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Islam for Muslims / Re: The Prophet Of Islam (S. A. W) Did Not Marry A 9 Year Girl by theapeman: 1:19pm On Oct 06, 2017
Raheemzee:
and your pastor that sleeps with 2years old babies nko...the 2years old babies have womb ba? Can they even satisfactorily drink pap

You believe what you want to believe, there's nothing I can do about that ....that's a common trait of a full blow bigot.

Trynna bring Islam down by all means but instead Islam goes up at all cost,hence you shout islamization islamization #liveAboveHate!
and the truth shall set you free!


give your life to Christ Jesus! he is the only way.

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Islam for Muslims / Re: The Prophet Of Islam (S. A. W) Did Not Marry A 9 Year Girl by theapeman: 10:31am On Oct 06, 2017
proudlyYoruba:

“It is reported from Aisha that she said: The Prophet entered into marriage with me when I was a girl of six … and at the time [of joining his household] I was a girl of nine years of age.

As to the authenticity of these reports, it may be noted that the compilers of the books of Hadith did not apply the same stringent tests when accepting reports relating to historical matters as they did before accepting reports relating to the practical teachings and laws of Islam. The reason is that the former type of report was regarded as merely of academic interest while the latter type of report had a direct bearing on the practical duties of a Muslim and on what was allowed to them and what was prohibited. Thus the occurrence of reports such as the above about the marriage of Aisha in books of Hadith, even in Bukhari, is not necessarily a proof of their credibility.

It appears that Maulana Muhammad Ali was the first Islamic scholar directly to challenge the notion that Aisha was aged six and nine, respectively, at the time of her nikah and consummation of marriage. This he did in, at least, the following writings: his English booklet Prophet of Islam, his larger English book Muhammad, the Prophet, and in the footnotes in his voluminous Urdu translation and commentary of Sahih Bukhari entitled Fadl-ul-Bari, these three writings being published in the 1920s and 1930s. In the booklet Prophet of Islam, which was later incorporated in 1948 as the first chapter of his book Living Thoughts of the Prophet Muhammad, The evidence are listed below with other researches

According to a hadith in Bukhari and Muslim, Aisha is said to have joined Muhammad on the raid that culminated in the Battle of Badr, in 624 CE. However, because no one below the age of fifteen was allowed to accompany raiding parties, Aisha should have been at least fifteen in 624 CE and thus at least thirteen when she was married following the Hijra in 622 CE.

Ibn Hisham’s version of Ibn Ishaq’s Sirat Rashul Allah, the earliest surviving biography of Muhammad, records Aisha as having converted to Islam before Umar ibn al-Khattab, during the first few years of Islam around 610 CE. In order to accept Islam she must have been walking and talking, hence at least three years of age, which would make her at least fifteen in 622 CE.

Tabari reports that Abu Bakr wished to spare Aisha the discomforts of a journey to Ethiopia soon after 615 CE, and tried to bring forward her marriage to Mut`am’s son. Mut`am refused because Abu Bakr had converted to Islam, but if Aisha was already of marriageable age in 615 CE, she must have been older than nine in 622 CE.
Tabari also reports that Abu Bakr’s four children were all born during the Jahiliyyah (Pre-Islam Period), which has ended in 610 CE, making Aisha at least twelve in 622 CE.

According to Ibn Hajar, Fatima was five years older than Aisha. Fatima is reported to have been born when Muhammad was thirty-five years old, meaning Aisha was born when he was forty years old, and thus twelve when Muhammad married at fifty-two.

 

According to the generally accepted tradition, Aisha was born about eight years before Hijrah (Migration to Medina). However, according to another narrative in Bukhari (Kitaab al-Tafseer) Aisha is reported to have said that at the time Surah Al-Qamar, the 54th chapter of the Qur’an , was revealed, “I was a young girl”. The 54th Surah of the Qur’an was revealed nine years before Hijrah. According to this tradition, Aisha had not only been born before the revelation of the referred Surah, but was actually a young girl, not even only an infant at that time. So if this age is assumed to be 7 to 14 years, then her age at the time of marriage would be 14 to 21.

