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sayisayi:
Many jobs here in the UK for doctors..mlook at NHS Wales too, they are hungry for African doctors. Just leave ego and village practices in naija when you board plane

What do you mean by the ego and village practices please?

samysamy:
APPRECIATING ENTERPRISING ACUMEN OF HIS PEOPLE

Akwa Ibom State Governor, Mr Udom Emmanuel, yesterday Tuesday 19th June 2018, on his way back from the Constituency Briefing and Empowerment Programme organised by Eket Federal House of Representatives Member, Rt. Hon (Deaconess) Owoidighe Ekpoattai, made a stop over at Ikot Etobo Junction, Nsit Ubium Local Government Area to patronise traders at the grocery market.

He was pictured buying pears from a roadside seller



Source: http://usascholarshipfree..com/2018/06/akwa-ibom-governor-udom-stops-his.html

Political positions are for ceremony and fashion parade in Nigeria, while its for serious minded people abroad...

Just check how he's swinging his Agbada upadan....

What's d usefulness of buying Pear on the street now to the people of Akwa-Ibom?

TroubleMaker47:
Blacks and wickedness sha!
Noah shoulda neva allowed dat his fuçking black son on the ark

Noah get black pikin?

correctbae:
Chizoba Miracle Emenaha, a single mother of one and Wig maker has taken to her Facebook timeline to reveal how her wicked aunt Maltreated and denied her of Education.


According to her post, her Dad took her to stay with her Aunt after the death of her mother to get home training. She revealed she was labeled a bad Omen after her aunt got robbed the first day she got to her house, her aunt was reluctant to register her in school, she made her kiss her exams and even refuse to register her for WAEC, giving excuses that it is not everybody that will go to school.

She writes:
This for my aunt..last born to my father..
I will call her by her name because I have a lot of bitterness for her in my heart, and because of what she did..I'm yet to forgive everyone who played one or two roles in it..
De Gladys as you are called..
I will first start by telling you....
You will not MAKE HEAVEN!!!!
You say you are a Christian but you are a wicked human, soooooo wicked that even the devil is learning from you...
You see I'm writing this now because I'm free from you and everyone who would try to hold me back or punish me like you do in those days..
I will now start...
My dad brought me to your house because to him he said he wanted me to get home training.. First I was deceived into it .
I was told It was just for a holiday...not knowing you two had it all planned..
I arrived your home,
My first night in your house arm robbers visited your house..
That became the beginning of my ordeal because you won't end any of your sentence without reminding me I'm a misfortune, a bad omen whom on her first night in your house brought thieves...
I stayed with you.
To enroll me in school became a big deal for you..
Finally when you did,it was a local school in an uncompleted building attended by house helps..
Even at that you won't allow me go to school..
I will wake up as early as 4am sometimes 3am to Prepare what your kids will eat..
Go to the shop,shade your goods
Prepare your kids for school.
Take them to school..
Then come back to Go In Search of firewood I will use to cook at night ..
While you sleep..
You have the money to buy as many litres of kerosene as you want..
But because of wickedness you turned me to a slave...
Before I could finish with the day's runs..
Its 10am..
Some days you allow me to go to school.. Other days you tell me not to go because its late that I should go to he shop and stay while you enter your room to sleep..
Is it the days you beat me at every slightest provocation..
You flog me to the extent I start crying even without been hit..
I talk to myself and lament... out of all the mothers why will it be my own mom that should die..
You made me which death for myself..
When you noticed I always talk to myself..
You called my dad and told him I was possessed...
He believed you his dearest last Born.
It it when I started growing Breast..
You noticed because I was using my scarf to tie my breast while going to school to avoid other students from teasing and laughing at my pointed nipple..
When you saw I started growing breast instead of you to get me a new bra..
You gave me one of your old red worn out bra..
The bra wasn't even holding anything..
But I have no choice.
And that was the only bra I owned..
Is it days you will starve me, when you finally manage to give me #10 fufu,you will tell me to share it the ekuke dog living with your family..
Is it the day I was to take my last exam in ss1..
You told me to take your kids for their graduation party and leave my exam..
I suggested I take your kids to school then go write my exam since my school was close to your kids school..
You insisted I forget my exam and stay with your kids at their graduation party..
Because to you my future doesn't matter...
All you know is your own kids.
Through out my stay in your house you never bought me one single dress..
Rather you gave me your oversized worn out dresses...
People around always asked if I'm sure I'm truly related to you because of your harsh treatment towards me..
When it's time for me to write waec..
You told me its not everybody that will go to school..
You knew I was brilliant..
Even with the number of days I manage to go to school I still take the second position which always leave you amazed..
But when it was time for me to get waec form..
Instead of you to buy the form for this girl who labours day and night for your family's upkeep... You told me its its not everybody that will go to school.. I should learn sowing..
Even when I agreed to learn sowing you never registered me..
You kept postponing it..
Till I received sense and found out you were out to waste my life...
I ran away..I ran for my future..
Maybe its something my late mom did to you.
Maybe she offended you and you swore to pay back.. Just maybe..
Cos till today I can't fathom the wickedness..
Or you were simply been too wicked in nature.
When I left your house You told my dad I stole from you Without pointing one particular thing I stole....
You labelled me a thief..
Well my dad believed you..
Because right from day one my dad never believed in me..
Today I found out all your kids attended and still attending one of the best secondary schools in town and others iñ tertiary institutions..
And I'm thinking.. Why didn't you enrol them in sowing training without getting their school cert just like you suggested to me..
I left your house seeing my monthly period but you never noticed, because each time I try to talk to you about something concerning my body...
You will sày I've started seeing man...
You damaged a huge part of my life and the damage hasn't left me..
Because of things I went through in your hands and more..
I begged God to keep me alive to train my kids to adulthood or take me when I haven't brought any child to this life....because I wouldn't wish want them to pass through half of what I went through as a motherless child..
If my mom was alive...
You dare not!!!
You claim to be a born again Christian, a virtuous woman..
Well laugh and I still tell you..
YOU WON'T MAKE HEAVEN..
If you could treat a motherless child the way you maltreated me..
Then Heaven is clearly not for you..
Blessing Chidera
Make sure your mom reads this....
My dad will also read..
Maybe he will start understanding why I distant myself from home a times..
Things like this are what I remember and I become sad at everyone....
Goes to sleep����

Source: https://correct.com.ng/lady-reveals-how-her-wicked-aunt-called-her-a-bad-omen-and-denied-her-of-going-to-school/

I'll love to meet this lady, we seem to share a thing in common. Prolly get to be in a relationship with her.

I always feel I'll get married to a lady I share the same past with.

ChiefAzubuike1:
The best rapper in the history of Nigeria after mode9.

Unlike the noise we heard from dagrin, the noise we are hearing from olamide, lilkesh etc.

2bedroom Flat....

Gangster1ms:
Make una relocate to lagos. Enough space dey for una here as long as una get big yansh and charge at a low cost.

They'll automatically charge low when supply exceeds demand...

gbagyiza:
Dont worry, u r on point..If they r truly impressed with your performance, they will pay u a salary according to their scale in the organization..my present place of work asked me the same question n i told them my salary expectation should be according to their salary scale but i was asked to tell them what i currently earn which was 125k. And when i finally collected my appointment letter, i discovered my salary to be 500k.

Hanhan!!! From 125k to 500k?

Una go give person heart attack for here oh! Abi una just dey lie upadan ni?

SweetJoystick:
I'm in the same position as you, at the first stage I asked for 220k as salary which is lower than the standard for the role I was being interviewed for, second stage I asked for a minimum of 300k which is the standard pay for the role, the interviewers were like why the increase, I stated my reason. However, it's paramount one does a background check on salary scale by asking from persons currently working in the firm, from people who have worked in the company or from someone who knows anyone who currently works or has worked in the company before so as not to under value yourself.

Na wa oh, docs really dey suffer for this country sha....b4 a doc collects 300k ehn? Hin go do work for sey 5years after graduation.

Chei!!! E go better.

henro4niger:
I really appreciate your response. I hope it's just a coy cause I don't want to start a 200k worth position with 175k

What job is that?

