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SBL28:
I don't understand why you people are misunderstanding my comment. I'm saying she has everything she wants. That even though she's not married, She can afford whatever she wants and she probably has a healthy sex life, what else does she need?

If she has all that, I don't think she needs anything. I am a more of get money and have quality sex guy. And I run away from women who wants anything more than sex. So I totally agree with you. However sex is not a problem for women. They can have sex anytime they want. Thy just have to point a finger. But women don't want sex, they want attention and commitment. Men want sex but don't need all that commitment BS

Damn I came here late. Hehe look at that. Am 30 and I can afford anything I want. Yeah maybe I should put my picture up. Hehe women. Am happy that she has achieved alot, its not easy to invest your money and time so kudos to her. It would have been perfect if she achaive all that and was bellow 30 thou. Anybody that has been to school can achaive alot at 41

U can be here now next thing is you are dead. picture on twitter. I feel bad when ppl die in the process of them trying. I only wish for one thing when I die. Please nobody should put up my picture on the internet so that strange people will comment on it. Don't do it. I ll hount you

FrLukas:
Not quite the same thing as a woman stabbing her husband to death, which is what this post is all about anyway, right?

Just saying. Stabbing a husband to death is looking like kill men to me. She literally just killed a man. Now I can't trust women anymore becouse they might kill me in my sleep.

FrLukas:
Lol. Don't believe everything that comes out of Saudi Arabia concerning women. Before now women weren't allowed to drive cars in Saudi Arabia. So you can understand the women activism there. It's long overdue.

And no, feminists don't kill men nor have majority of them been diagnosed with anger problem.

It's all in your mind bro.

It's anger issue plain and simple. Some men also have the same issues too. It's not limited to women.

You are right. But if you have been to feminist forums and see their plans. Wait do you know that last year alone feminist killed about 12million children through abortion? I don't think the Nazis killed that much children. Feminist are playing gods right now, they decide which life stays and which goes debend on their mode. Have you seen feminist on twitter? that keep posting that "all men die "thing and kill men, abort male babies etc so I don't know t
About you but feminists don't need to blow themselves up to be called terrorist. U don't see women killing me in soudi Arabia. Those guys know something we don't.

FrLukas:
*Feminist.

There's no proof that she's a feminist though. Just someone with an anger management problem, probably.

Hehe feminist. My bad.
Definitely feminist. Only them can be angry like this. Only them can go full blown, killer.
Do you know feminits are considered a terrorist group in soudi Arebia?

Yep this is what you get when you decide to marry a ferminist.
A knife to the chest.

Mindfulness:
See how insecure you are. You are even trying to prove something to a stranger. Keep deceiving yourself.

Yeah I love proving strangers wrong too? Cus strangers can just come talk like they know someone. You can give it names, but like you said. You read my view about women. I want my readers to understand that the truth they know about women, its not cus they are rejected by women its cus women are full of BS and thy should know their value and see through that BS especially the women that are getting old and are running out of options. I want men to reject them cus they are using those men as a back up plan and dont mean well for them. No man should be a back up plan for a woman. Men should go for fertile women.

Mindfulness:
Did you honestly think that your opinion about women on this thread is something we have never read? We have been reading the same boring stuff for years now. We have read countless times how we should fear menopause and how you will desire us less. Do you seriously think we didn't know menopause would come?

And then you act as if anyone needs your advice. Who the f*ck are you to dish out unsolicited advice on a thread created for ladies? Who asked you? Let me tell you something Redpillguy, cause your name says it all, you have been rejected by women several times, now you are projecting your frustration on ladies hoping they will experience the same when they get older but I can assure you that with your mindset and attitude you will be even rejected past menopause and dance to the tune of those of us who have built successful careers. Mark my words.

Now go and sin no more son.

Hehe you got that on a ferminist forum? Like female dating strategy on reddit?
What ever I say about women is nothing but the truth. Nah never experience rejection, in my name says it all. I advice men about female dating strategy. I know woman. I know how things works. i will tell you for a fact that when you age as a woman you lose your sexual value, the brain on default just tells the man "you are not fertile " not sure you are making more than me right now. And I don't mind dancing to the tune of people who pay me. Its called the economy. Yeah am doing pretty well for myself. Dad help too, left me with lots of proparties, thanks to the patriarchy. About my sex life and rejection. Hehe am doing the rejection.

sassysure:
If u live in a highly patriarchal society called Nigeria, will notice that men are scared of women who are rich, as u get older, suitors reduce, u will also factor in childbirth problems. It doesn't favour women but we know how we swing the pendulum as not to hit us. My cousin is a medical Dr, got married during her residency. Practicing outside the country with her husband. One said she dont want to work buy trade, that babe is richer than all of us combined. She has 5 kid. They can go on holiday anywhere they want to. So many examples. U are into fashion designing, how do that stop u from getting married?
There is no work in Nigeria, u have finished school, a good man comes your way, hold that first and continue.
As u are job hunting and doing small small things, u don drop one. If job no gree come, u can start a trade. Go to big markets and stores and see women doing wonders.
Look at Linda ikeji. She said she regretted saying no cos she was pursuing money and career. She is a baby mama now. How low can that be?

