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Politics › Re: Ekiti 2018: Segun Oni Declares Intention For Governorship Poll [photos] by Themandator: 9:53pm On Jul 17, 2017
Deceive yourself .... Fayo go use mouth finish una

Nairaland General › Re: Fulani Herdsmen Block Major Road In Abuja Central With Their Cattle (See Photos) by Themandator: 9:34pm On Jul 17, 2017
Amoyinoluwa24:
Fulani Herdsmen and their cattle on Monday took over a major road in Abuja Central Business District, FCT.

According to reports, some motorists were forced to stop their vehicles to pave way for the bulls and cows strolling freely on the express way.

http://www.cambellsblog.com/2017/07/fulani-herdsmen-and-their-cattle-take.html
You mean the main the main Abuja is now a grazing route too ...haaa

Politics › Re: Police To IPOB: "Election Will Hold In Anambra, Misbehave & Get Arrested" (Pics) by Themandator: 9:29pm On Jul 17, 2017
ESDKING:
Election will hold, but nobody is voting oga policeman.
Igbos shall be celebrating their nsala day in their various homes while zooo policemen that have killed civilians more than boko haram have done will be at the pooling unit waiting for whom to unleash their frustration on.

I pity the unfortunate ones that will come out that day, if anything happens to you.. you will be seen as someone that committed suicide because you were warned.

Stay in your various homes let us see how they will come to your house and shoot you.
Blood sucking demons!!
Are you saying that even Anambra North where the incumbent comes from will not come out to vote for their son on that day because a certain Kanu said so .... Hope you know the man is from aguleri and Akwuzu is in that zone.... If I hear

Celebrities › Re: Olamide Makes Billboard Debut With His "Summer Body" Song by Themandator: 7:12pm On Jul 17, 2017
freaklesschild:
oh really anyway , billboard is billboard , is it not what wizkid celebrate alot
Why is it that an album will be at the very top on iTunes store US and none of the song in it will be on us top 10?
Celebrities › Re: Halima Abubakar Has Complications From Fibroid - Isah Abubakar, Brother (Photo) by Themandator: 6:59pm On Jul 17, 2017
chiomarita:
The actress' younger brother, Isah took to her IG page to reveal that his sister is suffering from fibroid complications. He also thanked her colleague Tonto 'Poko' Dikeh for her support and the first lady of Kogi state, Mrs Rashidat Bello...

He wrote: 'On behalf of our big sister,we want to thank everyone who called,commented and prayed for her.we all are grateful.And to Aunty Tonto for being a good friend and for always being there..And to her mentor and guidance The First Lady of Kogi state @rashidayahayabello for being an example of love,and kindness towards our sister who had complications from fibroid.We love and pray for God to keep uplifting you for all you do for every one.For being a mother to our sister.Your kindness will never go in vain. Written by @itsyungissy Isah Abubakar....

http://www.goldenpearlmediang.com/2017/07/finally-what-is-killing-actress-halima.html
You ought to accompany the post with a picture of her in her heydays because I don't know her and can't start a Google search right now
Travel › Re: Private Jet Looking Like A Hotel That Costs N27 Million From Lagos To Abuja by Themandator: 6:50pm On Jul 17, 2017
How much the business for Abuja wan pay wey go make me spend such on one way flight?
Travel › Re: Private Jet Looking Like A Hotel That Costs N27 Million From Lagos To Abuja by Themandator: 6:47pm On Jul 17, 2017
soberdrunk:
cheesy cheesy I nor buy Tokunbo G-wagon like 17m, fill the boot with enough beer and hire police, soldier, road safety, civil defence in convoy to Abuja still get excess money to waste when i get to Abuja angry angry
More importantly my dear , the thing go still be your own for re use ......How many minutes before you land Abuja and the money do go taaaaaa
Politics › Re: Fayose Receives N4.7bn Paris Club Fund From FG by Themandator: 6:42pm On Jul 17, 2017
WeShallSee:
He couldn't even appreciate the presidency. He is however quick to pour vituperations on them.
It is not a gift but the state entitlement as overcharge for debts, including those that was incurred even before the state was created
Family › Re: My Marriage - A Sinking Ship. by Themandator: 6:39pm On Jul 17, 2017
Bluestreams:
Profile: 10yrs old Nlander, Postgrad, 32yrs old, 2 yrs old in marriage with a 1yr old son.