NOETHNICITY:
Make no mistake, killings in Nigeria is childs play compared to that of the USA.

We re only hearing about this because the victims re stars.

Yet, our people ignorantly think there's impenetrable security in the USA.

Worse still, Donald Trump, dumb as he is and driven by his racist policy, falsely accused Germany of experiencing an increased crime wave due to its liberal disposition to migrants issues. Whereas, contrary to that claim, crime wave in Germany, especially from migrants, is seriously on the decline.

What about the UK?

MDsambo:
Not every act of kindness done by a black man means its slavery.


BTW these are Japan fans cleaning up the stadium after their 2:1 loss to Colombia in 2014

Watch how Nigerians will copy this in their next match to receive accolades...

IjogzK:
Why will any organization employ anyone who’s shot of any of these skills in the first place. Apart frm Man Management which I feel that you can learn on the job, I expect anyone who’s looking for job or placement to have these set of skills.


I remember when I first thought that I was good in excel, Chai until I saw a senior colleague use excel to manage billions of financial estimates where every figure was linked to a formula. Still wish I was that good.

Na dt excel I still never sabi....God epp me

sassysure:
Revenge seeker, come and tell us when u must have executed ur revenge.
Hope it gladdens your poor and weak heart.

I pity the hospital that employs a sore loser like u. In the next 5 yrs ur hand will sure shake while holding surgical blade or needle. Wish ur license can be revoked too cos u are not worthy of being called a medical dr.
Nigeria don't evaluate people b4 employing them psychologically else I bet u, u will never get employed anywhere cos u are a danger to patients.

I have entertained u enough.
In one yr time, u can resurrect this post and tag, that's when I will respond to a wandering soul like u.

Ode of a troller, better go look for another person to troll...

Just yapping revenge upadan like a demented clown....

Daft idiot

sassysure:
I passed through worst situation by family member than u and I'm a lady. So terrible. Did it break me, yes. Did I want to end it all,yes but one day I decided to purge myself of all bitterness and move on. I forgave the person cos sometimes people that wrongs don't know better.

Was had showing love at first but I killed the person with love and generosity yet kept the person at arm's length even though I habour no grudge.
At first, it's easier to cloud oneself with self pity. Nobody cares. Self pity is an attention seeking agent.
Not different from what toto dike is doing out there.
Selfishness breeds self pity. It eats ONLY u away. The world will be better of losing one person that thinks the world revolves around him.
Ur write up wreck of righteous mentality not low self esteem,man.
We should clap for u that u will soon embark on a revenge mission.

Go and read about the life of some prominent people that made it after passing through toture. The toture became an avenue for them to shine and not go on revenge.
I'm not surprised u are not doing fine. U will never do with this mindset. So warped.

Oh my writeup reeks of self-righteousness again? No longer low self esteem? So if one prefers doing good and gets angry for being paid back with bad, it becomes self-righteousness right?

My dear you're not only confused, you're lost.

Fools like you will be taken advantage of by a man who beats the hell out of them cos you'll "kill" them with love

I pity your foolishness, you're ignorantly weak dear....

There are fools who kill their enemies with love, and there are those who destroy them by treating them like they don't exist no matter the attention they try to get...

I'll go with the latter....

ImaIma1:
I also agree with other people's views about forgiveness. I don't think you can move forward genuinely while holding on to people.

You cannot sentence people to life imprisonment, 5yrs, 10yrs in your heart and be ok.

The annoying thing about unforgiveness is that it affects the party that holds the grudge more. You see your siblings living their lives happy and oblivious of your hatred for them and it will pain you the more.

They offended you but you are the one carrying the load for them.

It is better you use them to learn forgiveness now because marriage has a way of bringing out the best and worst in people. So that you will not be keeping malice with your wife every now and then.

All the best. You guys will laugh over it soon.

My dear, you can decide not to forgive a person by ignoring them and not being bitter about it. You can't tell me you laugh or jist with everyone on earth. There are people you don't enjoy their company for reasons best know to you, does that mean you're bitter with them? Do you wanna tell me you can be friends with everyone? Some may not even wrong you, yet you don't like them. Does that mean you're bitter with them?