There are people here who said the same thing last 4 yrs, they have changed monikers and still saying the same thing
No man is ever good for them

Men are not scared of women who have money(Jesus) the gym wea I work out, there are rich women their coming everyday. But it dosnt take a day to make money. Men don't care about a woman having money. As long as you are young beautiful, inteligent, in shape (not fat) men will want you, no matter the money you think you have, there is a single man with more money. But men with more money or usual money don't want women with money, they want young girls that don't even have a dime. Again, be young and beautiful. The men without money don't want a woman with money. But they will like a young beautiful girl with money thou. Back to the gym. I have regular girls, beautiful girls that are in shape. I talk to those alot, don't mean am afraid with the ones with money thou. Am good looking, am doing good for myself, can afford anything I want . so I have no reason to be afraid of a woman. Sometimes I don't even notice these women in the gym until they ask me for help. So defnetly men are not afraid. Men don't just want old women. Cus the brain on default recognize old women as non fertile

Mindfulness:
Look, instead of repeating what someone told you like a parrot, all these recycled opinions about women and what they should do, work on yourself and your grammar and spelling before you try to advise other people. Trust me, you will be better off for it. You sound pathetic.

Thank you for pointing that out for me. Will surely work on it. English is not my first language, but I hope you got the massage? I don't understand when you said I was repeating something like a parrot. Is that a smart people thing. Cus I don't get it. Anyways. Am all about free birds, not telling you what you should do. Just telling you to move fast. And am telling you what people think before they say what they say. Honestly with all that attitude you put up, I don't know what you are going for. Is that a strong and independent woman thing?

Mindfulness:
Let this be their problem. This is none of your business.

True this people are close to you, have more experience. And they are just trying to look out for you. Litsen from it, pick what is important discard what is not and say thank you for caring. Don't go like its none of your business. That's just say am a bitter person and I hate people

Yonce:
Nigerian ladies didn't wake up one day and collectively decide to obsess about marriage.

The society, their nuclear and extended families and even strangers place this huge burden of finding a husband on them.
If she's without a husband at a certain age, she's no better than a leper. . .and so you can't blame them for avoiding stigmatization by thinking/obsessing about marriage 24/7

Hehe well don't mind that NYSC guy. Truth is women sexual value in anywhere in the world is the same. They are hot from 17 then when they get to 30, they are not hot. The people that rush you to get married know this becouse they know, you will have a better choice of a man when you are young, cus then. U have a pool of men that are just inline. When you get old thou, that pool dry up real quick and you are left with those potbelly, soyboy, turd etc. Nobody cares how much money woman have, if she is not young and beautiful. She is invincible

chigoizie7:
Come and see all of them shouting career.

But none of them is pursuing any. Well, except for olosho careers .

Lol. U women think career is important more than a family. Even though thy have time working against that. Well a hot, young girl with a company is sexy. But nobody cares about an old woman with a company. Thy are invincible. Men can build all their life have money and still be attractive. Women don't know that thy are working against themselfs

MrsNwaAmaikpe:



Humans whether man or woman should have their career as priority.

A woman who cannot take care of her basic needs from the proceeds of her career before going into marriage is a potential punching bag and slave when things turn sour.

This is the 21st century, do not be pressured into marriage.

If you have unquenchable conji , get a intimacy gadget or cucumber. If you can't afford it, use candle.

Lol I totally agree. I like the way you think(I support anything that keeps women away from men, women ) so I ll point this out for you. Career is stressfull, stress ware you out, men don't care if u own the world. If u re not beautiful, in shape, young and inteligent its game over for u in that marriage department. So why you chase career just make sure it don't last till you are 30.

bukatyne:
I don't agree.

Yea, some ideas or ethics are different.

Some others are evil and the doers know that they are evil which is why would not condone it from anyone else.

