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ismokeweed:
Please ignore that frustrated thing

LMAO

willibounce1:
Oga go and do DNA to be sure the children are yours.. she was going to keep this secret until death do you part. She is not trustworthy.. even if you guys have been married for forty years, it is a serious problem for you to have discovered that she lied about her age. Why didn't she tell you all the while..

Women can just be very devilish... as far as I'm concerned, things can never be the same. Yes you can forgive but no man will ever forget this kinda crap. Why did she lie about her age?

hahahahaha, bros I like you jare. So many phoolish people here giving phoolish advice.

munas:
Go and sit down...
Do you know what trust is?

When you lose trust in a marriage,you have lost it

bro, these days these idiots on NL don't read and comprehend, they just comment because they want likes, thereby missing the point.

Ranchhoddas:
She made him a man? Am I dreaming these comments?

bro you're not dreaming oo, some of these NL kids are just so pathetic

Ranchhoddas:
Gosh I was shocked at the comments. Can you just imagine those idiots?

most of them are big idiots that aren't even married yet but are coming here to form marriage counselors.

luminouz:
N me too!

ItsQuinn:
Lots of childish Nigerian men everywhere

what do you know?? Nothing...

chuksbogus2001:
All those that comment didn't address the issue at hand .you guys are absolving the wife of any wrong doing making it look like the guy I not suppose to feel bad after finding out this.what is there are other things this guy is yet to find out.I expect people to first condemn the wife for lying to the husband .in fact she deceived the guy into the marriage.if the guy is aware of the age then he can make an inform decision .

Now ,op I know u are feeling bad about this but you have to put urself together.has she not been a food wife to u? remember her good attributes and forgive her. I guess she did it cos she doesn't want to loose u.

you're the only reasonable person here bro

NOC1:
Pls don't divorce forgive her.
but why do ladies lie a lot, my uncle divorced because the wife lied to him that he studied law, while she studied english.

There lies na mumu lie

I don't blame your uncle, a relationship built on the foundation of lies can never stand for long

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richommie:
Y dem come dey hide her face?
She resemble goblin?

#YOLO

stay there and be doing NCAN, relevant people are busy doing inter-tribal marriages while you NL lots be hating on each other

IamNawty:
Lol c his mouth he WIL be feeling lik one v important person ok

but he's more important than you na

Ndi oil soup kwenu...

rosalieene:
but when you posted your story, ppl believed you. why didn't u believe her? you think its only guys that gets molested ehen? u ask her why she kept going back. she kept going back because her sexual life was opened at a tender age just like you. Even if she enjoyed it you don't expect her to come say it here because ppl like you would bash her
Enough of all this, guys should stop playing the victim card here.
When you take statistics, the number of girls molested are more than the guys. Besides most of the guys take their revenge out on girls while in pry and secondary school. so therefore there is no difference between the guy and the lady who molested him.

rose, are you monitoring me or what?? don't let me cast and bind you oo

iamFawaz:
na fight? lol

Bros na fight oo

rosalieene:
are we fighting

walahi we're fighting oo

Should I comment??

KingOvoramwen1:

lol

It's in them, the tiger-claw faced region. They always want to make delusional spiritual money...spits

So no name, mtcheeewww....
Anyways from his region you don't need to ask of his ugly name

rosalieene:
pele

mtcheeewww

BTT:
I was with my grandma between age 2-8. Somewhere around age 5, there was this auntie (can't recall her name now) who comes to cater for me after school, before taking me to grandma in the farm. There was nothing that auntie did not do me. One I remembered clearly, while on our way to the farm, we branched to our regular bamboo tree rendezvous and were having sex when I strongly felt wee coming. So I told her wee-wee was coming and she held me tight and banged harder saying I should wee inside her. Wee didn't come.

I returned to my parents at age 8 and being cute and the son of a female school teacher, every auntie wanted to play with me and would be calling me 'my husband, my husband'. There was Jumailo, chocolate skinned, and always around our house and my mum trusted her. She would take me to their house and touch me silly while guiding my hands to her busty boobs and below.

