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Slimdada:
Its quite understandable why guys date and marry these white single mother's from Yankee
But why the fvvk would u want to marry a single African mum wey no get money?

Single young sexy ladies don finish??

The thirst is real

Michellekabod2:
the father of a child always want to be involved in the child life. As a man can you forget your kid and dash him to a new family? The problem now is the nature of visit. Because of the bad reputation contacting an ex has,most people contact their exes clandestinely in other not to anger their spouses. The clandestine "meeting" or "calls" or "chat" is suspicious itself. The key to solve this whole single-mum-baby-daddy problem is to let the ex be involved in the "[couple's" and the baby's life.
I mean the ex should be in contact with your family(your wife,the kid and yourself),he should be a family friend so that they will be no need for him to contact her alone. The husband should have a rapport with the baby daddy so the number of times he has to call the wife be reduced. Instead of calling her always to ask if he is ill, he can put you on call at times.
If room is made for him to see his own child once in a while(for example quarterly),whereby his visit is planned and anticipated by the husband and wife,then there will be no room for secret meetings or contacts.



That said,aside single mums,they are people who establish a soul-tie with someone. For life that bond may never be broken,especially their first love. Men in the 40s,married with kids still remember their teenage first love of decades ago,ladies do the same too

More reason not to marry. Especially if the body counts is high. Why tolerate all this BS?

Smack Smack, kick kick, face slap. Why will u marry a single mother in the first place? You deserve everything that u got. U got served.

I guess the man married a Muslim woman cus he is tired of western feminists.

"He is doing everything to make me happy" this is how you know the woman is Bullshitting and probably just riding on the poor man's back. Do all simps usually look like they dont have bones?

ladyGKilaBCrueD:
This is why I hate broke boys
Just a couple of plates of food and movie dates and he feels entitled to the girl’s body
Abeg! A normal big boy would just have dusted his feet and left but trust broke angry boys to pull dumb stunts like this.
Congrats, you just made a big fool of yourself. You now have the reputation of being a scrub who dine and dashes on dates.

LoL coming from a person they are paying for food and everything else with nothing to offer. This opinion is next to shit.
Guys keep posting stories like this so that men will learn and stay away or smash and dash on this type of women. Don't be feeding prostitutes.

Lol. Translation. FinLand is about to go down the drain. Yeah right. Who needs work

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Zooposki:
Maybe she is a career woman. I don’t blame her though. Women are often left with the short end of the stick, after staying at home to take care of the children, to the detriment of their financial status. Meanwhile the husband often ends up leaving them for a younger model, after he has become financially stable due to no distractions from the home front. Wise women are now serious about their careers though and want independent financial stability and are no longer housewives. The raising of children should be a joint effort between husbands and wives.

Well so what's the need for marriage then. Let's just have kids then run a joint account dedicated to the kid so that the nanny can get paid.

omonikiba:
This is so urgent now.

This woman is so nice to us, my kids love her and am heart broken she's leaving today.

I have being trying to manage her marriage, she has issues with the MIL and hubby, they don't want to see her around. Her husband wants to take her back to the village, we've done all our best, I knelt down with other elderly people to beg but the MIL insist she's rude and want her to leave.

I will really be hurt to see her go, who else can I trust my kids with? I leave my rooms open with no fear, she doesn't steal and obey all instructions to the letter. In fact, am soooo free with her around my kids.

I have two vacant rooms around, we don't mind housing her, my husband want her to stay with us but I said no, I thought about it carefully and so said no. My reasons are;

* I don't want to have issues with the MIL, we are both house owners, not just tenants that will depart sooner or latter so I don't want any issue with a fellow landlady.

* She is way older than me, I call her mama. So I hate to hurt an elderly person. Taking her DIL in will surely hurt her. And she might think so instigated the DIL against her.

* I don't want other landlords to see me as a bad person.

* What if something happens to this girl or what of if she starts to misbehave?

*My sister and older relations advise against it.

* Her MIL will do everything possible to tarnish my image in our estate.


This girl isn't a bad girl, she is this village girls that if you manage well, you'll get the best out of them but her MIL n hubby are phycos. Very difficult to be with. She's highly unforgiving. She insist this girl must go because she doesn't fit her status. But they saw the kind of person she is before marrying her.