Lol I might be a better person compare to you. Becouse I don't just write people off as evil and not codone with their behavior. I understand that person is good but with opposing ideas, I try ti think like the person and see things from their perspective. Like a am not a Muslim, but I go the mosque, learn their prayers and understand their doctrine. So that I can think like a Muslim. Now am more accepting of Muslims and they are very wonderful people. I read books like that popular satanic bible. Lol I find it funny and most modern principles and ideas are based on satanism, its not a bad religion from what they write! Am friends with cultist, they have resonsons why thy do what they do. I have runs girls as frnds, I don't judge. But I have a problem with people just manipulating people for their personal gain which is why I don't like scammers. I personally build firewalls to stop hackers. I like people who are upfront with their intentions bcus I can see through the BS. Women are full of BS

bukatyne:
There are good and bad people.

People are made of ideas. They are just on the opposing side. The bokoharams guys see themselfs as the good guys and everybody else the bad once. As for women. There love is opportunistic, they uselly love to benefits something from the man.

tunjilana:
I dont have a problem with feminism....I have a problem with women who still eant to retain the perks of patriarchy...Ans that is where the problem lies....U cant say u dont believe in gender roles but feel the man shud pay bills alone....Also I believe laws giving half to spouse in divorce shud b abolished....everyone shud b settled based on their contribution/input to the wealth....

Yep women want a man to provide, risk his life, protect and take abuse but feel too oppressed to butter a bread.

Korllami007:
According to feminism, protecting women during war is toxic masculinity so women can protect themselves during war. This is sweet. When a ship is in the middle of the ocean and it's about to sink, there won't be "Let women and children use the life boat first so that the men can become sacrificial lamb". Because feminists will see this as toxic masculinity so they don't need men for survival.

Yeah if you ignore your humanity and litsen to what feminism says then, that sums it up just fine. But me am all about litsnining to what people do and say. And am not going to give up my boat to a woman in the middle of the ocean. A child peharps but a woman. Nah women can swim

linearity:
I think you are distorting the true meaning of a feminist.

You started on a good footing by stating that; feminism is the advocacy of equality of all sexes. The focus is not exclusively advocating for female rights; it is only so because in many societies today, female are more neglected in comparison to men's rights.

Take for example the slogan "Black lives matters". This does not mean that, all lives does not matter, black is used there because, blacks are more likely to be abused by the authority in a multiracial environment compare to whites...off-course 'White lives matters" and all lives matters.

Picture in your mind, the sinking titanic ship....Feminists believe that; instead of saying "Women and children should be the first to board the life boats", it should be "All those who are weak and can't swim should board the life-boat first".

Feminist believe that, you should not open the car door for them, simply because they are lady; but do it only if you equally do it for men as well or do it for people that can't do it by themselves regardless of their gender.

In the work place, feminist believe that salaries, positions, seniority, promotions, etc should be based on criteria that gender-blind.

It is not true to assume that feminist women do not cook, they just believe the individual who is better at cooking should be the one to do it, regardless of their gender. Most of the world renowned cooks are men and not women.

In your other examples; if in the countries you cited: Men can leave a marriage anytime for whatever reason, then women should not be forbidden to do likewise.

Feminism has nothing to do with sharing properties in half. It is based on the earning ability of both parties; there are examples where women pay their exes spousal support and maintenance.

Lastly, we have feminist men as well, it is not just women. Feminist men, are men that believe in the equality of all sexes. A feminist man, will not give up his seat in a bus to someone just because they are female; but he can do it because the other party is weak, tired, an elder, etc.

You are confusing femininity with feminist; they are completely two different things and in many instances opposite to one another.

This is what feminism is supposed to be, not what it is. Heard of ferminist slutwork?
Chivalry., women still want that. They want men to open doors for them. Well not me, (not a slave)
And ferminist feel oppressed to cook a meal period
I think feminism is a good philosophy, I will defnetly like to operate on equal footing with a woman. Especially that 50/50ratio
Hehe women still want to be considered first In time of disaster. Thanks to feminism men can now just save the self's and leave the women to safe themselfs. Cus being macho in time of disaster is toxic masculinity, or better yet they can save themselfs becouse women don't need men.

bukatyne:


I like to know people's experiences that makes them think there are no good men or women.

Can you share yours?

There are no good or bad people. There just people

Ariza:
On the contrary, when people come together to fight for or against a cause, they do because they have a common goal/mindset/motive. Their united solutions/actions to achieve their aim is the movement. People Create Movement not the other way round,Yes more people are inducted and are conformed to act according to the rules of such movement but two things can't be ruled out:
First, The movement had been formed before induction
Second, The newly inducted joined because they share same goals and opinions with the older members. No one was forced.You can not accept what you do not agree with.

