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MONEY247:
Regular for me
No girlfriend
Just My regular lonely life

aribisala0:
Let us be fair
Objectively
I may not agree with his position but it is not entirely unreasonable or crazy

Nigeria is not the only country with this idea on indissolubility e.g
Russia, China, USA have the same approach

He may have done it for selfish reasons or genuine nationalism who knows


My point is Eboes after him should not blame Yoruba or Awolowo for their predicament in Nigeria

We didn't bring them into Nigeria so they should stop blackmailing us about how to exit
When a sensible human being climbs a tall tree we advise him to exit the same way he got to the top if he chooses to jump instead he must face the consequences


We Yoruba don't know Eegboes before Nigeria we did not bring them into it
They signed an agreement and agiriment is agiriment

They all can pack and go to Jerusalem if they like

aribisala0:
Ordinarily you don't deserve a response
But it is important to educate others

Awolowo advocated for a secession clause and Zik opposed him

Facts are stubborn

Eboes opposed secession because they believed they are smarter than everyone and would dominate

Nigeria I built on a NEGOTIATION

Your ancestors negotiated and rejected secession

The word they put in was INDISSOLUBLE

Meaning we die here

That was Ziks contribution

Don't blame Awolowo
https://pmnewsnigeria.com/2019/04/27/flashback-why-i-opposed-awolowo-on-secession-zik/

The Iboe lies will not go unchallenged
So don't try to blackmail Yoruba

Every person speaks for himself as an individual

No one has ever won an election campaigning to leave Nigeria

Juv2:
i am seriously looking for what Chelsea saw in this Delap

Sirchiboy:
How much can change your life forever now?
Be sincere...

Namaster:
This is simultaneously PATHETIC and HILARIOUS!

First of all, that's a TATTOO on her breast.
Likely NOT the only tattoo she has.
If Ope knows what's good for him, he'll remain INCOGNITO.

Secondly, this:

"...Ihave been dreaming for ope since 2019"


Smart people will ask "what changed in 2019?'

She hit The Wall, that's what.
She could feel the wall closing in.

She was done playing the field.
And ready to settle down.

When she was 18-25 and getting attention from men of her spec, she did NOT dream of Ope.

That's why she waited 13 years to dream of Ope.

Thirdly, this:
"Baba told me..."

Ope, if you are reading this, RUN!

NO sensible man should have ANYTHING to do with a supposedly EDUCATED woman who still dabbles in VOODOO.

Imagine in the 21ST Century and an educated person is paying for a Native Doctor to help her find someone called Ope with no surname or picture.



That level of STEWPIDITY could be contagious.
AVOID!

Rather than paying for a Private Investigator, madam went to a Baba.

MADNESS!

Her OCCULTISM and TATTOOS are HUGE Red Flags.

Ope NEEDS to run.

Finally, it is SHOCKING to see a grown-ass woman think that she'd met her SOULMATE at 13.

Both of them were barely on the cusp of PUBERTY.
Hormones were raging. And their brains were barely fully formed.

It speaks of the ULTIMATE DESPERATION for someone to think that they met their soulmate, someone they knew for a few weeks, at that age.

Plus, the "love" at that age is still INNOCENT.
It has not been coloured by past experiences and BETRAYALS.

I am 100% certain that if Ope appears right now, he'll NEVER live up to the memory of Ope in this lady's mind.

RESENTMENT will build up in no time.


FINAL FINALLY, ALL other sensible men should take note of this lady and AVOID her!

You don't want to play second fiddle to a 20-year old memory.

You don't want to be with someone that is DESPERATELY pining for the memory of a 13-year old boy that no longer exists.

Thankfully, she was kind enough to include her pictures.
Makes it easier to RUN!

Celebrityblog:
https://www.instagram.com/p/DSreDV4DHND/?igsh=bTRreW85bGdub3Rw

budaatum:
No. I am not smart nor intelligent enough to be the very wise Magnoliaa.



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budaatum:
Can't say I saw a question from you.

Can you repeat it please?

budaatum:
If other people are the cause of my problems, then they are the solutions to my problems, but there's no guarantee they will care so much that solving the problems they caused me would be their top priority. So I choose to own and be responsible for all problems I may have, because that way I am empowered to find my own solutions for my own problems.

Now, if the above makes sense to you, you will crucify yourself so that you can resurrect, because what you sow will not come to life unless it dies.

My apologies for Bible if it's not your inclination.

Namaster:
It's a MANIPULATION technique called Trickle Truthing.

They ALL use it.

First, comes the BLATANT lie—female friend.

When that lie becomes unsustainable, then a little TRICKLE of truth—It was actually a MAN but nothing happened.



If you continue to press her, another truth will trickle out—something did happen but it was JUST a kiss.

Then, it'll turn to just BJ and no penetration. They didn't even get naked.

Then, it'll become they did get naked but he just RUBBED the tip on clit.

Then FINALLY, it'll be we had sex but it was just ONCE.



MEN who still marry today are just deceiving themselves.

