₦airaland Forum

holluwai:
You have no idea of people's true attitude until they're rich.

Really? So d man dat is not bossy like, how many things he gree hawk?

holluwai:
Bless!!! The aura around olajumoke shows that she being bossy like.

Bossy like wey gree hawk bread?

Kennydoc:
I understand your feelings but you know what, the fact that fake Samsung Galaxy smartphones are sold in Computer Village for example, doesn't make Samsung a crappy company.

There are still real churches that transform the lives of people. I listen to people testify every Sunday of how their lives have been changed positively ever since they started coming to church.

If you don't mind, I'll want to invite you to a church just for one service. Just one Sunday is what I'm asking you for. If the experience isn't worth it after that, then you can go on and boycott the Church for as long as you can stand it.

I'll send you a pm, if u don't mind. Would you be kind enough to tell me d city where you live in your reply? I'll invite you to the one closest to you, most likely in your city or town.

Who dey play match nor dey see fault ooo, na those wey dey watch am.

Godswillnwaoma:
100% true

Never let a girl know how much you love her.

It's better you act as if you don't love her.

Treat her like a rag then she will love you.

Be nice to her then she will take you for granted. So show some bad boy character and don't be a yes man

Don't be too close to her, give her some distance and she will value you and this is where economics comes which says that scarcity creates value.

Don't give her much money even if you have much to spend but make her believe you have money by spending it on yourself.












Don't call her everyday keep some space.

VICE VERSA

MrBen10:
This is the problem in Nigeria; They would see where life need to be saved fast, all they do is to ignore the dying and start snapping dem and rust to social media to be the first to post the bizzared view.

This is a different scenerio, Were u expecting him to take the kids from d driver? And if u were d driver, will u release d kids to him?

MrBen10:
But he did not have somewhere important when he slowed down to snap a pix??

How many seconds e dey take to snap?

MrBen10:
You were actually in a car when u saw this: so since you saw this to be risky, why not stop them and posibly educate the rider about such a risk and possibly give them a lift in a more secure car.
But rather, u snap picx of them and rush down to nairaland to make FP.
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The Change for a better Nigeria starts with you and i.

And if he has somewhere important going, it should be abandoned. nawa oo

Olasco93:
Two wrongs never make a right.
If what you said is TRUE, i would advice you to talk to your wife calmly about the length she's going about this issue. I can say she is doing BUSYBODY in another couple affairs no matter how close or pained she is about her sister's plight. She is married and should understand that issues of the marriage can be restored rather than helping her sister to PACK-OUT.
Has she ever PRAY for her sister's marriage?
Has she ever FASTED for/with her sister concerning the marriage?
Has she ever contributed to the betterment of her sister's marriage in anyway?
Yet, she want to help her sister PACK-OUT of her husbands house/marriage.
It's unheard of.
Truth is, she is contibuting to her sister's Destruction of marriage with other folks involved. She should be ashame of this.
Am not supporting any part on this, but there should be a kind of responsibleness and responsibility from both couple's families/relatives in resolving their issues.
Can't they solve the problem?
Can't they call both party to order?
Can't both families settle the couples marriage issues amicably as elders?
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Talk to your wife to withdraw from where she is dipping her legs. She should understand how marriage works. You don't interfer to some extent in other peoples' marriage to some extent.
#I just hope she wont put you in trouble.
Talk to your wife! Talk to your wife!!

Shebi, if the sister dies from d abuse of the marriage, the said outsider will be d one to bear d grief n sorrow. Can u watch ur sister or brother suffer without interfering? Na so marriage don hold water reach?
U r talking of her praying n fasting, The question is, is d man ready to change? Abi person go just dey abandon food cos of one yeye man?
Abeg help us fast n pray make Buhari bring d change wey he promise ooo. Since ur own prayer n fasting dey cause wonders.

Valeree:
It's not only a joke it's embarrassing, especially the African/Nigerian style religion with all the overly superstitions and what not.
I think it's improper to expose kids to too much of It as it can make them become less receptive to common reasoning.