That's d logic I'm gonna use....

Earthbound:
Just let it rest, bro. Holding on to certain things causes more hurt than good. Just let go. It's what any reasonable psychiatrist will tell you. Forgive them for whatever their sins were and move on. You don't even have to be friendly with them. Just live and let go. However hard it may be, you must teach yourself to do just that.

This exactly is what I mean by not forgiving them....the letting go aspect is what I'm tryna do, it's not as if I'm gonna be planning how to hurt them or something, but we'll simply NEVER be a family again once I've repaired my battered esteem.

There are family you're born into and there are those you choose....

IhateRetards:
Guy I feel your pain.....If they have not stop just do whats good for you and forget them.....Its not easy to stop being addicted to what one uses.... They think you can just turn it of lyk an ON and OFF switch not knwing that there was a cause for the addiction in the first place....Since you knw the cause I believe u have ur own plan on how to tackle it....Just wish you luck on ur journey to recovery

Thanks brov, they're a lot of understanding peeps on this forum as there are total retards....

Funny life....I've stayed sober for 5days now and I hope to move on from there daily....so help me God....

It's real hard cos the relief alcohol gives is incredible but it's always temporary and bites back hard afterwards to ruin the individual totally.

Knowing this is not enough but knowing HOW to apply this knowledge is what is actually called WISDOM

sassysure:
Take it to the bank. U will never get better with this mindset. Ur mind is screwed up with bitterness and u just want to grasps on what was done to u to continue on Ur self destructive journey.
Maybe nobody have ever told u this but I don't pity people like u. Ur mind is so dark and u love misery.

One of the best healing tool psychologists will tell u is forgiveness. It does magic to the soul as the soul is the touch bearer of the body.
U live in illusion and will soon self destruct.
U are not the only way family wrecked their lives.

There are people who went through hell and back again but started healing immediately they started letting go.

U pay back Ur enemy with good deeds. That's the golden rule to happiness and success.
Bitterness rot's Ur system away.

Hope u will not destroy somebody's future in the name of marriage tomorrow cos u can never make a good husband with this wicked mindset.

Good luck in Ur self pity.

So their wickedness should be forgiven despite beimg a good and humble person to them right? They should get away with eroding my self-esteem, no thanks to their disgustingly bossy attitude right?

You kuku said you don't pity people like me simply because I decide to pay back my enemies in their own coin....so screw you too!

How many people have you honestly forgiven in your hypocritical and deluded life?

Empty barrel.

stemmez:
i didnt mean to b judgemental. But just try not to force blames on dem.. D fault myt actually b frm u..and , did u fi ish frm private uni or studied abroad? U kinda seem emmotionally soft and over pampared. I knw u wld say I am judging but.. Thats not it. D best way is to move out and if dey r stl feeding u or housing u, dem, just sulk it up and act like dey dont exist.... B assertive withhout feeling bad abt it else.. U wld damage ursef

My dear keep just keep quiet, you have no clue about what you're saying.

I told you I was bullied at every turn by my elder siblings you're here saying perhaps I am soft and was over pampered, by who? You?

I'm infact tempted to say you're just saying nonsense.

A judgemental person can never know they are cos they see life through their jaundiced and myopic POV.

I know you're trying to play the "blame yourself for everything that happens to you" card but that's part of the non-practical theoretical aspects of life I'm talking about. You still seem to be under your 30s so you prolly haven't understood life properly...

Later you'll know that oppression from people is real not because you're soft and you need a great deal of help instead of insulting people saying they're soft and other things you know absolutely nothing about.

As I said you take exactly the same skewed mentality of my irritating siblings I'm talking about. I'll prefer you stop quoting me in order not to get me riled up, cos to be honest with you, your responses are full of nonsense.

Don't play that "truth is bitter" card either cos I know you can be myopic enough to do that.

Infact just keep shut....thanks....

ImaIma1:
Wow!!! I really hate that over respect thing and calling someone "aunty" or "sister" especially if it just a year or less than 5yrs...totally unnecessary and annoying.

