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oloriooko:
I think she said so cuz she's being overworked not necessarily in bed maybe at work or house chores
A woman that is always very tired when going to bed will not enjoy sex and will always wake up tired
How do you expect her to start the day's house chores while very tired

Mr man, better study your woman and take good care of her, she will do anything for you. Drawing a timetable may be dangerous to your relationship and makes it a routine, not fun at all

yemmit90:
I think this is a perfect answer op may need.
Women will always want more and more sex if they do enjoy it.

Abagworo:
Has it occured to you that when a man oversex his wife he gets tired of her flavour and seeks fun elsewhere. In fact it could get to a stage her unclothedness will disgust more than attract the hubby.

My advice to OP is to reject the table but try to make his sexual advancements less frequent before he will get tired of her.

Freiburger:
It is not how people see you or what they think about you that really matters, what matters is how you deal with it, since you can't change their views. The tricky part is that you gotta be balanced enough to know that they are your greatest fans. How about hugging them?

Kanwulia:
Please, stop making them to feel 'all important'!
I DO IT MYSELF!
A husband's role is for PROCREATION only.
The rest, I can do FOR/BY MYSELF!

I nor sen am o! Hiahnn!

iaamxavier:
if ure a very patient person u can start poultry farm for as low as 70k within a year ull be shocked!

kirchofff:
my bad......thought it was d female love pastor dat died in sosoliso plane crash....oh, my bad

Blackfire:
mumu button kwa?
* takes cover*

Anas09:
Babe, na how my house go dey I dey talk nah. My husband no go wash plate for my house. But if him want help me sake of say, me i dey sick or something something sha Ooo. No wahala, but for me to say, because you dey chop, make you sef wash the plate, Mba

Anas09:
Some dey fix broken TV dear. Mind was fixed.

Anas09:
True, even for my village na so too. But now, nah husband and wife matter oo. Some women want their husbands to dey do minial house chores, for weytin? How many of us dey house wey the plates go plenty too much for me to wash? If plates plenty, na plenty people don use them, den those people go wash plates, not my own King.

Ninapha:
I feel like vomiting.

Home , oh home, where have thy values gone to? what happened to the training of the yester years? what has become of the sanctity of family sacredness,

oh home, why have thou eft our generation with much vagueness, irresponsibility and love for folly.

oh home, come back from your hiding that we may have a repaired generation.

donnffd:
Even if you dnt have reasonable proof, its still not enough to claim that it was from God or satan, theres no prove for that either...

If someone doesnt understand how a phone works(talking to people half-way across the world in an instant), does it automatically means that it was God that did the phone or the phone must have had supernatual powers?

donnffd:
The issue we mostly have is that we have been drilled to assume that once we dont understand something, then it must be the work of God or a supernatural occurence. Thats a mentality we need to shred to be able to be in full control of our lives and the world around us.

No, i dont think they are from God or any supernatural beings for that matter until reasonable prove as been provided.

Anas09:
My Husband no go wash plates for my house lai lai. Thats not fitting for the King. My husband is my King.

Anas09:
Why should he do the dishes? There are lots of other things for him to do around the house. Why the dishes? Let him be the handyman fixing broken stuff around the house.
Doing dishes should not be an issue in the home, except you are sick or heavily pregnant.

Kimoni:
Hahahhahaha

I've had to perfect these skills overtime o

When I had my first baby, hubby said "no nannies", he still wanted Mr and Mrs (who Mr and Mrs epp ) alone in the house and wanted us to use the crèche option instead for LO. But it wasn't convenient for me because we both not closing early in a very demanding industry so we had a situation where LO was always the last to leave the crèche and a caregiver had to stay with her till I got there when others had long left. The lady wasnt finding this funny at all and it was written all over her face. My constant lateness was increasing her own time in traffic and impacting negatively in her home. I had to do something fast since hubby still didn't see the need for it; he felt since we were paying heavily for late picking which was in their policy, all was well. I knew all wasn't well.

Besides that, I wasn't getting the much needed rest over the weekends, I was always tired on Monday mornings I knew I had to devise creative means to have my way. Somebody cannot not come and die like you rightly said.

So I did exactly those things you highlighted and much more. I also started spending long hours in the market every Saturday (wetin I dey buy biko) just to leave both of them at home alone for long hours. You need to see the helplessness and relief on his face when I get home. On one of those fustrating days, I asked him gently and sweetly if we could get a help, he quietly said yes. Well who cares - quietly or boldly, all I neede was a Yes!!! so I got a live-in nanny and life has been sweet after that.

So sometimes, a woman man gotta do what a woman man gotta do

Lady K, I like this ur strategy oo. These are the type of silent punishment OP is looking for.

cococandy:
Best punishment.
Do what you can and let him fester in the remaining filth (that's if it doesn't bug you too).
It's not possible to be hands on with everything in the house especially if you work and have more than one kid.
So some days,you do some leave some.
Once in a while let his favorite shirt stay in the washer for days until he needs it and can't find it because you were too busy with other stuff to remember washing it.
Some days make his dinner very late until he realizes he needs to chip in to help move the ministry forward.
Somebody cannot come and go and die (this grammar still makes me laugh ).

Disregard if you guys have an arrangement where only you keep the home and he brings in the bacon.

CAPSLOCKED:

RECENTLY I SPOKE TO A DIVINER, A HERBALIST WHO SERVED AS A PASTOR FOR SOMETIME BEFORE DECIDING TO DUMP THE FAKE SH!T AND CALL "IT" WHAT IT IS.

WE TALKED ON PHONE.. WE'RE IN DIFFERENT CITIES AND WE NEVER KNEW EACH OTHER UNTIL THE PARTICULAR DAY.

HE MENTIONED WHERE I WAS STANDING, WHERE I'M GOING TO AND WHERE I'M COMING FROM. THE COLORS OF MY CLOTHES AND THE ONES I WORE A DAY BEFORE.
HE TOLD ME HE KNOWS I DON'T BELIEVE IN GOD NOR MIRACLES, NOR MAGIC, THAT HE'S READING MY MIND FROM HIS SHRINE THAT A RELATIVE GAVE HIM MY NUMBER.
HE TALKED ABOUT MY GIRLFRIEND EVEN WHAT SHE WAS DOING AT THE PARTICULAR TIME I WAS ON CALL WITH HIM.... AND SO MANY OTHER JUNKY STUFF WHICH HE PREDICATED CORRECTLY. I DON'T KNOW WHERE ALL THESE MAGICIANS CAME FROM BUT I DO KNOW THE WORLD WOULD BE JUST PERFECT WITHOUT THEM!

donnffd:
I dont think you would be able to get a scientific explanation to it. Just the same way you cant get an accurate scientific explanation behind Horoscope.

Have you noticed that those horoscope thingy works 95% of the time even though we know its just a sham.

Just try it, look for you sign and read what was written about your sign, you would be amazed at how they are describing you. Do bear in mind that millions of people would also read it and feel its was written for them.

How can something so generic feel so specific?

The Human mind...

Now, i dont know what he told you, i dont know if it was totally specific or ambigiously generic, and i certainly dont know how he was able to fool everyone, but i do know that no one has ever proven to have a supernatural sense and so i remain skeptic about it and until he proves that he does, i would regard him as a good(or better yet, a very good) con artist/magician/mind-reader/whatever those lots are called...

sonOfLucifer:
Can you share any of them? If they're private, feel free not to.

sonOfLucifer:
Were these events he prophesied specific?

sonOfLucifer:
Were these events he prophesied specific?