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OluDare01:
Says who
There's more funding for Engineering students

Still searching though

electronic:
Chemistry and Funding!!
Congrats!!

As in they seem to getting lots of funding compared to the Engineering guys

bennyann:
I meant I waited for him to ASK me back but he didn't. And I can't do that again whether mistakenly or intentional. I've moved on oo. My emotional senses have gone back to the reset settings by family and friends.

So now I don't waste time with any born again that can't talk with his mouth. I will only be a good friend to you but I won't let your manipulations work again lailai

looooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooool

Tosinex:
unhnmnn what an epistle! Bennyann, op you are doing great!

Bros, How far na??

bennyann:
He was the one who asked God for something and if truly God answered him, he should have been the one to manage the affairs of things properly in that regards. He knew I was hurt with how things started, so he should have been careful with the way he seriously communicated any story related to it.

Yes i can imagine..... Am sorry about that too

bennyann:
I don't think I'm valuable, if I was he could have summoned up courage to take me back. And you don't expect me to go back to him through the same route. Do you? That would be disaster now.

Definitely.... Not good not good at all

bennyann:
And I can't be praying such prayer now, it sounds like I would be forcing him to love me. I prefer to pray for someone whom I love and who's told me how much he loves me to love me the more. Not someone I can't pick from his statements if he does love me.

I comment my reserve

bennyann:
Besides, I waited for him to take me back but he didn't. I guess he was waiting for me to do my magic as usual it took the intervention of friends where I served and my family to bring me back to my senses.

But you said you didnt want him, Should he have forced you ni??

bennyann:
This is someone I can't even say when and how we started the relationship because he started telling everyone I was in a relationship with him just few days after I told him I loved him.

The guy felt he don hammer... He was excited about it ni..

bennyann:
I Can't go back to that again. That's not my portion. I don't just want to know I'm valuable but I want to feel it also. Is that too much to ask?

Amen.. You would get what your heart desire in Jesus name

bennyann:
I'm writing to all guys out there especially the ones who take God to be everything.. When you see a lady who loves God as you do and at the same time has all the qualities you need, please treat her as a virtuous woman she is, irrespective of your shyness, principles, introvert nature and the likes because she isn't the type to hurt your ego. Even when she does, she's hurting herself too and she knows the best thing to do not to let such repeat.

Am sure we are listening and am sure the bae too would not put ego into it and act accordingly

sonofthunder:
I feel its a little straight forward... or so I think for now.

No wahala boss...

Enjoy your day my oga

oyeludef:
waoh its really been a long time around here...u still remember my moniker.. Greetings bro.. Greetings to every child of God in the house. More grace for the walk

I still remember my oga moniker ooo..

More grace to you too sir

sonofthunder:
Pastor ke? we're all 'joint heirs' oh sons and daughters at same level (grace) in Christ...
I'm great and you?

We do not all carry the same grace oo my oga..

Its good to know you are great..

I am great too..

Enjoy..

bennyann:
It's such a sad story. I pray the one who will turn her destiny for good will locate her.

I'm so short of words but God please change her story, put songs of praise and wonderful testimony on her lips. Amen!

Amen




Well, My own shyness no reach that level abeg....

My father would be disappointed me, and i walked so many bad guys though people wonder, how am able to live such a very wonderful and Godly life even after rolling with them. When i have to talk i go talk abeg no time to check time..

These your story brought bitter sweet experience to me.

I was in that guys shoe at one point when i use to tell the lady that same statement, then one day we had these ish una mehn, the way she para eh, i was life Jeezzz wetin be dis

Una mehn, I look left and right begin, as pa guy wey i be na i no apologize straight but i had to calm her down begin speak many English, then she apologise for her for paraing me too i apologise for tortoring her head.. All in all we were good from then on, it made us stronger and better and so i refrained from making those statements too, but once in a while i use it with humor and we just laff it off..

I dont want to start picking holes how it could have managed the situation, its all in the past now. but i would make some point.

For me, the guy asked God for something and he got it, He asked God to give him a lady that would love him first, he got it, and you were the answer but you didnt like that part cos you felt it should be the other way, your way.. So you asked God to remove the love, the energy you use to ask God to remove the love, you would have ask for him to make the guy love so much that he begin to chase you up and down, dont you think its possible.

Even if you see a vision that a guy is your bobo, as in in revelation, dreams and so on. God has done is part by giving direction making happen is your own job through wisdom managing situations,, the person character and the likes. But ego on our parts usually deny us for so many things.

Especially if we have been in relationship where we felt we were treated the wrong way, Naturally your emotions/fences are up and any small thing you react the other way, not because that is us, but because of that past experience. That is why it is very important to heal and ask God to help us heal from all previous bad experience so it does not affect the future and better ones coming.