I am also the last child with 5 older ones but i am not from the "aunty" tribe. So i only call our first born who is about 17yrs older "sister". The others... by name.

My advice...make friends. When you are out at work, etc, push yourself to talk with someone. Don't keep to yourself. Mix up and try to be with people that make you laugh a lot.

For me, dressing well and paying a little extra attention to my appearance makes me feel confident.

Minimize your words with your older ones. Don't talk much around them so that you don't get riled up. Be quiet and give them that "you know you are wrong look" when they try to pin things on you. Don't say a word.

When you have the finances, move out. Don't tell them anything until when they see you packing. If it is possible to move when they are all out, good.

Nobody has the right to control your life not even your parents.

Consciously make friends and mingle with people who make you laugh

And yes...pray..heart to heart talk with God. Not the default...generic prayer. Pour out your heart like you are talking to a caring father

This is are fantastic practical counsels you gave up here....I'll take them to heart....

Thanks a lot dear....more wisdom!!!

stemmez:
Oh, well, I wish u well.. Leave dem alrogether, itw easy to blame otgers fr our woes.. But leave d house, and forgive them.. Be a man of ursef. And stop d alcohol too, consider ur liver.. Also, devise bettr coping strategies.. One way is to make ursef knw that ppl have it worse and stl havnt broken down...
I wish u well

You sound like them- my siblings I mean....the subtle judgemental tone in your words, even though you try so hard to deny it...."stop d alcohol too, consider your liver" "devise better coping strategies" you think I don't know these things already? But the issue is not WHAT to do here but HOW to do it....

Naija ppl can bombard you with WHAT to do but ask them HOW to do it, they'll just summarise everything lackadaisicallly by saying pray to God, as if one magic will happen that way....

"Be a man of yourself" you think I'm not trying to be that already? I've been in the hospital since 8am yesterday and will be leaving 8am this morning, a 24hr job I did as a doctor for a paltry 10k at Ibeju-Lekki. Will be off to another hospital at Ajah by 10am for another job interview I pray my personality won't let me lose but keep this time around, and all you can say is "Be a man of yourself" as if I'm busy gallivanting somewhere.

This my dear sister is why I said you sound like my siblings....all talks, no practical solution....

Thanks for telling me what I already know tho....

Nowenuse:
Yes this is a very crazy way many parents raise their children. In a way where the senior has too much rights and the junior none.

Well, to an extent I think it depends on you the junior one and how you compose yourself.
I had an elder brother, though with 2 years gap, but I never let him dominate or control me. For what?

I had a friend exactly my age with an elder sister also 2 years older than him and you can imagine that he could not call his elder sister by her first name, he must say Sister this, Sister that, all in the name of respect. He had to even greet her every morning.
Such nonsense would never work for me! Although maybe cos my parents did not enforce it.
Even if they did, I know how to demand respect my own way.

If I was in your shoes. I would prepare myself to be very independent from an early age and as soon as I entered university, I would never go back to that mad house where I would be treated as a servant all in the name of seniority. Even if I go back, I would spend less than a week and I will never laugh or smile with any of my sibblings for any reason whatsoever.
The only one who can boss me is the person that sponsors me. No other bloody person can in the name of seniority.
I hate that concept.
I have younger ones who I'm far older than, but I prefer them calling me by my first name and not adding Brother to my name. I do not let them do any chores for me. Even if I want to send them on errands, I do it in a very friendly manner and I always try to tip them and appreciate them for it.
I hate people bossing other people's lives in the name of seniority.

One idiot will just sit down and order his younger one like a servant to go and bring him a glass of water all because of how many years age difference?

Africans must stop these crazy cultures. They are disgusting.

Bro all you said at the bolded is exactly what I planned if you see my rants. That's why I told myself I'll rather read to death than have a resit or repeat during medical school days, cos i really wanted to make it to be totally independent of them. That's what made me a doctor at the age of 24.

Unfortunately the mistake I made was not knowing my self esteem that was already battered was gonna be a huge problem as this to return to hunt me.

