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sacajawea:
Gone Far

Oga explain na. You dey allergic to explaining ?

FreeLine:
I had the same opinion when I started till I started seeing results. It is all about getting the right survey links, doing it correctly, and being consistent.

if I tell you how many times I don hear this line ehn. E come dey sound cliché

Double0h7:
You will marry a single mother 🤬

😡 dey play. Even if they use black magic, it won't work. I'm not the one looking for love. You are.

All these mumu questions. The fact say you dey alive and healthy you've achieved a lot already.

Wetin she wants make we come do? Make she face her warrant abeg

15Kaylord:
Yeah Bro I know about that. Once it involves money I am out o lol

correct!

15Kaylord:
Please I am interested drop the telegram link . I had like to join

bro no pay anybody money to teach you how to make money from surveys. It's not guaranteed. Naso dem dey sweet talk people. Results vary as well. Make you no start to regret

Whatever you do, don't pay anybody to teach you how to make money from surveys. No say dem no warn you.

Kobojunkie:
Why do you assume that everyone is as indisciplined as you and all those around you? 🥱🥱🥱

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meobizy:
Like rats; the more you chase, the more others sneak into your home. I will continue even if it takes me all my years on earth. Hand no fit pain me. Na my own benefit concern me.

Double0h7:
Zero tolerance for negativity, stress, or anger: New Year, New Me ❣️💅

arrrggghh! Your relationship will fail 😡

meobizy:
New year, new me. This year, anything that will make me unhappy, I'm cutting off. No bad vibes in my life.

Amen.

but you talk the same thing last year 😡hand wey you use dey cut off no dey pain you!

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autoez:
📍

🌚

Arkmanbuddy:
🤣🤣🤣🤣

Wetin happen? Why you dey para?

the thing dey vex me die. Idjiits go dey form better person just because of new year. Stupid folks.

autoez:
You dey fear gun? You no get gun?

I no get you fit dash me one? I go appreciate

autoez:
Coward Gunmen. They only operate in Vulnerable States. They can't try all these in Ibadan and many parts of Lagos and go freely. If dem get mind, make them come attack Mushin police station or Obalende.

you well so? People wey carry gun?

Sirchiboy:
Nobody is coming to save you.
Not your parents.
Not the government.
Not your prayers alone.

If you don’t build yourself, life will use you!!!

Try as much as possible to learn a skill before entering university.

Try to leave your parents house as early as 18 or 20 and hustle on your own.

No too carry book for head or you will regret it later in life.
Try as much as possible to get girlfriend or mingle will girls in your teenager years (e get y).
This will expose you to street wise and build your confidence to face life.
If you are an introvert or shy shy boy.
Never make a mistake of attending only boys school rather strive well to attend mixed school (e get why).
No try to form holy holy when it comes to making money.
Follow them oooo make that money as e dey hot.
And finally being nice or kind won't take you far.
Be brutal and mingle with people that got something to offer

mtcheww Oga stop advising yourself. Live life and do what you want. Your mates don die. Human beings too get wahala. Just live your life and try to adhere to God's instructions. Money is good, but it won't make you happy

Mrdealer4all:
I wish I was fair.
Life would have been so fair to me

Who born this one? Na your problem for life bet his?

For my face. God punish anybody that types that rubbish in my face. Una dey mad. Don't you guys get tired of saying "new year, new me" this year, anything that will make me unhappy I'm cutting off" God punish all of Una wey dey make new year resolutions. I bet say by February Una papa go don backslide. Foolish people. New year new me. Yaanyanayan😡🤢🫤🤮 Rubbish.

The only peaceful religion that cannot afford the rest of the world peace. It's ironical when you call yourself religion of peace but continue to spread terror globally. Tufiakwa. Animals.

shortgun:
What exactly did Tinubu build in Lagos as governor if there are no working fire trucks

owo mi da and bunch of illiterate animals who are very quick to sell their votes for one satchel pure water of garri and half cup of rice. Spits. Before anyone comes for me, I'm from the minority tribe. Buncha educated eejits

DeclanR:
I'm really confused right now.
I met a lady I thought we would build our lives together, but later on, I noticed she isn't worth it.
She's not someone to Trust. The relationship was built on lies. She lies a lot. And also acts suspicious. This is why I'm doubting if I'm responsible for her pregnancy.

The first day I asked her out, and the second time we were seeing ever, I got home, we began chatting, she began making demands on me that she was hungry and craving for Draw soup and Semo to eat. I ignored her. I didn't send anything.
A month after, I learnt she's a single mother.

