₦airaland Forum

tommychow:
My colleagues and I were talking today about how a lot of Nigerian females gradually become rude whether you're in a relationship, you're close friends or colleagues. We talked about how we guys can be free, crack jokes about each other constantly, be generous AND still maintain that respect for each other especially when there is clear age difference.

As a guy who wants to enjoy his friendship/relationship without unnecessary tension, you try to make her laugh, you're generous to her, you don't hold a grudge and let her wrong actions slide for peace of mind etc. With all of these acts they slowly start becoming disrespectful and verbally abusive, they start challenging your decisions and commands to form "equality", they stop becoming as helpful as before, they start giving unnecessary attitude as if they wanna see how mad you can get. They'll basically corrupt the relationship/rapport themselves and leave the guy cracking his brain, wondering how they got there.

I am not here to ask for solutions to this problem e.g. Confront her aggressively, Stop being nice to her, Buy her gifts blah blah blah. All I want to know is why girls spoil a good thing going for no OBVIOUS reason. Y'all ladies should give reasons for this come change in attitude.

Augustap:
Ok but you know people shud take precautions to protect that which is important to them

NOETHNICITY:
IBO's play politics with emotions.
doesn't work like that.

feelgoodInc:
what are you saying, she dressed up, took her bath, paid transport to spend the WEEK with him.

Augustap:
Mistakes cud made but not when it comes to cheating. How and why did a lady who knew she had a relationship to protect engage in something that cud cause "HEAT OF THE MOMENT". She planned it well, the way Evans plans his kidnaps

Augustap:
Bro the first mistake you made was forgiving her the first time. Cheating for the first time isn't a mistake at all. The first time she wanted to cheat, she thought abt it really well, weighed the pros and cons and finally decided that she was either too smart to be caught or you were a fool and wud forgive. SHE CHEATED BEFORE, SHE WILL CHEAT AGAIN AND WILL CONTINUE TO CHEAT. YOU BETTER LEAVE HER AND FIND YOUR SQUARE ROOT. ONCE A CHEATER, ALWAYS A CHEATER.

adaksbullet:
I'm remembereds wen I'm puts conecane in the lift too



If u are needs ppls too carryed conecane for u, pm me

Whobedatte:
Burna is the official brand projector for MALTINA (Nigerian Breweries)
Still astonished how an international brand like NB, can endorse such who smokes , and flaunts his cult membership for all to b endorsed .

rosieluv:
so you are one then

rosieluv:
so he is a cultist

DMerciful:
24V is ok but 48v is better but more expensive. If you loads are not much and u intend to incorporate solar, 24v is just fine.

SycophanticGoat:
The first wave of installation was done by a technician. He ended up destroying my battery. The second one was done by me when I did the upgrade and I installed it perfectly.

it's not difficult if you put your mind to it. It's something you can learn by reading and downloading tutorial videos from youtube.

To me, the only difficult aspect of it is climbing the roof because I'm not so good with heights. Thank goodness my roof didn't sloop much.

SycophanticGoat:
check one of my thread (I think it's probably my first thread) here. It made front page and many people contributed. You may see someone to assist you on there..

Onix01:
Solar is the cheapest alternative source of energy for long term users. However, one need to patronise good products and ensure professional installations of the product. Mind you it can be connected in series or parallel. A good connection can either make you self dependant or use a hybrid power supply in your home. We have 2types of panel namely; Mono-crystalline and poly-crystalline panels. Both work efficiently but people often prefer the mono as they believe it's out-put of same wattage is higher than poly. Batteries are also an important factor when looking at solar installations. Most of the battery we currently have in market is sub-standard and as such can frustrate the storage of solar power. An average home can comfortable work with 4 panels of 300w @ 24v. Th current market rate for this panel is 70k and above depending on the quality of the product.

Charpell:
TASK 4
Edward built a 5 bedroom Duplex In a remote village
and wants to go completely off- grid.
He knows the project will cost him a lot,
So he is looking for a solar company that will
Finance his project for a period of 12 months.

List of Appliance
15 Energy Saving Bulb (20w)
5 Standing Fan (50w)
2 Celling Fan (120w)
4 LCD TV (150w)
15 Phones (10w)
1 Decoder (20w)
1 Fridge (150w)
1 Freezer (300w)
1 Microwave (600w)
1 Air Condition (1000w)
2 Laptop (75w)
1 Inkjet Printer (50w)
1 Electric Iron (1000w)
1/2 HP Water Pump (1500)





Question 1
Energy consumption
Inverter size
Number of batteries
Nos of Panels
Charge Controller Rating



Question 2
If after Energy Audit and costing
$20,000 is needed to purchase the system.
Edward only has $5,000 at the moment.
If the solar company is offering him 15℅ rate
How much is Edward expected to pay per month?

sirusX:
Hit up Charpell
Maybe he can help

dawahlarry:
You are already mailed.

Godsaves18:
Ok guy, am at ur service...07030844863

Nigeriadondie:
Where is pidgin2 forming patroitic Nigerian that Nigeria is paradise on earth.

I have said it that Nigerians in Nigeria who defends Nigeria wud change their perception once they reach abroad. Forget what u watch on movies when u experience it live and direct u go no say khaki truly no be leather.

