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Lukgaf:
I came across a video yesterday where a parent returned home only to find that their little children had completely littered the room—ink spilled everywhere, clothes scattered, and what looked like oil staining the floor and bed. You could almost feel the frustration of the parent through the screen.

And I paused. I imagined myself in that situation.
What would I have done? Yelled? Punished? Lost control?

Then I remembered a beautiful and powerful Hadith of the Prophet ﷺ.

No doubt, one of the most striking features of Prophet Muhammad ﷺ was his exceptional character marked by mercy, patience, gentleness and kindness.

Whether he was with family, companions, or those who served him, he radiated compassion and understanding. He was not just a messenger but a mentor, a leader, and a friend who brought out the best in people, not through fear, but through love.

Anas ibn Malik (RA), who served the Prophet ﷺ for ten years, gave a powerful testimony about one of such characters:

"I served the Messenger of Allah for ten years, and not once did he say to me ‘Uff’ (a word of annoyance), nor did he ever say about something I had done, ‘Why did you do that?’ or about something I had not done, ‘Why didn’t you do that?’"
(Sahih Muslim 2309)

This Hadith isn’t just a memory, it is a masterclass in character. It offers two perspectives:

1. For leaders and those in authority: how to treat people with dignity and patience.

2. For subordinates and those under guidance: how to respond with respect, obedience, and good behavior.

How many parents shout at their children for spilling water? How many bosses humiliate workers for a delay? How many teachers scold students without listening? Yet the greatest man ﷺ to walk this earth never even said "Uff" to his servant over ten years! SubhanAllah!

If you’re in a position of leadership, be it as a parent, manager, teacher, or elder take this to heart. Show patience. Correct with wisdom. Your kindness might turn a careless child into a responsible adult or a struggling employee into a loyal star. Lead like the Prophet ﷺ with love, not pressure.

At the same time, Anas (RA) must have been an exceptional young man: obedient, respectful, and trustworthy. That might be in addition (apart from the Prophet natural kindness) the reason Prophet ﷺ treated him with such gentleness.

Are you someone who listens and learns? Do you carry out tasks with sincerity? As a student, child, or junior colleague, your attitude determines your treatment.

Make it easy for your leader to be kind to you. Just like Anas earned the Prophet’s trust, you too can earn trust through humility and effort.

This Hadith is more than a story—it’s a call for change.

May Allah make us patient like the Prophet ﷺ and sincere like Anas (RA). Ameen.

Abu Hafs Lukgaf
(04-04-2025)

achorladey:
And in recent times we have shown them how their publication called Jehovah the chief Angel of Angel Michael

Xavier0978:
Hey guys,

Please, I need your opinion on this issue. So I’ve known my girlfriend since NYSC 2019, and ever since then, we’ve been best of friends. I travelled out in 2022, but we still kept in touch and from there we started dating. I’m 29 and she’s also 29. Honestly, I have plans to settle down and marry her when things are right.

A quick note: she’s been trying to come over to meet me as a student ever since I got here, but for one reason or the other it hasn’t worked out (Canada visa rejections and all). Now, she’s talking about how she plans to settle down before her next birthday and even suggested that I marry her while she waits in Nigeria for a maximum of two years before joining me. She really just wants to get married.

To be honest, I currently work and I’m also doing another master’s program in a very reputable institution here in Canada, and I will be done this year. The stress of working and schooling is a lot, and my current workplace pays the barest minimum. I literally have nothing left after sorting out all my bills and expenses. I’m not financially ready to settle down right now, and I even gave her a timeline of two years. Worst case, no matter what, we’ll settle down in two years max. Let me try and fix things for myself here. I can’t marry and bring someone’s daughter here to come and suffer.

I’m a worried person. My dreams are really big and God knows I’m working tirelessly to achieve them. She also knows because I discuss everything with her. Honestly, I understand her point of view, but I’m the kind of person that gets really anxious easily. It would kill me to get married, have kids, and not be able to cater for them.