Pls kindly read patiently and advice me if I am wrong and also what to do if my spouse is the problem. Thanks.

I got married as the first child out of two and my family (mother) really supported me financially. At this time, I didnt have any salary job neither do I have any contracts running as I do pest control and landscaping services and other small legal hustles. I met my wife who is a civil servant and we fell inlove and I never hid my financial or employment status from her. Shortly before my wedding (I was also job hunting for a better job) I got an interview in a top oil and gas firm in the country by insider recommendation, and being the only one invited I felt I've gotten it. My fiancé started telling her sibs that I'm already a staff which I frowned at because I've not received any appointment letter. This she was doing in "faith" anyway. Subsequently, I was never called for that job again and by this time we were already married. Prior to this time, I got a slightly less than 50k job in a bank and after a few months my fiancé pressed me to resign athough that job was stressful and in another state where I neither had family nor friends.

We got married then the issues began.
I noticed my wife is the type of woman thats slow (I'll not use the word lazy). She cant keep up with my pace when we walk, she can't clean the house daily, she'll prefer I do the house chores while she watches tv and all. We were in honey moon so I didn't have a problem with that, and more over I enjoy such chores and I am a good cook. By this time her salary was dropping and we were living on it coupled with whatever income that comes from me from my business (my wife isn't stingy with her funds and neither am I).

Our problems started when she became pregnant just a months after wedding. She became super slow due to the preggy and I had to do like every every due to the initial sickness and all. Also, I noticed my wife doesn't know how to talk to people. She isnt rude or insolent but she can argue blindly and just keeps talking. She talks too much and doesn't know how to ignore things. She will say she likes speaking her mind, even though I adviced her that she will have lots of enemies by that lifestyle.

My parents live in the same town with me but hers are in the village. If things gets a bit rough I do visit the family shop and pick things on credit and pay later. This happens only when I'm low on budget.

After our honey moon, my wife refused to go back to work (her station is in another state) although she has been complaining that she doesn't like the job (her father helped secure it). Since she couldnt travel she kept calling the offixe and they were still paying her, only for some of her seniors whom she isn't in good terms with write against her and her salary stopped coming in. By this time I had to up my game and started husting harder. God another low paying job which didn't last and I continued with my biz. I lost the job because of lateness due to taking care of a pregnant wife and so on. In fact I lost 2 other jobs of same nature and wasn't bothered because they pay was very poor anyway.

When my wife put to birth, my mother (as hers is late) asked her to stay at our family house for a week,so she can look after her because I was still working at this time and my mother's business and other engagements is just around the house, my wife refused. Infact its not the refusal that touched me but the attitude she put up. Shortly after then I needed to relocate to a new aprtment and asked her to go over to the family house with the baby so I can move things which she did and the outcome of that visit was a heated quarrel with my mother. She accused her of telling my church members not to visit her after childbirth (my house is very far from the church) and even though it was a lie and I told her to shut up she kept on talking so many trash.

At home I cant talk to my wife and she keeps quiet. The will tell me to shut up to my face and one one occasion I landed her a small slap which left an eye bloodshot and this ended the shutup episode. Often times, if I talk she will raise her voice.

Four months after my wedding her father called me sounding angry and asking me why my wife is still with me, why she hadn't gone back to the state where she works, I overlooked. Some months back late last year, he repeated the same thing and even dropped the phone on me and just a week ago it happened again. My wife have refused to go back to work saying she will rather start a particular type of biz (which I'm trying to setup for her) but her family is talking behind my back all manner of absurd things.

My wife and I have been having our own bouts due to her attitude. I don't talk to neighbours again as she confided in one and laid bare exclusive family secrets and they had a quarrel and in front of my landlord, my neighbour spilled the beans and I felt so ashamed. My wife's salary has been stopped for over a year now and I have been solely the bread winner. I even got a car recently and uses it for transport to support other income.

