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You're not alone on this OP, trust me.

It's for this reason I strongly believe I'll be faithful to my future wifey, all these shallow girls do not pique my interest at all. I'm overly sapiosexual and it's a bit of a problem as I can't stand dumb chicks for too long.

Special shout-out to all them deep thinking girls that understand that there's more to life than slaying and getting likes on social media. You girls are the real MVP...

It's for this same reason I'm finding it very difficult to leave my current gf even though I should have (for reasons best known to me). I'm not sure I can find someone I respect that much who can engage my mind deeply and vigorously like she does, cos I'm far from normal, but in a good and kinda mysterious way.

missyadorable:
When did "Banana fall on you" become an insult?

Well,Banana doesn't need to fall on me,I have an official sweet banana I fall on anytime I wish

My stance has worked for me. I can't give a romantic partner money o.I never gave my boyfriend,fiance,now husband money.I have never bought him a gift.

Boyfriend/fiance will see it as desperation,like am trying to buy him.

Husband will use my money and spend on his side chic(s).
Abeg ooooo.Am very stingy o! Am not greedy! I have my own money,if you give me,i collect.If u dont,nothing spoil.


But for me to spend my money cash/gifts/treats..NEVER!
Nigerian men don't appreciate such kind gestures!

It was a jest answer to what will I collect, the question on that other post, never meant to be an insult.

Guess you guys relationship works that way...

However, believe you me, most men after a certain age almost never get anything from anyone for most of their remaining lives. So they tend to appreciate any gift they get no matter how little it is...

So you guys don't get each other gifts on bdays, anniversaries, Valentine's, or just for nothing?

I'm still amazed really... I don't think you really love your hubby, maybe because of good reasons but you don't love him. If you truly did you can't be thinking like this...

However, it's ultimately different strokes for different folks.

Cheers

missyadorable:
The answer is : If I don't collect money,what will I collect?

Banana fall on you

Meanwhile, if you will collect, why won't you give?

I'm more shocked that you used the word never... Doesn't make any sense to me. I mean, love is all give and take, nothing more, nothing less...

Please review that stance of yours, it may be a bit parochial...

Just saying...

missyadorable:
1. NO

2. NO

3. NO

4. None of my business

5. YES(I can give money to my brothers,male relatives, colleagues/friends) But NO/NEVER to a romantic partner(Boyfriend,fiance,husband)

That your number five got me like

The question is, will you collect money from a romantic partner?

Waiting patiently for your answer....

fulanmafia:
Get your emotions in check for the purpose of clarity, and to avoid getting knocked back in the face with the labels you're flinging around.

How about the thousands of northerners over the years that have been innocently killed by your armed robbers, kidnappers, ritualists, cultists, fake drug merchants etc.? You're comparing apples and oranges.

The fact that instead of tact and diplomacy, your agitation chose to employ crude, cheap and lazy blackmail against the very same parties you need to peacefully secede, remains the Achilles heel of your agitation and which will lead to its calamitous failure.

And who says tact isn't being employed?

You're carried away by the propaganda videos you see on facebook, you have no idea what's going on behind the scenes.

Freedom of speech is definitely guaranteed and whatever IPOB members have said are just talk, now this does not mean I support it.

You're bringing up talk about ritualists, cultists and kidnappers to counter your illiterate almajiris zest for blood letting?

Dismally appalling is what you are dude.

So disgusting...

oshe11:
I dnt like him from day one.....

Why not try listening to his lyrics with an open mind?

Though he can be raw when it's called for but his lyrics are generally classic bro. He has also mastered his rhythm and style...

fulanmafia:
IDEALLY No, but with the uncivil approach to secession adopted by IPOB characterized by threats, insults and blackmail targeted at the North, you can be sure that there will be no happy separation with smiling faces or any bi-lateral agreements between the parties concerned.

You keep yapping about uncivil approach, do you know how many southerners, Igbos especially, have been killed at the slightest reason in the north?

This has continued for decades and there has never been anyone tried and convicted for these disgusting crimes...

Or is it the kidnapping of young southern and northern Christian girls and marrying them off into Islam by force?