Enough of too much talk.

What do I do to keep her without hurting her MIL.

If she leaves, the stress will be too much for me and I don't think I'll get someone else due to trust.

I need help.

Ignore my typos pls

Doesn't it bother you that you are leaving your kid with a stranger? The time kids are little are times you teach them about your core values but you let sombody else put ideas in your kids head. U know its by desigh for the mother to rase the kid. Oh sorry I forgot. The work is too much.

Its funny how women end game is only marriage. Na by force?

Roon9:
Baba no need for GF. WW3 is coming
Kai and I never marry

Nope ww3 is jus in time for me to watch everything burn till it gets to me. Popcorn ready plus am planning on buying the maching soon as ship pops off.

OSUigboFlatHead:
Who said ww3 won't reach Africa?

Am mgtow no war for me please. Will love to stay at a radiation free zone watch everything burn till it get to me.

Yeah, I think its about time for that equal rights now. Lol am mgtow no worldwar for me. Thank you. Am in my usher mood right now. "Just let it burn"

veteranExboy:
House, I met my current girlfriend in 2016 when she was in 100 level. I asked her to date me but got turned down. After several attempts to woo her, I gave up and decided to delete her contact because I hate being friend zoned.

Her reason was she had a boyfriend who was in another state schooling. Within 2016 and 2018 she called me twice and was not happy that I didn't have her number (I kept on asking who was speaking the two times she called) but I never stopped telling her I'm not going to be her friend because that's not what I want from her. I want a relationship.

Fast forward to may 2019, we met coincidentally and I got her contact again. I asked for a date, she agreed. We met at the joint, but she came along with a friend (after asking me 5 minutes before we met, I agreed). After the lunch (not a date anymore), we spoke at night and she agreed to date me after I asked again. She was single by this time.

Some of my male friends think I'm crazy because it took her all that time before she agreed to date me but I feel she was right not to double date and she said she didn't have any feelings for me then.

Please House, am I crazy because I still had interest in her after 3 years?

Well she is getting older so she will have to put her eggs in differnt basket now. you are one of the options to fall back too if things don't go according to plan. If you been making money or studying a professional course that will land u a good job after school then, more reasons she is forming interested now. Best belive its not for your good. Go ahead date her but don't be crazy about her and be ready to dumb anytime she starts acting up.

czarina:
Report the 27yr old idiot to the authorities. Your sister is a minor. You have evidence.


After that you can focus on talking properly to your sister. She needs counseling.

Supported. I don't like marriage but I hate
Pedophilia more.

marvin906:
I fear Israel more than the US..
Iran can't withstand an attack from Israel, Saudi Arabia, and the US..
unless China, Russia and maybe turkey back them up..

Congratulations you just defined ww3

Edusouls:
How old are you?

Old
enough to stop caring.

Edusouls:
All these write ups doesn’t work in real life complications, complexity, unseen and many uncontrollable factors play out every minute, every day life is way too complex to understand, making us powerless and only trying.

Well when u stop caring. Life is not that complex.

How about you don't do relationship and not care about the above. Did not read cus I knw its more BS to please women.

Thegeneralqueen:
I think the question should be why do men stop having sex with their wives after ten years of marriage only to be sleep with call girls.......In this new era marry a Nigerian man at your own risk

Well its not only Nigerian men. Its marry men at ur own risk. Cus u know women grow older and not attractive anymore. The guy can pretend but biology can not. U know most Nigerian women will forget and eat anything, ride in cars to show their self all the while getting fat and unfuckable

Lol. Well the endgame of the woman is marriage. Maybe these people can see what u can't and are trying to Redpill u using religion. I will always tell u. Marriage is prison for men. Try and think to see if u hv been manupulated

funmisticqueen:
fact of life, money changes both men and women because it comes with control. It's human nature

Your wife is not emasculating you, you are just losing control of the power and finances in the family. Do you know how much BS women tolerate from men in marriages because he earns more?

Uncle, go and hustle or give your pants over to your wife and stop complaining

Hehe Hardcore Truth. Guy this is why u need the Redpill. The simple solution to this is not what she suggested. A little power can get women drunk. The best thing u can do is kick her out. From now on she will only make ur life miserable. Or live her and only provide for the kids. But u need to stay alone ryt now and Think. When I tell u don't marry, don't marry now u won't litsen.

