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Some of d responses on dis thread dai funny me, y wuld some1 call d op stingy,is it not what he has he will give, or should he put his masters and job interview on hold cos he dos not want to b stingy.. Its same pple dat say give her dat still turn back and tell him he is stupid..

As ma mummy will say 'eyan o kin fu ye ko ni oun wu wo

Bros if na cos she b virgin ur brain dai boot.. Being a virgin dos not automatically make a reasonable or complete babe.. Bros u treat lik every oda babe abeg..

Let hope dis list will not change in some few years to come..

Dannyxy: {1}step up which game?(i dn't understand)...{2}i can see

stepping up ur inner game. I.e make ur life so interesting dat u let d woman c dat dating u is a plus to her or she is lucky to date u and not d oda way round.

Dannyxy: {1}nope,am tall,do i need to be short to ask a question?,{2}the reason is this,my aunt hv refused to get married despite the fact she is old enough to,y?jst because the guyz coming are of average heights,she says she needs a tall man...it seems so weird to me

bros d better truth is dat she is not attracted to them.. Dats all.. Is not abt weda dai are tall or short all dos ones are just surface excuse...

Life is not fair.. Has never been and it will never b..

D fact dat ur bf cheated on u or u av heard a couple of stories dat a guy cheated on a gal dos not mean every guy dos...

U just made a fallacy of hasty genelization..

D gal is ur babe so u no her better dan us...
U shld no if she is liein or not...

But d fact dat u can leave without her is wat m worried abt her... Ur happiness shld not b tied to an extenal being....

Try and b happy ur self so dat u can help her objecyively.. If she allows u..

Bros go and step up ur game... U can be tall and unattractive.. Logical things most times dont work with women..

Very inspiring tales here...

Is story d same for electrical and electronics engineerin student aspiring to do Msc in d U.S..

My advice to her is
1. Stay vert close to God
2. Go to prayer city or any bible believing mountain to fast and pray but i personally recommend prayer city...
3. Live a moderate live
4. Work on herself... Let her d happy with her life.. Make her happiness b frm d inside.
5. Trust God for her own husband

it is well

go and tell your pastor .. den he will tell u wat to do...

O gal dis is a though one...

I willl b disgusted and annoyed..

Abt helping her, if she is willing to b helped den i will help her.. We go to d hospital if she is ok den we go straight to prayer city for deliverance shapaly..

Bros,

to be candid, its better imagined than experienced. i know how u feel...

But dis marriage has already failed before it started, y did she not come and tell u when the so called lecturer was pressurizing her cos from ur story u were together even before the 'pressuring' started. i feel if it was actually a 'pressuring' u would av found out.

i can tell u that if u had not dat u found out urself there was a great likelihood of them even continuing the package even after skool, wat makes u sure it was twice she slept with him, d plce no dai read meter na.u were only fortunate cos ur friend told u.

Av heard senerios lik dis in ma skool, even during NYSc dai were still bleeping the hell out of each oda, it was abt a month so to the wedding the guy received an anonymous call and he confronted her & she cried and said it was devil handiwork.

C wetin eluv dai do dis guy...

Now dat u brought it here u will surely get answers...

Dont worry dem dai com...

Now dat u brought it here u will surely get answers...

sunny t: Its never part of my prayer point, i shall be the head of my family

its never part of any man's prayer point... I tink dere oda ways of bin d leader apart from aprt from d money...

Mods help dis guy by helping him move is story to d family section he will get muvh more advice from d experienced madams and men.. Madam chaircover,jidegirl and co...

@op
M think collecting stuffs from her is not goin to work expecially if divorce is not an option..
I tink d guy is still emotionally and very much in lov with ur wife, and i tink d guy is gonna get an hard way pretty soon.. I tink dere is sumtin u not doin correctly,he is doin sumtin u not doin for her.

say wetin happen na..

even if i fall in luv and d gal talk m.. i go pinch maself to reality

when dem dai tell una say make una dai put una third leg under ctrl u dai tink say dem no won make u enjoy... u made an attempt nau.. d consequence show nau u cant bear it, u come dai find shortcut...

all d guys wey advise u say make u yansh d gal where dem dai nau..

mumu boy.. if she get belle congrats oo

may more babies to ur elbow..

d baby fit b jonathan when he grow oo...

Harbosede02: Am tired of telling nairalanders "sorry"..@op take heart,sebi u r stil in PH,dere are stil many babes dere na...don't kil urself ova 1

No b him fault lov na bastard... and for first love its not easy to let go... it take determination and hard work to let go...

alutacontinua: First of all, do you have financial challenges?
Are your parents not capable of taking care of you
You said you talk to his children, do you talk on phone with his wife too?

pls answer dis question especially d last one...
And can u pls tell us y u think he is gonna ask u out, though i no there is no free lunch anywhere...

Tell them to forget d lov and face reality....
Cos when d trouble comes d fact dat it culd b avoided wuld make dem recent each oda more..

Just work up to her and tell ur mind... But d fact dat na as u go take bed m u dai think ur liver come dai fail u...

So because have goose bums when she walks pass to u don luv m b dat...

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Gosh....
Where u sleeping wen u man ur vows..
Marriage is for better for worse, in sickness in health till death do u part..
Mr man u made a vow stick to it..
U should b encouraging her dat all is well not having second thought na..

Love and respect dere MIL as dere modas even if she no deserve m.. Cos karma is a bitch...