Am pretty sure you would get your own boo very soon but you need to heal well of every previous bad experience that way when you need to talk to your friend about an attitude, you do instead of beginning to trigger unnecessary worry and attitude, mehn these guy is acting like A oo, these was how A started these guy too is following these trend, when all you need is talk to the guy like Mr Man wat all these now, i dont like these and these and these, and most times from experience love dai craze gan,you just see the guy changing cos of the lady, for me communication is very key, that why you were friends before moving to the next level so you can talk things through, if he is a Godly man, he will adjust and change.

Sorry for my epistle jawe..

let me stop here..

Enjoy your day

sonofthunder:
Yes we are... He has kept us thus far.

My pastor...

Dont leave you sheep oo..

How are you sir

nnamdiosu:
Thanks bro for checking up on us. God blews you plenty. Pls does of us who are strong should find time to pray for everyone in this group. Charlyng first, then the rest of us. Pls let's also pray for analice. For some time now my spirit has been troubled about her. Pls does anyone have her number. I haven't heard from her and need to speak to her urgently. Also henzron. Good night peeps

That my prophet...

More anointing sir...

I meet her on one thread am sure she is fine..

But we would do as instructed...

No worries she would get your mention..

Your opinion is needed here boss..

Cc: sonofthunder

https://www.nairaland.com/3784690/whats-fate-good-godly-single

Shout out to Paulopecker....

How you doing bro

its been a while around here

Hope we are all safe

CC:
Sonofthunder

Jdazzle

oyeludef

Analice007/Anas09

HananHezron

nnamdiosu

Lamasta

Nnanna4

Among others

AllforJesus7:
I had a dream last night about a lady friend. We were romancing and almost had sex in the dream but I did not succumb even though the urge was very strong to proceed after the romance and we were both naked.


When I woke up I was ruminating about the dream. Why this particular lady? Its been a very long time I saw her last.
In those days she used to disturb me then for a relationship but I did not give in for personal reason.

The surprise is that while thinking about it this morning I got a hello message from a strange number in WhatsApp. And when I checked the pics, it was this lady.

Now I'm sitting here wondering, could it be a coincidence? Or something is fishy.

cc bro temi4fash

I bow to the God who knows the end from the beginning, who is great and protects his own.

I dont believe is coincidence.. Everything/ whatever happens happens for a reason/ as is planned..

Baba has revealed what the lady is going to do to you..

What ever it is, the lady in question is going to have a negative impact on your life if you not careful.

Bro, at these junction its good to pray but wisdom is required

Stay safe bro

Let me share a story with you...

Over the weekend i was with a man, young man too but married too.

We just meet and clicked immediately and we started gisting, somehow we got to the part of marriage,life battles and all

Then he told me he meet a girl before he got married, she was every dose of a good girl, easy going, calm and all the many adjectives you can call, funnily she was a virgin too, comfortable too, ( Just so you know how good she was)

Then the bomb shell, He started going out with her, In short he was ready to marry her, But he just realized since the moment the lady got involved in his life, things just started getting hard for him and in short, his life that was all good and all started just getting unnecessarily though.

He said he had to leave her, he just gave her space cos he could not bring himself to tell her, He said the lady did not offend him. He just had to let her go. But he remained friends with her too, after sometime she dated another guy same issue the guy just left too.

said the last time he saw she was not married and she was a good girl....

Life is crazy and so unfair but then the consolation we have is that through the victory of Jesus on the cross, we make life fair to us

bennyann:
Ok. The friendship stage is the basic thing. Understood. But what if she wasn't the proud type but because the guy couldn't approach that's why they couldn't reach the basic stage?

Well, that one is in God's hands. There is nothing that can be done about that.
But then most times when a guy likes a girl and they are in the same circle, the girl/lady usually know, how they do i don't know but somehow they get to know and sometimes you see the girl giving the green light and doing all other things to make it easy for him to approach

bennyann:
Then the crossing over stage, the guy might be zoned or termed not spiritual enough. Hmmm. This is a big one.

Very big one....

bennyann:
If the guy has voiced out his interest and he was still zoned, that's OK but if he hasn't then I wouldn't call that zoning.

Sorry what is that called

Rejection??

bennyann:
And about not being spiritual, God will help us not to look at the outward activities done in church but we should be able to discern if one is aligned with God or not.

Amen

bennyann:
About the doctrinal differences I believe if one is for you, God would have prepared the person's heart so by the time you meet, doctrine wouldn't be an issue. Both will come out with a solution easily than when you're not meant to be.