Well, I can only think about what some girls will do with a dead one.

oyinda1599:
mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeew!

Hehe. Truth hurts. A "..... " spoted.

Hehe. Well I redpilled a guy that canceled his weeding, hope this is not him. Anyways I read and stop at cus she cheated 2months back. I know that is not enough reason to call off a weeding from a feminist perspective. Don't ever turn a LovePeddler in to the mother of children.

Did nothing , am not on earth to impress women. i did impress myself thou. bought me a new car. sweet !

Brunosamel:
Hello guys, I have been worried about this issue.
I just graduated recently and am at the peak of my career trying to shape up my life for the better future with my girlfriend, someone that I have been dating for the past 6 months.

We have so much in common and built our relationships with love and trust. The journey wasn't easy but we were able to settle our differences and understand each other.

Recently she met a childhood friend whom she had a crush on when growing up, but the guy never asked her asked to be his girlfriend never said anything to her cuz he saw her as a small girl then.

The guy is into business and has quite established himself. Last 2 months the guy asked her out and she told me about it cuz she needed my permission whether she should go or not and I said okay she can but it will only be first and last time she will go out with him.

To cut the story short, last night I called her line and she was on another call for more that 30 minutes. I confronted her about it and she started crying, was begging me that she was sorry and that the guy is really disturbing her, asking her to give him a chance, to the extent that she should leave me for him, he will give her anytime and even train in the university.

She told the guy she can't leave her boyfriend becuz she loves me so much. I was dumbfounded and I don't even know what to do about it cuz I don't have the resources (money) at this moment

Relationships gurus what do you think about my situation I need your opinion and suggestions cuz I love this girl so much and want to settle down with her cuz she suffered with me and I suffered with her.

Say whatever you want to but just be brutally honest with me....

Lol. Women are not worth mann. Focus on building your career. She doesn't love you. She only love what you can do for her

Riele:
No .

I'm looking for confuse folks like you to lend sense .

Lol and here I was thinking you don't have a sense of humor. Hehe nice one

Riele:
Get the point before typing .

Am the Redpillguy, its in my name so its understandable why I will be up at night alone. Doing Redpill stuff
Why are u up at 12am Alone? Can't find a rich guy to leach on?

I have no problems using this type of women and discarding them like the trash they are.

Riele:


I'm not a fan of typing long posts .

So I stop here .

Ok good night. Grt convo.

Riele:
1. Contributing 50/50 ?. You know how that goes . The man feels threatened that his wife has every right to speak back at him . Why ? . Because they have equal rights now . That's not want you men want .

You want to be the head and head alone .

2 .

3 . Hello ? .Men do dangerous work for women ? . Such a joke . The only dangerous work they do is to provide for themselves . Dangerous work like what self ? .

Whining about cooking food . Have you tried giving birth to children before ? . When you do , get back to me .
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4 . Yes , it's natural programming . Any P?.

5. You still spread decayed sem*n .

Hehe this decayed semen stuff is getting old. I guess you figured that got under my skin. LOl. So cute! Anyways
So you give birth to children Bo ha ha. Don't act like you don't want children. But well you can alws not give birth. (Options)
Well you know redpillers don't defend women from anything. Natural disasters, war, animals nothing. Cus u know? What self?
Oh do you mean we do all those dengerious jobs for ourselfs. Keep proving redpills ryt every time. You can go do the dangerous jobs urself. But since u said its for my self then I guess u are right. Men should spend their money on themselves.
I have a P with the natural programming. Yes women should lift their own damn w8ts and fight for themselfs.
I don't have a problem with women leading, if you have the physical and mental ability to lead. When you talk back. Consider the consiqunces.
but the situation is usually, you can't afford thehuz, you are been fed, clothed, like a child and you still want to lead. anyways thank women. Becouse I was once the I will give you the world type of guy. untill women came along and pointed all the slave work I was doing and willing too. All for nothing. But don't worry am here to set things right. Since men r monsters. Thy will take the Redpill and you women can finally rule the world and make it LaLa Land