Lukgaf:
Praise be to Allaah.

For a man to embrace and hug his daughter, or kiss her on the head or cheek or between the eyes by way of showing compassion, kindness and love is permissible, even if she is an adult, on condition that there be no fear of fitnah or provocation of desire. Excluded from that is kissing on the mouth, which is only for spouses, and which usually provokes desire.

Imam Ahmad (may Allah have mercy on him) was asked: Can a man kiss a woman who is his mahram? He said: If he has come home from a journey and does not fear (temptation) for himself.

Ibn Muflih said: But he should never do that on the mouth, only on the forehead or head.
End quote from al-Adaab al-Shar‘iyyah , 2/256. See also al-Iqnaa‘ , 3/156; al-Mawsoo‘ah al-Fiqhiyyah , 13/130
Shaykh Ibn Baaz (may Allah have mercy on him) was asked:
Is it permissible for a man to kiss his daughter when she has grown up and passed the age of puberty, whether she is married or not, and whether the kissing is on her hand or mouth or so on? If she kisses him in those places, what is the ruling?
He replied (may Allah have mercy on him):
There is nothing wrong with a man kissing his daughter, whether she is older or younger, without desire so long as that is on her cheek once she has grown up, because it is proven from Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) that he kissed his daughter ‘Aa’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) on her cheek. And because kissing on the mouth may lead to provocation of sexual desire, so it is better and safer not to do that. Similarly, a daughter may kiss her father on his nose or head, without desire. But if there is desire then that is haraam for all concerned, so as to avoid temptation and so as to block means that may lead to immorality. And Allah is the source of strength.
End quote from Fataawa Islamiyyah, 3/78, 79.

Secondly:
Embracing sons and daughters when they are small, hugging them, smelling them and kissing them are all part of the compassions and warmth that people should give in abundance to their children and not deprive them of it, because it is compassion that Allah has created in the hearts of His slaves, and Allah only shows mercy to those of His slaves who are merciful.

We advise fathers and mothers not to deprive them of this parental gesture, because it is a basic psychological need, especially in small children, as is proven in all psychological and educational studies, both contemporary and classical.
It is proven in Saheeh al-Bukhaari (5997) that Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) said: The Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) kissed al-Hasan ibn ‘Ali, when al-Aqra‘ ibn Haabis al-Tameemi was sitting with him. al-Aqra‘ said: I have ten children and I have never kissed one of them. The Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) looked at him, then he said: “The one who does not show mercy will not be shown mercy.”

In Saheeh al-Bukhaari (3704) it also says: al-Bara’ entered with Abu Bakr upon his family -- after he reached Madinah as a migrant. ‘Aa’ishah was lying down as she was suffering a fever. I [al-Bara’] saw her father kiss her cheek and say: How are you, O my daughter?

And Allah knows best.

https://islamqa.info/en/159539

is there any Islamic ruling on child marriage and pedophile?

Neminc:

If we no marry them, shey na our fellow man we go marry?

nop!
strongly against naija women!
you can see a decent one around your neighboring countries

ChangeIsCostant:
Here are photos trending on social media showing how a man was caught and disgraced after he was caught sleeping with another man's wife in her house. According to media reports, the woman's husband got wind of what was going on in his house after being tipped off by neighbours.

The visibly angry husband stormed the house with security operatives and others as they caught the randy pair romping on the bed.

The young man was arrested and taken into custody.

Source; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2017/11/pandemonium-man-catches-wife-lover-house-photos.html

naija women are so useless

I pity our brothers who keep marrying those black good for nothing creature called women

IamHeWrites:
An Egyptian lawyer has sparked outrage and he revealed he believes women who wear ripped jeans deserved to be raped.

Nabih al-Wahsh was speaking during the Infirad Show, a current affairs talk show in Egypt hosted by Saeid Hasaseen.
Incredibly, Wahsh said it was part of the ‘national duty’ to rape women wearing such garments because they were “inviting men to harass them”.

He also said that his view was even more valid if the jeans were ripped from the back, according to Al Arabiya.
He said: “Girls must respect themselves so others respect them.
“Protecting morals is more important than protecting borders.”
Brave female guests on the show attempting to fight back against Wahsh’s views after being outraged by his comments.

The debate was aired on October 19 on the Al-Assema satellite channel as guests discussed the country’s draft law fighting prostitution and debauchery.

Maya Mursi, Head of the National Council for Women’s Rights said the comments were a “flagrant call” for rape and violate ‘everything in the Egyptian constitution.
The council has now filed a complaint about the statement to the Supreme Council for Media Regulation.