Exactly

Acidosis:
Well, different strokes for different folks.

In religion, we get morality (they're different things but both work together). I started attending church from my mother's womb. I was way below age 10 when I began handling a drum in the church (my bro plays the keyboard, while I handle the drum).

The truth remains that the best place to get morality is through religion. Nigeria is a very corrupt country, so it is practically wrong to compare with a nation with less greed and sparse sycophants.

How would your child know it is wrong to 'giraffe' in the exam hall when Dasuki and many more politicians are stealing and getting away with their loots?

How would your male child know it is wrong to ra.pe a lady when rapists perpetuate their crime and walk freely in the society? Who would teach him this lesson when dad works 6 to 6 daily and mom is busy hustling whilst defending feminism on the Internet? Where would he get these trainings? Nigerian Constitution??

See, it doesn't matter how much we condemn religion. It worked and still working for me. The fear of God back then in school is the reason I didn't join a cult. How many cultists have you seen in Brunel University London? or Oxford University?

The fear of God is the reason I abstained from s e x in a campus where some of my pals 'marked' close to 40 fresh Urhobo and Delta Igbo girls in Abraka.

In fact, I have one like that who is now a pastor in Deeper Life. He's married now but always lament about his past s e xual atrocities in school.

Nigeria is too corrupt and only those who read and obey the word of their creators can be trusted with certain things.

Ever since I have been reading the Bible, I have never seen a passage that supported corruption or superstitious beliefs. So why should anyone be scared? Some people only misinterpret bible passages. Hence, it is the duty of the parents (the faith-based ones) to locate a good worship centre where children can be mentored rightly.

Religion is the reason why some of us shy away from bad things. Who nor like premature/premarital s e x? yahoo money? Or abortion? It is just God, not Buhari, our redundant constitution or a bribe-inclined police force.

If any child calls bat a witch, many things are involved. It's either you change his/her school, change the Sunday school teacher, change your church or stop watching African Magic. We learn more superstitious stuffs on the T.V.

In summary, illiteracy being a symbol of a failed government is the reason why many people misinterpret religion. If our educational system is strong, many would strongly resist false teachings.

The truth is, most of these people involved in all sorts of crimes were even more religiously raised than u. What do u say about an archbishop daughter who is engaged in prostitution? Plus church minus church, there are things I set my mind never to do and I achieved it.
U turned out who u are because ur conscience was at work.
I have seen people who are so moral n responsible, yet they don't go to church.
Whereas u see a xtian brother who enjoy committing all manner of crime n sin. Am saying this, cos u said d best place to get moral is church, when even d so called pastors lack these morals.

Woged2005:
You are right...but I will rephrase it. I want my little girl to grow up a strong black woman. I try to teach her she needs God for guidance, but God gave her brain, hands, and legs for a reason otherwise God would have made her a helpless cucumber or strawberry. She's got to use that brain to think out solutions to her problems and ask God for strength. I teach her how to pray but I also take her science projects very seriously. . she also must accept that everybody cannot look, and behave like her or believe in what she believes in. Those who look differently from her are not 'Witches' and 'wizards' rather they are different. She should neither be afraid of them nor disrespect them.

Too much religion has hindered too many things. It makes us direct all our failures to some spiritual force. Even when our leaders are misbehaving, we leave them to God. we neglect our fundamental rights. An employer can maltreat u, cos he knows u will only take it to God in prayer and not sue his sorry ass.
When we are suppose to handle somethings physically, we use d spiritual method.
A graduate who is suppose to be busy looking for a job, will instead move from church to church in search of a job.

A very good topic.
I personally would want my kids to have d white girl's mentality. It gives liberation.

I want to start a mini poultry at my backyard. Let's say 100 layers. Am contemplating on buying about to lay or day old?
which will be favorable to me? Thanks

Olarajee:
We like deceiving ourselves. So u n ur wife plus kid won't be able to live on 50 or 100k per month?

Tooh... you know the truth yourself.

