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HealthRe: World Obesity Day: Changing Systems Healthier Lives by Tendd: 1:56pm On Mar 05, 2025
Dpharmacist:
You keep repeating The “Just Exercise and Eat Less” Argument which is Flawed


I keep seeing people say that obesity is purely a personal choice and that anyone can lose weight if they just exercise and eat better. While personal responsibility is important, this argument oversimplifies a complex issue and ignores real-life challenges.

Here’s why blaming obesity entirely on willpower and habits is misleading:

1. It’s Not Just About “Trying Harder”

Saying “no one is stopping you from exercising” assumes that everyone has the time, energy, and resources to do so. But in reality:

Many people work long hours in sedentary or physically demanding jobs, leaving them exhausted.

Some areas have limited access to fresh, healthy food, making cheap processed food the only option.

Medical conditions like hypothyroidism, PCOS, and insulin resistance make weight loss harder, even with diet and exercise.

Stress, depression, and trauma often lead to emotional eating or disordered eating habits.

If weight loss were as simple as “just eat less and move more,” we wouldn’t have a global obesity epidemic.


2. The Environment Shapes Our Choices

People don’t live in a vacuum—our surroundings play a huge role in shaping behavior:

Junk food is heavily marketed and often cheaper than healthy options.

Many urban areas lack safe spaces for exercise—no parks, no sidewalks, unsafe neighborhoods.

Workplaces promote sedentary lifestyles, where people sit all day with little movement.

Gym memberships, personal trainers, and meal plans cost money—not everyone can afford them.


Telling people to "just train at home or outside" ignores these real barriers.


3. Blaming People Lacks Empathy

No one chooses to be obese the way they choose a hobby. Many overweight people have tried multiple diets, workout plans, and lifestyle changes, but weight loss isn’t a straight path.

Obesity is a chronic condition, not just laziness.

Weight gain happens gradually; by the time someone realizes they are obese, reversing it is much harder than preventing it.

Medications, hormones, and genetics play a role—some people gain weight much more easily than others.

Dismissing all of this as “just excuses” is both ignorant and harmful.


4. The System Can and Should Change

Some say, “The system won’t change, people just need to adapt.” But public health campaigns have changed countless times for the better:

Smoking laws reduced tobacco-related deaths.

Seatbelt laws saved lives.

Nutritional labeling helps people make better food choices.

So why not work on policies that make healthy living easier? Things like:

Affordable, nutritious food options.

Better city planning for walkable spaces and fitness-friendly environments.

Wellness programs in workplaces and schools.

Regulating misleading junk food marketing.


Summary

Yes, personal responsibility matters, but it’s not the only factor. A healthy society isn’t about forcing anyone to do anything—it’s about making healthy choices more accessible so that people don’t have to struggle just to stay fit.

I hope you understand now.
All what you listed are still same excuses why many will remain overweight and keep getting sick.Some say time factor but you will be surprised by the time they spend on their phones or sitting on the couch watching TV.You wrote as if basic exercises requires hours to do,no it doesn't.Exercises like push up,squats,plyometrics, lounge,horse stand,sit ups etc does not really take much time.30 to 45 min is okay for a beginner.And this can be done in your own home.

I acknowledge that some medical conditions can prevent some people from reaching their goals but this occurs in other issues in life but this should not be used entirely as an excuse to remain unhealthy.
And what makes you think lean or fit people don't face
depression or other health problems as well? Many do also but won't allow that as an impediment to remain overweight.

The issue of junk food is a choice.There are many different food stuff to choose.Some people eat one meal per day, others twice, other five times etc.All boils down to personal responsibilities to stay healthy.
SportsTwins With Different Fitness Level. by Tendd(op): 9:01pm On Mar 04, 2025
https://youtube.com/shorts/Bkc874GCYBI?si=jnr-wR66tu-2izYO

This got me thinking.How many of us or people at same age bracket can successfully do that.They are twins?
HealthRe: World Obesity Day: Changing Systems Healthier Lives by Tendd:
Dpharmacist:
It's a 2 way thing. When your environment doesn't favour you it's becomes more difficult.
No one would force anyone to do exercises or stop them from eating or overeating.The "environment"or system would never stop functioning or fit into the ways of some people.One can train at home or outdoor,if you can't go to a gym.There are many options for anyone with the will power.
Being obese in most cases is because of poor habits and personal choices.
HealthRe: World Obesity Day: Changing Systems Healthier Lives by Tendd: 1:12pm On Mar 04, 2025
Dpharmacist:
For decades, the narrative around obesity has been painfully narrow: eat less, move more, willpower is the key.

