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SultanOfPuna:
For your information..
Every Soul Chooses their Parents.. Before They Enter This World.. Its called FREEWILL
NO SOUL IS FORCED TO COME INTO EARTH
That will go against the Freewill God have us.

Hehe you should start a children's book. Title it. The Millicent fantasy of Lala land

TooNoisy:
This is a man still trying to find his feet so he cant even think about marriage. He has made alot of very bad investment decisions so he is looking to make some money back right now.

When he has made some millions, you will not need to ask him before he gets married and starts having kids.

Well I think he really don't want to get married and have kids. We do exist and some us have decided to be celibate too. So its a thing. Its not a money thing. My father left me with a ton of money and properties, I run my business, drive around in a car I love more than anything in the world and at least have money to afford anything I want to buy. So nope its not a money thing. I have already willed my things to my sister. So yeah its not money

SultanOfPuna:
This is the most dumbest reason to not have Kids..
If your Father said this trash to ur Mother
U wouldn't be born into this world dumbass
Be a Man and don't be scared of responsibility.
Unless na Impotency dey worry you
#ImpotenceMustGo

His father gave birth to him without his permission, if he don't want to be a slave and live his life, what do women do in a relationship marriage self?

Cellenero:
Lol,they are coming for your Balls very soon.
How dare you make mockery of feminism

Nah not mockery, there is nothing I have written that is not true. You shouldn't ignore facts and put your head in the clouds.

Have you heard of feminism? Feminism is a movement that advocates for equal rights of the sexes basically by advocating for women rights. Anybody that subscribes to this philosophy is a feminist, Feminism seems cool right? Its harmless, so how will it affect your relationship with your wife?

Well ferminists believes that women should have all the sex in the world with
any man or all the men if she wishes so without anybody stopping her. Becouse a woman don't belong to a man

Ferminist are super against traditional roles of the sexes in marriage. You know that wife cooking, and cleaning thing? They hate that. So don't expect dinner from your ferminist wife.

Ferminists can leave a marriage anytime they want and if you live in certain countries, they are entitiled to take your house and half of your money with them. They can leave for whatever reason, if the air condition is too high, or if the other guy she is sleeping with says so. U know since they don't belong to men and can sleep with anybody she wants anytime.

So how do you live with your ferminist wife and be happy.
1) accept reality, feminism is here, everybody is subscribe to it even if thy don't tag along with the term. If she has been to the university, she is a ferminist.
2)Understand that your wife don't belong to you. So take a DNA test for every kid she has to make sure the kids are all yours. If she starts that trust thing, know that its a manupululative tactics to shut you down so that you can continue taking care of sombody else's kid
3) Automate all the house chores( buys dishwashers, cleaning bots, hire nanny etc)
You can also eat your food in a restaurant or order from the internet
4)don't pay or buy a house, the house should be a rented house and make sure she is paying half of the rent. Ferminist love this, they started it 50/50. Its should be a ranted house becouse your wife can leave anytime, so dose you. You also have the rights to leave the marriage for whatever reason. If she gets too fat or too old or you can't handle her lazy sex. Thats the beauty of feminism
5)Run a secret business and keep your money cryptic, so that only you have acces to it. Or she will take it all if she devorce

this is the world right now. Play little puppy and you are gone. add some ways that you think will make your life better with a ferminist wife below in the comments

partnerbizn4:
Those searching for jobs in this kwontry have suffered.

They can even say that your shadow is too close to your body therefore you won't be employed.

Or say you were sweeping your room with broom when the manager is a pdp member

Or that you spelt FOOD without putting the first O in the second place.


Or that you were swimming and splashing dust everywhere.

It's well!

Hehehehehehehehehehehdhehehehe now this just made my day.