I just tire. Most family men don't even receive up to that per month.
E mean say make dem nor marry or get pikin?

IamMissMarvel:
You can. If your partner is gainfully employed

And they can't live with 100k if d wife is not gainfully employed?
Agofure drivers survive with wife n kids with less than 50k.

Were u guys able to sell d properties before concluding on d wedding date? since u were so keen on him being stable before introduction.

Were u guys able to sell d properties before picking a wedding date? Did u allow him return to his importation biz before accepting the introduction n pregnancy?
Because u were keen on him being stable before marriage

publicenemy:
GUY YOU GET PATIENCE O. IF NA ME I GO BEAT AM DIE. IN FACT NA ME DEM FOR ARREST SEF.

HAHAHAHAHA. I support u jare.

Happy birthday dear coco. Wishing u divine blessings n more colorful n fulfilling years to come.

IK, nairaland broke guys are coming after u ooo.

All they want is a woman who will contribute financially n still run all d household chores alone.

EfemenaXY:
Na wa o!

Are you still feeling bad over people asking you not to meddle in your brother's marriage?

https://www.nairaland.com/2824892/brother-like-houseboy-wife

Hahahahaha. Efe pls don't choke me with laff oo

Miami11:
Then you will hear someone say that she should love her mother in law like her own mum,

How can one like this mother in law, the least you can do is tolerate her.(can this mother in law compare to someone's own mother.

U dey answer them?? Can ones biological mother do this to her daughter?
Mother n MIL are not d same o

Acidosis:
You cannot correct a wrong act by doing wrong...

You cannot respect a mother inlaw that have no regard for your own mother.

The key word there is 'mother,' (forget the in law). She is a mother and deserves to be respected.

U Neva seize to amaze me with ur point of view.

darlenese:
What exactly did your mum do to her, I'm sure she must have hurt her so deeply , some mother in laws are monsters,

BTW ..did ur mum apologise to her ? Forgiveness is easy when apology is tendered

I hate it when people say .. "Just forgive and Forget " even when the person who has offended u has not changed

God bless u

Acidosis:
You didn't notice all this before you married your wife?

But some wives get mind sha, refuse to greet your mother in law and even shun her?? Lol, I can't even keep malice with a random stranger or my landlady, let alone my mother in law.

It is a pity that your mom is being treated in such manner. It's shameful.

Why do u just jump at issues without critical analysis? Na so u just be? Especially when it concern a WIFE?

U blame her, nor be d church wey go allow her enter? This one don carry OKPO biz enter church. No more customers outside??

[quote author=greatgod2012 post=43039018]Hello everybody! @kinkimbo, congratulations! Regards to your Wife and the baby.[/quote
Good to see u again. where have u been? How is d family

PresVA:
Do you discipline your kid at all? How have you tried to help your wife op? Since her method isn't working?

Or you're just critising her without offering a helping hand/solution?

Also, hope you don't tell her all these in front of the kid..

I'm not supporting your wife but how have you helped to remedy the situation?

Exactly my point. The boy might be misbehaving becos he knows dad got his back. If he sees a combined effort, he will change. And never discipline ur wife in ur son's presence. It gives them liver to misbehave. Even if her method is annoying to u, don't show it there, instead act angry at him. U can do d correction to ur wife later. with that, she will learn ur technique.
She feels ur supporting ur son, hence her refusal to adhere to ur method.

taryour:
1, 3 and 8...


Ur signature.. LWKMD you are high.. Lol

U picked my exact numbers. Thought I was alone. lol

Ucheosefoh:
8 months for this thing I go carry this picture go Aba they will produce a replica of it. No time to waste time

I nor go forgive who go buy dis bag for me sef.
seeing it alone dey provoke me.

Oyind17:
I never sleep well for 2 days now, I no dey bed. I do support women if need be, don't expect me to support a write up blindly. if I should say what's in my mind concerning this issue you'll say I don't support women.

When will you prepare breakfast for the kids if they are going to school if you wake up by 6:am? just asking

I quoted the wrong person . am sorry
It was meant for acidiosis