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omoredia:
the babe that also acted like this was a yoruba girl too.

lmao. My own be say we dey "date" she is a single mom. She collected transport thrice. And each time na different lambs. Even lied that she did heart surgery 😭😂 another time it was her grandma eye surgery. Lol be like Yoruba babes nai dey do this nonsense. Well, I don learn Sha. Na me go dey find love. Girls wey don die on the inside.

omoredia:
is she a yoruba girl? cos the advice i will give is based on that

what if na Yoruba? Cause I dated a Yoruba that acted exactly like this.

learnedman:
Stop wasting your money,time and energy on Olosho or runs girl,get a responsible girl to date and possibly marry.

😆 "responsible girl" ROTFL 😭😭😂😂😂🤣🤣

Kalulu44:
There’s this girl I met on the 10th of September 2024. Which was on my birthday.
We got talking and a friendship developed.
From that September till December, we hanged out a lot and she came to my place exactly 5 times.
Let’s I forget, two weeks after the friendship started. I put her on 2k daily allowance and every two days #500 for recharge card. Not forgetting other things I bought for her sometimes.
Before most of una and especially the ones wey call themselves redpiller, begin yab me. 2k to me no be anything cus as a bus driver I make over 10k and above daily.
.
So, in the 5 times she has come to my place. She hasn’t allowed me make love to her apart from touching here and there. I tried all the convincing I can but to no avail.
Me no fit force or rape woman, so I always let her be.
Then she promised on the 31st night of December 2024, that we’ll get down, but she wants us to book a nice hotel for it.
I said no problem, on the D day, after putting every plans in motion. I called her by 6pm and asked how far. She told me she’s getting ready. I said no problem.
By 7pm, I called her again and she said she’s on top bike. I noticed it too cus there was vehicular noises here and there.
30 min later I called again and she said she’s about 10 min away from me. That was the last time I heard from her. I called and called, her line was not reachable until it finally went dead. I stayed in that hotel till daybreak heart broken. Bcus I have bought and prepared so many things that will make the night fun.
The next day, I packed the few things I can and left for my house. Tried her number severally again but switched off.
Then in the evening of 1st January last year which was the next day. A known number called me, and asked if I have seen her cus she hasn’t been home since last night and that she told her she was coming to me.
I told the person I last spoke to her 7:30pm last night, that ever since then her phone is switched off.
She said they too haven’t seen her or heard from her too. It became something of anger to panic mode to me.
I became worried about her.
There’s nothing that didn’t run thru out mind that day.
Has she been kidnapped, did she had an accident and so many other thoughts.
That same babe her friend that called me earlier kept calling me to know how far. Same answer from me.
The next two days I couldn’t go to work, panic has set in for me. What if that her friend bring police to my place, cus she said she told her it was me she was coming to meet. Luckily she called me after 3 days.
My people, as I am typing this. She hasn’t tell me what transpired that day, even after she left my place this morning after not seeing each other thru out last year.
.
So after the incident, I didn’t talk to her for a while. Three months later, we started chatting. But she hates me bringing the topic of what went wrong that night of 31st. So I totally stopped bothering her about it. Thru out last year I have been trying to invite her to my place, but it has been one excuses to another till last year ended and we didn’t see eye to eye.
So on the 31st night again which was 2 days ago, I teased her again, that shey she know it’s a year we haven’t seen each other. She promised to come see me on the 2nd which is today. And what do I have for her cus she didn’t eat my 1 naira thru out last year. I told her they’re many goodies and that I even have 10k to give her, but on one condition that she should not come to my place and start playing holier than thou attitude for me. I told her we must get down or she should forget about coming.
.
Like play like play she came truly. After entertaining her, we got down to the main business why I invited her. Luckily for me, she didn’t prove stubborn like before. Not until she said if not for the money I promised her she wouldn’t have come. She said this in the middle of our marathon race. I said within me, me sef know say na im make you come but I go suffer you with that money.
.
So after every every. She was about to go and asked for the money. I brought out 10k, counted it in her presence and after, did as if I wanted to give her, as she stretched her hand to collect it, I withdrew it back and asked her.
Are you a prostitute? She said no nah, and why did I ask?
I said cus it’s only prostitute that collect money for sex.
She felt embarrassed and asked what is my meaning.
I told her since she says she’s not a prostitute, I won’t give her the money but later when she gets home. That if I give her now, then she should take herself to be a prostitute in my sight. I opened my account balance to show her money more than the cash I had with me.
I told her to drop her account number, that either this evening or tmrw morning I will transfer the money to her, and at that time it won’t be as if I am paying for sex.
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She looked at me for upto 2 min without saying anything and then finally said, if I am sure I will send it to her. I told her I cross my heart that I will do it. She grumbling gave me her account number and say what of transport fare. I said that’s not a problem, I squeeze 1k into her hand and escorted to take bike of #500.
It’s been over 3hrs she left, but she has reminded twice not to forget the 10k o.
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So guys, I am having double thoughts. Not that I can’t give her the 10k. But another part of me is saying I shouldn’t and use it as pay back for what she did to me a year ago. Still the soft and good heart of me is saying forget pay back, give her the money and let her know you’re bigger than that.
.
P.S: lets I forget, that her friend that called me the last time about her missing. It seems they have quarrel, so she told me plainly that it was another guy she went to be with for that three days.
So all these are part of why I feel revenge in my mind.
So guys, what do you think I should do?
Give her the money or bullshit her? I have till 12pm tmrw to give her reply.