But despite the backlash, Wahsh has refused to back down, and has even released an updated statement to another media website where he said

Wahsh’s damaging comments come as a recent #MeToo campaign has taken over social media.

Women around the world are sharing the two simple words on social media to show the true scale of sexual assault.

http://www.torimill.com/2017/11/part-of-national-duty-to-rape-women-who.html

in support!

rape them those eeediot with no decency!

BloggersNG:
Nigerian Singer Turned Nude Expert Maheeda has poured loved words on her daughter as they went for shopping recently, she shared the photo above and cried out of how the daughter demands for expensive clothes, Which makes her to double her nudding hustle every month, According to her the whole going full and half nude everyday is to make sure her daughter wears good cloths.

News From Ebiwali-- http://www.ebiwalismoment.com/2017/10/i-hustle-hard-just-to-buy-expensive.html

daughter will soon enter the family business!

we need to boyscout this DSTV and MTN to show them a lesson!
useless set of black people

Towncrier247:
As a show of appreciation for his financial support, Eniola, who recently got her first job said she plans on spending half of her salary on her boyfriend. How nice of her...but why the announcement?

http://m.af1234.com/Af1234/details/newly-employed-nigerian-lady-explains-why-shell-spend-50-of-salary-on-bf

check well! maybe this woman is a mix breed.

no naija women with her fvcking sense intact will ever do what this woman is about to do!

AfricaGotTalent:


https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kelvin_Doe

Radio Biafra

talk2percy:
The family wan savage the small pikin...did u just say ur sweetness? U should be arrested for child abuse!

shut up!

while a particular religion here will be fvcking child you won't say anything but if it come do this you are shouting child abuse

Towncrier247:
An American lady, Lisa Flowers who is married to a much younger Nigerian man, Nelson has taken to Facebook to plead with Nigerians to help her find out what happened to her husband as she has been unable to communicate with him since Thursday. She revealed that she has been getting conflicting news from his family. SHe wrote;

My Nigerian family and friends - I need your help to find out what has happened to My Sweetness, Nelson De'Enabry. Since Thursday morning there has been conflicting news from his family members concerning his well being and if he is even alive. I have no proof from his family that he has left this earth. Please reach out to one another to help me find the truth about this situation with Nelson De'Enabry.

http://m.af1234.com/Af1234/details/us-lady-cries-out-as-her-younger-nigerian-hubby-goes-unreachable-pics

this is what I love about white woman! they can love you for a nation.

but our naija women will quickly assumed the guy dead while jumping from dicck to dicck


we got a lot of imbec1les as women in this country

#NEVERYOUDATEANAIJAWOMEN!

tintingz:
Hello folks.

I want to know if the husband still earn/deserve the position of "head of the house" if the wife is the breadwinner?

Is the "head of the house" earned or a birth right for men?

I understand some men lost their job and their wife took/take up the responsibilities but what happens when the wife is the one keep doing it for years, no positive move from the husband?

* I'm not a religious person nor traditional person, so don't use your religious/traditional view as the ultimate/superior answer, just comment your views on this.

yes! but better to divorce such woman or else you will be miserable with her.

Vanmatrix:


Source: https://www.google.com.ng/amp/www.mirror.co.uk/news/world-news/my-five-year-old-daughter-11312462.amp

Muslims preek will be salivating now!

naija women and quick to open yansh for anyone

our women are good for nothing piece of shiit and I will advise ya to start dating foreigner!.

them don't open yansh like our baboons as public toilet and them (white babe) will always love you.


our naija women no longer have private part but public part.

CastedDude:
Photos of this latest coupe in town are trending online due to obvious reason. According to a social media user who shared the photos and congratulated the couple on their union, the 19-year-old boy tied the knot with his 15-year-old bride. This happened in the Northern part of Nigeria.

Source; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2017/10/19-year-old-boy-marries-15-year-old-girl-northern-part-nigeria-photos.html

prophet Muhammed got married to a 9yrs old child. at least this one is ok

roasted things on board!

emusmithy:


Well, I don't know your experience so I wouldn't judge you but can you not generalize?
There are some good ladies out there...At least a few

well! I'm not generalizing in the sense that there is no good ladies out there (even all over the world) "cos no one is good except God"

what you see as good are just sheep in a wolf cloth.

emusmithy:


Women are not piece of shit, to me. Bro, a woman gave birth to you. Besides, I'm not homosexual

except for my mother which is exceptional any other women (naija women especially) are nothing but just a vessel of shiiit.

