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Mobsync:
Would have loved to. But it is not a one-way stuff. I will need to write a detailed article since my responses are usually dependent on the lady's response. And I do'n't think I want to type something that long.

LagosismyHome:
There are a couple of links compiled

https://www.dropbox.com/s/tkt7zz6y583qhna/APPROVED_VISAS_Part_7.pdf?dl=0

https://www.dropbox.com/s/dawoicv7y9cofif/COMPILED%20VISA%20TRANSCRIPT%20Part%2011%20-%20Up%20to%20Pg%20331.docx?dl=0

https://www.dropbox.com/sh/vv0a0sfgaysztiq/AADbiS4UG7q57b0qcFPjaPkna?dl=0

link to delayed visa transcript

https://www.dropbox.com/s/3nq0ft9sr52twe7/DELAYED_VISAS_PART_7.pdf?dl=0

Mobsync:
I've been following the asewo thread for almost three years -- followed it from the old thread to the new one. I saw it evolve from just sharing contacts and sexacapades to more sensible discussions (even though numbers and sexacapades are still shared), HIV awareness and the likes. In fact, at this moment, they're debating over whether pussy is gold.

That said, regarding the first bolded: it isn't that you won't ask the lady out. You'll ask her out but not directly or immediately. You see, regarding those two ladies I talked about earlier, I left one part out. The first one that told me she was thinking about my proposal (after accepting), told me something when I reminded her that she had earlier accepted. She said "Hope you know you are not the only one asking?"

That line is true with most ladies. In today's society, even the ugly ones get hit on several times a day. Now imagine how many times the semi-beautiful ones get hit on. Not to talk of the beautiful ones. In fact, there are some categories of ladies that these drills won't work on, no matter how you do it. One of this category of ladies are the slay queens. I mean, the real and hardened slay queens, not the 500 naira tight wearing broke girls claiming slay queens these days.

Most ladies are used to hearing the same thing. "Tell me about yourself," "have you eaten," "I love you," "I see my children in you," "Can you be my gf," "Can I get your number," Let me introduce myself to you" and so on that they have gotten tired. The whole agenda is how to be different.

In fact, I have a strategy that I use to chat ladies up on Facebook and get their numbers in ten minutes or less (if they're quick in replying) and it works 85% of the time. I don't follow the useless strategy that most guys use. They say "hi," she replies, then they ask whether she has eaten. Thereafter, they tell her to tell them about herself. Ladies black out from these kind of chats and I would too if I were a lady.

The major idea of this thread is "how not to give a lady the upper hand (your balls) in a relationship." You as the man should call the shots and not the lady. The moment she starts calling the shots, you'll run into problems. I allowed those two ladies call the shot for sometime and I ultimately regretted. I just did not allow them punch me into the maga zone. The one that told me she was still thinking about my proposal was even telling me to take her to "Dominos."

Another night, I called her and she started talking to me rudely. I hurriedly cut the call and didn't call or chat with her for some days. She later chatted me up and apologized. The first thing she asks me whenever I call is why I haven't been calling -- irrespective of when the last time I called her. I always ask her why she herself doesn't call and she says she doesn't have airtime. I tell her I also didn't have airtime and our discussion proceeds from there.

At that point, most guys would have apologized and promise to call regularly or even everyday. I didn't. Had I done that, I would have given her the upper hand in the relationship.

The bottom line is: a man will definitely ask a lady out. But don't make it too conspicuous else she might start misbehaving.

That said, regarding the second bolded, Harddon (the OP) already stated that in the first page. To quote him, he said:



This thread was created for weaklings in mind. But at the same time, those who want to improve on their game or change/adjust their strategies will find it useful.

supersystemsnig:
Hahahaha

supersystemsnig:
I implanted it with serious prayers when i was back in secondary school...When you're a whiz kid, smart hustler.... the ladies no dey gre us rest, do i implanted dangerous prayers into my being... though complement it with staying away from outdoor things.. Abeg, i no get power for woman wahala...

DavidTheGeek:
1. You are the guy, you are in charge of directing the conversation.
2. "Wife to be" is different from "wife". No girl should have a full seat in your life unless you've wifed her. Keep her on her toes.

DavidTheGeek:
Hey bro,

You need to understand that guys will always hit on your lady... even after you've put a ring on it.

Her FORMER boss can't "just be calling her". There's a reason.

If her former boss is hitting on her, she should be free to tell you... she's instead giving a flimsy excuse... which could mean something fishy is going on.