My wife can nag about everything, she can wake me by 3am over petty things so I stopped sleeping in our bedroom and now sleeps in the guest room. If she's angry she'll not wash plates I eat with. This is someone I always wash her clothes and my with the machine since I married her. But she can hardly do same. If she cleans the house its favour and she'll keep murmuring. If we have an argument she'll start shouting, abusing my whole family and stuff.

This morning we had a quarrel and my wife told me I cant even take care of my family to provide for her, talking how she's leaving (she always tells me she'll leave and I've made it clear I'll gladly wait for that day).

I have been thinking about everything myself, since I married things have not really improved. Maybe I really made a wrong choice or rushed things (as I now believe), so I am planning on sending her away soon and them take me dad and kinsmen to her father (as is the culture in my place) for him to either caution his daughter or take her back because I might really injure her out of anger one day.

This is my last effort to save this marriage . I have only slapped her once in 2 yrs.
I feel I should seek matured advice from experienced people here as I know I might be right in my own eyes.
I really don't know what else to do.

PS: I'll answer any questions you might ask me. Forgive any typo. Thanks.
Let your wife move over to her people or you move out and stay out for three months .... Within those three months one of you will discover something that will either strengthen your relationship or sound the death knell
Celebrities › Re: Yul Edochie For Anambra State Governor 2017 (Photo) by Themandator: 8:51pm On Jul 14, 2017
pyyxxaro:
He must be dreaming sad

Ur papa never contest finish, na u won contest

*issorai*
His fathers contribution towards the reelection of the incumbent.... he will just mobilized and galvanized the masses then step down for the incumbent and ask his supporters to vote for the incumbent that he aphas surveyed and judge all the aspirants and found him the most suitable.
Celebrities › Re: Wizkid's Album Listening Party In London (Photos) by Themandator: 7:26pm On Jul 11, 2017
otijah:
yes London.
He has gone international " sounds from the other side"
He has no business with 9jas again
But my only advice to him is to go ask Dbanj after he tried going international
Because to me all the songs in that album is trash except for Come Closer
In trying to go international they lose their base and make insignificant impression in the international arena even with the huge financial cost to their naira earnings that are converted to dollars to finance all the razzmatazz.

This guy still relies heavily on earnings from Nigeria to keep body and soul together
Politics › Re: Igbo Owns 70% Of Plateau’s New Certificates Of Occupancy - Governor Lalong by Themandator: 5:31pm On Jul 11, 2017
Nairaland General › Re: Man Carries Another Man With His Teeth In Nsukka, Enugu (Video, Photo) by Themandator: 9:14pm On Jun 23, 2017
Areaboy2:
He seem to be resting it on his stomach
Try resting it in yours with a five year old boy on top
Crime › Re: Kidnapper Evans Installed CCTV In His Houses. This Is Why by Themandator: 5:51pm On Jun 23, 2017
I have people doing this and that and yet we have not being told that any other person apart from those paraded with him on the day of his arrest have been arrested ...I hope bloggers are not ' interviewing' the guy from the comfort of their homes , all for traffic
TV/Movies › Re: Top 15 Nigerian TV Series You Should Start Binge-watching by Themandator: 5:38pm On Jun 23, 2017
Codedrock:
SOURCE: http://www.takemetonaija.com/2017/05/top-15-nigerian-tv-series-you-should.html
Dogood and the Johnson family are the only two i have permitted myself to induge in ...i hate that hotel majestic ,maybe because of the uniform they wear
Crime › Re: Who Supplies Evans Assorted Shirts In Police Detention? Nigerians Ask (Photos) by Themandator: 9:41am On Jun 23, 2017
Do you expect the Nigerian government to present him to the world in dirty clothing's or you don't know that his case has international interest.

Go to YouTube and see how many views his video has garnered
Politics › Re: The Person Behind Quit Notice To Igbos In The North Lives In Lagos – Falana SAN by Themandator: 9:35am On Jun 23, 2017
Iamwrath:
That makes sense, i am still not finding the link in this topic , the person allegedly living in lagos has no name ? and killing student led to ultimatum ??