Besides, you don't have to be an homosexual to know this things.


if you are in a field of business the one thing you should be aware of are women (naija women) for there are the dream killers of business.

emusmithy:


Seven Kinds Of Ladies Around A Broke Guy

Being broke is an usual phenomenon for the average Nigerian young man. It's almost like a necessary pathway to greatness.

The only issue is different ladies treat you differently when you're broke.

There are several categories of ladies you are likely to encounter when you're broke.



1. Miss "Unconditional Love" Lady

This particular type of ladies are as rare as diamond. In fact some guys believe they're like dinosaurs; they've gone on extinct. This kinda lady is loyal to the core. "Patience" is her middle name.
She can go through with him from being a "broke corper" to the point of getting a good job, without knowing if his parents has got some wealth. This Love, I heard is declared MIA in Nigeria due to the recession. May she be found again.


2. Verbally Abusive Ones

This is especially if the guy did all to 'impress' her. Eventually, she found out his name was "Stark Broke". Her heart is dashed. She resorts to abusive words, in person and online. I blame the guy though. But the girl in POINT 1 wouldn't do that. She would see the motive behind his action. Maybe he loved her too much and overestimated the cost of reaching her. That's love too, you know.


3. "In And Out" Kinda Girls

(Watching His Prosperity Level Through A Microscope)

Go, she won't go. Stay, she won't stay. When she manages to depart for months, she's all busy checking up on his progress.
Her love isn't dependable. She's of no good, at the long run. She will leave you if you face a financial challenge in the future.
She'll call and after some minutes, "Are you still working in that place?" One leg in, One leg out.
The very moment you breakthrough, they'll be all over you. Monitoring Spirits


4. Just-Friends Kinda Ladies

She's just there for you. She doesn't look at your predicament and sometimes even shares her cash with you. Probably has a serious relationship going for her, but you're damn closer to her than her fiancé. She tells you everything. You sometimes feel like asking her out, but no guts. Too close. It'll be odd. Above all, you're not sure of what will be her reply.


5. Business-Like Ladies


It's a business world bro. My people say; "if a dog is looking at you with tongue out; it's either there's bone with or around you."- If a business-like kinda girl looks faithful and loyal around you, look well. Maybe she's calculated you're the first son to inherit your dad's property or you've got one wealthy uncle. Lol!
She might even buy you things sef. Don't be fooled. Those are baits. You'll pay double



6. "Highest Bidder Kinda Ladies"


When these ladies were girls, they thought they could be that faithful girlfriend but as they evolved, richer guys revolved, they began to dissolve. They returned to the old ways of their predecessors. It's alarming.
Even though she truly loves you, without money, you've got no chance. That's one reason you've got to make the money.

7. "Sucking Blood" Kinda Girls

This set of girls got no chill. They don't leave him. By looking at him, you can tell he barely eats well and you're asking him to borrow you #10,000 that you'll pay back next week. Who told you you'll pay back at all? Must you be lied to? This type wants to suck him dry. Every kobo, they want to take away from him.



Goodnight famz!

so who come dey around rich guy

All in all women are piece of shiiit! we shouldn't care about them.

spartacus11:

U and d madam who be like who dem bribe, if a neutral person view una commet?

Go get some sense, rubbish CX u get head waka enter rubbish CX thread wat does dat mak u?

Olodo, na ur mate for China dey produce phone which one u don do, u see who produce u call am rubbish wen u nor fit make toothpick

Empty head.

which one you don produce?

MizMyColi:


My winner would be the CX.

Ordinarily there would be no need for this comparison, camera specs wise.
because, the CX has greater megapixels.
But then, I have heard so much of how tecno's CX pales in comparison to Note 4, despite all that. So I really wanted to see stuff for myself and I can honestly say that I think otherwise. I do not really think of any as a winner. If any, then it would be by very slight margins.

I was given the impression that I would throw away Camon CX if I touch Note 4. I have to admit that Note 4 packs stuff that makes the device interesting. I still love my Camon CX none the less and there are reasons, cogent reasons why I would not trade it for a Xiaomi note 4.

There are also reasons why I would not trade Note 4 with CX.

So, for me, they are both great devices really. but I'm inclined to Love CX more.

tecno CX don bribe this girl

this rubbish CX with interpolated camera mp!


comparing shiit with phone who does that?

RIP DSTV

we will remember you in south Africa just like Mandela!

nneka the fat serpent

DrObum:
Why not?!