This finger-wagging approach has pinned the blame on individuals, ignoring the sprawling, interconnected systems that shape our lives. It’s time to flip the script. The obesity crisis isn’t just a personal failing—it’s a symptom of broken systems that demand a radical overhaul

Consider the food systems pumping out ultra-processed, calorie-dense, nutrient-poor products, marketed aggressively to vulnerable populations.

Think about health systems that often treat obesity as a cosmetic issue rather than a chronic disease, leaving patients without adequate support or resources.

Reflect on government systems that subsidize junk food production while failing to regulate advertising or ensure access to affordable, healthy options.

Ponder the media, perpetuating stigma and oversimplified solutions, and the environments we inhabit—urban sprawls with few safe spaces to exercise, workplaces that prioritize sedentary lifestyles, and communities where fresh produce is a luxury.

These systems aren’t just failing us—they’re actively fueling the crisis. And the consequences extend far beyond waistlines. Obesity is a complex, chronic disease that acts as a gateway to other killers: diabetes, heart disease, cancer, and more. Tackling obesity isn’t just about weight—it’s about slashing the global burden of these interconnected conditions.

cc Dominique sissy3
Obesity is largely personal responsibilities.Individuals must make better choices to better their health.We spend much on our phones than we do outdoor or in a gym exercising.lt our choices to walk,jog,run for our health or take bikes or cars when it's not needed.
PoliticsRe: Anambra State Is The Only State In Nigeria That Rejected World Loan (photo) by Tendd:
Wow, that is great.Those loans and their huge interests can be overwhelming.A state in the country had a debt
that resulted in Nigerian airlines and properties being confiscated abroad.Hope we are all learning.Kudos to Anambra state government for refusing the loans.
PoliticsRe: 2027 Elections: Only God Will Decide, Not El-Rufai – Mamman by Tendd: 11:24pm On Feb 28, 2025
God does not decide any elections in Nigeria,sir.
People do kill,pillage, grab etc only to win elections in this country.Those are not God's works.Neither,Buhari nor Tinubu's results were decided by God.
Foreign AffairsRe: "Show Respect": Trump, US VP In Fiery Exchange With Zelenskyy Over Russian War by Tendd: 9:36pm On Feb 28, 2025
Poor Ukraine,so unfortunate to be in a vulnerable situation.Trump and his vice are only bent on forcing him to sign a deal of billions of dollars including their raw materials.Nothing more.One can observe the rash interruption and pressure when ever he tries to make a point.We now have sharks, hawks,leeches etc in the oval offices.Look at Trump and his vice talking about Zelensky being disrespectful.What Trump is notoriously known for.
I feel for Ukrainians.Hope, history is learnt here.
HealthRe: USAID-Donated Drugs Found In Lagos, Abia Markets — NAFDAC by Tendd: 11:08am On Feb 27, 2025
Good.Now go ahead and arrest the agents and officials that were responsible in the distribution rather than harassing poor traders.
PoliticsRe: Senator Umeh Asks Gowon To Write His Own Book & Apologise To Igbos by Tendd: 11:00am On Feb 27, 2025
Gowon rarely talk much or write about the past or present events in Nigeria.lt's unfortunate.It is expected of him to say something about the war and make amends and apologies.Tinubu must also make way for the Nigerian state to compensate the lgbos for the lies and misinformation.
CelebritiesRe: Odumodu Blvck Involved In An Accident, Hospitalised! (Photos) by Tendd: 4:55pm On Feb 25, 2025
Don't drive when you drink or smoke.He talked recently of spending over a million naira on smoking drugs daily.
To Burna Boy,Davido,Rema,Wizkid, Speed Darlington and others that smoke and showcase on social media,you might get wrecked or involved in an accident when you smoke and drive.
CrimeRe: 23-Year-Old Man Beats Girlfriend To Death In Lagos by Tendd: 10:08am On Feb 25, 2025
Say no to marijuana,Kolos,weed etc.You might end up committing different sort of crimes that would put you in jail.
PoliticsRe: Tinubu Appointing His ‘Boys’ – El-Rufai by Tendd: 11:37pm On Feb 24, 2025
Buhari started the lopsided appointments and Tinubu sadly emulated.He even said he was going to continue with Buhari's policies.Can El rufai point to the various appointments during Buhari and now Tinubu and tell us the region that is most sidelined in the country in terms of government employments and parastatals?No doubt,
Tinubu has failed so far but southerners must be careful with the likes of El Rufai.
PoliticsRe: Don't Waste Your Money To Buy IBB’s Book- David Hundeyin (picture) by Tendd: 12:40pm On Feb 24, 2025
Most forumites here don't spend time reading books and 50.000N is a little much for some of us.I would have liked to read the book if l could afford it.lt was brave of IBB to write the book and tell his own story.Gowon's nonchance and lack of leadership led to loss of lives and properties of the lgbos, leading to call for secession.Just like we lost over 63.000 Nigerians under Buhari's leadership, that made some regions to call for a break away from Nigeria.
I hope Gowon, Buhari,Danjuma etc speak up about what they knew.l also hope Tinubu's government begins to compensate the lgbos for the lies and atrocities that were done.This is another way of building bridges and healing the wounds.
HealthRe: Soludo building Centralised Wholesale Drug Centre To Combat Fake Medicines(video by Tendd: 7:49pm On Feb 23, 2025
Interesting idea but let's observe how it would go.l hope NAFDAC gets enough funding and protected environment to execute their job properly.We must also have a viable authority to delve and investigate the automobile/spare parts sector.Many accidents occur due to sub standard brake pads,bad engine oil and other fake accessories.The housing construction sector is another one.We must stop the sales of fake building materials that are used to build homes to prevent frequent collapses.The officers working in the customs and consumer control units that allow such goods to reach to the final consumer must be brought in for questioning and made to face justice subsequently.
HealthRe: 15 Foods You Should Never Eat If You Have High Blood Pressure by Tendd: 2:10pm On Feb 23, 2025
Thanks for sharing.Food intake alone is not the solution.It's important to exercise consistently to reduce or prevent high blood pressure.