Control her come your house for another round. Try to convince her that you'll give it to her when she comes. When she comes, ask for sex, tell am say you go give her after the sex. Then give it to her. And chase that stupid Olosho out of your life. Me know say na another man she go meet when she ghosted on you. Lol. Na their way. Useless things.

Kalulu44:
There’s this girl I met on the 10th of September 2024. Which was on my birthday.
We got talking and a friendship developed.
From that September till December, we hanged out a lot and she came to my place exactly 5 times.
Let’s I forget, two weeks after the friendship started. I put her on 2k daily allowance and every two days #500 for recharge card. Not forgetting other things I bought for her sometimes.
Before most of una and especially the ones wey call themselves redpiller, begin yab me. 2k to me no be anything cus as a bus driver I make over 10k and above daily.
.
So, in the 5 times she has come to my place. She hasn’t allowed me make love to her apart from touching here and there. I tried all the convincing I can but to no avail.
Me no fit force or rape woman, so I always let her be.
Then she promised on the 31st night of December 2024, that we’ll get down, but she wants us to book a nice hotel for it.
I said no problem, on the D day, after putting every plans in motion. I called her by 6pm and asked how far. She told me she’s getting ready. I said no problem.
By 7pm, I called her again and she said she’s on top bike. I noticed it too cus there was vehicular noises here and there.
30 min later I called again and she said she’s about 10 min away from me. That was the last time I heard from her. I called and called, her line was not reachable until it finally went dead. I stayed in that hotel till daybreak heart broken. Bcus I have bought and prepared so many things that will make the night fun.
The next day, I packed the few things I can and left for my house. Tried her number severally again but switched off.
Then in the evening of 1st January last year which was the next day. A known number called me, and asked if I have seen her cus she hasn’t been home since last night and that she told her she was coming to me.
I told the person I last spoke to her 7:30pm last night, that ever since then her phone is switched off.
She said they too haven’t seen her or heard from her too. It became something of anger to panic mode to me.
I became worried about her.
There’s nothing that didn’t run thru out mind that day.
Has she been kidnapped, did she had an accident and so many other thoughts.
That same babe her friend that called me earlier kept calling me to know how far. Same answer from me.
The next two days I couldn’t go to work, panic has set in for me. What if that her friend bring police to my place, cus she said she told her it was me she was coming to meet. Luckily she called me after 3 days.
My people, as I am typing this. She hasn’t tell me what transpired that day, even after she left my place this morning after not seeing each other thru out last year.
.
So after the incident, I didn’t talk to her for a while. Three months later, we started chatting. But she hates me bringing the topic of what went wrong that night of 31st. So I totally stopped bothering her about it. Thru out last year I have been trying to invite her to my place, but it has been one excuses to another till last year ended and we didn’t see eye to eye.
So on the 31st night again which was 2 days ago, I teased her again, that shey she know it’s a year we haven’t seen each other. She promised to come see me on the 2nd which is today. And what do I have for her cus she didn’t eat my 1 naira thru out last year. I told her they’re many goodies and that I even have 10k to give her, but on one condition that she should not come to my place and start playing holier than thou attitude for me. I told her we must get down or she should forget about coming.
.
Like play like play she came truly. After entertaining her, we got down to the main business why I invited her. Luckily for me, she didn’t prove stubborn like before. Not until she said if not for the money I promised her she wouldn’t have come. She said this in the middle of our marathon race. I said within me, me sef know say na im make you come but I go suffer you with that money.
.
So after every every. She was about to go and asked for the money. I brought out 10k, counted it in her presence and after, did as if I wanted to give her, as she stretched her hand to collect it, I withdrew it back and asked her.
Are you a prostitute? She said no nah, and why did I ask?
I said cus it’s only prostitute that collect money for sex.
She felt embarrassed and asked what is my meaning.
I told her since she says she’s not a prostitute, I won’t give her the money but later when she gets home. That if I give her now, then she should take herself to be a prostitute in my sight. I opened my account balance to show her money more than the cash I had with me.
I told her to drop her account number, that either this evening or tmrw morning I will transfer the money to her, and at that time it won’t be as if I am paying for sex.
.
She looked at me for upto 2 min without saying anything and then finally said, if I am sure I will send it to her. I told her I cross my heart that I will do it. She grumbling gave me her account number and say what of transport fare. I said that’s not a problem, I squeeze 1k into her hand and escorted to take bike of #500.
It’s been over 3hrs she left, but she has reminded twice not to forget the 10k o.
.
So guys, I am having double thoughts. Not that I can’t give her the 10k. But another part of me is saying I shouldn’t and use it as pay back for what she did to me a year ago. Still the soft and good heart of me is saying forget pay back, give her the money and let her know you’re bigger than that.
.
P.S: lets I forget, that her friend that called me the last time about her missing. It seems they have quarrel, so she told me plainly that it was another guy she went to be with for that three days.
So all these are part of why I feel revenge in my mind.
So guys, what do you think I should do?
Give her the money or bullshit her? I have till 12pm tmrw to give her reply.

