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lilwetdick:
i feel like you are been brain washed or you believe in conspiracy theory... what you have written down basically is incels statements, think for once about all these you have written down, do you think it can happen in real life

to be realistic, all what you have written is nonsense looks like something from a movie

Ladyhippolyta88:
Na you know na your problem be that.

I remain a feminist.

lilwetdick:
according to scientist, the earth is almost 4.543 billion years old, if we have to follow the simple logic of Lindy effect it means the earth will survive another 4.543 years, so i dont see why you should be afraid or worried about thinggs that havent occurred.

just because Nigerian women are online doesnt mean they will follow feminism, when young it is easy to follow trending waves of whatever stuff is trending but as reality sets, they leave those stuff and go with reality.

No nigerian lawmaker is going to put any feminist law into our laws,Nigeria is too complex and religious for that to happen

Most Nigerians are conservative and are either muslim, christian or traditional worshippers, so putting laws that support feminist agenda or western ideas can become a disaster for the nation

etrange:
Oga, people are not fans to make money. How much of CR7's money has his fans gotten? How much of Wizkid's money goes to his fans? You don't like the show as you claim, you mustn't cook up dumb points to support your taste. Live and let live.

lalasticlala:
Kemi Olunloyo has come for Tacha and her fans again.

She called Tacha's fans names. She said:
"Many of Tacha's fans are Slay Queens and Prostitutes."

Kemi seems to have shifted her attention from Linda Ikeji, Iyabo Ojo, The Dakolos to Tacha.

https://www.instagram.com/p/B5NRWsTFRyB/?hl=en

Ladyhippolyta88:
Marry who is compatible with you and shares your ideology simple.
I for one cannot marry a man who hates feminist has low self esteem to feel intimidated by anyone including women. Incan't comman be dealing with insecurities and egoistic lots.
I love the ones with confidence.

Michellekabod2:
The hallmark of marriage is love,compromise between the couples!
Both being responsible for each other and sacrificing for each other. Feminism was to create equal rights and opportunities...its objective was not to eschew masculinity or femininity. Masculinity and femininity has its essential role who those that CHOOSE to retain or dump them. I personally,can not date a simp or a beta male. I am not attracted to weaklings or guys that show emotions(nothing irritates me as much as a guy that shows emotions). It was not to oust out traditional roles(except harmful ones and the ones outside the confines of the law). Choosing to retain or dump gender roles was /is a choice to be made by each human. You can be a feminist that cooks soup,or feminist that is an astronaut. Both are good choices. Feminism should not affect individuality and uniqueness.
The purpose of feminism is for girls to go to school,vote,participate in politics,equal work pay, take up certain careers etc...
How couples run their homes should not concern feminism.
Couples should decide before marriage how they handle their affairs. If you want to go to work as a female and make the man cater for the kids at home,its fine! If you want to stay at home and cater for the kids while the man toils,its fine. Its not feminism business how couples run their home. Feminism should not affect people choices or paths.
Feminism should not create a recipe for a marriage.
Everyone should marry their spec,don't make anyone bully you or call you toxic for your choice. If you want an equal partner in marriage,sort one who agrees to be equal to you and marry. If you want one that will be submissive to you or you will be submissive to,sort one and marry with no guilt.
As long you aren't forcing your choice on a spouse and everything is mutual agreement before marriage then you are on the go.

The issue with third wave feminism is mostly rants/nagging and victimhood. As a feminist,I will marry a man that suits my person,so they will be no power tussle. Why not marry someone who you are compatible with so they will not be daily arguments or cry of oppression? Is marriage not more than who will pack dishes or who will pick the kids from school? This are all petty things neither men or women should be concerned of. This are things that should give spouses joy to do. Serving each other in whatever way you can should give couples joy.

Marry who you can live with,love and support yourselves. If you have to argue over petty things or create a power tussle over minor issues as couples then there is no love there.

ornicus:
You are talking foolish drivel . You must think life is a movie. I will get them later. You really should read more.

The rights you have today, people fought for them. They were not handed on a platter of gold. If the people before you, men women, negros etal had your lazy mentality, blacks would still be standing up for kids on buses, 10
Years olds would be calling you boy, and you could be lynched for looking at a white woman.

The feminism that is scaring you so much started right from the 1700s when women did not even have the right to vote.

Left to you women in this country should also sit down. Do you know how many women are destitute once their husbands die in this country? Do you know how many women have to stay in marriages where they will die?

