K 

ROTFLOL in Afghanistan.

He might not know this but I have also in time past learnt a lot from dhtml on NL. (someone hold a pin just in case he has an easily inflatable head). He is just - good. Honestly

Still illegal dear.

*dhtml:
And there is subsidy. . . .

good point.

If I am right, I believe you are trying to create a facebook element where a user can comment on a friend's status and every other person associated with this friend can receive the update. Right or wrong?

Every client has the right to renegotiate and so do you. If(Selling price == Buying price) {trade_takes_place();}

In line with yawa, there have been cases of clients complaining of high prices only to give the job out at an higher price for a lower grade result. Guess the other bidder had sweet words.

Okay

@pc guru, I don't have that much time. I still have an over 4yrs project lying down on my pc (naruto no gree). However, my partner here is building a blog cms while I have one I am working on as well. If a job is not in my line of already planned projects and I have to leave things for it, I will surely bill for it. But let's look at this a minute, we have cms available both free and paid ones which would suit my client's needs. If there is a specific request for any reason at all that I must not use any available script which would take me time and effort to finish, then that means Easter 2012 would still have me spending that money. I no go look Uche face at all. What is my masquerade doing that will make it say it would not dance. That's why we work - to make da money. Abi na.

@pc guru. Abeg face your pc. Stay with topic

I agree with you as long as he has no kasala with the FILE array elements while uploading. Let's hope he gets the move_uploaded_file function right.

As I have never used blob, you could example with that format.