PoliticsRe: It’s Not Too Late To Punish Babangida For June 12 Election Annulment- Sowore by Tendd: 1:28pm On Feb 22, 2025
I thought so too.He deserve some form of punishment or reprimand so to send a clear message,but in the same vein,we must make it a law to hold anyone that sells or begin to spread such false narrative of "lgbo coup" accountable."The president Tinubu,Buhari,Goodluck,Gowon, senators etc must speak up and put an end to the aged long deception.Reno Omokri and others of his ilk must understand the consequences that awaits when spreading falsehood.
HealthRe: ⚠️ WARNING: This Popular Cooking Habit Is Slowly Poisoning Nigerians! by Tendd:
Bittersweetnig:
When you are jobless, you will look for rubbish to post, with this your claim, everyone for don die longtime ago because all those you mentioned above have been in people's habits for more than 100years ago, yet they didn't die but now you are fabricating English on how heating Palm oil and maggi seasoning will now be killing people something I've been taking for over 45years. If I die today, look for something else not those ones that kill me
Oga,if you are truly over 45 years ,then you should be wise enough to respond and make your arguments with facts and not insults.
All what the poster wrote are verifiable facts.What we consume is majorly why we have the lowest life expectancy in the world.Did you know that our life expectancy is only 52 years, only slightly above chad republic? Nigerians generally don't live longer,so your 100 years is just some forlorn hope.Maggi is originally a foreign product filled with sodium which is not good for the heart.Palm oil too has shown to have its health risks.The lead cause of most pre-mature deaths is high blood pressure, which is often caused by what we consume and lack of exercise.
CrimeRe: Ritualists Dump Dismembered Female Body In Ogun State by Tendd: 12:59pm On Feb 18, 2025
Everyday is one horror or gory reality in this country.The killings never stops.
Christianity EtcRe: Jerry Eze Wearing Singlet And Small Shorts Like Boxers In Public Is Wrong! by Tendd: 11:12am On Feb 17, 2025
That might be in a gym which is impressive.He looks fit and healthy.l think most places of worship should be converted to gyms to avert the health crisis we are facing in this country.l hope his followers are emulating such lifestyle.So far the fittest pastor in the country.We need more of this.Overeating or gluttony is even sinful.
PoliticsRe: FG To Take Over Salaries Of 28,000 Health Workers Affected By USAID Freeze by Tendd: 12:29pm On Feb 16, 2025
And this is in Nigeria alone.What of others countries getting salary from USAlD?l think the whole process needs an overhaul.This USA also have their own challenges and issues to fix
CelebritiesRe: Rose Idibia: Tuface’s Mum Calls On Natasha To Free Her Son by Tendd: 10:11am On Feb 14, 2025
The mother is worried.Everything is happening too soon.If Tuface was a brother or even close to me,l will respectfully tell him to give it a second thought and exercise some patience before rushing into marriage.
CrimeRe: Man Kills Wife With Hammer Over Video Calls With Other Men by Tendd: 4:30pm On Feb 12, 2025
Our government must do something to protect our women, whether married or single.Domestic violence is becoming rampant.Men who abuse drugs and alcohol are more likely to commit crimes like spousal killings, kidnapping, armed robbery,violent acts etc.
Women beware.Don't ignore the red flags.Your life is worthwhile than living in an abusive marriage.
CelebritiesRe: 'I Spend ₦2M On Smoke Per Day, ₦14M Every Week' - Odumodublvck by Tendd: 9:41pm On Feb 10, 2025
Why?This is no luxury but a health risk and also a negative influence to the youths. I love some of your songs like Picanto,Dog eat dog,Wotowoto seasoning etc but drug abuse is a no no.Most of the crimes in this country are perpetuated by people under the influence of different drugs.
SportsRe: Abuja Charity Marathon: Organizers Unveil Ambassadors, Fix Marathon For April by Tendd: 7:18pm On Feb 10, 2025
Kudos to the organizers.l hope all goes well as planned.Over 500 participants is quite small for such event in a country's capital.It is like it's going to place in a rural area or is it that Nigerians generally can't run or what?The event deserves a bigger publicity to get more people to register and participate.
PoliticsRe: LEMU Imam To Muslims: Vote Out Candidates Who Oppose Sharia by Tendd: 12:00pm On Feb 10, 2025
I knew this will eventually come up.In other words,Tinubu's re-election bid is in question if he doesn't asset or make a bold statement of advocating for Sharia in the SW region.Also,a litmus test of his faith.Well,the South West, whether Muslims, Christians, traditionalists etc already has witnessed the effects of Sharia in the North.
RomanceRe: Never Allow Your Girlfriend Spend The Night In Your House by Tendd:
What of if it's a male friend or relative that came for a visit that later slumped and died in your house?A lady might come for a visit with the intention of leaving the very day but collapses while sitting on your soffa.People slump and die eventually in different places every now and then.
The crux lies on us as a people.We believe so much on fetism and superstition.There are no natural occurrences anymore in our society, everything is cursed by somebody/enemy.
PoliticsRe: Major-General Christopher Jemitola Slumps, Dies At IBB Golf Club by Tendd: 10:31pm On Feb 06, 2025
How old was him? May your soul rest in peace,sir.
CrimeRe: Three Children Murdered, Stored Inside Freezer In Nnewi by Tendd: 7:17pm On Feb 03, 2025
Who owned the deep freezer or was it seen in the middle of a road or a house?The children sadly had a little or no proper parental care.Parents must learn to nurture and take care of their children.Father of the kids was living in Edo while mother who had two jobs was the only one taking care of the three children.
Nigeria on the other hand is an evil country compared to a few African countries l have lived in.Vigilance here is a price of liberty.
PoliticsRe: US-based Nigerian Doctor Kills Self Over $15,000 Child Support by Tendd: 1:38pm On Feb 02, 2025
Vicky951:
He deserves it though. Everyone is just lashing out on the woman. Did you bother knowing the cause of the divorce. Or you think the US government is stupid? Before they will take it license, and limit access to his kids, something prompted him.

