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My advice to her is
1. Stay vert close to God
2. Go to prayer city or any bible believing mountain to fast and pray but i personally recommend prayer city...
3. Live a moderate live
4. Work on herself... Let her d happy with her life.. Make her happiness b frm d inside.
5. Trust God for her own husband

it is well

go and tell your pastor .. den he will tell u wat to do...

O gal dis is a though one...

I willl b disgusted and annoyed..

Abt helping her, if she is willing to b helped den i will help her.. We go to d hospital if she is ok den we go straight to prayer city for deliverance shapaly..

Bros,

to be candid, its better imagined than experienced. i know how u feel...

But dis marriage has already failed before it started, y did she not come and tell u when the so called lecturer was pressurizing her cos from ur story u were together even before the 'pressuring' started. i feel if it was actually a 'pressuring' u would av found out.

i can tell u that if u had not dat u found out urself there was a great likelihood of them even continuing the package even after skool, wat makes u sure it was twice she slept with him, d plce no dai read meter na.u were only fortunate cos ur friend told u.

Av heard senerios lik dis in ma skool, even during NYSc dai were still bleeping the hell out of each oda, it was abt a month so to the wedding the guy received an anonymous call and he confronted her & she cried and said it was devil handiwork.

C wetin eluv dai do dis guy...

Now dat u brought it here u will surely get answers...

Dont worry dem dai com...

Now dat u brought it here u will surely get answers...

sunny t: Its never part of my prayer point, i shall be the head of my family

its never part of any man's prayer point... I tink dere oda ways of bin d leader apart from aprt from d money...

Mods help dis guy by helping him move is story to d family section he will get muvh more advice from d experienced madams and men.. Madam chaircover,jidegirl and co...

@op
M think collecting stuffs from her is not goin to work expecially if divorce is not an option..
I tink d guy is still emotionally and very much in lov with ur wife, and i tink d guy is gonna get an hard way pretty soon.. I tink dere is sumtin u not doin correctly,he is doin sumtin u not doin for her.

say wetin happen na..

even if i fall in luv and d gal talk m.. i go pinch maself to reality

when dem dai tell una say make una dai put una third leg under ctrl u dai tink say dem no won make u enjoy... u made an attempt nau.. d consequence show nau u cant bear it, u come dai find shortcut...

all d guys wey advise u say make u yansh d gal where dem dai nau..

mumu boy.. if she get belle congrats oo

may more babies to ur elbow..

d baby fit b jonathan when he grow oo...

Harbosede02: Am tired of telling nairalanders "sorry"..@op take heart,sebi u r stil in PH,dere are stil many babes dere na...don't kil urself ova 1

No b him fault lov na bastard... and for first love its not easy to let go... it take determination and hard work to let go...

alutacontinua: First of all, do you have financial challenges?
Are your parents not capable of taking care of you
You said you talk to his children, do you talk on phone with his wife too?

pls answer dis question especially d last one...
And can u pls tell us y u think he is gonna ask u out, though i no there is no free lunch anywhere...

Tell them to forget d lov and face reality....
Cos when d trouble comes d fact dat it culd b avoided wuld make dem recent each oda more..

Just work up to her and tell ur mind... But d fact dat na as u go take bed m u dai think ur liver come dai fail u...

So because have goose bums when she walks pass to u don luv m b dat...

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Gosh....
Where u sleeping wen u man ur vows..
Marriage is for better for worse, in sickness in health till death do u part..
Mr man u made a vow stick to it..
U should b encouraging her dat all is well not having second thought na..

Love and respect dere MIL as dere modas even if she no deserve m.. Cos karma is a bitch...

Bros wetin dem mean b sayu didnt fit into d category of wat she could call bf.
Or u expected more dan she saw..

If bf dai she suppose don tell u or let u no as he dai b b4 c m self...

Donxavier: ^^^

Don't intend to change your mind but people that can discern can see that the lady isn't the victim here, and isn't being taken advantaged off and a strong rebuttal has to be given to that notion

inasmuch as i tink wat op wants to do is wrong.u made some really valid point...

espirito: just send "deactivate" to 440

ur head dai dere oo.. I no understand y d guy dai type many nany story...

Khaffi: She meant "Her parent CAN'T sponsor her education in her final year"

dis is so so dicey mehn....
D risk involved is too high...
I cant advise masis to do such..
Dere gat to b anoda way...
D op just wants an easy way out..

It seems to me dat u already want to go ahead u just need someone to approve it for u...

For d records wat is not gud is not gud.... Since ur parent can sponsor y become a runz gal...

OP find ur way to MFM prayer city or and bible believing church for urgent deliverance...

chikeorji123: I'm glad u know what u wants as a man but make sure this Miss k worth sacrifying for the other one and find out why she suddenly fallen in love with you after a whole more than a year..l assume the guy she turn u down for might have bullshit her then u are the next option..it's better u marry someone who dearly love u that been use as option..My point is set exam for both first b/f u fire Miss P..

u just spoke ma mind...

Even if u love her n she doesnt luv n form dat she dos na say gobe. She nos u like ger n i hope she is not playing on dat..

I tink u should just consider doin d above post..

leunamme93: This saying is like Wenger saying we will win a treble this Season.

boss are u saying arsenals is goin trophyless again dis season...

Dis guy no no as he dai happen... Make he kill american citizen first den he go know how far...