Guy na runs girl be that na. She na Olosho. She dey do runs. No reason am. Just dey pay am 10k to come make you knack. Finish. No go think say you fit date her else you be the biggest muntula for this world.

absoluteSuccess:
We can't help it, it's already an argument and you can't stop the argument, but in all of it, you always go back to the real human being that you are before the universal religion:

The Arabs were a great and illustrious people before Islam, they were not at dagger drawn with any group of people, except for their freedom, in case it's threatened. But everything changed afterwards.

Islam subdued Arabia, and the Arabs embraced it as their nationalism.

I'm a Yoruba man for instance, and they are traditionalists, about God they said "it is God that is serving us". This is very true, I don't know what our piety have to offer the blessed creator that put the entire universe in place, so much that we have to kill one another to please him like the gods. That's pure evil.

God is the original artist, he's the Creator in chief. An artist that created an artwork, who invited people who knew about his work to see what he has done will be very happy to see them appreciate his work and use it to create something more beautiful, no doubt.

But imagine if you have to create something to destroy the work of the artist or kill some of the people raised by the artist (to either use or) appreciate his work all because they don't appreciate the artist the way you do? Would that be in the interest of the artist or your selfish interest?

People who believe in God appreciates his work, people who do not does not remove anything from him because he doesn't need their piety to be God. That, he is already.

But here is the wisdom of God, there's a place we need him: we will be in trouble if we don't understand our world, God should help us to come to the knowledge that can help us. That will make our lives much better.

Take a personal example: If I'm in penury, it's because I lack knowledge on how to be rich, to do that legitimately, I should know the truth, that truth should help me succeed, making me free from penury.

But as simple as this is, I may not be able to organize my thought this way and may not eventually come out of penury however hard I try, as I might decide to work harder and die trying.

Yet, I actually need an inspirational idea. That's where God comes in. Whoever told me such a thing that set me free eventually gave me the word of God and I don't care what you call him, he gave me light. He led me in the path to further enlightenment.

Now let me say at his word, I went to school, I acquired knowledge, then I become more enlightened is my destiny helper.

If that man claims to have come from God, why should I doubt that for the good he helped me accomplish without breaking the law? I could be appreciative of him as my godsent. He didn't impose himself on me.

Religion should bring hope and light, not sword, conquest and a book I must live by. Any religion that's against enlightenment is a "slave-master belief system".

Religion if it will be useful should take away pain, not try to replace itself as a substitute pain prescribing itself with compulsion.

well said bro. 👏

FatimaAbubakar:
Keep deceiving yourself. Adeyemi Mukaila reporting from Osogbo, Osun State.

you dey mind the aneema

FatimaAbubakar:
They should migrate to Benue or Kogi. Nsukka is Igbo land.

simple. I'm not igbo but I support this. If they love Islam so much as they claim make dem go north go practice am. Or even Afghanistan. Why is that so hard for them?

absoluteSuccess:
Sooner or later, they will bring the war to you complaining of marginalization, which is just a natural phenomenon when you choose to put yourself in the spotlight by trying to be intentionally different.