But left to you, they should sit down and wait for a better time.

lilwetdick:
why fear for something that doesnt affect you.

just because feminism is a western thing does not mean it will affect all over our society

no laws are changing because a feminist cry. we are not the west, we have our own way of lives just because the west brought Christianity, dressing and technology to Nigeria doesnt mean there arent people who dont believe in western dressing, Christianity and dont use technology.

lets be realistic

will family court take all of your shit and give it to the woman if you refuse to obey and be a good slave in Nigeria- No
Is abortion legalise in Nigeria-No
is metoo movement popular in Nigeria- NO
is a woman word law in Nigeria - NOm
do women get shorter jail sentences in Nigeria- NO

so why suffer yourself over issues that wont affect you in your life time
I also suffer for the fact that 8billion years from now, the earth will become inhabiteble so it is imperative for us to developed a technology that can find human a new planet in the universe for them to live.
Seems like you don't see Nigerian ferminist online here
You don't know that all the girls with have smart phones and they are talking to fermistst, how do u think u can the Nigerian ferminist online here the first place
Do you know that this girls graduate from schools every year in thousands. m not saying there is anything wrong with female education
All it takes is one ferminist, with a person like you to enforces those laws with the support of the west. It will be agree or perish type of deal. well but like u said, I hv nothing to worry about it is not affecting me.

ornicus:
You are celebrating rape of women as a sign of dominance? So if some white rednecks lynched you for talking back to them, they are also justified for putting the uppity nigger in his place?

You see what you are? No different from them. A loser whose place in society is only guaranteed by others being held down. No wonder you are afraid of feminism. The thought of a level playing field where you will be relegated has you shivering on your boots.

You should read up more on poolan devi. She had her revenge.

Phenomenal16:
..If I were to be a guy...I won't try it
How can I be rubbing shoulder with my wife
Nigeria ladies too dey overdo feminism... They own just too much
A woman should respect the man as d head .. there is nothing like assistant husband ....
The man should also luv d wifey
Marriage is all about submission on d part of the woman....then luv on d mans part...
Rubbing of shoulders = to divorce

ornicus:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vb8cRenDMOg

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bandit_Queen





https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Phoolan_Devi






redpill ignoramus

those must be your heroes. weak willed cunts who gang up on women who dare to see themselves as equals
small wonder you are so intimidated. all this information was a click away, and you could not check. your lazy brain is thoroughly intimidated y the fear of strong women

Hehe was all that really necessary?
I respect people that pay bills. Men or women
If I see a female military officer with an Ak47 she 100% have my respect. If she can stand her ground thou.
I respect pregnant women
I respect mothers
I respect a female 1st class student
I respect a female C E.O
Sure respect the bank tailer lady that gives me my MasterCard
But I will never ever, ever respect anybody with this kind of attitude you have, pulluting all over the place, matter of fact Bleep you
I have one of those types of movies too (The Root)
And your strong Indian woman should have strategies a plan to go against a pack of men that are stronger than her, more dominant in the society but no your strong woman got rapped hehehehe I don't know about you but that sounds like a loser to me. If you are going to start a war, make sure u have plan not to get ur head cut off.
But I guess strong independent woman who call other people dumb just rather start a war and expect other people to come safe her. I don't need to be empowerd to know that I should stay away from that militery woman with an AK47. Hehe i can imagine inteligent independent women will rather tount her and complain how thy got shot. Hehe

Sterope:
That guy is paranoid.

Next in his paranoid list is how aliens plan to turn all humans into robots

lilwetdick:
but arent you in nigeria? where all these things doesnt affect you

why carry another man's trouble on yourself

lilwetdick:
in my opinion feminism is just a political stuff, in every relationship with anybody you must look at actions rather than words then call them out.

lilwetdick:
the thing i enjoyed most is that she never allowed me to pay for her bills but i do obliged and forced my way to pay and sometimes she pays without me noticing

lilwetdick:
you do not listen to words rather actions, if she say she is a feminist then you see how how she behaves, then tackle her with how she behaves.

if she ask as a feminst for so and so and does otherwise, show her her hypocrisy.

truthsayer009:
Errm thank you but you never said the "Red flag" move she pulled. I'm just interested in that since you call it a red flag, so I can learn from it. That is why I keep asking particularly about it. Sorry if my questions are too much.

lilwetdick:
this is not a feminist you dated but a average normal girl..did she tell you she was a feminist??

ornicus:
That doesn’t even include Indians who have gang rape as a tradition to punish stubborn women who don’t know their place. It happens to this day. I saw it play out in bandit queen, a movie about phoolan Devi, a female dacoit

truthsayer009:
Please & please, stop giving us half gist. You didn't tell us the red flag she pulled.
She wears the tattoo, nose ring, not really a feminist flag if you ask me, until you give us the gist

So you payed the bill, gave her money for transport and what else did you do?

GeneralShepherd:
What is so bad in treating your partner as a complimentary equal? I don't understand. Will it kill you to help out at home?