If you go about ranting that IPOB have been uncivil just because they expressed their right to freedom of speech without any physical violence, what have you to say to hundreds of thousands of Igbos that have been slaughtered to appease your illiterate masses' thirst for blood?

You're just a stinking hypocrite!

oshe11:
burna boy




This one wesk me

You obviously dunno about the guy...

You dry carry last...

Limibanti:
Good evening Nairalanders. My girlfriend of few months is showing traces of trying to get back her ex. I met her when she had a clash with her ex and we started dating since then. I have always noticed that she still loves her ex but since the breakup just occurred and our relationship is still young, I was hoping that she will get over it. Our relationship is moving at a fast pace, we both know our parents but I have a challenge with the issue of her Ex.
What really pissed me off lately is that I just woke up to see my fiance using her ex as her DP on Social media and using smileys indicating love under the disguise that it is the guy's birthday . I challenged her and told her to remove it but she objected and left the DP. She apologized about using the DP which I doubt she meant but failed to change the DP.
If you were in my shoes what will you have done, please I need good advice.

For her to put up the guy on her dp and blatantly refuse to change it when you asked, bro dump her, she's not ready to be with you.

There should be absolutely no contact between them in my opinion, especially if they were really close and all lovey dovey.

You were just a rebound.

Maybe you can give her some space and see if she'll come to her senses, if not, let her be.

babniyen:
Where are the SW, SE reps in the house. Is this also their thinking .

In the HOR, the majority always carries the vote.

Guess who the majority are... your guess is as good as mine...

egopersonified:
I don't think so, since he said its a boarding school, had to read it twice when I saw ronke and 1999.�

Do you know that same Ronke?

You went to AFSS?

MrDickman:
Mehn theres always that pretty, georgeous and angelic secondary school crush we all had. Its always worse when its a boarding school. You always try your best to be in the same group with here during drills, be on her table in dining all, stand by her side on assembly ground, even when class dey go on, na just her u go dey stare at mehn they are just like angels.

Mine was this girl called ronke back then around 1999. I swear she was the most prettiest and angelic girl I ever laid my eyes on in my entire life. My heart always melted for her but this girl no send me. To follow am talk then sef dey always fear me. My friends knew very well about my predicament and they would often set me up by telling her _bullshit which i never said. Like I wanted to see her after school hours or why she was snubbing me. Funny enough after school hours the girl go wait for me but as a young nigga wey no sabi toast and shame dey catch, I go just run go hostel instanta. Till we graduated, I never got to express my feelings for her.

Then it happened on the day of graduation, I summoned courage and I was like what will be will be. Na so I find Ronke tire o I no see until evening when the ''mega'' party was over. Sadly she was already in her dad's car driving home she threw a small paper at me with the sentence I will never forget till date. It read ''What do you see in my body that has been chasing you away since?''. Then she ended it with one bloody yab like that i no fit remember. It happened she had been looking for me too just to tell me to work on my confidence around girls and man up. Mehn that statement brought out the beast in me as I went home with my testimonial and certificate in my hand flashing back and regretting coz I knew I'll definitely never have the chance to meet this girl again. She was to travel overseas to continue her education.

Well that her statement brought out the beast in me. Today I can approach any girl and if I dont _fuck her within 2 weeks, I know I've failed.

Hope it's not my own Ronke

Did you by any chance school at AFSS Ikeja?

Complicated.

I'm still buying time, waiting for the right moment to drop the nukes on her.

Just that breaking the emotional attachment is proving difficult and I've not really been a saint myself.

I need someone else to take her place so I can rest easy...

linearity:
I know exactly what I am saying, SE is not a legal entity and can not by voting constitute a legal entity call 'Biafra'. Nigeria is the legal entity and all Nigerians have to vote on that referendum...Yes, referendum is a general election in that, the general public must participate.

The examples you gave gave credence to my point e.g.

1. British Cameron Referendum of 1961:
British Cameron was a legal entity by itself, it was a federating unit and the vote was, if they want to join Nigeria or join Cameron. Again, only a valid legal entity can conduct a referendum...Northern Cameron eventually voted to join Nigeria, while Southern Cameron voted to join Cameron.