If you know you have a character flaw as a man, like aggressive cheating, verbal, physical or emotional abuse, better stay in Nigeria. Foreign countries had zero tolerance for these behaviors against women

As someone who has been in the USA for over 6 years now, and know this family, the man deserves everything. I have zero empathy for me. If he were to be my brother, he still deserves it. Women are humans too and deserves to be treated right. The woman even gave him an option of going back to Nigeria for a while or getting another space so they see how to resolve the issue with time and he said instead of leaving for Nigeria, he’ll get a divorce. And he got it and even more! May his soul rest in peace.
Bro, can you elaborate more? Suicide is like a dead end.What must have pushed him to eventually give it up?I don't think it's just the finance.Maybe depression or other mental issues.Your input can also help others.
PoliticsRe: US-based Nigerian Doctor Kills Self Over $15,000 Child Support by Tendd: 10:29am On Feb 02, 2025
15.000 dollars every month.How can he cope?Life in essence is useless and not worth it lt's so pathetic to read this.
Every now and then,we keep reading about similar sad tale on married men living in the West.Hope, lessons are learnt from such gory reality.
BusinessRe: Spar To Charge ₦150 For Nylon Bags Due To "Ban" by Tendd:
It is long overdue.I hope all traders and businesses begin to do the same.l also hope the prices are subsequently increased and quality improved as wey.People would now begin to keep their old nylon bags for reuse rather than discarding them.Those bags are seen all over our streets and it takes long to decay.
HealthRe: The Fear Of Infection Is The Beginning Of Wisdom by Tendd: 4:09pm On Jan 30, 2025
You are mostly likely to get an incurable STD in the future since you prefer having unprotected sex.Most that use condoms during sex just want a healthy and safe life.You must not undermine your health or put your life at stake because of a "pleasure" of raw sex.

The lady might not be aware of the disease or severity as some might get infected through toilet usage or poor hygiene.
You can as well tell your partners to go for test before even starting having raw sex with them.
Even at that,l personally will still use my condom just to be on the safe side.

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