During moonlight plays, she would insist it was dangerous and that we should just sit together and watch others while we fiddled with each other's genitals, then run to an uncompleted building's toilet area and Bleep silly. That went on for about 2 years.

I never saw anything wrong with those experiences because my 'care-givers' were very trusted by my parents, and my innocent mind believed that experience came with the 'taking care of' package until I grew to find that that was abuse.

I grew up liking only much older women who were busty and tall - a feature commonly shared by my childhood abusers.

If you are reading this and guilty, please stop. There are adults your opposite sex who will gladly oblige if you politely ask them for sex.

Bros now I can't toast younger girls cos I see it as child abuse which is not supposed to be so. All my life I've been dating older ladies, now I've even started toasting married women. Is it not rubbish??

rosalieene:
Who you con dey vex for

wetin concern you?? abi you follow dey molest small boys too??

Rule no 9. Don't use Nairaland for illegal acts, e.g scams, plagiarism, hacking, gay meetings, incitement, promoting secession. I hope SEUN is seeing this??

Chiefpriest1:
Sorry about your experience. So that those that have children or younger ones can learn from your encounter,

1. how do you think young girls like you can stop falling prey to those kind of mentally deranged men.

2. Why didn't you tell your parents. Is it that you were not close to them enough or they wouldn't believe you.

3. I know you were probably naive at the time, but what was the motivation for going back even when you knew it was wrong, according to you.

4. What can parents do to protect their children against the kind of experience you had.

Ps...just to advise that you should not continue with this your mindset that men are wicked. You won't enjoy your relationships like that.

All humans have the capacity to be good or evil. There are are still good men out there.

Bros don't mind the biish, she wanted the guy to fvkk her.

thickgodess:
I came across a thread dat said....Those Big Aunties That Disvirgin Us When We Were Small https://www.nairaland.com/3380877/those-big-aunties-disvirgin-us and i was like....the molestation carried out by men we far greater. I could remember one day that i came home from school, no body was at home and the house was boring. Our neighbor that used to put on generator that time was at home and the gen was on and i was like.... Let me go and watch film, when i got there, I greeted him as usual and he let me in. After some minutes, he asekd me to sit on his lap. I innocently accepted. Then i felt something under, before u know it he started using my ass to massage his d!ck....i was so confused, but i knew within me that it was wrong. Then he started to remove my undies, and continue rubbing it. It continued for some time. The day he wanted to penetrate, it felt very painful that i screamed. I was lucky that he never penetrated me fully. I can't even remeber his name sef.... Men are very wicked

you continued going back after your first experience, to have a feel of the "dead bones rising up" and massaging your buttocks, to the point that he nearly penetrated, that's if he wasn't the one that disvirgined you sef, then you now come online to spew trash....my dear,

Gideonaigbe:
Now listen to ya sef.....d day he wanted to penetrate in.
am not saying he was right o.all am saying is after d first encounter,wetin u sef find go dre again if u weren't also wanting sumtin to enter in.

no mind the biish

saintfellow:
lies everywhere.

very big lies

Omo see fat puuusay

Hardcore rap music makes me cry, especially the ones that describes the moment..

TrapQueen77:
Some boiz are usually shy to show & tell.. But why not start by staring at her then if she will look at u, try to wink on her and show ur cute smile? Try tat often, it may work... Who knows, she may say hi to u...

Does that work on you? Just curious

dmgr:
Like seriously this girl is very preety,that words can't describe how beautiful she is.
The first day i even set my eyes on her i was like asking my frnds those someone like that stays around here and i was very much supprised when i was told she even lives very close to where i stay.
Here comes my problem,this girl is always indoor when i say indoor her's is a complicated kind,that she does'nt even come out most at she is inside the car with her mummcy or on a bike,so because of these i never got the chance to mee
t her or even speak to her.

Need suggestions on how to go with tinx..
If u ain't typing sumtin reasonable u beta stay off!!!
No mind my eng jare

you have to go to their house to meet with her, unless you're jobless then you can be waiting everyday till you meet her one on one