According to almost all the historians, Asma the elder sister of Aisha, was ten years older than Aisha. It is reported in Taqreeb al-Tehzeeb as well as in Ibn Kathir's Al-Bidayah wa al-Nihayah that Asma died in the 73rd year after migration of Muhammad when she was 100 years old. Now, obviously if Asma was 100 years old in the 73rd year after Migration to Medina, she should have been 27 or 28 years old at the time of migration. If Asma was 27 or 28 years old at the time of hijrah, Aisha should have been 17 or 18 years old at that time. Thus, if Aisha got married in year 1 AH or 2 AH (after Migration to Medina), she must have been between 18 to 20 years old at the time of her marriage.

According to many Ahadith in Bukhari, it is believed Aisha participated in the both of Badr and Uhud battles.

Furthermore, in Bukhari's Kitabu’l-Maghazi, Ibn `Umar states: "The Prophet did not permit me to participate in Uhud battle, as at that time, I was 14 years old. But on the day of Khandaq battle, when I was 15 years old, the Prophet permitted my participation". So, since it was not allowed for Muslims younger than 15 years old to participate in Uhud battle, Aisha, who participated in Uhud, must have been at least 15 years old in those battles; thus her age was at least 13 to 14 at the time of her marriage.

According to ibn Sa’d's Tabaqat and Ansab al-Ashraf books, opinions are in disagreement concerning her marriage with Muhammad. The marriage seems to have taken place either two of five years after the Migration (Usd al-Ghaba, 5:501).

 For further evidence, read: http://www.defence.pk/forums/current-events-social-issues/7816-hazrat-ayeshas-age-marriage.html

 Even if she was in fact 9 years old, this marriage is still justified for the following reasons:
(a) She reached the age of puberty.
(b) The marriage happened 1400 ago, not today. At that time, their marriage was not considered unusual and the proof is that the enemies of Muslims at that time did not criticize this marriage. They attacked prophet Mohammad on many issues, yet they didn't criticize his marriage to Aisha.
 (c) The fact that prophet Mohammad married a 9-year old girl does not mean that we as Muslims can marry a 9-year girls today









Sissie , mukina2
breeze is beginning to blow and fowl nyash is opening!

wow! never believed Muhammed did this undecided

why sleep with a child of 9yrs old!

9yrs old got no womb!


danmmm! women's right must hear this!

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Islam for Muslims / Re: How We Are To Have Sex With Our Wives In Accordance To Sunnah- Friday Lecture by theapeman: 10:21am On Oct 06, 2017
youngvc1:


Source: https://schoolgossip.com.ng/how-we-are-to-have-sex-with-our-wives-in-accordance-to-sunnah-friday-lecture/
doggy style dude! doggy style

I have an imam of a friend who use to watch porn middle of the night and the next morning you will see him shouting Allahhhhhhhhhhhuhakbaaaa! and preaching the holy teaching of quran. undecided

let me ask him which method did he learn by watching porn.

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Fashion / Re: Girl Body Shamed While Growing Up Shares Her Transformation Photo by theapeman: 9:54am On Oct 06, 2017
Amagite:
Jaylala took to her Instagram to reveal she was body shamed while growing up, even her primary school ran away from her, but then, no condition is permanent!

http://www.lailasblog.com/nigerian-lady-body-shamed-growing-shares-picture-transformation/

just born one child go soon fat back!

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Crime / Re: Woman Bathes Husband’s Sexual Organs With Hot Water In Lagos by theapeman: 11:13pm On Oct 05, 2017
GogobiriLalas:
Bros from experience I can factually tell you that Naija women are the best...fact!
have you date all the women in the world before you conclude that naija women are the best?
Crime / Re: Woman Bathes Husband’s Sexual Organs With Hot Water In Lagos by theapeman: 10:19pm On Oct 05, 2017
HauteReel:
Mad woman. What's that popular saying again o? Oh I remember: "Many mad people are roaming; few are jogging".
don't you know that the average naija women have mental problem!