You had to see the smirk on their faces when I started having issues. It's like they're sort of happy with the issues I'm having, cos it makes them feel good with themselves that they have an upper hand over me despite me being a doctor. They know I'll always return home when I've entered one trouble or the other due to my impaired persona.

I and my immediate bro were the most intelligent in the family and both of us are the ones having issues.

nanauju:
Lol
She took hers late
The vibe was when it came out newly

Hello cute....

Holocene:
I bet this one go de smell shit shit.....she can't be able to clean her big butt well after taking a dump

Honestly I don't give a shyt about the shyt in her shyt hole, I fvck her from behind and squeeze that rotund buttocks with all my might while I make hot rythymic rapid thrusts.

When I sight big yanshes laidis, I lose all the care in the world...I become an animal....

obidaddy:
Your story is quiet painful and i got similar experience, my advice, leave the house and stay away from them. If possible move to another city. Regularly send up keep money and try, I repeat try to forgive them. Forgiveness is a prerequisite for your full recovery and restoration.

You got a bright future ahead, leave that house. Help your elder brother, make sure both of you get psychological and psychiatric help and treatment for your battered self esteem and other issues.

Alcohol will ruin you, your reputation and career, please steer of alcohol or any other substance.
Be strong, wish you quick recovery, never be sucidal, walk away from the people and environment that brings you negative vibes.

I work far away from home where their grasp can't reach me most times as I prefer working I'm the North, but my personal ish always have a way of making me lose my jobs most times...even my last place of work in Katsina revealed the truth to me that I didn't commit any error of incompetence but I just need to organise myself more professionally and socially.

My attitude borne of the issues I have with my personality is what makes me loose jobs, it has NEVER been my aptitude. It is what has even kept me in this country sef cos all the people that suppose to help me don't really like me anymore....

I have a way of making people get seriously bored almost to the point of depression, I have a way of making people doubt my capabilities, I have a way of making people not really find my company fun and not want to help me but avoid me even if I'm extremely good to them...

All of these is built on the foundation of my extreme low self esteem and it has successfully done a great job in almost ruining my life....

I am NEVER going to forgive my siblings cos I know the extent they've gone to make my life miserable. I will get better and pay them back in their own coin.

Even God will show no mercy on the last day despite being called the merciful God.

So screw forgiveness....

stemmez:
Maybe u guys have a osychological issue .. I didnt mean to insult, but, maybe its psychosis . And u knw its hereditary

Psychosis is farfetched....Psychosis is a type of psychological issue and so is Neurosis.

Psychosis is a psychological disorder that's associated with radical disconnection from reality.... (usually madness)

While Neurosis is a (mild) psychological disorder involving symptoms of stress (depression, anxiety, obsessive behaviour, hypochondria)- but not a radical loss of touch with reality.

From my rants, you can see my signs & symptoms are more in keeping with Neurosis i.e depression and anxiety, as I don't see, hear or feel things that aren't there (disconnect from reality)

Mindfulness:
Too bad

Not one?

And their core focus on spiritualizing everything instead of focusing on the underlying issue causing a problem.

My issues at work now is obviously from my damaged self esteem, I'm a medical doctor so it even makes it easier to diagnose, my immediate elder brother rots away somewhere due to their same useless behaviour yet they continue to covertly "tag" both of us as having spiritual attacks or problem.

They've taken my brother to every manner of church, drank all manner of anointing oil, fasted all manner of fasting, prayed all manner of prayers for years and the idiots still believe it's a spiritual attack! I've counseled them uncountable times on the strong importance of seeing a Psychologist/Psychiatrist, but they wave my suggestion away with the wind as per lastborn wey I be, despite being a doctor. But a Prophet is not without honour except in his hometown.

Now they're trying to tag me with the same spiritual diagnosis but me I know sey I don get this issue teytey since when I small and na dem cause am, but they'll rather die than accept.

I just dey struggle to keep up and move on...I know I'll fix up my life successfully one day....

Mindfulness:
Too bad

Not one?

I'm now having issues with life generally cos I have become a social pariah due to my damaged mindset.