Makes me want to ask you if your rapport with her is very good. Do you guys communicate well? Has she told you about other guys hitting on her and you overreacted?

ayexcel100:
A pleasant day to u all. Data very much available, mtn glo nd etisalat

analice107:
I do, but i'm not sure i know how to place it here. It is saved in my documents. If there's a way i can post it here pls direct me.

Dancingpotato:
we have 2units course(which means 2hrs), 3 unit course (3hrs), 4 unit course(4hrs) and so on. to get a 60 hours, you add up your lasts course units that sum up to 60 units which is equivalent to 60hrs.

Arondizuogu:
Thanks bro.
The truth was growing up, I was so Churchy and prayerful. Oh I remember those days, I don't take medication when I'm sick, I just pray and I'm healed. I sing hymns a lot then. I just don't know where I left all the churchiness or how. It just kinda happened and viola I am a full blown liberal. Not that I don't like being a liberal Christian, it's just that sometimes I wonder what could have been if I had continued on that part or actually grown spiritually. Now I can't even pray.
Well to be fair I miss the old me and old days, I just went off when I lost my dad I think. It's creepy that I'm just bursting my emotions here but I'm not one to hide. And don't get me started about challenging conservative christians and the Bible. That is my work, people hated preaching to me in Nigeria, they would come for a ten minutes talk and I would hold them for hours. I think I would like to be that boy with over flowing faith again.
Thanks once again.

Iamdazzle:
Wowwwww, just wowwwww

oyb:
two wires/cables are connected to an air conditioner. the cable from the distribution board to the connection point, and teh cable between the indoor and outdoor unit

the cable to the connection pt can be solid or stranded or flex core, but the cable between the indoor and outdoor unit is typically flex core. this is because the cable is typically run along alongside the copper refrigerant piping and insulation and may go through bends and turn before it gets to the outdoor unit. the more you bend a solid core cable the more points of stress you introduce along the conductor, which are potential areas for overheating in future. this is my perception as to why flex cable is used. of course, you can decide to run your own dedicated conduit for termination of indoor and outdoor unit, in which case you will not need a flex core.

maybe i should consider doing that. . .

oyb:
Not sure you read what I wrote.

The unwritten standard in connecting indoor and outdoor acs is with flexible cable. For years I had vendors on projects connecting the indoor and outdoor acs with no name cables. When we started having fires, I identified the no namecables as a possible source, identified Coleman as a manufacturer of flexible cable. We replaced all the no name flexible cables with Coleman flexible cables.

I hope this clarifies.

oyb:
Also, compaction is best done in layers of 300mm

HARDDON:
@ihatelove @ KiZiie



But if sensitive or.... Mail: support@datingdrill.com

spiritualmubi:
Am 21 year old.

Didov1:
nice thread,.what abt dreaming of the rapture every now and then,.hope its ntin serious

keepingmum:
Can someone help me with this x2 different dreams please.
1st dream I saw a colleague who died this year and I was so happy to see her, I hugged her and we exchanged pleasantries.....i then walked away whilst she was chatting with other....this dream was early last wk

Today, I dreamt and saw my late sister, she was looking darker in colour but I again was excited to see her however people around me started pointing out other people that had died that they recognised.....we spent a while in their midst (the midst of the dead and living) playing/hanging out and I honestly can't remember the rest of the dream.

Jacksonville:
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kilankoazeez:
Good morning to everyone reading this.
My first question goes thus , can someone please share the link for GRE and TOEFL nairaland trend?
My second question is that, isn't there any WhatsApp group page for prospective GRE and TOEFL candidates, please if yes kindly send the link and details. thanks for your consideration

swave7:
Bro you know how many articles, videos, books I've swallowed wey no wan digest enter blood? I'm not a complete maga like that o, it's my anxiety (genetics) & programming from childhood which hindered my social skills growth that's holding me back. Guy forget, I dey kiss o, I'm a creative mind & visual learner, learned from watching helllywood movies as a kid, in fact I sabi chop toto well tho not many, in fact ... dia dad

muehonyx22:
@hananhezron, okay here goes.....


@nnamdiosu 701ecilana shadeyinka temi4fash tjayjosh sonofthunder NnaNna4 processor01 Jacksonville CharlyG1 hananhezron, and not forgetting TRADELYN and other blessed people of this thread. shout-out to you all.

thank you for being great teachers, helpers, counselors and most importantly, great friends. you took a very confused, scared and timid soul and made her confident, enlightened, and fearless. without you guys I would still be lost in the dark.


so thank you all..


you will never be forgotten.