Well, if both are not flexible and open to shifting grounds. But there are some beliefs that most would not change ground on or probably due to one's experience.

bennyann:
The bolded - shy and talking a lot how come? You mean talking a lot only to those who are very close to you, right? Because I'm sometimes like that.

Exactly.... Sometimes hmmmmm....

Hope you had a wonderful weekend...

poohbearie:
pls how were you able to get your transcript in FUTA PLLSS i want to get mine also. did you pay? and how long did it take. thank you

Which exactly do you want

Student copy or the one you wanna send out

Max 2 weeks i think

Student copy is 1k''

if you sending nationally 2500

International 10k

These fees excludes etranzant commission

No student copy without first sending out.

Any other question?

MZLady39:
Temi4fash,
Brother....nice to meet you & thank you for your spiritually mature & encouraging words...
The Lord still has 7,000 that have not bowed to Baal.....& you are 1 of them

Nice to meet you too sis

No need for the thanks it is what we do as brothers and sisters in Christ...

God bless you...

Continue to love yourself and enjoy God..

Baba is at work

Have a lovely weekend....

KingEbukasBlog:
I really want to know how he got the skill . If only he realizes the power he possesses .

I wont mind too...

Make i learn every abeg

bennyann:
Ok. Once we have identified the problem the solution becomes easy. So it's left for the good boys and girls to know how to wisely combine love and humility to the success of their relationship.

You don't know if you're the shy type?

Before they get to the relationship nko...

Once they handle the friendship stage well, the relationship would not be an issue cos they would already understand themselves basically

But then if the friendship is not well handled instead of progressing to the relationship he gets zoned

Its even been friends self that is major headache,

That why in school fellowship you scarcely see the good boys/ good girls dating outside their clique or comfort zone.

its either the bible coord is dating drama coord and vice versa.

For me once they cross the friendship stage to the dating/courtship am sure they would be good.

Most times they dont get to cross.. Cos the guy is usually zoned or seen as not been spiritual enough..

Sometimes even doctrinal differences causes all these issues too

@ bolded

I know am shy but i talk alot so it covers for shyness so when i tell people am shy they tend not to believe me

KingEbukasBlog:
Thanks

But people are quickly drawn to it because of the hype - it piques their interest and they'd love to pursuit it at all cost . Very detrimental

Very detrimenta?l.... Yes

Worth the hype?.. Yes it does....... Some thing very good but can be dangerous if done outside confines in which it was made for.. is definitely worth the hype

But are the information well communicated?... Nah.. Most people love it but hate the consequence

And the fusing of western culture with ours thereby causing a watering down of the age long principle has done to us more harm than good

bennyann:
It seems the way I was seeing Godly men when I opened this thread is how you see Godly ladies. Hmmm
God help us and give us the grace to enjoy each other wherever we find ourselves.

It means it boils down to pride on both sides in the eyes of each gender.

Are you a shy person?

A big Amen to the bolded.

Kind off....

@bolded

Yes it does...

Hello House,

Can anyone recommend to me a series that is worth the watch and i would learn lots of lessons from it..

Am on designated survivor

Any new blockbuster series

Thanks in advance

KingEbukasBlog:
Good response . God bless you for this .



Haaa ... but I'm okay with that being the only thing I've taught you so far . I believe it would help lots of women solve some of their marital problems. You know , women expect too much from men ; I believe the knowledge from this book will help provide the balance needed in the marriage in some areas . Balance in the sense that both parties understand what they should do and how they should go about it .



Sex is over-hyped I think . The people who believe man's purpose in life is to seek pleasure and avoid pain promote pleasure-seeking ; they make people see sexual pleasure as a priority and should be pursued at all cost . Life can be so good between a couple full of joy and happiness without sex . Imagine women being in abusive relationship because the sex is good - shallow thinking .



Sure babe

Boss,

Wonderful discuss do far and i have learnt from it.

I would say its a fallacy of hasty conclusion for you to make that statement.

Though i respect it as your opinion.

But the trick there is under-rating sex is a very dangerous thing because you can never guess how you would respond to it.

A weapon as you said that has brought down great men and a weapon the devil uses to cart away people's glory, virtues among others you call it over hyped.

Bro, i think it worth the hype, Worth the hype so that you get understand and consciously guide oneself away from falling victim.

@ the topic

Most Godly girls have meet and seen are usually very stubborn and domineering

For me, i believe the part where ladies are emotional being makes them all the same whether Godly or Ungodly

So the basic principle applies which having to the wooing and the likes, the only difference is the type and anture of the convo and among other.

What make the ungodly as we call it for the purpose of the thread is the fact that ungodly ladies usually know to make themselves available,

even if the guy is shy or nice as the case maybe, they then to understand the dynamism and get to make friends with him or encourage him

and the story continues.