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Crime / Re: Woman Bathes Husband’s Sexual Organs With Hot Water In Lagos by theapeman: 10:12pm On Oct 05, 2017
dre11:








http://punchng.com/woman-bathes-husbands-sexual-organs-with-hot-water-in-lagos/





fear naija women!

there are specialize in acids pouring and skillful in hot water bathing incase you fvck up undecided

AS FOR ME AND MY FAMILY, WE SHALL NOT DATE OR MARRY NAIJA WOMEN

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Celebrities / Re: Seun Jimoh Supports Tiwa Savage: A Successful Woman Must Cook, Clean For Her Man by theapeman: 9:03pm On Oct 05, 2017
Oyindidi:
grin

Nice one. O ye women! Also lie down for your husbands to walk on your backs!
did your father walk on your mother's back?
Celebrities / Re: Seun Jimoh Supports Tiwa Savage: A Successful Woman Must Cook, Clean For Her Man by theapeman: 8:45pm On Oct 05, 2017
celebsnest:
Nigerian actor, Seun Jimoh has reacted to the issue of gender equality and he thinks the woman is beneath the man and so must never perceive herself as an equal.

Recall, the drama all started with Tiwa Savage’s recent interview in which she insisted that the man is the head of the family, that she does not believe in gender equality, because, according to her, that’s not “how God created us.”

Many people criticised Savage, while some, like Kemi Olunloyo, named her as one of the people who has made passing the Gender Equality Bill at the Senate a difficult thing.

Now, actor Seun Jimoh has risen in support of Tiwa Savage.

In his Instagram post, the actor noted what he thinks a marriage should be like: one with the man at the top and the woman beneath him, that the woman must understand her place in the relationship–the cook, the cleaner, and doer of all things the man designates for her. And if she dares rebel, she would be physically abused or kicked out of the relationship.

He wrote;


See more at >> https://www.celebsnest.com.ng/successful-woman-must-cook-seun/

good!

unlike the one who is forming slayqueen with peanut size brain!

naturally we shouldn't blame women, there all have fishbrain

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Education / Re: What Made You Register On Nairaland? by theapeman: 8:28pm On Oct 05, 2017
GrandFinale2017:
is this goingape?
cool
Celebrities / Re: Tiwa Savage's Huge Shadow Gradually Pushing Dija Out Of Music Business [PICS] by theapeman: 7:27pm On Oct 05, 2017
abdulkabirO:
Is Dangote a CAN member?
Dangote is a poor man if you don't now!
Health / Re: Why Do Men Smell Down There? How To Eliminate The Odor? by theapeman: 7:00pm On Oct 05, 2017
kaykith05:
A friend visited me recently and we got talking, cutting across different subjects.we discussed if it's healthy/hygienic to administer MouthAction on a female partner and my friend was like, Gosh!!!, never in his entire life week he try it.I asked him why, his response was that down there smells. The next thing he said got my attention and that's what I want us to talk about. He said even men's private smells not to talk ladies own.we got into a serious argument cuz I disagreed, telling him that if the region is well cared for, it will be void of any foul odour.he left and I did some research about it.

Have you ever been concern about the way you smell down there? Do you think MouthAction is one of the best things in the world but you are not lucky enough because of your penis odor? Are you ready to eradicate the smell and add aroma and flavors to your sex life? If the answer is big “YES”, Read on:

Beside bad breath and smelly armpits, penis odor is also one of the major turn offs on the male body. Genital odor can have major adverse effect to one’s self-esteem and confidence and may directly affect his sex life. Getting rid of genital odor can give both couples new level of confidence and improve the way both couples experience oral pleasure.

Where does male genital odor come from?

Well, it’s just sweat and moisture mixed with natural bacteria on your skin. Initially sweat is odorless, but when it comes in contact with normal bacteria in our skin, they break down the sweat to produce offensive odor. However penis odor may be present even without excessive perspiration or bacteria. Some foods (Garlic, onion, and asparagus) and drinks, alcohol, or certain medications can also produce bad genital odor.

How do you eliminate male genital odor?

Take regular bath

Take bath every day and every time after strenuous activity like soccer, exercise etc. Focus on inner thigh, groin, scrotum, foreskin and armpits.