Newton2024:
My Wife Admitts She Visited A Guy But There Was No Sex

Double0h7:
Maybe you were ovulating that day and you picked up on his pheromones, he was a healthy man and your biology took over. If you see him again with clear eyes, you might change your mind.

Omg! It just happened to me 😂 I’m ovulating and I just caught eyes with a healthy specimen of a man and my insides moved! I looked back and caught him looking back and I felt 🔥 💥. It’s all biological.

YourGFsnatcher:
Second week of January boss

SixSeven:
He could even be married. Men who know their worth know what to avoid.

Seun what's in this reply that needs bot banning me?

ukaface:
Unfortunately Tinubu and his senators and his governors and his ministers won’t see this.

I wish them all a slow and painful death

Double0h7:
You’re the grinch of Xmas 🤣🤣🤣

Mikocake:
Una no dey everly get love at first sight or crush on barrow pushers and artisans, na always good looking and well to do men. Infactuation at its peak

SisterAnn:
👹

SisterAnn:
Oga speak for yourself. The lady says she's in love and I believe her.

Charis15:
Well currently I don't have a boyfriend.
I have been celibate for over a year and I'm okay. I have every good thing of life you can think of believe me.
I have a guy in UAE pleading for me to join him but I declined because I'm not attracted to him.
I give more when I'm in a relationship.
I'm not those 2k abi 20k girls

Sirmwill:
These kind of situations lead to broken homes and broken hearts,eternal frustration and unending regrets

I tell people
There is really nothing like "Love at first sight"
You can NEVER like a person:girl or guy,at first sight
You only liked her curves or height or complexion or face freshness or hair or his height or complexion or his car or his expensive clothes or his manner of speaking
And NOT THE PERSON
Loving someone takes days,
It takes weeks
Months,
Years
Decades
Ask people who lasted till their old age in marriage.
When the money, curves, skin, everything goes away, where would the love be?

Btw
You have hormones that want you to procreate to maintain the human population and further develop Ecological systems
This makes people think they are in love

Charis15:
Lol
I also belonged to that school of thought that believes that there is nothing like love at first sight.
Wait till it happens to you.
Life is deep and unpredictable.

SisterAnn:
Na wa for you oo

Someone cannot fall in love in peace again?

Charis15:
On Sunday the 21st day of December 2025 I left my home that faithful day and embarked on a trip to my village. That was our family thanksgiving day, so missing out was not an option. I arrived at the park around 12noon and I was so in a hurry to meet up because they will start 12 till around 3pm. When I got to the park at koka in Asaba heading towards Kwale, though I will stop before Kwale but there is no straight Car to my village that's why I have to board with them, but they needed 5 more persons to complete the vehicle and that's not an option for me, so I went to the vehicle going to Warri/Ughelli because they just needed two more persons. When I got to that sienna I saw something that captivated me and change my whole sense of reasoning, A handsome, tall, fair and spotless man. OMG am I lusting? I lost my gaze for a few seconds. I think it's called love at first sight. I regain my cool and I told driver please shout louder so we can move and this man/guy said to me why don't you pay for the extra 🪑? I was just 🤔 what to answer. He said " them no dey chop woman money", I chuckled and then he said, " I will pay for the extra sit for you because you are in a hurry", chai see caring man. And I jumped and gave him hi five. But fortunately for him, a guy came and completed the sit so we kicked off. We had some talks about the situation of the country and the west. He told me what happened when he went for training in Amsterdam, Dubai etc.
Now I believe a guy should show interest first no matter what. He didn't ask for my contact and I said good, I'm a woman and I have dignity. So neither will I ask.
When I got to my junction, I highlighted and waved him., Immediately that car drove off, I was full of regrets and until now my heart isn't settled. I know I'm in Love. But how can I love a total stranger like this?
Now the pain I feel is like a broken heart for love that never bloomed.
I have never felt like this about anyone before.
I don't know his name , no contact, I don't even know if he likes me or maybe he is married, yet I feel so much pain for not being able to communicate him thereafter.
Now I feel at ease discussing it here.

YourGFsnatcher:
Yes. But I'm on holiday

SpencerForbes:
It’s a double-edged sword. If you’re playing the 'just a friend' card without any real game, you’re basically funding her lifestyle without her even noticing. She’ll bill you before she bills her own boyfriend because she sees you as a safe 'provider' while you think you’re just 'preparing the ground.' You’ll be the shoulder she cries on while she’s being handled by other guys. Then, after 100 heartbreaks, you try to move in for a kiss and she gets angry because she feels you weren't 'honest' about your intentions.

The truth is, being direct is a confidence booster. Even if you get rejected, you’ve acted like a man. It shows b😊lls. Hiding behind 'friendship' just to get close usually stems from a fear of rejection. Some women with high standards won't even respect you until you show that masculine backbone. It reeks of low self-esteem. While the friend-to-lover route can work, it requires elite-level game and usually takes way longer than necessary. If you don't handle it perfectly, you lose the girl and the friendship in one go. Unless you have serious game to navigate the transition from friend to partner, you’re better off just shooting your shot directly and moving on if it’s a no.