Good. Since adults want to behave like Children, adults will be treated as children.
The most annoying one is sagging jeans. It just rell's me this person is not ready to do anything serious with His time and life. He can't even conveniently fight or run for His life in a dangerous situation
PremiumTech: No matter how brilliant one's idea is, if it doesn't come from the stooges of the ICC, they will kill it and it is seriously affecting Tinubu's chances.
Tueh!
And May they continue to affect the shady, sickly and shaky Tinubu's chances . AMEN !!!
Maybe Buhari can still try, but Tinubu cannot storm anything, not even a campaign venue.!
Thank God for Peter Obi and other candidates that did not slack in their campaign efforts. The sick Tinubu would not have even shown His face in His own campaign. Tallness of Buhari who is now pressured to show face for the sick and shady BAT.
AbdulMagaji: I don't understand what you are trying to defend here!
The instruction was not for the woman to love her man o!
The love should come from the man , the woman should respect/submit to her man simple.
What we have today are ladies who rub shoulders with their husbands, call them all sorts of names.
Two male lion can't live together.
You must not love your husband as a woman but you must submit/respect him. Any woman that lacks this cannot stay more than 10 yrs in marriage.
Don't try to understand me, just go and read Ephesians 5 from verse 21, by yourself. It says "submit yourselves one to another". It also says Husbands should love their wives as Christ loved the Church, by giving Himself for Her- how by submitting unto death. Read your Bible first before you try to argue this matter .
AbdulMagaji: The instruction behind marriage is that the man should love his wife and the woman should respect her husband.
So irrespective of a persons caliber in life, once you decide to get into marriage, as a man you must Love that woman and as a woman you must respect that man.
You cannot sincerely respect someone if you don't love them , or at least something significant about them. The same way you can't claim to Love someone and disrespect them.
That is why in Ephesians 5: before it says Wives submit to your husbands in Verse 22 and Husbands love your wives, it says in Vs 21. Submit yourselves one to another in reverence of christ.
As a Man, You cannot love your wife without submitting yourself and ego, just as your wife cannot really submit to you except as an act of love, in response to your love.
Rayban25: It's not even about being egotistic in the first place...and we are not saying that women shouldn't work and all that...but most modern women just have a very bad and entitled attitude while expecting someone son to find them and tolerate their bad behavior...men on our own we have problems...why should we now add another truck load of modern womens bad attitude to our lives?..why should we have to handle you? For what purpose exactly?.men dont like stress
Two problem are that
1. Many of us , Men, have not learnt to separate our Woman (Wife) from all other Women and we have not learnt to separate all other Women from our own (Lawfully wedded Wife)
2. Many of us Men don't know that if a Woman really cares about you, She will follow your lead. Thus maybe some of the issues you have with Her, are but a result of your misleading And inability to handle Her.
As a Man, you don't need to handle all Womenc you just need to handle your Woman. But have you learnt to handle yourself? Before you start blaming the daughter of someone else for ALL your marital problems
casualobserver: The reason why there is a delay on marriage and many singles is simple:
Christianity promotes monogamy, the are many men but few eligible men. The eligible men get married and Christian women turn to side chicks to the eligible men. The men who are left do not want to marry another man’s side chick.
Secondly, the church does not counsel “modern” women properly about submissiveness, dangers of feminism etc and the role of women in the family and d society. So we end up with a lot of “modern” Christian women who are not appealing to the few eligible men as wives and life partners.
It really is that simple.
Thirdly , too Men are to egotistic to handle modern Women who are more exposed than their idea of a traditional Woman.
ebubeson: Do you have a beautiful character, good manners, beauty or handsomeness, yet you are still single and unmarried? Or even if your character is not too good, yet those whom your character is better than are married with kids, yet you are still unmarried..
I will show reasons why you spiritual Reasons why you are single, and solutions.. (Make sure your repent and follow Jesus first)
Reasons (1) Being Caged By the power of self-marriage. Some people may be married to themselves spiritually, and this may cause them to loose interest or might make them careless with pursuing marriage.
Solution: Fast between 12pm in the afternoon to 4am midnight, then pray and destroy the covenants, curses and foundation of the power of self marriage(pray for at least 4hours). Complete solution.
(2) Marriage to spirit spouses (spirit wife or spirit husband). This is a common issue known by many. It sometimes come with regular or periodic sex in the dream with a demon appearing with strange or familiar faces. This hinders marriage alot.
Solution: Fast from 12pm in the afternoon till 6am in the morning the next day....Prayer point: Break covenants, curses and spells linking you to spirit spouse, and destroy every dedication and foundation created for you with the spirit wife or husband.
(3) Power of Marital Delay: This may be caused by spiritual padlocks, witchcraft powers etc.. It may lead to undue wait or failure of marriage fulfilment, or may cause lingering wedding process..
Solution: Fast from 12:00 pm in the afternoon till 4:00 am the next day morning. Prayer point: I destroy every mystery of darkness of the power of marital Delay. I destroy the foundation of marital delay (4hours prayer)...
This insight is gotten from experience and from spiritual person or persons.
This is the most unscriptural advice I have heard.
No wonder you did not quote a single scripture to support.