You can be Igbo Muslim if you like, but be good example of human being, not a contentious fellow that has the insatiable need to proof something or gain selfish sympathy. Don't use religion to endanger people's lives.

A God you have to kill another human being to please enmass is not the creator but a destroyer. You can't come to my poultry, kill my birds and still tell me it's for my own good.

A god that needs his disciples to fight for his honour to defend him by taking lives. Omo. Religion don make people brains rotten sha

Incognito403:
The same amount you were offered to post this salad.

I have been to Igboland and seen Igbo Muslims first hand. In Owerri and Ebonyi.

There was even one brother Emeka when we were on campus.

See how tolerant and loving you are. There's no hate like the christian love. Tueh!!!

see this one. But it's not Christians claiming to be the religion of peace and terrorizing people everywhere they go. Tufiakwa. Have some shame. They are intolerant because of your blood sucking religion. Have some shame oga. Y'all have been brainwashed to believe islam is the way. I feel so sorry for y'all.

Incognito403:
Those people are the most intolerant set of people in this country.

I just wonder how they're able to. package themselves online when their societies and personalities are the exact copy of what they accuse others of.

The way they kpai muslims in the south east is beyond measure. But our bigoted media especially channels, arise and sahara will never say a thing about yhe thousands of crimes going on there daily especially if Muslims are the victims.

Aneema. They should go to the north to practice the islam. E no hard

sacajawea:
Gone Far

Oga explain na. You dey allergic to explaining ?

FreeLine:
I had the same opinion when I started till I started seeing results. It is all about getting the right survey links, doing it correctly, and being consistent.

if I tell you how many times I don hear this line ehn. E come dey sound cliché

Double0h7:
You will marry a single mother 🤬

😡 dey play. Even if they use black magic, it won't work. I'm not the one looking for love. You are.

All these mumu questions. The fact say you dey alive and healthy you've achieved a lot already.

Wetin she wants make we come do? Make she face her warrant abeg

15Kaylord:
Yeah Bro I know about that. Once it involves money I am out o lol

correct!

15Kaylord:
Please I am interested drop the telegram link . I had like to join

bro no pay anybody money to teach you how to make money from surveys. It's not guaranteed. Naso dem dey sweet talk people. Results vary as well. Make you no start to regret

Whatever you do, don't pay anybody to teach you how to make money from surveys. No say dem no warn you.

Kobojunkie:
Why do you assume that everyone is as indisciplined as you and all those around you? 🥱🥱🥱

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meobizy:
Like rats; the more you chase, the more others sneak into your home. I will continue even if it takes me all my years on earth. Hand no fit pain me. Na my own benefit concern me.

Double0h7:
Zero tolerance for negativity, stress, or anger: New Year, New Me ❣️💅

arrrggghh! Your relationship will fail 😡

meobizy:
New year, new me. This year, anything that will make me unhappy, I'm cutting off. No bad vibes in my life.

Amen.

but you talk the same thing last year 😡hand wey you use dey cut off no dey pain you!

G

autoez:
📍

🌚

Arkmanbuddy:
🤣🤣🤣🤣

Wetin happen? Why you dey para?

the thing dey vex me die. Idjiits go dey form better person just because of new year. Stupid folks.

autoez:
You dey fear gun? You no get gun?

I no get you fit dash me one? I go appreciate

autoez:
Coward Gunmen. They only operate in Vulnerable States. They can't try all these in Ibadan and many parts of Lagos and go freely. If dem get mind, make them come attack Mushin police station or Obalende.

you well so? People wey carry gun?

Sirchiboy:
Nobody is coming to save you.
Not your parents.
Not the government.
Not your prayers alone.

If you don’t build yourself, life will use you!!!

Try as much as possible to learn a skill before entering university.

Try to leave your parents house as early as 18 or 20 and hustle on your own.

No too carry book for head or you will regret it later in life.
Try as much as possible to get girlfriend or mingle will girls in your teenager years (e get y).
This will expose you to street wise and build your confidence to face life.
If you are an introvert or shy shy boy.
Never make a mistake of attending only boys school rather strive well to attend mixed school (e get why).
No try to form holy holy when it comes to making money.
Follow them oooo make that money as e dey hot.
And finally being nice or kind won't take you far.
Be brutal and mingle with people that got something to offer

mtcheww Oga stop advising yourself. Live life and do what you want. Your mates don die. Human beings too get wahala. Just live your life and try to adhere to God's instructions. Money is good, but it won't make you happy

Mrdealer4all:
I wish I was fair.
Life would have been so fair to me

Who born this one? Na your problem for life bet his?