Trim the hair short

The hair down there can trap moisture that may prevent skin to stay cool and dry resulting in pungent smell. You may clean shave yourself down there, but if you are uncomfortable with it, trimming very short can help keep away with the odor.

Wash carefully n properly

When you wash , get into every corner and details, and if you’re uncircumcised, the odor may be the result of a buildup of smegma beneath the foreskin. If this is the problem, then cleaning the area will wipe out the penis odor.

Dry out the groin area

Another trick to avoid odor is to dry out the moisture. Consider using hair drier to completely dry the genitals. Damp underwear and excess sweating are the major contributors that facilitate bacterial or fungal growth. So make sure to use clean and dry undergarments.



unless you didn't take your bath for more than a week! undecided

men don't smell down there, only women private part do smell

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Celebrities / Re: Emmanuel Somtochukwu: Meet The Young And Successful Pageant King by theapeman: 6:53pm On Oct 05, 2017
perdollar:
say wat!!!!!! bring ur sister come to me make she verify ur claim
OK! were make we meet?
Celebrities / Re: Tiwa Savage's Huge Shadow Gradually Pushing Dija Out Of Music Business [PICS] by theapeman: 6:42pm On Oct 05, 2017
Jetleeee:


I never knew the likes of Reminisce, Sound Sultan, CDQ and KWAM1 were Hindus
you dey hear there noise again undecided

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Celebrities / Re: Tiwa Savage's Huge Shadow Gradually Pushing Dija Out Of Music Business [PICS] by theapeman: 6:37pm On Oct 05, 2017
because dija is Muslim them never do prosper

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Celebrities / Re: Emmanuel Somtochukwu: Meet The Young And Successful Pageant King by theapeman: 6:32pm On Oct 05, 2017
emmyspark007:

Lol...you are only qualified to be an agbero
Lol..see mumu...someone who work in an health sector..Lol probably as a cleaner
lol!

as far them dey pay cool cash no problem whether cleaner or yansh washer cool
Celebrities / Re: Emmanuel Somtochukwu: Meet The Young And Successful Pageant King by theapeman: 6:26pm On Oct 05, 2017
1Rebel:

Afonja, always obsessed with anything Igbo related.
Bobrisky them. _Faggot
mind ya! I'm not an afonja man!

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Celebrities / Re: Emmanuel Somtochukwu: Meet The Young And Successful Pageant King by theapeman: 6:16pm On Oct 05, 2017
Amarabae:
choi BIG FAT LIE, Infact it is the opposite o,Igbo guys are endowed that area o, and are very good in bed, marry one and testify, but wait o, you are a man na, why did you say so btw?
did ask if I'm a doctor or not?
or someone who work in an health sector
Celebrities / Re: Emmanuel Somtochukwu: Meet The Young And Successful Pageant King by theapeman: 6:15pm On Oct 05, 2017
Amarabae:
choi BIG FAT LIE, Infact it is the opposite o,Igbo guys are endowed that area o, and are very good in bed, marry one and testify, but wait o, you are a man na, why did you say so btw?
did ask if I'm a doctor or not?
or someone who work in an health sector
Celebrities / Re: Emmanuel Somtochukwu: Meet The Young And Successful Pageant King by theapeman: 6:08pm On Oct 05, 2017
HauteReel:

You're thinking about diicccks? That's so gay.
undecided
Celebrities / Re: Emmanuel Somtochukwu: Meet The Young And Successful Pageant King by theapeman: 6:07pm On Oct 05, 2017
HauteReel:

You're thinking about diicccks? That's so gay.
undecided
Celebrities / Re: Emmanuel Somtochukwu: Meet The Young And Successful Pageant King by theapeman: 6:02pm On Oct 05, 2017
this kind of guys fit get small diicck!

but naturally Igbo boys dey get small preek

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Romance / Re: Man Marries Lady While Planning Marriage Introduction With Another One by theapeman: 4:37pm On Oct 05, 2017
Mindfulness:


She gave birth to you? I don't think so. grin

Romance / Re: Man Marries Lady While Planning Marriage Introduction With Another One by theapeman: 4:31pm On Oct 05, 2017
omooba969:


@bolded,

U don go hell b4, how u take know say pvssy dey smell like hell. cool
heard that hell have this sulfuric smell by some prominent pastors who have been there!

and the female private part smell like sulfur cool
Romance / Re: Man Marries Lady While Planning Marriage Introduction With Another One by theapeman: 4:25pm On Oct 05, 2017
majamajic:


u never had a good one.... step up your game.
mind you! the one you have been drilling with your tongue masks that offensive smell with perfume or so!

no women's private part smell so good all smell like shiit
Romance / Re: Man Marries Lady While Planning Marriage Introduction With Another One by theapeman: 4:19pm On Oct 05, 2017
Mindfulness:


My mother did not roll with im.beciles. wink
but she gave birth to an im.beciles

Romance / Re: Man Marries Lady While Planning Marriage Introduction With Another One by theapeman: 4:13pm On Oct 05, 2017
Mindfulness:


Now we know what kind of dirty ladies you roll with.
like your mother right?
Romance / Re: Man Marries Lady While Planning Marriage Introduction With Another One by theapeman: 3:53pm On Oct 05, 2017
why will men be putting their tongue on women's smelly private part? undecided
that place smells like hell
Celebrities / Re: Artiste, Weflo Working As A Bricklayer? (Photos) by theapeman: 2:49pm On Oct 05, 2017
sense is not common anymore!
can't ya see this is publicity stunt!
why he no dey look the camera and he dey pretend say he dey work!
make una dey use na sense na

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Celebrities / Re: Kemi Olunloyo Blasts The Bible, Submissiveness, Tiwa Savage And Queen Zaynab by theapeman: 2:43pm On Oct 05, 2017
WotzupNG:

Controversial Journalist, Kemi Olunloyo is at it again. This time around she not only fired shots at Celebrities as usual, she also took swipes at the Bible.

She claims she is running a campaign in support of gender equality and spoke of how Tiwa Savage and the ex-wife of Ooni of Ife, Queen Zaynab who both spoke against gender equality now have serious marriage problems. 

See her Instagram post below.



https://www.wotzup.ng/kemi-olunloyo-bible-tiwa-savagae-queen-zaynab/
very soon thunder go soon blast you!

dey play with things like this undecided

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Celebrities / Re: Dayo Amusa - Why Women Like Me Attract Cheating Partners "PICTURES" by theapeman: 2:35pm On Oct 05, 2017
viviangist:
@VIVIANGIST

As shared on her Instagram Page , Read below.

 I used to be a fixer. I stayed in bad relationships, attracting the same type of men—men who needed to be fixed.

I know so many women in the same position. We attract cheating men, commitment-phobic men, emotionally unavailable men, emotionally damaged men, alcoholics, drug abusers, narcissists and sociopaths.

It’s like we are a magnet for men whose pieces are shattered all over the place. And for some reason, we feel compelled to put these pieces back together.

But I must admit, I have failed every single time.

I never gave myself a chance to sit back and question my motives. Instead of asking why I constantly felt obligated to pick up someone else’s broken pieces, I ran to pick them up without a second thought. Being selfless made me think that coming second didn’t matter because I was putting someone else’s worthiness first. And in the end, rank doesn’t matter, right?

I realized that the reason I was attracting these types of men was because I believed I could save them.

As selfless, thoughtful, giving women, we think we will be “that woman”—the one who will change them. We think we can turn a cheater into a loyal boyfriend. We think we can help him walk away from the drugs and alcohol. We believe we can help him get over his commitment issues and aim for a stable future with us. We trust that we can get rid of the emotional baggage that he has been carrying for years. 
We attract these men because we believe they need us. And to leave them would be selfish, insensitive and ruthless.

The sad news is, we constantly blame ourselves when they don’t change. Every time they fail us, we think it’s because we failed them. Their hold on us becomes stronger; they keep us around knowing they have nothing to offer. 
It’s just my view. What’s your view Let’s interact 
#JustMyView #JMVwithDayoAmusa #TAO#millionshadesoftao

Via : http://www.viviangist.ng/dayo-amusa-women-attract-cheating-partners/

cc; lalasticlala
cos you are a mad woman

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