2. Scottish Referendum to stay/exit UK:
Scotland is a country of it's own, with its own laws, entities and constituent Authorities. England, Scotland, Wales and Northern Ireland voted to form UK, and each country can up and leave whenever they feel like, without the other having a say in it, because each of these countries are recognized worldwide as distinct federating units. All these is more possible because when forming the UK, each country reserved their rights to self-determination. Though, they were trying to copy USA, but the bonds among them was deliberately made to be more loose compare to to the bond between states in the USA.

I have to pull up the British Cameron Referendum to see, if the biding documents enumerated that these former entities can cede if they choose to.

In the case of the US, none of the 50 states can cede without the consent of the majority of the other states unless that state do it successfully by a way of revolution aka war. The same is applicable to the question Biafra, they were not part of any federating unit that joined Nigeria and even at that, there is no biding legal document pre-serving their rights to cede or self-determination, therefore the only valid Exit path is by successful revolution or consent of other states in Nigeria through a referendum.

You're just spilling trash mr.

Who told you a state in US can't seek to breakaway all by itself?



You dunno anything I must tell you.


A referendum is simply the voting on an issue by a country or part of it. Stop displaying your ignorance gallantly.

Biafra referendum can only happen in that particular area. Do you even understand the meaning of self determination?

wristbangle:
This fool needs to be rearrested. His madness is becoming a nuisance.

You need to upgrade and think we'll with an objective mind.

You can call him names but he's become far more known and more influential than anyone in your ancestral lineage.

If fighting and dying for one's core belief is madness then you must be a stinking coward.

I don't even need to be told where you're from

Bakrabas:
The question is that who masterminded the 1966 coup . . .

A few soldiers of former eastern region.

Does it justify the killing spree northerners went into after the counter coup?

Does it justify the killing of hundreds of Igbo senior officers in the counter coup?

Does it justify the killing of tens of thousands of Igbo during the pogrom?

Does it justify the callous riots and crises which are ignited at the slightest chance, where southerners are targets of their zest for blood, with Igbos suffering most of it?

With the armed forces of Nigeria looking aloof, Igbos were killed in their thousands in the 1967 pogrom, how do you want such people to ever feel loved in such a country?


And mind you, defining that Ironsi coup as an Igbo coup makes you sound really dumb. How can you call military interference by a couple of selfish and wicked officers an Igbo coup? What sort of prejudice is that?


Those were misguided soldiers who wanted to serve their own interests, don't you tag it to the race.

What is disgustingly wrong are those things I stated up there, which was thoroughly organized, supported and acted out by the northern masses, the war inclusive.


If Nigeria will work, we have to come together and do the hard talk, face the white elephant in the room and talk about issues surrounding that war and what led to all this bitterness.

But I fear it might be too late.

Papiikush:
Resistance always stand as a threat to any Colony. I suggest this man should be apprehended before he brings division to this great nation

We all need to understand that the issues of Biafra are beyond any one man.

An ideology never dies no matter how many arrow heads of that ideology are taken out.

Let us all face and resolve the issue surrounding the ideology, that is if Nigeria will ever muster the courage to face the issues of the civil war head on.

We can never wish them away, or pretend it never happened cos history never dies...

We have to face the hard truths, probably something akin to the oputa panel... until then we'll only keep running around in circles...

Solar2power:
Yes, is really affecting us..

Bro, got some enquiries to make on solar stuff. Can I call you?

excel101:
Its not by coming out to make statements that Nigeria will not break up and that we're united. Have the addressed issues like North owning 90% of oil blocs, South East marginalization, herdsmen rampage, Lagos having 20 LGAs despite being the most populated state in 9ja, resource control etc. If these issues are not address, then i will say that Nigeria is likened to a man that has malaria but treating its symptoms.

It shows this country is not ready to move forward as one. Imagine what these imbecilic governors are saying.

Unity is never forced but coerced and instituted through certain deliberate actions.

I weak for this country oloun

And none of these governors could talk about the main issue of resource control cum restructuring?

We'll keep skirting around the issues until the nation slides into cataclysm

AlexCk:
Regardless bro, these "values and culture" are what makes us sane in a way, if not, i bet we'd be seeing more of humans engaging animals, & other creepy stuffs too.

The main fact that we are humans or "higher animals" makes it quite sensible for us to dwell with such "relative concepts".