I try to pick up my pieces personally and still the idiots still won't let me be, they still won't leave me in piece, always eager to see my error so they point it out in order to make me "humble" so they can continue their seniority unhindered because I'm a doctor.

I use alcohol temporarily to ease my stress, but they're quick to condemn me to stupor without helping me solve the exact thing that makes me use alcohol- my stress and damaged esteem; cos they think the condemnation will make me shy away from drinking, it only got worse till I almost stabbed her one night when she wanted to try her nonsense "seniority" with me again. I cleared her doubt that night and was ready to kill her and kill myself too, I brought a knife and put it in my front while chewing my indomie. She mellowed that night and since then, she knew I'm a ticking timebomb that could blow anytime, hence better not toy with me....

Earthbound:
Parenting is not easy and is something you don't learn in a day or even over years. You keep learning but sometimes your actions are taken notice of by your children. For many, it's an obvious preference for a certain child. This is easily observed by the other children. As offspring, it is our duty to see the failings of our parents and ensure we do not duplicate the same actions when we have kids of our own.

For me, it's the singular act of comparing other people's children with yours. Citing other kids achievement as a yardstick for your children's is a big no no. This is one of the worst things a parent can do to his/her child. Fingers are not equal and that is why most children will never compare their parents with other people's parents. We tend to love them unconditionally. This irritating behavior can create an atmosphere of disdain around the house

If you are a parent, please take note of this. Your kids will develop an unnatural hatred for you in the long run. My patience is my greatest virtue but I'm not sure exactly how long I can hold on.

What are those things your parents did (or do) that you would never repeat to your children?

The one thing I'll avoid totally is the autocracy that comes with having to respect one's senior. I hate that thing to the core cos it only ends up destroying the self-esteem of an individual, especially the lastborn in most cases of whom I am unfortunately one-everybody transferred their aggression and vented their frustration on me but I had no one to let off steam to. So it all just built up till it turned into hatred, frustration, damaged self esteem and eventually depression.

I'll have the courage and boldness to apologize to my kids when I wrong them without fearing disrespect from them....this is what my mom and siblings NEVER do, infact they won't even keep quiet or bribe you with gifts sef like other families do, they'll rather twist it all till they find a way to absolve themselves of them and possibly even push it to your doorstep.

I went through hell in my family to the point that I decided to stay away from them and pray for their prosperity without my help. I pray they never need my presence to make it in life cos I honestly can't stand their disgusting behaviour.

Like yesterday my elder sister, a 38year old lady drank purewater, put the remaining in a cup and dropped it on the sofa. She does this most times but I always remove it for her without even telling her, till yesterday when some of the water from the pure water had spilled on the sofa makimg it wet, because the cup had turned sideways. I told her gently that the water she puts on the sofa has now made the chair wet, instead of her to accept her mistake and say oh thanks jarey, she rather went defensive by saying she puts it in a cup now and it's not supposed to pour out that way. I was just pissed off internally, cos was she even supposed to put purewater nylon in a cup and place it on a sofa in the first place?

I just logged off her matter cos i knew then that she was a waste of time and a lost course.

Benita27:
True! It's not for boys, but it's not like Croatia played like men and scored.

How can a young looking girl like you be so intelligent?

Unpossible!

dainformant:
A Nigerian man donning the Super Eagles jersey kissed his Croatian partner publicly near the Kaliningrad Stadium in Russia at the ongoing world cup tournament. According to reports, the couple kissed each other to show no hard feelings before the match started.

Meanwhile, Nigeria began their 2018 World Cup campaign, with a 2-0 defeat to Croatia on Saturday night.

The Super Eagles came into the game, hoping to get at least a point, after Argentina drew 1-1 in the other fixture played today in Group D.

Nigeria face Iceland next, while Croatia take on Argentina.

Source; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2018/06/world-cup-nigerian-man-kisses-his-croatian-babe-on-the-streets-of-russia-photo.html

See the fool spying at the camera

If you kiss with your eyes open, you can't be trusted at all...oyinbo pepper, be careful, na blood money dat flattino go use you for las...