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How can she no believe with the gory pictures and videos of the bomb aftermats?haba! Well she has known the hard way since she has been living under the ground.no wonder boko haram is still a menace,the elites in the senate and probably Jonathan doesnt believe there is boko haram either.

yea 2 weeks is too long.if it were me,before you decide to come to KD,i would have told you its a prank or before you u even leave for Abuja,i'll come out clean.she might not be into you as much as u think.cos playing this kind of prank is too the extreme if at all it is...i believe someone was there stealing her attention from you within those weeks,cos for the sake of love,i CAN NEVER wait that long to tell u its a joke.a woman in love cant stay that long without getting in touch.u love her fact but she dooesn't love you that much,maybe she likes u cos u are nice guy and she's just hanging on to you till she finds someone she loves make e no be like say she no get serious relationship.
or like some1 said,let her know u are still bothered by the joke,u buy a pregnancy test trip,and let her pee for u,her first morning urine,u follow intructions on the pack and do a pregnacy test,if its recent,it will still be positive cos the hormones are still there or go for a vaginal exam with her...she don test u,u have passed,now its time fir her to prove her love for u.she started the music,its time for a dance.
#my opinion though.

i love Ini but nothing really serious about this look.she looks just there.............

i thought people of old use to paint people just like we snap pictures these days?so how is it possible not to know what Jesus looked like when someone could have painted a picture of him which could give us an idea of what he looked like?

she looks great in these pictures but her nose though.looks like she did a nose job maybe its my eyes sha.

i really like Mercy too.thank God she is able to loose the baby weight.A new mother is not FAT PLEASEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!

snubish: it's surprising the kind of ignorance one comes across on nairaland at times. I cringed when I saw people advising this lady to leave her husband. for crying out loud she knows already it's a disorder that is not his fault, that's half the problem solved already, the other half is getting him to not affect the kids in the house, or less likely his job, while seeking or attempting to seek professional help of course.
I have to commend the lady in question for being a patient, loving, and devoted wife, may God reward you and your children and husband show you a lot of appreciation. that said 3 years is quite a long time, and if you can last this long you probably will be fine knowing it's not you that has a problem but your husband and the poor dude probably needs you more than you are aware of. he will probably get worse should you leave. many achievers have a degree of OCD, in fact their meticulous work ethic make them excellent employees though difficult bosses and as such they are likely to be able providers as they keep their jobs. they are largely efficient people who were just unfortunate to fall on the extreme end of the spectrum. and you did not tell us about his time keeping habits, or did you forget. wish u and your family the best ma'am.

thankz snubish! i said the list is so long ,if i list them all this thread wont be closed and yes time too.o my God! we dont go out together most of the time cos he likes being to a place an hour sometimes an hour 30 minutes before the time like we own the event or something and me i dont have all that time to spend somewhere before event commences.even on shift days he is usually like 1 hour 30 minutes early to work like he was chased out of the house. infact its not easy but God dey)

alutacontinua: https://www.nairaland.com/1330200/husband-too-dirty-want-seperate

o my God this thread is something else.....hmmm everybody and their own wahala.when you think your problem tie wrapper,you dont know someone elses problem not only tie wrapper but has gele and buba.i can imagine how she feels.IT IS WELL,EVEN IN THE WELL!

alutacontinua: @theogory, there's a thread on family section about a dirty husband, i'll take time to dig out the thread and post the link here, you'll really thabk God for what you have.

I know extremes are bad but some extremes are manageable, trust me!

Just laff ova it anytym he starts performing wonders and pay less attention to his freakinessz

Seun: It's just a treatable disease. Nothing to get a divorce over. In sickness and in health, remember? Just get him treated to reduce it.

thankx miss Aluta and Oga Seun,a problem shared is indeed half solved.Speaking to people outside my family and his about it for the first time.I guess there's hope of working it out afterall.

yeshuahuois:

This made laugh so much o.sounds untrue tho but I sense a dose of sincerity so I believe it

untrue keh?no addition no subtraction o.everything is so true.is not everything the eye sees it says.everything i've written is for real!

klear:

You are welcome dear. Good sexy men are hard to find. isn't it better he's a clean freak than being a dirty pig? God will give you the grace

AMEN! that's my prayers everyday.for God to just blind my eyes to it and give me the patience to keep up with it.

not really surprised cos the rate of infidelity and random s*x is just too much.people protect yourselves o.if you dont have the strenght to protect yourself just abstain.

most beautiful igbo girl?how come? :-Xmaybe among the contestants.

klear:

So as she is now married to her 'bad' candidate of a husband, she should divorce him if she wants to be happy? people that think like you ought to be avoided at all cost. The man is not abusive, he is a good husband & father & just cos he has this issue you are advocating divorce. smh...if you can't offer words of encouragement & empathy, then don't sow seeds of discord in another woman's marriage.