Ayam not understanding at all
I think you have problem with comprehension. ..work on it then go back and read the article
Car Talk › Re: Luxury Audi R8 Car Worth Over N40million Spotted At Lagos Airport. Photos by Themandator: 6:45am On Jun 23, 2017
softwerk:
This is very unprofessional of this very LOCAL HUNGRY LOADER angry

If I was the owner and I was secretly moving the car out of the country for personal reasons this FOOOL just exposed me to the whole world huh

I sincerely advice seun to delete this post and warn the OP and blogger. It makes no sense at all!
Is that how to secretly move a car out of a country

Politics › Re: "John Yep Ordered Mambila Genocide On Fulani In Radio Station" - Fulani Elders by Themandator: 10:00am On Jun 22, 2017
SalamRushdie:
I smell Fulani lies everywhere here
Their soldiers just arrived and need an excuse to attack and subdue the entire local government hence the statement that the chairman ran through the entire towns and villages mobilising his kinsmen since only his kinsmen make up the Lg
Politics › Re: Crowd Welcomes Ifeanyi Ubah As He Arrives Nnewi (Photos) by Themandator: 11:30pm On Jun 21, 2017
fingard02k:
Huge crowd gather at the major roads in Nnewi to welcome Dr. Ifeanyi Patrick Ubah, Chairman Capital Oil and gas, who was released yesterday by the Department of Secret service (DSS) unconstitutionally.

The oil mogul was arrested six weeks ago over his refusal to remit N11 billion of realised from the sales of petroleum products stored in his facility by the Nigerian National Petroleum Corporation, NNPC.

http://www.enzyhub.com/massive-crowd-welcome-ifeanyi-ubah-as-he-enter-nnewi-photos/
The state making nationalist and heroes out of otherwise ordinary folks ...Kanu if he plays his card very well would soon be canonised


Our anti corruption players are yet to score any goal because the government is always ......

Politics › Re: Why Amaechi Is Angry, Criticizes Me – Wike by Themandator: 7:14am On Jun 21, 2017
proudlyYoruba:
projects like recession, Huh. The failure of a Government is decided by his predecessor
Obama made a country in recession and turned it around ...The people met a country in her way to the top and destroyed the staircase
Politics › Re: Why Amaechi Is Angry, Criticizes Me – Wike by Themandator: 7:12am On Jun 21, 2017
bashydemy:
LOL that train was started by OBJ so get your fact right..
Stop lying the Abuja Kaduna train was started and completed by Jonathan. The record is there ...The train project OBJ flagged off was the Lagos abeaukuta Kaduna ...All this are public record. Stop lying ...We can't another lie after the monster of communication
Politics › Re: Why Amaechi Is Angry, Criticizes Me – Wike by Themandator: 7:08am On Jun 21, 2017
NwaNimo1:
Oga, Tom and Jerry are at it again....

https://cdn.thewire.com/media/old_wire/img/upload/2012/04/16/RTR30SR0/lead_large.jpg
So this guy dey fit listen or Acknowledged another person statement ...See as him dey peep ...Hope that guy is still alive
Celebrities › Re: Fan Tells Biodun Okeowo To Delete Photo Of Hers In Tight Outfit by Themandator: 6:59am On Jun 21, 2017
Somebody selling her market and you are telling her how to advertise it ...Busybody ...Open your own ,shop' na and display your 'goods codedly,


Receive sense , right now

Business › Re: The 10 Banks That Took Over Etisalat by Themandator: 6:51am On Jun 21, 2017
You ought to have google the transaction to know how much they paid for the licence after which NCC gave same to the Glo MTN got theirs through the acquisition of that firm owned by Zenith Bank owner .....I can't recall the name of the telecom company.

Exchange rate made them basically default in their obligation, I have stated this fact in a similar thread but how they spent the money is what I am discussing now. Paying over 200$ dollar for something that finally went to others for way less was crazy and unjustifiable and I sometime believe that both those who bought and sold the licence ought to be investigated, including the NCC.