Are there no jobless girls?!

there are busy hustling for readymade guys while some due to the hustling has fall into the hands of ritualist

Gbadegesin19:
With the too much expenses of girls wanting recharge cards, going to the cinemas and all that, is it wise to be broke and still veer into a relationship?

Broke guys in relationships share your experiences and thoughts too.

guy!

Gbadegesin19:
With the too much expenses of girls wanting recharge cards, going to the cinemas and all that, is it wise to be broke and still veer into a relationship?

Broke guys in relationships share your experiences and thoughts too.

my nigga! instead of going into a relationship I advise you to fvck them those biitchs and throwaway and hustle your life.

you got nothing to lose in this case


this era is not the era of going into a relationship with one piece of shiit of a woman who will give you headache or rather put all her problem into you

this is the era of seeing women as piece of shiit

VastFinder:
Man kills his baby mama and shoots their daughter shortly after she posted on Facebook about moody people​​​​​​​

A 26-year-old Zambian woman and her 2-year-old daughter were both shot last night by her baby daddy minutes after she wrote a post on Facebook about moody people.

Precious Manganisa, 26, had gone to her baby daddy's house in Ibex Hill, Meanwood in Lusaka province, Zambia last night to pick their daughter who she left with him. On getting there, a quarrel allegedly ensued between Precious and 34-year-old Nshinka Kaputo and he shot her and their daughter in the neck. Precious died of her injuries. Luckily, the little girl cheated death and is currently undergoing treatment at a hospital.

Minutes before she was shot, Precious, who was a Multichoice employee, left a post on Facebook which many now say most likely had to do with her baby daddy.

She wrote: "I honestly think moody people are the retarded! Literally psychopaths! Y’all just wake up angry at the world like who upset you?"

Zambia Police released a statement today confirming the incident. Zambia Police Spokesperson, Esther Mwaata Katongo, said in the statement that the baby daddy is now in police custody.

The statement reads: " We received a report of murder which happened in Lusaka Province yesterday, 05th October, 2017 at about 2000 hours in Mean wood ibex hill area in which Nshinka Kaputo aged 34 of unknown house number in Mean wood is alleged to have shot dead his girlfriend, Precious Manganisa aged 26 of unknown house number, Lusaka West using a Pistol.

"The victim went to the accused person’s residence to pick her daughter aged two years seven months who was at her father’s residence in Mean wood.

"She sustained a bullet wound on the neck. The scene was visited and a pistol with 10 rounds of ammunition was recovered.

"The baby was also shot in the neck and the projectile was stuck in the neck. It has been extracted by medical personnel at Fairview Hospital.

"The accused person is detained in police custody while the body is lying in UTH mortuary awaiting postmortem."

Source:: http://www.wobegist.com/2017/10/man-kills-his-baby-mama-and-shoots.html?m=1

cc; lalasticlala

he found out that baby was not his!

women and there public part

Coldsteel:
Good girls are girls that don't get caught

but karma always caught them

Wobegist:
Beautiful Nigerian woman marries her first and only boyfriend years after she asked God for it
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At the age of 15, 16, Chimdimma prayed to God that she would want to marry her first and last boyfriend.God answered her prayers as after years of dating, last weekend she tied the knot with Olakunle, who was her first, only and last boyfriend.

Read her pot and see more photos below.

"Growing up at the age of 15-16, I remember asking God that when I get older & start dating, my first boyfriend should not only be my first and last boyfriend but also he should be a man after Gods heart so he knows how to love & respect me dearly! Not knowing God really did listen to my prayers. 7 years ago Kunle and I met in church & although we were too young to make marital decisions, we just knew we were meant for each other!!! A lot of people teased me for not having experience dating around but today I am proud to say my first boyfriend really indeed is my last boyfriend. I'm glad I can advise younger girls that dating is not something you should rush into. If you wait on the Lord & let Him pick your partner for you, He will provide nothing but THE best#kaychimmy17"

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SOURCE: http://www.wobegist.com/2017/10/beautiful-nigerian-woman-marries-her.html?m=1

in this case she is one of the only naija woman I will recommend but the rest are just busy jumping from preek to preek with no direction in life.


I won't even advise my enemy to date a naija woman

Gadodoko:
why don't u ask LOT GEN 19-33-35 REUBEN GEN 35:22 JUDA MAT 1:3. ALL IN THE Christain "holy book" Watch ur tongue. D foul dat dig too much wil 1 day dig d knife dat wil be used in killing it. JUST AN ADVICE.

it shows violence is in you!

come and kill me I'm in my house