@thegeorgy my dear, his issue can be managed & subsequently brought under control so don't lose hope. Happy that you can see the funny side of life in this. Nobody is perfect, it is our imperfections that make us unique.

thankx sister! oh no he is not abusive,he's a good husband,faithful,hates truoble,has some beautiful physic with nice toned arm etc its just this obsession with cleanliness thats all.thanks for the words of encouragement though.

Seun: That's OCD. It's funny in small doses or when you're talking about it like this, but experiencing it every day is probably frustrating. Read this.
thanks Oga Seun.sounds funny when its talked about but experiencing,is a hard pill to swallow.i read the link.makes some sense.
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I feel ur pain. U can help urselves by seeing either a psychologist or a psychiatrist. They may b able to work on him a bit to give u some relief....cheers

So hot:
thankz so hot,when next when next it causes disagreement,i shall talk about that with him.
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hmmm...no b small tin ooo. I hope he uses jik + ariel + warm water + oda chemicals to clean d punnany b4 he chop d food ooo?....hahaha...pls na joke oo.

kinda funny,but no! that part is very very good,so is the beef cake,he does it real good,the man sexy sha o OCD no reach that part and like i said before,i am not a messy person,just not obsessed with cleanliness his type of way,so the place is always fresh and clean
from what i've read so far in this thread,i guess we indeed have our flaws.that our partners manage .Some people here have made me decide to accept what i cannot change.who knows?i probably have things he doesn't like either..i guess that's his own flaws.I feel some relief though!

Mayflowa:

Didn't you noticed he was like this before you married him. Anyway, I have an info for you: he would remain lke this. Such people arenot a good candidate for marriage. You need to divorce him to be happy. Sorry! But this is the hard truth.

divorce right now,is hard to think of for me.i had thought of that,but right now,i dont really know.As the only problem i have with him is the OCD.

coolest01: eeya,i dont even knw what to say...it must be unbearable for u...and to think u have like a lifetime to cope with this ...choi...didnt u notice this before u married him?

a long time my brother.....we had a distant relationship so i did not see all of these part.i only saw the romantic part on phone conversation.did not live or spend nights in his house.

elobyobi:
My dear, he has a psychological disorder, and needs to see a doctor. Don't take it lightly. OCD can devastate families. I have seen it before.
And remind me not to marry a deeper lifer

thats if he agrees its a problem now.he believe he is just being clean and likes to clean.i was the deeper life one plus my family but he is not.A baptist rather.in other words,am now a baptist.you should marry a deeper lifer if you find love in any.nothing wrong with them

Incrizz: What I love about you is how you're finding the whole OCD thing with him both funny and not funny hahaha..

hehehehe incrizz wetin you say make i do now.its not all the time one gets angry.and writing about tit come dey give me relief

Nostalgia21:
he is just a clean freak..lol

i just tire for this matter

Jummaima: [/quote]
not seen the series you refer to though.

lynpetra:
Kpele,I can imagine how u feel.Ewww,It's not a comfortable feeling.

thank Petra.writing it feels light,it's worse than it is.... believing God for miracle.i feel better even talking about it today.the first time i married him,i complained to my mama,she was like you should be happy you have clean husband who even helps you.how many times you see your papa do anything like chores for me but as time went on,i say no way! this cant be helping me,this is embarrassing me and making me feel like i just sit and lazy around when this is not the case.you will never catch him on barefoot.and me i love walking with barefoot and he's always on my neck for that,reminding me whenever he sees me to keep my feet in shoes,socks or slipperslike am a baby

Is he a Med Lab Scientist?