I know you can’t have everything financially before settling down, but I want at least a moderately stable job. One that allows me to take care of her confidently even if she comes over and doesn’t work immediately. To be honest, my job pay is very low, like unimaginably low, and I’m just barely surviving. I’ve pictured every possible scenario, thinking and planning ahead, but everything is pointing to one answer — I’m not ready.

Considering her age and the kind of person she is, I strongly believe that after marriage she will want kids and to start building a family. That’s not a bad thing, but I, as a man, don’t want to get stuck in that life yet because I know the kind of future I envision. I’ve always promised myself that I won’t raise a family on “manage-manage.” I feel like if I get married now and start raising a family, my focus will shift entirely to making sure they live well, which could make me lose track of my personal goals.

I swear, I know my girlfriend loves me. That’s not in doubt. But I’ve been pleading with her to give me at least two more years. If after that things are still not great, then we’ll settle down and manage until something better comes.

Right now, to be honest, I don’t even have anything financially to plan a small wedding, and I definitely won’t borrow or ask anyone for financial support to do a wedding.

Please, I want your honest opinion. The two options here are: either get married before this time next year or end the relationship now, as there are other people already asking for her hand in marriage.

Maximus692:
The point is nobody has ever heard from the dead to know there condition it's the Bible that revealed what is happening to the.
So Jesus said to one of his disciples:

“I am the resurrection and the life. The one who exercises faith in me, even though he dies, will come to life; and everyone who is living and exercises faith in me will never die at all. Do you believe this?” John 11:25-26

Those who never die at all will continue living forever on planet earth! Psalms 37:29; Matthew 5:5

When you see my brothers in your neighbourhood they will continue from there.

This is the book you need to study:

Enjoy Life Forever!

Morbeta11:
https://x.com/RedpillDrifter/status/1915842931535302858?t=32cVyiYuTCdqv1eU2mWECA&s=08

https://x.com/Cotilleando/status/1915986784799907858?t=UfsfsbvUhWS18NgfNUwTng&s=08[/quote]But she has done several cosmetics surgeries since then now.

She did a Nose Job
She did a mouth Job
And probably several others we don't know of

She obviously doesn't look normal now

Omihanifa:
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Lamanii22:
Hello nairalanders, a beautiful morning to you all, I am not very good in mathematics li have been wandering if my kids would be better at it. Thank you 😊

TimeManager:
By Umar Farouk Bala



https://www.premiumtimesng.com/opinion/789590-captain-ibrahim-traore-the-soldier-selling-africa-false-hope-by-umar-farouk-bala.html

Inyimanicholas:
Casting out or driving out demons or evil spirits is a subject of great importance for every believer. The Bible provides clear instructions, examples, and authority through the name of Jesus Christ on how to cast out or drive out demons or evil spirits. This powerful truth is essential for anyone seeking victory over spiritual oppression. In this article, we will explore how to cast out or drive out demons or evil spirits using the name of Jesus Christ, supported by Scripture from John 14, Mark 16, Luke 10, Acts 8, Acts 16, Philippians 2, and more. Whether you are ministering deliverance or seeking freedom, the Bible is the ultimate guide on how to cast out or drive out demons or evil spirits.
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Knowing how to cast out or drive out demons or evil spirits is essential for every believer. The Bible provides a clear path: believe in Jesus, use His name with authority, live a holy life, and rely on the Holy Spirit. The power to overcome evil is real, and it is available to those who walk in faith and obedience. As we follow Jesus' example and the teachings of Scripture, we will continue to see victory over demonic forces in our lives and in the lives of others.

WriterNig:
No the bigger shame is on the so called world power U.S that needed troops from all 30 NATO members to invade the poorest country in the world Afghanistan. All NATO countries sent tens of thousands of troops. Even Ukraine sent troops to help US in Iraq.

The US spent 20 whole years, $4 trillion and still lost to goat herders walking on bare foot.

Ukraine on the other hand, had the largest ground & mechanized army in Europe. Much larger than France and Germany put together.

Plus Ukraine is the largest country in Europe after Russia.