Nah women only think they have expensive taste. They always cheap to sombody. I don't have a problem with this. As long we are both clear on what we want. For me the romance days are rather long. I will prefer one day, what else will I be doing for the other 13days when I can get 13differnt uniques dates as well. Nah this is not a good deal. Would have been better if it was just day and she ll leave.

lexy2014:
Which us back to what I said earlier that she must have been masturbing for free all this while

Yea. Most women if not all masturbate. Its not new

Ifeelsad:
I've had this recurrent skin issue for about three years now. I've used everything usable both creams and drugs but its not going. Its getting worst, its on my face, breast, neck, all over my back even on my stomach. I don't know what to do again I'm tired

Please has anyone had this kind of rash
I'll like this moved to the front page for more views because I'm getting frustrated and my husband is getting impatient

I use dettol or izal to bath and I bath twice a day sometimes 3 times depending on d weather so I won't say its uncleanliness

You see how patient men are. If it was reversed, you will dumb him, tell the world how he is disgusting.
Anyways buy original Amira soup and be bathing with it

lexy2014:
I have. What's d difference?

It means if she wants to make money masturbating, she should consider using an online live cam services as she would make millions through it. The comment is not saying she should do it for free but suggesting a platform for her to use so that she will profit from the act.

lexy2014:
So u suggesting that she has been masturbating 4 guys to watch her do it for free?

Can you please read that comment again?

fergie1989:
Juliet is one pretty lady sha

If you mean, getting old, fake hair, meck up and fat then yeah. Have never seen her movie, but if she is talented I will pay for that.

Hehe Bobrisky is a perfect example of how even a man can look good in a dress, fake hair and meck up. Beauty is not fake hair, tone skin, meck up. That is deceiver, scam artist. Beware guys

CHoccolaTE:
Lmao, I didn't read through this foolishness, red pill guy one day I will have the time to answer you, for now keep deceiving yourself with your emotional diatribes.

1. Keep your filthy respect to yourself I dont need it

2. Read and learn history of religions and societies and find out why women were relegated to being home makers instead of helping to build civilizations by greedy selfish sociopath men that wanted control of everybody , stop writing and vomiting senseless crap abouf natural law everywhere,

3.You spit on your mother not me, stop spitting on your mom red pill guy.

Begone ferminist

CHoccolaTE:
Those men in your picture are a typical example of how men are animalistic sociopaths, their evil nature has nothing to do with women.

I still can't take your drivel serious.

Nah.you are greatly misteken, i dont really care what you take seriously. Am just calling u out on ur BS. You tried to sway women into faminazim and destroy families by pointing out irellavant chores that are already automated by(MEN) You are incabable of comprehending logic. You are going to see any thing that don't appeal to your feelings or narrative as nonsense.
Lol men are animalistic, sociopaths and evil wen they refuse to help a woman who don't need a man. A woman want a man to risk his life when she feels too oppressed to butter a bread. u think thy say women first cus y'all some fairy qeens?
For every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction. Natural law. Let me tell you what is wrong with your ferminist narretive. You are going to work till you die and since your body was not built for stress, it will changed you phycologically and psychologically Unless u give up, or u manipulate a man u don't need to provide 4 u like the woman u are.
Tik tok. You have a biological clock coming, work is only going to faster it and men really don't care how much money you have. If you are old you are invnivible. Men can prospond marriage anytime they like.
Maybe marriage is not important, you will just have a kid. You will leave that kid to a stranger everyday to work and it will break ur hrt. Even if you are successful in getting
a man. Hehe he has to be lil bitch to take ur shit. you got rights! Chores are automated. You just want to shit on people and get away with it. Nope ur shit will not be tolerated, you are not going to get rescued, the militery and police that protects you are men. Know that. And yes we will marry that traditional woman and she is not going to do chores, we will care for her, protect her, fight for her, provide for for her, she can have a job and do what makes her happy and we will respect her. I don't respect you jezibel I spit on you.