That said, I will remind you that in every movement there are extremists.The bitter radical ones who will love to take advantage of privileges offered by groups to be selfish, rebellious and uncontrollable. They overstretch the cause for their own wills.You may watch out for those but do not use them as a yardstick to judge others.

No judgments here

Yeah right. This is the only guy she bleeped in her life. Like she being doing this guy since then till date... Truth is she is hitting the wall and the poor cock is just available. He is probably plan Z. Don't start all that way back thing to put dirt in our eyes. The guy lost

Ariza:
Sir, no one is passing judgement based on sentiments or emotions and no one is asking you to.The argument here is your view on Feminism. To you Feminists are bad people, a woman who claims to be a feminist is bad.That misconception is what we are helping you correct. Do not associate a being's flaws with a movement, A bad woman is a bad woman not because she's a feminist.

About discerning a persons character, A sane being would know his or her partner to a considerate level (90% by my own gauge) Truth is you can't know all of another being. You don't even know all about yourself in the first place, that's why we do some things we never thought we can do. However it would be rather foolish and insane to live in Suspicion. If you do not have a healthy level of trust for the one you are with, why are you together? It's not a do or die thing.

Well I don't think ferminists are bad people. If you read the post, you see wea I said its cool. How do you know I think ferminist are bad? All I tried to do was educate people on how to handle ferminist ideas so that they won't get hurt. you want people to accept these ideas blindly and be at the mercy of ferminists?
Ferminist believes in sexual freedom/men understand this and watch out for babies that are not yours.

Ferminists don't do traditional roles/men Automate chores and eat in a restaurant. So that everybody will be happy

Ferminist can leave marriages anytime/men understand that you can too

Ferminist proposed the 50/50 ratio/men let the wife contribute in paying the rent

Ferminists advice women to keep their money seperate/ I advice me to keep their money seperate too.
So how do I judge people based on movement, and its not a movement its a philosophy and I am just saying how to react to these ideas which is non violent

StandUpGuy247:
When I no dey craze.

I don't even keep them as friends because even though they tend to claim equal rights, they don't like to pay for things. Always wanting freebies walahi.

Shout out to the real feminist hustling and humble without making noise.

Yes sir. I respect anybody that pay bills

Ariza:
Oga! It's funny you can't differentiate between a movement and a human. A movement does not define human but human define movement. L.ordKO is helping you see this but you don't understand.

All those attributes you associated with a feminist can also be displayed by a non feminist! That's the point! Feminism does not make a woman or whoever supports it bad, No ! The people paints Feminism bad. You dig?

I dig! And aware of these facts. What am telling you is. This can not be easily varrifiable since your method of measurement is based on sentiment and good will. Is like having a kid with a woman and believing that, that woman will never cheat becouse you think those characteristics don't fit her. Well this might be true or it might not be true. But a DNA test will be 100% accurate answer

LordKO:
I understand your point of view, but believe you me, the highest and happiest point of living as a human being is possessing the ability to dissect others accurately. As a man (or woman) if you can't tell what any person in your life can or can't do at a particular time/circumstance, then you haven't started living.

You think you can tell what people can do or can not do? Hehe wow, good luck with that.

LilMissFavvy:
Then check your self very well, something is definitely wrong somewhere if such things can hold you bound, or if it's happening to someone you know. Except the pastor uses diabolical means then the curse ''may'' work. But if he is cursing her from word of God, the curse can never ever work. Its invalid. Relationship isn't by force.

Hehe can't belive you are taking this serious. What that pastor needs is a ban from using the internet

Martinez39:
How about you just go your own way?

#MGTOW

Hmm go mgtow. I will consider this.

LordKO:
It's very possible to live happily with a feminist wife, it all depends on her ethical leanings. For all I care and understand, feminism, just like any other movement/association, is a product of the people not the other way round - people make up a movement, movement doesn't make the people.

A strong-minded, altruistic and discerning/intelligent woman won't automatically become a termagant or drainer just because she identifies with feminism. And a chauvinistic, egoistic and/egotistic woman won't automatically become a strifeless, humane and conscientious woman, like a woman who possesses the attributes I mentioned above, if she doesn't identify with feminism. So, a woman's (person) behavior will always be a product of her ethical leanings rather than the movement/association she identifies with.

Meanwhile, human beings (males, females, infants, adults) are equal, but we are surely different from one reason to another. In the case of male and female, we are biologically different - difference doesn't mean inequality in this regard.

Lol well you can't pass your judgment based on what you think people should be, she can be all of that, or she is just fucking sombody else. So see the world for what it is. Be on the defensive and dont get hurt. Plan for every senerio.

SultanOfPuna:
Your Children will be wiser than you
Your ignorance will die with you..Amen

Lol good lord