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ichidodo: Am so sorry for your pain, being with someone that is taking u for granted especially after sacrificing so much can be quite heartbreaking. Could it be you fell in love with the wrong dude? The type i call 'predators' they are kinda like gold diggers, you give em your all, clean em,brush em up. And when they are so clean they just up and go. I have also being a victim too. You are crying because 6 months, i sacrificed 9 years. Yes 2003-2012. I met this girl as a teenager, took her under my wing. Tutored and mentored her tru her secondary and tertiary education, the highs and lows, ups and down. Now that her first class degree in accountancy is sure.....yep, i got tossed away like used tissue paper. Anyway, the critical issue here is ur well-being, ur mental state. We dont want u to be 'damaged goods', So to get closure, u need a heart-to-heart talk with your man. Let him know what is goin on, if he is a guy worth dying for he will take note and mend his ways but if he wants to be a complete jerkass then i suggest u cut ur losses and go.

pretim: Am so hrt broken ryt nw am even shading tears,
wat have i done wrong dat i loved a guy, he hardly call me, i call him always, text him but no reply, he traveled without telling me wen he came bk he dnt wana see me

before dis guy became something i suffered wit him, i gave him my 6months salary to start a business, look @ hw he is paying me bk, he never buy anything for me, am so tired i need to brk up because i can't take it anymore God why me, or is it a crime dat am a gurl in love?

*Cries*

simayanki4real: Hello dolls & gents!

Our elders say when you beat a child with one hand, you draw him close with another! I am entirely grateful for this thread which although serves as a red line to the dolls, is an eye opener & a mirror to us gents to better see ourselves & correct whatever miss deeds we have done/are doing.

The dolls in the house starting with carmydoll have constantly hammered on the misdeeds of gents, how bad & evil we can be... And they have shared series of experiences to this end. I refuse to believe that all the dolls seem to have missed a gud experience with a gent, even if its JUST a date.

Please don't be quick to dismiss this as it is so important: Ever since we have been filling the beauriful minds of our charming dolls of how relationships have failed, guys are dangerous, love stinks...this is an opportunity to plant a seed of HOPE into some minds, like the thin tiny thread they need to hold onto. Let's not deprive them the opportunity.

So starting with all the dolls: please tell us of the MOST BEAURIFUL TREATMENT A GUY HAS EVER GIVEN YOU and possibly how single ladies can get same!

I hope i am inorder@carmdoll!

nbright: " taste and see"

nell07: Lmao!
Maybe that's Cos I'm in a tighter spot than you.
WWill be through with nysc in June, and i need to get my hands busy asap. Do not believe in walking around for a job. We could still work together tho

nell07: Here's my email : macdestiny@yahoo.com
Please email me your farm address and phone number... I don't even mind working for you for a while, so as to gather needed experience.
I'm greatly motivated by your dedication to your business.
Yes I like animals... But I know almost nothing about fish

gree-die:
well if i ve a boyfriend and i tell his friend things i don't tell my boyfriend,.... it could be cz his friend is also my friend but deep down, its cz he is d one i really want to be with, even if i don't know it yet.....

op, im sorry.

robonski15: Thanks for your encouraging words.. One thing u must have before u venture into the business is PASSION.. Do u have a passion for it or even animals..

Don't worry when u are through with ur service then I will guide u with the capital u have on ground so as to utilize it judiciously.. Thanks

MRbrownJAY: if you have told her that you do not like such behavior and she still does it then ONE THING is certain: she doesnt give a damn about your opinion/your person (or what hurts your feelings)........i suggest you be very careful of such damsel!

nbright: Great things start from little things... Let me tell you a secret about "MOST" men... When the romance is ongoing and the lady stops it, the guy will get angry (He might not show it out).. Especially if that isn't the first time you have done that... He might force himself into you... If you say no sex till after marrige then desist from anything that leads to it..To me I still stick to my principle of taste and see unless she's a "V" then I might wait or I leave.. But if I do get married and find out she did it just once yet still claim to be a "V", God help the both of us that day.

madridsta007: Lol... If I may ask, what time does the 'wooing start', Nigerian time? I guess it's Good Friday, right?

madridsta007: More mind games. Enjoy the game. I'll watch the show.

It reminds me of PSquare's 'Chop My Money' video.

When you are done wooing and wooing, the Oga the top will come and collect his lady.

That is me. Code Name: Madridsta007.

madridsta007: Lol... Mind games.

madridsta007: Lol... When PDP say they will win, they always win.

I will win o!

nbright: Lawyer ke?.. A lawyer that has stage fright, a lawyer that won't answer any question in class even when he knows the answer, honestly I don't like the limelight, I prefer to be at the back doing my thing my way.... (Thank God none in my house is like me)...

madridsta007: Don't worry, I am not interested in the 'challenge'. Difficult keeping up with the thread, if I am honest. lol

I'll join, if Carmelion says so..

nbright: Dailynews,,, If I say such (that you exchanged words with her) sorry... Though you did replied her so that qualifies as exchange of words but I didn't mean it as you think (harsh)...

ichidodo: As a matter of policy when i am on nairaland i dont look at profile pics,therefore i dont know and care if u are beautiful or HOT,if u are priviledge or not,if u r popular or not or how old u are, am A woo u because i find ure intellect beautiful,ure mentality strong,ure heart large and ure instinct motherly. So i pick........CARMELION.

Caracta: Mtcheeew. Didirin aburo dopemu. Alainironu ara ile inaki. Amunibuni oponu iranu. No vex me abeg. I don't want to believe you but i know we have 'imbecilic' heartless being in the world. You are lucky i don't insult people. Nansense and ingredient!

nbright: @bolded... How do you know the fault is/was only from him?, nobody is perfect, even Jesus Christ got angry when He was hungry and "cursed" the fig tree to wither because it didn't bear fruits in it's season... To every action there must be a catalyst. There must have been something that made him act like that/ in that way.... I find it hard to believe that someone will start maltreating a girl that toiled with him when he was a nobody... Guys appreciate those type of girls.. She MIGHT have done something to warrant that treatment from him... We have this thing with "ego"... We hate to have it bruised by the female and when bruised by them, we (I) find it hard to forget... & if someone don't forget something he can't forgive you totally..

byvan: Add this to your list,"I am the guy who ll wind up dead in a ditch without any identity to trace his origin".

nbright: Some guys are very funny... It was in this same thread that a lady talked about the guy that sent her an sms about a particular thing that made him terminate the relationship and you all castigated him now here you are asking why he didn't tell her the reason.... Well according to y'all, maybe he didn't want to "cause her more grief"..