If you want to buy good and cheap yam. Go to Benue. I think they are the highest producers

Publicity stunt

CHoccolaTE:
@bold, really?
Lwkmd, I can't take this drivel serious abeg

Yep y'all refuse to do chores and their is a machine for every chore.
Y'all refuse to be respectful to people
Y'all can't survive in a shit storm
Y'all can't go to war
Y'all can't do the real jobs that matters
Honestly am not that bright so help me out here is there something am missing. How do u contribute to sociaty. In ancient times the mention of women alone was motivation enough for soilders to win a war. Now men are not even helping women who are attacked by wild animals. Below is an image of a woman being attacked by an elk, why men stood and watch. And about me wanting women. Lol nothing a woman can do for me that a machine can't do.

Phenomenal16:
...don't do sth..that will leave in perpetual regrets
2.keeping on playing with fire.. Ur eye go soon open...
Luv is blind marriage is d opener that will open ur blind eyes....

Maybe I didt read it right.
Why will you let a bitch talk back at your parents? Is she crazy?
Why is this dude talking about this?
He should have kicked that bitch out yesterday

Godiloveu:
Well ur opinion, and I can't disagree

Lol

Godiloveu:
Tufiakwa! It will never happen in my generation and my children's generation and my grand children , even my great grand kids. titilailai.. being naked is a choice and some ppl are wearing their unclothedness as a choice, am not ugly but I preferred being beautiful in a clothe.

But been naked in the streets is the ferminist narrative. You know? Women wea cloths cus of the patriarchy

Stevecovey:
Club hopping in Atlanta with her friends.

She found another rich maga last year, but I think dt one dumped her so she has resumed selling her market.

Nah a Niggah in Atlanta that wants to Bleep a bitch like this is just a regular dude. But even him, he was just looking for some easy pussy.
This bitch is job and she is below a 6 not to mention, she is getting old. A guy with class will be repulsive to this bitch.

What did you say her job was again?

omokoginimi:
I agree with you, they are all clowns lol

More like we are all clowns. Your username is in the clown database

lyndaway:
Not all women are after a man's cash even though it is important some women can stay with a guy for years and won't ask him for money and she will be fine

Hehe yep if she is getting old and knows that her chances of getting a more wealthy man is limited by those hot heads young girls, (after all those men have lots of options and you will be just another option to consider) then she will lynched on to a guy that has prospect. Less not kid yourself the thing called love is all about supply and demand. I know this that why my biggest motivation is making money and that's why I have 12beautiful hot girlfrnfs and counting who love me for who I am & not becouse of my money.but I got money thou. How ironic! Love is a myth.

franchasng:
How is Kate Henshaw with her male looking muscular body, with no yummy bombom looking so so beautiful and attractive to this broke jigolo trying to woo his grandma's friend with a lame line


Any lady that have flat bombom should better turn to transgender because the beauty of a woman is in her bombom and flat tummy like moi






When you talk of beautiful Nigerian female celebrities, you talk of Omotola, Destiny Etiko, Juliet Ibrahim, Nadia Buari, Carolina Danjuma, that Ubi Franklin's ex wife, and others I can't remember, not Kate Henshaw and Annie Idibia,Yvonne Nelson and co that look like transgenders

You know what? Bleep you. I can't let you talk about Nigerian women like that. You can carry ur bum bum and smash into something . Everybody have their struggles. You don't know what she is going thru. Even a feminist deserves happiness its her right. Respect people so that you will be respected. Everybody was made good in the eyes of God. And your eyes are not looking godly.

user283:
There's this lady I've been dating for two years now. We happen to be members of the same church and I ought to have taken the relationship to the next level by getting my parents to her place for our introduction last month but I had a rethink and postponed our introduction due to an issue that might cause problem in the future

I noticed my girlfriend is the stingy type. When I mean stingy, it's on the high side. Assuming she's just averagely stingy I wouldn't really be bothered but this is gross.