How can they pay so much for a licence and less than a month or thereabouts you announce your intention to issue same licence.
Dangote got the licence as a gift from OBJ to encourage him to invest in the sector through Alheri Engineering which he later sold. Was there no condition to the licence that if he doesn't use it he should return it to the NCC

chloride6:
That license even from the NCC doesn't cost more than $20m.

They defaulted on a nearly $2 billion dollar loan.

That can hardly be the reason. I think they were over exposed to the devaluation of the Naira.

You borrow at 160 a dollar and now it's 305 which is nearly twice the price, that' s if you can even get it.

Coupled with increased cost of operations (diesel and all) in a receding economy where people are spending less and opting for alternative such as whatsapp.

Even Einsteins financial projections would have brought me brought a bad hair day.
Business › Re: The 10 Banks That Took Over Etisalat by Themandator: 7:50pm On Jun 20, 2017
BABANGBALI:
they didn't boughted anything jo
They paid over 200m dollars to Alheri Engineering owned by Dangote that OBJ gifted a 4g licences to in the last days of his government.
Celebrities › Re: Juliet Ibrahim And Iceberg Slim In Hot Romance (Photos) by Themandator: 7:49pm On Jun 20, 2017
skarz:
he's from a wealthy home he got a deal from his record label which is worth millions
You repeated what you stated before: he is from a wealthy home ...Is he from the Davido ckind of clan we Nigeria's know are owners of one of our electricity distribution company. If they signed Jim for millions , they threw away their hard earned money because this one no fit diesel the Nigerian music scene even for a month to cause them to recoup their investment on him
Business › Re: The 10 Banks That Took Over Etisalat by Themandator: 7:45pm On Jun 20, 2017
veekid:
I don pack here wimma Glo 2G network

Watch out for the gradual painful death of Etisalat, most of these banks are standing on weak legs. imagine them taking over Etisalat, an already failed institution.
A new owner will soon be announded. I believe they paid too high a price for their 4g spectrum that they bought from Dangote
Celebrities › Re: 7 Fake Credit Cards Found On Danmy Krane During Arrest- Police by Themandator: 5:36pm On Jun 20, 2017
johnbuck81:
America is not a lawless country..when u commit a crime u pay for it.
They the aunt sated that the fraud was from the so called promoters ...That hired a jet to take an unknown artist to show that might not have aup to 15 in attendance
Celebrities › Re: Juliet Ibrahim And Iceberg Slim In Hot Romance (Photos) by Themandator: 5:33pm On Jun 20, 2017
skarz:
iceberg slim was actually born and brought up in u.s so yeah he's from a wealthy home
Is it because he was born in the us that you have concluded that he is from a wealthy home or you know some of the businesses of his parents ...Like they own a part of any if the telecom companies
Celebrities › Re: Juliet Ibrahim And Iceberg Slim In Hot Romance (Photos) by Themandator: 5:31pm On Jun 20, 2017
[quote author= post=57678033]They both have kids before meeting? That is to say, it is not how far, but how well, you can meet your better-half at any God-given time.
Good luck and invite us for your delicious barbecue on your wedding day!![/quote]This girl would never have sated this smally if she was a Nigeria to the core. Imagine a beautiful celebrity like her hanging around this unknown guy. If she wants to date a celebrity, as a Nigerian , she would have gone for the ones with names

I don't even know who this person is
Christianity Etc › Re: "Nigerian Man Who Woke Up After Being Declared Dead By Doctors" Tells His Story by Themandator: 4:57pm On Jun 20, 2017
IamaNigerianGuy:
This is not a miracle. It is a phenomenon well documented in the medical literature. It has happened before and will happen again.

The patient was mistakenly diagnosed as deceased after what was probably a cardiac arrest. He in all likelihood had spontaneous resumption of cardiac and circulatory activity. The technical term is ROSC
"A patient is not dead until he is warm and dead" is what you are taught in emergency medicine courses because cold preserves the vital organs and can allow recovery later.
What about the heart condition that disappeared...That one no be miracle too.

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