You keep hammering on the less than 8k troops North Korea sent to Russia. While ignoring the fact that Poland alone sent double that amount to help Ukraine. US sent over 10k troops and a whole lot of others. From South America to Japan, all disguised as mercenaries.

bluebay:
That’s has nothing to do with the Government. The CMD of the Hospital has to be held responsible…Tje Government and some philanthropists Gives massively to the hospital but the CMR and other executives Keeps all to theirselves and remit lean revenue to the government .

Quelme:
you are clearly still living in delusion and your own alternate reality. I rest my case.

Quelme:
Russia is on the right side of history... No to Nazism!!!

Krismas:
America have been fighting Russia in Ukraine for the last 12yrs. So, stop making it look like Russia is benefitting anything from Trump. Trump's deal is merely postponing the war for Russia.
For Zelensky, he is a non-issue. Whatever he chooses to do, is irrelevant to Russia

Krismas:
Zelensky is a puppet of the Neo-Nazi.
What he has is the brain of a fish.
Genius my foot

Thundafireseun:
Very possible…..

Haven’t you seen the figures when they exchanged dead bodies?

Thundafireseun:
Ok …. 5000 solders are dead …. Continue deceiving yourself

BeginsAtHome:
He doesn't know that most politicians were once comedians.

Ask Akpabio

mecuries:
... When was that?

Krismas:
Zelensky is a puppet of the Neo-Nazi.
What he has is the brain of a fish.
Genius my foot

eastOFwest:
Trump wey him feature for WWE match sef

Thundafireseun:
And the comedian turned president is still in South Africa…,

LegalWolf:
I support this!

Edited: In fact, I have responded before realising this is from a familiar handle. Hope you are good?

Cheers!

DrRasheed:
Thanks for honest question.

This verse was revealed during a specific time of war between the early Muslim community and the Byzantine Empire. It was not a blanket command to terrorize or harm non-Muslims. Rather, it referred to defensive military campaigns against empires threatening the Muslim state at the time.

Jizya was a tax paid by non-Muslims in the Islamic state in exchange for protection and exemption from military service. Muslims, on the other hand, had to pay zakat (a different form of tax) and were required to serve in the military.

“Let there be no compulsion in religion…” (Surah Al-Baqarah 2:256)
This verse makes it explicit that belief is a matter of free choice, not coercion. My brother, like many scriptures (including in the Bible), the Qur’an has verses that deal with war, especially because the early Muslim community faced persecution and war. But these are not blanket orders to fight unbelievers; they are tied to specific political or military contexts.

Seun:
Dear Nairalanders,

By popular demand, we have ended the swearing of oaths before commenting on the Islam section.

However, the requirement to engage muslims and all Nairalanders with decency and respect remains.

We have promoted the Islam section to the top level because it's a very important religion.

We have renamed the Religion board as the Christianity Etc board, recognizing the fact that most non-Muslims are Christians.

Please enjoy! And feel free to share your feedback about these changes.

Guyman02:
The statement was made by Trump, the reality is that Ukraine missed a big chance when it negotiated from a position of strength in 2022 but they were misadvised by Boris Johnson not to accept and since then thousands have died and Ukraine lost more territory to Russia

Emusan:
That's what I'm pointing out.

The except can never happen.

In case the except ever happened, the Engineer or Builder on site should be sacked and certificate withdrawal.

Guyman02:
That statement was made by a NATO General and not Russia.
Putin has never given a timeline for the war which they call Special Military Operation

Emusan:
Parapet can never carry the roof load.

Any Engineer who put roof load on the parapet needs his/her certificate to be withdrawn.

Parapet is always anchor to the roof beam which bear the entire roof load.

Guyman02:
Zelensky has no cards left on the deck, he must accept Russia and US agreed terms which includes ceding Crimea to Russia and Russia will in turn relinquish some of the territory it has captured from Ukraine as advised by Trump or Ukraine will seize to exist as a country in the next 3 years as predicted by Trump yesterday.
EU leaders that are telling Zelensky not to agree to Trump's plans will not be able to sustain the war if US stops it's support for Ukraine

South4sure1:
Good morning engineers in the building.

Please I want to ask a question. Is it possible to start roofing immediately after casting the parapet?

Just 24hours gap.