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Zestzealotzenit:
your own good bro my banny say I nor fit buy her mama Xmas chicken or clothes she get elder sister wen dn marry n elder brother too but non of them buy rice wen I tell her mother she say make I no bother cus she know say things rough for me but banny still da insist I must buy na so relationship end 2 days back

the way olojukokoro take dey make these girls ruin themselves needs to be studied. Very useless sets

PureSperm:
Good morning Nairalanders. Merry Christmas and a prosperous happy new year in advance to each and every one of us here

My girlfriend called me last night to request for money for Christmas hair. She knows I'm presently broke and doesn't have the amount of money she's demandingly for. So I told her to go and cut her hair . She took that as an offense and been angry with me since the conversation started. She has been demanding for 30knfor hair and 80k for clothes for the Christmas. To make the whole matter Worst,she told me the relationship may end along with 2025 if I fail to provide the money for her. Those words have been ringing in my head since she dropped them ,but I'm confused and I don't know if that's enough reason to end a relationship of over 3 years+ which we've suffered to build together,all because of ordinary Christmas hair and clothes . Is she normal at all?

Please my fellow Nairalanders, should I consider this as a red flag and dump her cos I don't think I've done anything wrong to her by asking her to cut her hair . She even looks more prettier on low hair cut ,from her look during the last time she cut her hair

bro if she threaten to dump you, tell her your done. Wetin you dey wait for? 110k as per?

We dey struggle to find wetin to eat, dey struggle to find how to pay rent , we dey pay tax upandan yet we no dey benefit in any way. Still our government has sold us out to be killed at any time. Who cursed us like this? I curse that religion islam. May it not be well for those who are using religion to take innocent lives. To what end? Life is transient. You won't even live forever. What exactly are you killing people needlessly for? Tufiakwa

HgAkpobomeEr:
Lagosians shouldnt panic. Security agencies are on top of the situation.

guy are you well? How much dem dey pay you to dey lie upandan .dem swear gee you?

Seems like the boy has been brainwashed or something. He needs to be found asap. OP is he a Muslim? The islamic revolutionary guard corp is not a good sign at all.

You need to get answers from him. He must have been linked with cultist organisations or worse still some terrible idealogies. God help you OP. See wetin doing good won cost you.

I hope he's found and investigated.

budaatum:
It's a great pity that seun does not seem like he cares too much about what he has provided us with here as much as I do.

Its like he does not know that Oxford University began just by people congregating in the city and exchanging ideas just as we do here.

But in all sincerity, perhaps him not knowing is what has made this site invaluable. If he did know, his head might just grow too big for his shoulders and his ego might destroy the site.

Seun, buda humbly respectfully bows.

indeed. Well said. btw, I am currently loving the way you write. There's this thing that's been playing on my mind for a while. I suspect that you're one popular user like that. I'm not sure, but I just have that niggling feeling.

budaatum:
Obviously not, since the service seun is offering is in no way worth that much!

I did offer to backdate, note, and I have been here awhile, so it might be a considerable sum indeed, though I doubt as much as 1k dollars.

fear nearly catch me. Lol. I would have asked whether you had Pammy before you typed that. Seun doesn't seem like he cares too much about it though.

Rynny:
She always takes everything that am the one at fault, lately I just consistently apologize for the ones I do n don’t do, I just apologize for peace to reign cos am tired of constant quarrels, and if I decide to go quiet with she start acting weird, after few days she comes back saying how of a feminist or woman have I become that she went quiet I also went quiet. And I be like you hurt me with your words and insulted me and you still want me to come beg you, the reply was “That’s what real men do”😮‍💨

Dude how old are you?

Daniel058:
I'm usually surprised, like what do men see on women backside...

To be honest most times the so called big nyash disgust me.

Big boobs better pass am Nah

you have sense.

Daptboy:
When we dae collect red pills for nairaland more than 10yrs ago.. I doubt you were here... So face your front...

and you've refused to answer my questions. Why have you decided to settle for a single mom. Na lack of options abi kini? Chief Red Pillar like you no suppose dey date single mom nau. Haba.

Daptboy:
When we dae collect red pills for nairaland more than 10yrs ago.. I doubt you were here... So face your front...

lmao. You sound like a kid. You no fit pass 21 years as I take dey read you so. Na me suppose dey feel triggered. Red pillar like you just dey lose steeze anyhow. Tell me again, how old were you 10yrs ago cause you no dey sound mature at all.