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for where?hard to believe but he's a policeman o(not a Nigerian police sha,though nothing wrong in being one ).Police uniform sef full my house cos it's one Uniform a day

tomzman:
Hmmn! I kinda pity you o! But the thing might reduce as he grows older sha!

thank you,i just pray he changes as he grows older,i've complained to his family members they keep saying to ignore him that he's always been like that.its not easy though.sometimes i try to ignore by playing music or surfing the net when dis madness starts,at times it works but other times i still find myself getting angry.if to say na boyfriend now,i for don carry my baggage my papa was so the opposite .never seen a man that cleans like this.my brothers are clean but they're not this crazy.phew!

bxcode:
Dats why we support dating for a reasonable period

in my next life now,cos certainly not this one i love him though but that part HELL NO! and he too cant help it.i'm seeing these cos am still a housewife sha,maybe when i start working i'ld see less of it

Incrizz: Haha..I used to have a roommate who's got the traits too. As soon as you get up from her bed, while you're still standing and chatting with her, she'd smooth it after you, rearrange your sandals, reposition your items and all what not..every where always looking squeaky clean. The only thing she couldn't do was readjust our posture, lol. It made some of us feel uneasy..jittery. Nobody likes to feel that way around anyone.

you just described my husband there.i just got up from the bed,my eyes never even clear,bed has started being made.i sit to watch tv on the couch before i get up or my friends do,he has started to dust.no grain of sand in my house.any small one he see,he sweeps and mops everywhere,even the one i no see o.he will say is the one that uses glasses and me who doesn't no see that spot ....kai!
people with ocd should be marrying themselves maka chukwu.at least them go dey mad together.

shejane:

My dear am suffering same wt u, is so irritating when ur man said u can't wash his clothes 2 his satisfaction

He does his laundry, he clean, even when am stil in d kitchen cooking he's cleaning d same kitchen am cooking in

Iav lost so many tins cos once he sees anytin unkept he wil jus throw away

Stil Love him sha

oh i forgot to mention when am in the kitchen,as i'm doing this he is clearing up,even things that i might want to use again,he has cleared and washed back,soup spoon too,he cleans it up.i will be like which kind wahala i marry for myself like this (yea i know we did not date for long)as deeper life chic now,i did not live with him ...so must of these i did not see.he's even always at home.i'll be like go out now and visit your friends at least that way i'ld have some space and he wont see anything to clean.but he doesn't like to go out cos he doesn't wanna see any mess.at his work place,he uses handkerchief or paper towel to pick the fone.God have mercy.evrywhere for my house na hand sanitizer.he will come back from work,my 2 year old wants to give daddy a hug but no oooo.he will have to take his work cloths off,bath before he carries baby or hug me claiming so many people came by the office he doesn't wanna spread germs.at times i no dey gree o,i'ld be like i must hug u today and if i do,oga will ask me to come bath.its hard i must say.

debbie: Awwww, dear i can understand how you feel,but have you tried letting him know how u feel and see those action of his?
Dont take it too hard,lest it creates more issues,.Is it something you can cope with?

my sister,it's not easy o...we almost broke up because of it.it's just encourgement from friend and family and resources from the internet.if not we for don divorce o.thats how bad.he cleans 24/7 bath babies every now and then,the dishes sef,he's always looking.and i'll be like chill now whats your problem.our bathroom gets washes everytime he wants to have a bath.the list is long.sometimes i just wanna run away and go spend my day somewhere else cos its crazy ..he even wants to wash my feet before i enter bed,in the name of i saw you walk barefeet a few minutes ago.in a house we mop almost evryday o.
@bxcode...answered prayers keh?husband should help wife but my case is just over the top,and it makes me feel like am not doing enough.
@Dutchess,hmmmmm is good to clean but when its to the extreme,it makes others uncomfortable.sometimes my friends dont wanna come visit me,they think my house is too perfect,expecially a house where there's a two year old.it feels like its just me and my husband.not like am messy but i still want my baby to be a baby and litter sometimes.but my oga at the top keeps cleaning as baby plays.and i have only been married for 3 years.God help me as i have a long time to cope with this craze.

my husband has OCD.(obsessive compulsive disorder)he is too clean and its make me very uncomfortable...as in apart from work the only thing he spend his time doing is cleaning even when i don clean tire.makes my house boring cos i feel he's being a wife and a husband at the same time

i think nollywood movie and their luxuries is not that bad,for example,i have been told severally that ''u guys have nice houses in africa/Nigeria" and i was like huh?what do you mean?they will be like no offense intended but they believe Africa was all about poverty and suffering and seeing those nice houses and beautiful stuffs makes them want to visit Africa.So for me i dont have a problem with them been flashy,the only problem i have with their story line is the ''IGWE THINGS like everybody comes from a royal household or the same story line of parents wanting you to marry this one and you want another bla bla.or the campus runs girls or the voodoo things.thats what bores me.

how many of know the names of ur great great grand fathers?if male children keep family names bla bla bla...e.g I bear my great grand dad name and don't even know the names of those under apart from my papa name.so what are u guys talking about,in terms of keeping the family name?overtime,names are forgotten jare.so every child is special.

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