I work as a bank teller (contract staff) and my salary isn't really much while she works in Shoprite. Even from the little I earn, I'm always sensitive to her needs and I tip her whether she's stranded or not since I love her but how can I explain being with a lady for two solid years and I've never for once received any gift no matter how little it is? Not even something as little as toothbrush or hair cream

Initially, I didn't see this as a big deal probably because I grew up with the mentality that it's a taboo for a man to expect gifts or little support from his girlfriend when he's in dire need
but I've now grown to realize that "give and take" is one of the key elements of a good relationship

Even if I get stranded or go into debt, my girlfriend acts nonchalant and she'll be the
last person that will ever render a little financial assistance to help my situation. You might say I should sit her down and discuss about it. Yes I've already done that and I made her understand that I actually postponed our introduction for no other reason but because I'm still indecisive if I want to spend the rest of my life with a selfish woman but her response shows she takes pride in being stingy

I even used logic to whine her younger brother recently just to be sure if she's stingy to me alone but the boy confirmed it that her sister is very stingy. I decided to carry out my findings on her brother because I believe he should know her better.

You might want to talk about sex but my belief is that sex is just a mutual pleasure and does not define what a woman gives to you in a relationship especially a relationship that will lead to the altar

What's getting me worried is that we've come a long way but I don't want to end up with a selfish woman because it's written all over her that she cares so much only about her own well being

Please advice your fellow brother. Do I have a reason to be worried? I've been jumping a lagoon for a woman who can't jump a gutter for me especially when it comes to giving. Should I tolerate this level of stinginess from a woman simply because I'm a man?

P.S: I'm still with her because she has other good traits

Please pardon my typos. I wrote this in a hurry

Their is only one problem here. You don't make enough money. I will tell u. Love is a myth. Its all about supply, make more money and live your best live as bachelor have a kid or kids and leave the fuckery

Dottore:
Which one are you?

If you are single you dey "Miss" legal rights to courtesy and dedicated dicking and chance to raise legal children when you still can.

If you are married you have many "Misses = Mrs"
You are missing having multiple dicking from different guys without answering to anybody.

You are missing freedom.

You are missing having quickies with random guy at the slightest secluded corner.
You are missing asebi and attending many functions at freewill.
You are missing not being policed by a single individual - Your husband.

Yep thats a fermenist right there. At least this one is honest and like that. You just miss the part wea you get to 30+ and you look for one thirsty simp and marry and shit in his face.

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CHoccolaTE:
Is this topic still running?

Many Nigerian boys are just confused children.

They dont want feminists, they want a woman who regards them as superior but at the same time they dont want to marry a jobless woman because they want a wife who is co provider. You want a woman who you can lord it over and at the same time she provides for you and feeds you.

Stupid users.

Just look at this thread where a woman said her mother was trying to help her choose a spouse who can provide, many idiotic males rushed in to start calling the lady a gold digger.
https://www.nairaland.com/5074399/mother-doesnt-want-me-marry#76582613

Any non feminists reading this thread should bear that in mind as they get married, you will be expected to play traditional role of submissive obedient wife and still feed your husband as co provider.

Just Think of all the Ls you are going to take

Your husband will charge home at the end of the day and demand you serve him food you bought part of with your money, in a house you both pay rent for and then put his feet up on a table you probably bought or contributed to buying. He dumps his butt on the chair you probably bought or contributed to buying and starts watching dstv/gotv you payed part of the subscription for and while you are in kitchen sweating and trying to put the food together, you are also watching over the kids that bear his name and technically belong to his family all the while he is relaxing and watching his favourite TV channel while you are putting his food together after you BOTH return from work.

What a worthless life of being used and taking losses left and right.

If I say many Nigerian men are selfish users they will call me man hater.