Daptboy:
Baba think say everybody na simpleton like ham... Keep dreaming bro..

make sure you update us o when she starts to act funny. If not I go swear for u you wise pass elders wey say make you avoid single moms ba. But wait o. Why can't you go for single ladies without burdens and baggages?

budaatum:
That might work for 12 year olds, but mature people watch both words and deeds.

I definitely would be worried if my sons listen to him, and moreso if my daughters do.

this is serious.

Daptboy:
Baba think say everybody na simpleton like ham... Keep dreaming bro..

sha update us when e go sour, promise me you'll. You think say you wise pass others wey dey avoid single moms ba? Mr Red pillar of salt. Lmao. You go soon learn. Ma worry. Just update us sha.

Samantha125:
My sister or not, we're all controlling you...💃💃💃

Before your girlfriend or wife, it was your mother who was controlling you.

my mom brought me into the world. She gets a pass.

Daptboy:
Which true colors?? No be everybody dae be simp like you bro

okay na. Sha be kind enough to update us when things go side ways. Thanks.

MikeofKd:
It's you that has been attracting OS , the women I've been with aren't all perfect but they don't live useless lifestyles either.
When you start attracting classy women , you would understand my writeup better.

"classy" women

Odebayo4010:
Men, there are 4 women you must avoid if you want peace in your life. 1. A woman who disrespects you. 2. A financial vampire and parasite. 3. An angry and bitter woman. 4. A single mother. Avoid them all.

my ex was all four. Omo I no try for myself at all. The girl is a very low vibration being. I was too blind to see it on time. I pity the man that falls for her next.

Buharidgeneral:
I wish my relationship to be like the above unfortunately I have been a strangerin my house. So sad

stranger in your own house? How? Bro free the girl abeg.

MikeofKd:
Most Nigerian men sexaully objectify women and it's sad. What do you mean asides sex what do men gain from women ??
1. Deep conversations with a woman who is emotionally mature and intelligent is way better than sex
2. A woman that helps you do stuffs with or without asking her.
3. Companionship, you guys don't even have to be talking all the time , just being in each others presence alone is sweet like mad
4. A woman that gives you vital information, introduces you to people that can help u in life
5. A woman that prays for you , roots for you , supports your growth
6. Gisting and gossiping with a woman sweet diee

Omo I can keep going on and on , theres so much fun you can have with a woman and segs would only be an added bonus.

lmao. And the women themselves do what? Go to social media and see them posing almost naked to attract views and engagement. This your talk no follow. The truth is, most of them have nothing tangible to offer. And it would become worse in the next generation as a lot of stupid men are willing to sponsor their baby girl lifestyle.

Diamond098454:
Almost all your post is about women

No matter how bad you guys paint women the truth remains the same

That no man can do without a woman.

I can oh.

Samantha125:
Of course it's about control, the world would've been chaotic had it been we didn't step in to take control over you... That's why English says "behind every successful man, there's a woman".

Why do you think many men change for the better the moment a woman comes into their lives?

The same way your heartless sister is currently controlling her current fiance right? Smiles.

Sirianese:
Internet dating is almost always a scam bro, from either end...one of the two parties or even at times both of them act with bad faith from the get-go

Omo ehn

budaatum:
Andrew Tate is not the sort of person I'd be in a room with considering what comes out of his mouth.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EmKs_jsS5-w?si=tOE7XSqvXI7FLK4Q

Leave wetin dey comot for him mouth and pay heed to wetin him dey do. That's all. You'll change your mind.

budaatum:
And there's some willing to pay subscription for the service seun is providing (sans his annoying spambot of course).

1k dollars?

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guobe:
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There should be a reward system for people using nairaland just like Twitter, telegram and Facebook rewards people using it.
I don't really kn9wcif nairaland can have something like that too.

Seun is greedy man.

Daptboy:
I love the activeness on this topic.. I commend all of you... Though I wish to digress a little....

Why are single mothers so nice and accommodating? Why is the pvsdy so sweet and inviting??

Is there something they're not telling us??

nice and accomodating? Wait small she'll show you her true colours soon

Diamond098454:
I don't speak or hear Yoruba

chai. You are missing o. Leave PH and come to Lagos.

Diamond098454:
hahaha hahaha hahaha🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Oloun Meaning?

God lol. You no Sabi Yoruba

Diamond098454:
caaz is that purple💜 light wow.... I thought it was green🟢 light

this girl na troll oloun

Caaz:
This one you re giving Tenrack purple light....we re watching you.

I Neva recover from my heart ache. Fret not ma. 😭🤣