Anyways, those that practice it(in terms of the close-blood relation marriage thingy) as result of their culture and belief, well dem get mind oo.hehehe

Your first line, hope you're not trying to imply that weird unusual cultures (at least to you) are kind of insane?


Anyway, my point is that you find it (incest) disgusting only because you live in the times where your cultural views are at odds with such. I bet you in earlier times, probably hundreds of years ago, it would have been different (cultures and values).

So to respond to your last line, dem no get any mind, it's simply a norm for them.

Ochyglowsglows:
No one wants the offer? Abi no one eats gizzard. Let me come and be going.

I want

JulietFab2:
I want a man.

Your wish has been noted by the angels. I was sent to fulfil it

AlexCk:
Jeez!!

Incest shaaa,
Marrying ur sis has gotta be one of the crappiest piece of crap thing to do. Can't even imagine myself with my cousin let alone my sis.

How Cain, Seth, Abraham etc in the bible did it still creeps me out.

It's all societal influence on culture and values that has made it seem disgusting to you. In some societies and even religions, getting married to a close blood relation is normal.

So you see my friend, right or wrong, moral or amoral, good or bad; they are all relative concepts.

Fierce

neoShinto:
Lol

Bla Bla Bla right?! That Bla-Bla-Bla part is the truth

It amuses me when I see Igbos whipping up creamless lies

I hope you'll eventually realise that Igbos have made themselves despicable due to unnecessary cockiness and arrogance

No one is jealous of your so-called "success" or whatever, but people are really disgusted at your annoying "arrogance"

You really need to stop it

Nobody cares about your shitty opinion man, when it's time you'll come to certain realisations...

I never talked about anyone being jealous and if you can come out of your depressing low self esteem you'll know the difference between confidence and cockiness...

I sighted an example in Jews so your views come across as no surprise...

Igbos have always been shining examples of ingenuity and epitome of the word hustle, with all due respect to every other tribe in Nigeria. We ain't in competition with anyone....

Your thoughts on Igbos being despised is indeed laughable, you're confusing nairaland with reality, get a functional offline life dude...

I'm not surprised at all when I see comments like: Igbos dominate everyone, they are very aggressive and proud, they don't respect their hosts, bla bla bla...

It's the same way most Europeans and Germans in particular saw the Jews, especially after Hitler whipped up public sentiments against them....

It's only natural human reaction to a people whom even the most average of them can become a success out of nothing; which is God's gift to Igbos...

It's the more reason I see a very bright future for Biafra if it does come, we will all go back and make it a superpower in the nearest future, just as the Jews did... we can and we sure will, do not despair my people...

I believe in Nigeria but not the way it is... If the "owners" decide that they would rather maintain status quo, then I can only want Biafra.

Peace out.

sarrki:
DSS could have arrested the arewa youth that signed the ultimatum

That could have sent a warning signal to other tyrants and terrorist organization like ipobs miscreants

But alas they are telling Nigerians that their are sacred cows

That is the double standard obtainable in this country they is honestly sickening...

If it were igbo youths that gave such ultimatum we know what would have happened...

This is just one of the core issues many Nigerians are tired of...

LionDeLeo:
Says who?

Arabic studies is only for muslims and I can't see how this should any of your gaddem biz.

You obviously didn't read the OP...

You're more 'clueless' than GEJ

ahahnow:
Criteria: You must own a shop.

If you meet that requirement you can easily make 60k or more per month. My idea is use your location as a pick up center for customers of my goods. You as the shop owner will make at the very least 2k from a customer. Its a numbers game. The more people order from your location, the higher the incentive. So if you get at least one customer picking up my goods from your location every day, for 30 days, you stand a chance to make 60k per month. So simple. Please contact me if you are interested. People within Lagos only please.

Hi bro, I'm interested. What kind of goods we talking about here? How can I reach you, pm?

firstking01:
Igbo people and wayo lifestyles.

We all know who are referred to as demons in this game

See how this thread still maintains a modicum of sanity even as its two yorubas caught in crime.

If it were Igbos caught in crime so many bigots would be running amok on the thread with glee all in the name of NCAN.

Let's all shun this display of stupidity and quit pointing fingers cos all tribes are involved in all sorts of crimes...

Peace out...