Again, she did abortion and denied it. Of course I wasn't responsible for it, since I was yet to sleep with her. I saw that she used her phone to search about "Abortion pills" on Facebook A.I. she claimed a friend of hers used her own phone to search it. I requested for the friend's number & called. But the friend denied it. The friend said she has an Android phone, so if she wanted to type such, she would do so with her phone and not on someone else's phone. My babe was seriously sick at that point & couldn't go to work for a week. She was throwing saliva everywhere. It was later she claimed she was on a 6-Month family planning. Why would a single lady be on family planning?
Again, I can't touch her phone. Her phone is a privacy. But same lady came into my house, grabbed my torchlight phone and began reading my messages and going through my contacts. I caught her, I asked, and she said "Is it not just a torchlight phone. What's in there?
Whenever she's with me, she won't pick her calls and wouldn't allow me see who the caller's are. I complained. She moved from that to switching off her phone and claiming that her battery was low, but immediately we part ways, her phone miraculously gets ON without having to charge it first. I complained, she again moved to putting the phone on flight mode, I still caught her. The last one was Barring all incoming calls. I was always ahead of her, so I could always catch off guard. Her reason for all these, according to her, was because she doesn't want incoming calls to disrupt or disturb the moments we are together.
She will post pictures of clothes on her WhatsApp status and ask her contacts viewing same Status to buy same clothes for her. I saw this as an attempt to invite guys into her DM. All these are signs of a disloyal girlfriend. And each time I complain, she says I complain too much.
The last straw was when I accidentally saw her call log & noticed that a particular caller was always calling her, she even calls the caller most times. I confronted her and she said there is nothing going on between her and the caller and that the caller is a married man with kids. She went further to say that the man has being so helpful to her and that if she's in danger or need today, the man will always come through for her, even before me, her guy. I was so so shocked. That moment, I politely sent her outta my house. Her friend started calling and apologizing on her behalf. But I told her I wouldn't be able to continue with the relationship due to this act and several other acts which I consider inimical and detrimental to my mental health.
Before now, each time we had issues, she would message me saying " I'm praying I don't get pregnant".
I'm really sad that it has resulted in pregnancy and I'm not the one to suggest abortion. If in th end, I discover she's actually pregnant, she will have to keep it. But we can't cohabit. I'll take full responsibilities.
She hates to apologize whenever she's wrong. Since the moment she noticed I loved her and I had no other lady aside from her, she began to misbehave. Always making senseless financial demands on me. Rude and disrespectful.

If she misbehaves and I confront her, she'll get aggressive and defensive, she'll slam my door, take her bag and leave. There was a day she did this, I was running after her to give her transport fare, I was even without a shirt, I was trying to wear my shirt while running after her, I began calling her name to stop and wait for me, but she ignored me in fact, she never looked Back. I felt so embarrassed in the public.
There's no quality In her that suggests she's good. There are so many shortcomings of hers which I can't write here.

I intend inviting her over and conducting this test again, at least, twice. Then take her to the hospital and do it again to know the duration of the pregnancy. I only just started sleeping with her towards the end of November. I slept with her last, two weeks ago and we dated for five months.

you be funny person. When we chatted on WhatsApp I told you to let that girl go. I told you that she was going to soon pin pregnancy on you. You didn't listen. See yourself now? Shebi we agreed that you'd free her. Omo guy why you dey do like say you be pikin?

Modified. Going back to our chat you even claimed to have blocked her. Omo enjoy your misery. I took the time out to explain everything I went through so you no go fall maga. You still messed up. Omo.

Aleem26:
Na still same guy...with the same story

I told this asshole that she was soon going to pin pregnancy on him. He didn't believe me. This one won self destruct by force.

Fearlez:
RIP, but he was a liberal man (woman wrapper) utterly selfish and self absorbed. And weird too

May his soul rest in peace

hmm. For real?

Judolisco:
exactly tough times don't last, only tough people do, since I read dis book, nothing dey meet me again.... I was in dis guys shoes two yrs ago, d book jst dey ring for my ear.... It's d same reason I try to help most of my friends, even if u call me 100 times, I go stil try send u something, because I've been there

correct guy. Which book be tha?

Double0h7:
Why are you like this? 🥺

everybody must taste breakfast jare.

3Si69:
Kwarans are getting what they deserve. I recall listening to a radio programme from Ilorin where people were discussing bad governance. Many callers insisted that the only solution was for everyone to seek God’s intervention ( e je ki a kun fun Ibelohun). I’ll say this again... religion was created to control people, teaching them not to question but to accept whatever they are told.

They are majorly from the yoruba tribe. Let them keep praying to God instead of removing tribal sentiment and vote for good governance.

Double0h7:
2025 bought me the love of my life. I don’t know what I was doing in the past, but it wasn’t love. I felt so many firsts and I am grateful.

wait small na, it's still pretty early. Give it a couple more months

Kobojunkie:
Decipher what was a request that he instead like to himself? You are not even half as smart as you think yourself to be. 🥱🥱🥱

indeed. Now disappear.

Starz825:
2025 is a blessing in my relationship journey.

Got more Clarity about women psychology.

i now clearly understood why my ex did what she did.


Since women will always be women, so then, Men should watch their back. Always.

some guys go dey claim masters for woman matter. I dey laugh in Swahili. Take women seriously in a relationship at your own peril.

Kobojunkie:
Count your blessings...eaning choose to live denying reality, right?

Op just told his truth as he sees it and would like others to know it. Rather, than accept, you would rather he weave fairy tales ---- colorful lies --- around his reality, abi? Nonsense! 🥱🥱🥱

Religion seems only capable of producing nothing but more arseholes this planet does not need more of. 🥱🥱🥱

if your brain cannot decipher what I've typed, that's not my problem