@MZlady39

Whether you are 39 or 50 or 100, the major thing is you are alive enjoying God.

Don't let any body whether tongue speaking, spirit moving or any other form make you feel less.

Just forgive yourself, try and heal if you have not, and if you have be double sure you have.

Though i believe its good to share one's story, well everyone has done one or two things they are not proud about.

I believe if you dont heal properly discussing about it in the wrong circle can make begin to worry all over again

What i tell ladies who believe they have a bad past or did not chose rightly back in the days is....

That you are alive and that decision did not kill actually means God has a wonderful agenda for you life.

Accept it as who you were, made you thick, and out of it you have become a better person. the so called people saying otherwise might have contemplated suicide self.


To all the Godly ladies who are believing God for the bones of their bones and the flesh of their flesh, you would not be disappointed and those that are going through a bad marriage as a result of lack of patience i pray the lord would heal the marriage and add salt to it as he did through his servant Elisha to that bitter river.

its friday yipeeeee

sanesta:
like I said earlier, life takes unexpected twists that's beyond our comprehension. haven't you seen a bad wife that have a good man as husband?? haven't you seen??. you can agree with me that it's a settled fact that most bad girls you see around are somebody's future wife, no be ghost go marry them true or false .. note: no body prays for bad spouse, but sadly most people end up having a bad spouse, that's their fate.

Hmmmm..

Prayers, patience and understanding can change fate

*Observing*

CharlyG1:
Thank you Temi.

God bless you real good. God shall grant you your heart desires in the Name of Jesus. Amen

Amen sir

yommyk222:
like having sex with a lady in my dream

There might have been pollution and how frequent do you have these dream??

Happy Birthday to The GO of these thread.

More anointing bro

yommyk222:
Hello, My name is Samuel, I gave my life to christ early 2012 at CAC and later become depper life member in 2014, I was so passionate for the work and to the service of God and everything was going well with me in many area, financially, materially mostly spiritually, as times goes by towards 2015 ending I invested in one online business that make me to loss almost everything I have gathered, I start blaming God for it, during the business there is some money I try to borrow promise to pay then back in short period of time. when I an unable to repay and could not face then anymore I relocate from ondo state to akwa ibom maybe things would get better. but to cut the long story short, many failure start arise in academic, financial and now began with spiritual, firstly I quit my quite time, I don't do weekly fasting again, I find it difficult to pray when I wakeup in the morning, I dont go to weekly service anymore only Sunday service now the worst part is that I don't fell like going to Sunday service again I don't attend sunday service more than 6 times since this year has began nd now i start doing things I hate to do before like listen to worldly music, lying, watching BLUE film has become my habit, thinking of visit ASHAWO house which I have never do in my entire life before even resisting my friend that do it. now I feel helpless and restless don't know were to start again. Non of my pastor is aware of my backsliding they only discover I don't attend service like before and I also notice that the worst of this happen immediately after my BAPTISM , please help want should I do but this thing always come to my mind that as far as I m broke I can not serve God willing heartedly.
Note: any error you find in my English don't blame me because I have stop my education since 20111 immediately after my jss3 exam because there is no money to continue and no one is ready to help since the death of my father. Your advice and help is welcome

When did you notice the trend??

Can you try and remember the kinda dream you had at that time??

rinw:
Hello Good people,

please I need $75 to pay WES for 'Verification Request' to be sent via International Express.

please kindly quote me if you have dollar for sale. Thanks

Which one is verification request again

wmcid:
Thanks for your reply sir.

Am not married. Am still single

Incubation of new idea or something new generally..

@ Tjahjosh

More grace.

That spiritual marriage you just dropped is a very bad stuff. Its usually affect the ladies more.

I have seen case where a lady battle it for more 10 years from one mountain and deliverance to another.

Another peculiar thing about it, is that they are from the waters, marine kingdom.

Sometimes the host could experience some pressing down in theor sleep like they are gonna choke.

Also, they are different categories, and most times its ladies that suffer from the spirit the more, but that does not mean men don't have but more rampant woth the ladies

Those things are so bad that they xan make a lady fo through life without a guy saying hello to them, and if a guy tries it and the guy if not well equipped they could take his life depending on the category of spiritual spouse. A person cannot be a queen of the coast be married or infiltrated by the queen of the coast and you wanna date her, you must be joking.

Which makes them very stubborn, even after they have been cast out, if the host does not maintain a minimum level of fire, mehn the case just got complicated.

But I usually encourage the host never to give up.

Shalom

I pray that God would deliver anyone in these problem, innthe name of Jesus