I won't date a feminist but neither will I treat my partner like a subordinate. She is my wife

pocohantas:
I never said people won't listen. I said they can never convince women all around the world to buy that. Thank God they are in developed countries, once they start doing it- the records will be there.

As for feminism in its true cause, the black man has to realise that- equal responsibilities or not, you can never subjugate a fellow human for too long. After all, globally the black man contributes little or nothing to development. But is the first to scream racism when he is flung to the bottom of the ladder. I guess it isn't easy losing persons you have naturally placed below you.

Go for people that share same values with you. Life will be a whole lot easier that way.


Nope I will have to disagree with the black man thing. And I will disagree with any negative thing you say about black people, we are awesome, we fathered all human species on earth, they should be giving us royalties for that. Remember that wwll that shaped modern civilization? Yes we fought and gave ourlifes in that. I guess the black ferminist wouldn't know becouse she was being oppressed to stay safe, watch Disney movies and take care of children,
I can tell you a good number of black men building rocket engines at NASA, u know for the exploration of space to find new homes for humanity incase the earth is not habitable anymore, you know no biggy
And some couple of black doctors who are the best in the world, but oh my God these are horrible people the save the life's of men too.
About choosing sombody of the same values, this can be hidden so can you feminist do us a favor and wear pink shirts or maybe carry a sign so that we can identify you? That will be very helpful
Over all you are by far, the smartest ferminist I have met on this platform, you didt actually loose your shit. Probably the most dangerous one too.
but here is what I want to know. In every relationship or gathering of human beings, there most be a leader and their is only one staringwheel so?

CHoccolaTE:
Leave them.

Tomorrow you will see different topics about how women are gold diggers and liabilities that want men to provide for them instead of doing co-breadwinner.
Is it not the same religion/society that taught women to be submissive that is also responsible for the gold digger mentality in many females? I dont know how a woman will see a man as superior (aka non feminist woman) and at the same time will be willing to hustle money to pay the guys bills or houserent or give him upkeep money etc

Anyway @topic, many non feminists exist in Nigeria, very many in fact. That see men as alpha omega superior beings that should give them cash and protect and provide for them. Just dont complain when the girls start expecting you to live up to your "superior" role and take care of them.

pocohantas:
There is no way some women online can convince women world over (including those in extremely conservative societies) to start killing their unborn sons. I am also surprised this question is coming up- I always saw guys here claim feminist do not exist in reality. What changed?

You can search online. Type in gendercide in China/India and it will give you related articles that called for foreign intervention.

Honestly, it doesn't even matter who you guys love or hate at this point. With the number of insults Nigerian women collect daily on this forum- I doubt there is much to be desired in this so called love. Lets all manage ourselves like that. We go dey alright...

u11ae1013:
They only go around confusing everybody

pocohantas:
Anybody that kills a baby is a murderer. You should be reporting such a person to the police, not asking if they can be married.

But it you are talking gendercide, then it might please you to know that the girl child has been the greatest victim of that, OVERTLY and COVERTLY. Asians, Chinese and Indians to be very specific, carried out the systematic killing of female fetuses, all to secure male offsprings for their lineages. This was as a result of the one child policy or cultural system. They did't stop till they started suffering huge gender gap. That is why you see hôrny Indian men raping and assaulting the few available women they have, for a problem they created themselves.

My point? Only a mad person would suggest the killing of a child owing to his gender, born or unborn (as in this case).

pocohantas:
You are more obsessed with them than they are with you, tbh. Do they even want to marry you?I bet the answer is NO.

Everyone should find his/her type.

The Naija girls that break your hearts and make guys whine online are not the supposed feminist. Deal with those ones first.

You won't marry feminist, you won't marry non-virgin, you won't marry single mother, you won't marry evening newspaper, you won't marry broke girls...you won't marry dumb girls. finally 90% of Naija girls are all of this. Last last na goat una go marry.

Dimples0303:
Okay. I didn't get the memo about killing babies though... You're a joke and if you really had anything intelligent to add then you would've done it by now...

Dimples0303:
I've never heard of such things
If it exists then I don't subscribe to it so either way it's none of my business.

RedCreme21:
@Theredpillguy. Read what you wrote once more. You just reminded me of chicken little.

RedCreme21:
Agreed. But only a fanatic lets their cause define them. Feminism isnt so rule book stating how on should like. Its true majority of modern day feminist act like it is and forget the true objective of the movement.
I would never encourage anyone to date nor marry an individual who enslaves theirself mentally to a cause be it spiritual, political, etc.

A man can go out with a placard with the inscription, 'female child education matters', along with his sane feminist of a wife.