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bellong: Find a way of letting him control his emotions, that is what is beclouding his judgement. The girl in question has seen this and she is using the card to her advantage. As soon as she sees her desirable, your brother is a foregone conclusion.


Let your brother play the card first and see her reaction, it will be an eye opener.


Meanwhile, how old is the girl? Young age may also be her problem

thanks for ur help..

Ma bro is gonna be 30 next year and the girl is 24

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bellong: I have observed that most girls in that situation do not deeply like the person they are with, they are only passing time peradventure their desire will come around.

Tell her its over between you and do not give in to the emotional blackmail. If she really wants to be with you, you will know afterwards.

not m jawe.. it ma Elder brother joor..

i have told him over and over again but he wont burge..

Seems over luv dai worry m....

A very nice thread and lot of matured responses...

But i gat a question..

What if the situation was reversed, as in u tell d gal from the onset that u want to marry her that u have no time for games, and six months down the line she has not made up her mind yet.

and she still chew gum the guy as in dai are very very close.. when he tells her to define their relationship she begins to emotionally black mail him ( crying and all those girlish things) and he really really likes the gal

So, adults in the house what do u think he should do in a situation like dis

Besto: replied....chk ur email n pls dnt fail to teach others

Bros you sure say na confirm...

Thanks anyway

Besto: replied....chk ur email n pls dnt fail to teach others

Bros you sure say na confirm...

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Pdizzle: Give a dog a bone, leave a dog alone and it'll find its way home...to keep a chic in futa aint easy tho, but do wat u suppose to do if shez urs..shez urs

u no as he dai b.....

wit a ratio of abt 5 guys to 1 gal u dont ecpect anythin less...

rigormortis: great futarian, guy i be ex futarian but i dey work for abj now, no fall futa boys hand o, you know say we no dey carry last

Greatest Futarian....

D guy no fit stand d hit joor.. except he wan drink garri as av said.. or maybe him get change wey him fit throw around...

Loadedtech: my dad pays my school fees and i'm not yet a worker, i'm a 200L Futa Student

what d f....

you in 200l n you fighting over a babe..

e b like say dis guy neva know as he dai b..

when ur CGPA enter intensive care unit then you will no Wats up...

you go drink garri tire cos if its d same futa alot of the gals here are hungry

HARDDON: if you are buoyant, take her out to a five star hotel's bush bar, table for two dinner by the pool side.
you know watz up. never book a room though. when u guys r done, drop her off at her place. bid her gnyts and bow out

or plan a get away.

if you are not too stable financially and can cook, go to the market, get the things for her favorite meal and prepare it, when you are done, set the table, with her fav rnb song romancing the air on dah background, then invite her over, blindfold her from the door after that, turn off all the lights( just two candles lite on either sid of them dinnner table) and lead her to the table.
sit her down, remove d blindfold n watch holy excitement expressions dance all over her face.

make sensr

Mehn dat crazy..

u do av to forgive even though it not gonna be easy..

And dat if she is even sorry for wat she did.. Cos dere is no need forgiving someone who is not gonna repent...

Those are one of the few things u gat to live with..

Go listen to a to dis woman stuff abt feminism..

We should all be feminists - Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie at TEDxEuston...


http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_detailpage&v=hg3umXU_qWc

what wrong with d sibling hand...

I dont c any reason y a woman should do dat...

Except may be if the siblings are critically sick n even at dat wat are d maids or washing machine for...

when m angry ma body starts shaking; Then I do alot of tongue lashing..

carmelion: Coming from you,am not surprised.You are always in a hurry to attack me,so you like reading my posts in a hurry,then rush to comment.Read the part below,it will help you understand.

d guy lik u ni

jakesund: reminds me of when my cousins ex gf got preggy and test results confirmed that she was 2months pregnant while both of them had sex only once about two weeks from the time of the test.
you need to see the way this chick was swearing with her father mother etc saying sh1t like all the curses in the bible should be hers if she's lying
we called on a friend who pretended to be a babalawo,and some guys who pretend as if they had a thief among them that was always stealing thier stuffs. we bought Andrews liver salt and the stage was set.

the chick was saying she's sure of herself and that no other guy touched her.my cousin told her she had to swear at a shrine before he could accept the preggy.

upon getting to the shrine the guys were arguing that the baba should fishout the thief among them and strike him with epilepsy,after calling some fake incantations one of them dropped to the floor with foamy saliva (andrews liver salt) gushing out from his mouth. when the chick saw the wonder she started crying and begging that baba should not strike her with epilepsy, she said the pregnancy belongs to her other boyfriend but she loves my cousin so much and she wanted to be with him not the other guy

@op last i heard pregnancy can't be transfered through Bluetooth,she's using the tears card against u i think it's about time u play the andrews liver salt card WORKS LIKE A CHARM

chai .....

dc555: @op, You should be mature enough to have patience with a lady. Dont listen to all these SS 1 children on Nairaland. You should try and develop true frienship with her for at least 6 months before anything else. U will need that frienship in the future.

boss.. 6 mnth for wat na.. is it for courtship abi for her to know u love her..

i believe its d earlier d better mehn..

Dont dull.....

[quote author=2s£xy]Temi4fash, check ur spam box... Na u dey make me come here nw. Once u confirm, I will stop. Let me know if u got it.


Idowu, na una no undastand... .it does not matter how many times I talk about it. I only do so as a way for someone to learn a lesson.

D fact dat u know abt it does nt mean someone else has. There are more viewers here than posters. The only time I talk abt it is when I come here and minute I leave, I am either at d business section or at another international business forum.

And offline, I get busy with other stuff, mostly abt me.

Someone made a comment which is virtually the charactistics of most girl(including some here), is it a crime to comfirm that it's true and using my experience as a prove?

Anyway, I have my conclusions abt naija girls. And I'm sticking to it!

Na una time make una enjoy am Y it last. We go c where e go lead to.

If na girl, one corper dey disturb me here. But i send her?[/quote]boss am not cin anything in ma box oo...

just drop ur email let m mail u directly..

mine is temifashola@gmail.com

[quote author=2s£xy]I hope I am safe oh. Anyways, I have replied u..[/quote]U are very safe jawe

Any ways av not seen ur reply jawe...

[quote author=2s£xy]In addition to Aluta'a post, it isn't as if I have not moved on even the opposite is perceived from my posts.

I only talk about it when I come on here and that's only IF a post reminds me of the incident, which has been the case.

At that point, i start talking about it but most times. I do it so that people could also learn a thing or two from it... Specifically the case here.

This thread will not be complete without the men sharing their own views so as to constructively reshape some belief or conceptions help be some ladies on here.

Since post of people tend make me talk about it, I guess I have to avoid any thread that could lead to it. Hence, it's good bye from here.

I wish the dolls wedding testimonies before the year ends...

The only thing I have to say is, whatever relationship you find yourself, do your best to keep a clean conscience and no regrets...

Good bye and God bless you Carm...

#Unfollow[/quote]Guy... i tire for u ooo..

Chai dont tell m u gonna quit cos of d general assumption...

then i guess u might not av healed from watever she must av caused u...

#ma opinion though#

plus i sent u p can u pls reply...

or better still send me ur email cos dis PM here is kinda problematic for m..