Once u travel abroad u will curse our leaders and wish they are hanged on a pole and shot with high calibre bullets from anti- aircraft guns. These beasts ve denied Nigerians good life they truly deserve. Even the so called modern cities like Lagos are like ghettos compared to what u call villages abroad to show u how backward we are. Imagine in Lagos the governor was talking of wi-fi at bus stop when abroad u get free wifi in hospital, schools, markets even inside public buses on ship which u may pay for. The level of technology wud make u look like a bush man from one ancient village, when u wud see u can wash ur plates, clothes with machines and some cases iron them, drones and gps devices to navigate ur way, even technology to make life for d disabled a bit easy or u go hospital and see equipments, abi na school den u will know that d university u went to in Nigeria is a big waste of time especially if u did sciences and engineering. We are over 100 years backwards.

As for social security system in place made me realize that there is far enough to lift everyone out of poverty. The system takes care of d jobless, disabled, pensioners so if u loose job no cause for anxiety over the basic necessity. Even though social security bill was debated on d floor of senate of last administration it didnt pass 2nd reading. It has died a natural death no one is talking about it even d useless Ben Bruce with his common sense rants has not thought of discussing it on d floor.
But in Nigeria it is a dream cos d greed of a few beasts in power wud embezzle far more than they need leaving the docile majority divided by ethnicity and religion in need.

Countries with oil like us such Qatar, UAE, Bahrain, Oman, Kuwait, most western European countries have no poor if u even see what they call poor u will be amazed. Norway with oil like has d world's largest sovereign wealth funds together with other scandanavian countries that are called welfare states with social security systems that are regarded as models for others to follow I can authoritatively tell that poverty not even one person is poor.

School free at all levels that if u do Ph.D u re paid while schooling. If u re doing Masters u re eligible to loans.
Truly enough for all I mean for all not what is for all embezzled by few bastards who should be killed.

Equality before d law is another thing, a top govt official if he commits crime with ordinary citizen it is same punishment that wud be meted out. The likes of Saraki wud be in jail by now but sadly he has been acquitted. No justice for poor even though we should not even have poor in d first place.

Until we all unite which is a remote possibilty the status quo remains with no hope in sight. APC, PDP, RIP or whatever can never bring any desired change until we do things diferently. It will always be a mirage.
Nigeria is just a waste of space a country of dashed hopes, unfulfilled dreams, unrealised potentials.

Even d Nigerians are abroad who want to come back to develop home wud face fustration from govt and other bad belle.

Our useless leaders know this that is y dey run abroad for everything. Where is PMB now? They have no faith in d country they govern. Which of their kids are in our schools. Nigeria is doomed far doomed beyond redemption.

If my govt cannot give me a befitting life, then my citizenship is of no worth not worth a tissue paper and deserves to be dumped.

Until we enact laws to execute corrupt people in power like China does we would never get anywhere. But wud Saraki and his gang of robbers and tout do so? They blame Federal Government but are they not part of the govt? What do they with d constituency allowance they get? What projects have they executed in their constituencies? In the first place d legislature has no business financing projects at all. It is an anomaly but they will never correct it cos it is a way to get their share of the national cake.

Also if u spend 70-75% of d budget on recurrent expenditure and mere 25-30% on capital projects then how do money circulate to create jobs and distribute wealth. It is like spending so much to run ur business on operating cost u end packing up d business. That is y Nigeria is a mess it is not prepared to get out off.

I laugh when people say agriculture is d way. But if u cud not achieve anything with oil is it with agriculture? We have had palm oil over d years which has made Malaysia progressed but what of us what ve we achieved with agrculture? Japan prone to earth quake is resource poor, bombed with nuclear bombs in WW2, but developed its human resources now d world's 3rd largest economy if not d tsunami and Fukushima disaster it was 2nd. China that executes corrupt people just developed their own commercial airplane givng Boeing a run for thier money while we were celebrating pencil manufactured locally. Germany defeated by allies in 1945 divided and occupied by d allies into East and West is now Europe's largest economy and cud absorb over 1 million Syrian refugees who live far better lives than many Nigerians as citizens in their own country who never bother about d welfare of its citizens.

Nigeria has no excuse not to be far developed and rich that would make holders of d green passport proud wherever they go to.

For anyone defending Nigeria pls take a trip abroad and experience it live and tell me if u go get mouth to defend Nigeria.

Where is Pdigin2 always blabbing about forming as if she is more Nigerian than we who are also Nigerians defending what u cant defend if u re to be truthful with yourself.

NwaAmaikpe:


They always claim they don't want a One minute man

But when you go beyond 15minutes they accuse of hating them and trying to punish them.


"Cosmas why you wan scatter my kpekus, abeg do come down...you no dey tire?"
Wetin I do you, why you dey fire like say no go fire again tomorrow? "

ivolt:
A failure has a thousand excuses.

Problem: Our leaders have failed to deliver economic freedom to the populace.

Working country response: Those leaders maybe misfits, clueless, carefree and must be
replaced by leaders with vision.

Nigeria response: A house not build on prayers cannot work. It is not the leaders fault,
they mean well for us, it is the evil spirit and curse that is holding them back.

There you have the reason for Nigeria's underdevelopment, it is our mentality.

Don't be surprised if this magician writer eagerly accepts an appointment
from the same "cursed" villa.

InvertedHammer:
This proves that Nigerians have very short memory span.

I cannot believe that some people are extolling the "vices" of OBJ.

zeetyzin:
Lol, as bad as they might seem or appear, snakes have benefits to human...
We feed on them, their skin is used in the fashion industry, and their venom can be used to treat cancer and some other ailments..
Guess we just have to put up with dem.

Ghosttt:
Ur signature touch me. I dy go put dp nw

mofeoluwadassah:
rip to the dead.....the woman bweast tho