Oh God this again. Lady you have the right to vote, education, job, equal pay, you have more rights than men.
Their are Dishwashers
Their are floor cleaning robots
Their is a thing called the laundry machine and laundry marts
Their is an all smiling willing lady called the Nanny
You can literally order plutonium from the internet, so getting a piece of cake is a piece of cake incase i ignore all those family restaurant I drive pass everyday
So stop it with that woman chores thing you have going. Their is no social construct, the reason why their is predator, pray its the reason why the human race is like the way it is, its still the same Law that dictates how everything works in the universe. You play with natural laws, their will be consequences. wait til you have a natural disaster and nobody helps you out cus u know? You don't need men. Hope all Feminists know war is coming. The extremist all over the world, they don't take a break, thy are breading like flies while feminist want men to be puppies. The only value women have is their reproductive capability, it is why they are protected cus nature on default makes it so but u guys don't like the things nature provides for you. Their is that artificial womb in development, once it is done. The only thing to worry about in a war is how to transfer the source code to a secure servers. So don't worry you have less things to complain about soon. And since u hv not noticed. Everybody is already down with feminism its the reason why u can go to school. The problem is that damn Attitude Feminist have. Men hv attitude too but we fight it out. U. U have a nasty attitude but can't take a fight. Wat u do is complain all the damn time. Nothing is satisfying for. You cant even say what you want.

Michellekabod2:
Yea you are right but not all females. Females in their 30s or ladies that have had several heartbreaks and experiences in love will values beta males.Have you heard this saying "alpha males hand over the ladies to beta males for marriage".

When it deals with attraction ladies love stoic males but for marriage beta males(SIMPs,white knights,manginas et AL) are preferred because their commitment is secured and they can be manipulated easily.
Beta males can take anybody for a wife and will go out of his way to please/impress,so they are valued for life long commitment...

Ladies over 30 and plus love those,
They shit in their face and they just open their mouth wide open. They will be like sorry baby, give me more shit. Feminist love shitting on those cus feminists got pussy too. Thirsty niggah brain is just one giant pussy compass

ornicus:
Most people worry about global warming , pollution war. You are bothering yourself with arcane things like feminism

Am starting to think you are a Muslim
Islam is right about women thou.
U seem very convenient and you don't see feminism been a threat becouse of your perception and interaction. You are so comfortable in it.
Yep tried studieing about global warming, I went to my village and planted lots of oranges, coconuts and palm cus if its not those ppl will think its a useless tree and cut it down for foreword. Still cheaking up on them till date, I also invited my frnds and family to do the same. Hehe told them its a good business instead so that they will do it. Imagine if you did and everybody here did the same. U know? The non fools.
War is coming. But this is good in a way cus we need a restart, more reason I don't want to bring a kid to a world that is at the brick of war.
About pollution, I try as much as possible to use my car only when its necessary. I like walking more, it keeps me healthy and in shape,
so in my own way am doing something about it, are you?
Women have everything, rights to votes, education, jobs, equal pay,
Their are dishwashers
Laundry marts
Cleaning bots(they clean ties and carpets)
You can literally order anything you want through the internet and eat full.
There are no women chores anymore.
So? You noticed how all Feminists have a nasty attitude. They want that attitude accepted. they want to shit in your face why you keep your mouth wide open.

ornicus:
Dude, I am being extremely sarcastic. That is a scene from one of the funnier episodes in futurama

Death by snu snu

I just picked it to play off the ridiculous fears of our aspiring Red piller

These fools just read stuff on the net without thinking.

13 year olds are still being married off in Nigeria
Divorce dad's are paying 5k/ month as upkeep
Lawyers engaged for divorce are sabotaging cases
Less than 20 rape cases have been prosecuted in nigeria
A man can sieze children from his estranged wife, and it happens all the time

The patriarchy is alive and well in Nigeria, and ably supported by women. Women will shame their unmarried sisters. Women will flaunt their rings in pictures. Women will advocate for other women to take shit for the Mrs title.

Nigerian men are not at any risk whatsoever. These are just beta males reading and getting scared. This nonsense being posted is like saying we will soon have electric cars or 24/7 electricity.

A little knowledge is dangerous in the hands of fools

PRoblem is you think too small. You are talking about nigeria while I was talking about the world. You are talking about the present , am talking 200, 500 yrs in the future. That is why thy call it agenda. You are smart though, I ll give you that.