Not surprising because you are advising us based on your experience and what some "spiritual persons" said.
Better go and study your Bible before you lead people astray.
ebubeson: Do you have a beautiful character, good manners, beauty or handsomeness, yet you are still single and unmarried? Or even if your character is not too good, yet those whom your character is better than are married with kids, yet you are still unmarried..
I will show reasons why you spiritual Reasons why you are single, and solutions.. (Make sure your repent and follow Jesus first)
Reasons (1) Being Caged By the power of self-marriage. Some people may be married to themselves spiritually, and this may cause them to loose interest or might make them careless with pursuing marriage.
Solution: Fast between 12pm in the afternoon to 4am midnight, then pray and destroy the covenants, curses and foundation of the power of self marriage(pray for at least 4hours). Complete solution.
(2) Marriage to spirit spouses (spirit wife or spirit husband). This is a common issue known by many. It sometimes come with regular or periodic sex in the dream with a demon appearing with strange or familiar faces. This hinders marriage alot.
Solution: Fast from 12pm in the afternoon till 6am in the morning the next day....Prayer point: Break covenants, curses and spells linking you to spirit spouse, and destroy every dedication and foundation created for you with the spirit wife or husband.
(3) Power of Marital Delay: This may be caused by spiritual padlocks, witchcraft powers etc.. It may lead to undue wait or failure of marriage fulfilment, or may cause lingering wedding process..
Solution: Fast from 12:00 pm in the afternoon till 4:00 am the next day morning. Prayer point: I destroy every mystery of darkness of the power of marital Delay. I destroy the foundation of marital delay (4hours prayer)...
This insight is gotten from experience and from spiritual person or persons.
The solution is to stop seeing single hood as a curse and a problem to be solved.
Meanwhile you gave all this advise to Christians without any single scripture to support your point. How?
Using Tinubu and "Excellent" in the same sentence shows how low our standards have fallen.
Someone with a questionable origin, not using his original name. No primary or secondary school class mates, questionable university history -as He is answering the name of a female In His claimed school. We had been hearing That he was a senior accountant with Mobil until Mobil said they don't know him, then we started hearing he was a consultant. Drug related cases in the US that required Him to forefeit an amount that would be worth billions in today's naira.
Someone that even if he was in any small way excellent before, is currently deteriorating before our very eyes , physically and mentally. If Tinubu cannot even handle a one hour session to campaign , imagine what is happening in the other 23 hours .
No! What is happening need not be imagined , we have already seen it; in Bulaa blaa blu blu, we have also seen it in "Buhari, Booohaaaari, boooohaaarrri, say it again Booohaaaari" as His colleagues nervously and embarrassingly looked on.
Or have you not seen that video?
And that is the person you say is an "Excellent" choice?
Adamu Garba must have other motives/ interests, and it is more than money.
All of you that are bringing Peter Obi into this, whether for or against " are obviously not comprehending the article which is primarily about PDP winning at the Senatorial and Governorship polls in Enugu state.
temitope66: I am in my mid 20's, I do things solely on my own financially. I work in a company with a take home monthly pay of 70k and at the same time I'm running a part time program for my National Diploma, I'm in my ND2 now. So I planned to quite my job by December and process a direct entry into a Federal University to get a BSc, I planned to save enough money to pay my bills during the course of schooling and I can still work during vacation as I am highly skilled in the field, the skill is highly sort for all over the country. But I'm confused on either to still keep my Job and further my Education when I make enough money and have a business of my own. Please I need advice.
A good job should give you a good education.
Education in the modern world is less about paper qualification and more about practical skills- the kind you get from work experience.
Except of course you are an academic , then you can keep pursuing degrees to brag about. But like I said those degrees are increasingly becoming worthless.( AI is not helping matters.) There are people who didn't go to school working at Google.
If you are getting an Education , let it be one that helps you to be more technically skilled and/or business savvy in the area of your current business. But never let it distract you from your business.
segtech68: hi everybody, i created a topic earlier asking how i could politely tell my fiance that i don't want court wedding , thanks for all the comments, I really appreciate. I've decided to go for the prenup option, from your advice I've come to realize that doing the court marriage is the best , not for the sake of traveling because I've been traveling for short stay in and out of the country for quite some times. https://www.nairaland.com/7519526/how-tell-fiancee-dont-want
My question now is , is it possible to determine what a women gets for child support and alimony in the prenup if there's divorce. I love her and i trust her, i just don't want to make the mistake just incase she changes when we finally settle down in a western country. I've heard of many men paying outrageous amount on child support.
I know the prenup takes care of what the property and cash but does it also takes care of alimony and child support ?
Is there a system or a legal document where the man could voluntary decide what he wishes to pay his wife and voluntarily decide what to pay for child support?
I appreciate your comments, and please don't judge me, i'm just trying to be careful and as much as i wish for an ever lasting marriage yet Change is the only constant in life...
How will you know what amount will be sufficient in the future? Except maybe they use something like percentages I.e a minimum of x % and maximum of y% of monthly income .
Shalommy: Hmmm... Its not easy! God bless that woman for managing the man. Chaii
Who told you She is managing Him. With this three Children they already have? Unlike most people who are shallow, she has only learnt to look beyond the skin to the real Man within.