₦airaland Forum

pocohantas:
Anybody that kills a baby is a murderer. You should be reporting such a person to the police, not asking if they can be married.

But it you are talking gendercide, then it might please you to know that the girl child has been the greatest victim of that, OVERTLY and COVERTLY. Asians, Chinese and Indians to be very specific, carried out the systematic killing of female fetuses, all to secure male offsprings for their lineages. This was as a result of the one child policy or cultural system. They did't stop till they started suffering huge gender gap. That is why you see hôrny Indian men raping and assaulting the few available women they have, for a problem they created themselves.

My point? Only a mad person would suggest the killing of a child owing to his gender, born or unborn (as in this case).

Yes i dont know this, do you have a link I can go to and read more about this? Or books you can recommend? But you know the Asian guys we're not planning on killing all the females all over the world, and definitely not out of hate. reporting a person that kills a child to the police yeah sure thing. But fermistst are not dumb, they actually laid out their agenda and lobby for laws that will protect them. You know reduce the male population to a controllable 10% and since women control reproduction, they just kill the child in disguise of abortion and it will be legal.
So do I hate feminists? Yes yes yes, i despise them. They are out to get me. They hate my gender.
Do I hate educated women. No, I will gladly die for those.
I am not really religious but I am just hoping that just maybe their is a God, this hope gives me comfort knowing that all this ferminist will burn in hell forever and forever for all enternity.

pocohantas:
You are more obsessed with them than they are with you, tbh. Do they even want to marry you?I bet the answer is NO.

Everyone should find his/her type.

The Naija girls that break your hearts and make guys whine online are not the supposed feminist. Deal with those ones first.

You won't marry feminist, you won't marry non-virgin, you won't marry single mother, you won't marry evening newspaper, you won't marry broke girls...you won't marry dumb girls. finally 90% of Naija girls are all of this. Last last na goat una go marry.

I ll take a goat any day. And please stop insulting goats please. You are making it look like ferminist are above goat or something. Goats don't kill babies

Dimples0303:
Okay. I didn't get the memo about killing babies though... You're a joke and if you really had anything intelligent to add then you would've done it by now...

Oh Back to the good old feminist shaming tactics. I previously sent pictures of fermistst literally telling ferminists to kill babies,(male) and you don't know that fermistst push and made abortion legal in some countries, is either you are a pathetic liar or a giant hypocrite. Eaither way their is no surprise there that is just typical feminist behavior. I guess facts and prove is not good enough. And just becouse you said memo doesnt makes you inteligent.

Dimples0303:
I've never heard of such things
If it exists then I don't subscribe to it so either way it's none of my business.

You can not be a ferminist then not subscribe to ferminist ideas.
Anyways its like asking a Nigerian spy wea the army keeps the armory. Defntly they will have no idea

RedCreme21:
@Theredpillguy. Read what you wrote once more. You just reminded me of chicken little.

Which of my post should I read again

RedCreme21:
Agreed. But only a fanatic lets their cause define them. Feminism isnt so rule book stating how on should like. Its true majority of modern day feminist act like it is and forget the true objective of the movement.
I would never encourage anyone to date nor marry an individual who enslaves theirself mentally to a cause be it spiritual, political, etc.

A man can go out with a placard with the inscription, 'female child education matters', along with his sane feminist of a wife.

Well I don't think feminist are sane. Feminism and satenism have alot in common. The bible is vehemently against the philosophy of feminism.
Feminism promotes abortion bevouse its a womans body so woman should control what stays in it. This means that she can choose to abort anytime she wants wen it sutes her
Feminism incoureges promiscuity in women. You know sexual freedom. A woman should sleep with all the men or any man she wants and not let a man or any dame thing stop her.
Fermistst incoureges violence against men, you know men been the oppressor and all
Feminism is against traditional value in family, which this the only plus they hv but thy refuse the 50/50 ratio they proposed. That's y thy refuse to split bills at dates
Feminism is war against men, there is nothing a man says that don't trigger a ferminist
Modern fetmism is man hating
Feminism wants to control the reproductive power and treat the man like a puppet through this process, they want all the sexual power and they want the men to do as they are told
Feminism is not about equality its about female supremacy
And yes they have an agenda to wibe out the males and keep handful for reproductive purposes
Feminism is not an organization its a philosophy, a way of thinking, so o think getting married to a ferminist is like inviting your worse enemy in your house, given him a gun and falling asleep

Dimples0303:
I think you might be talking about one's character... I don't understand the enemy part. Maybe it's the misunderstood version. If that's the case, then go and understand the understood version, and then make a decision for yourself but not for others.

This version you grasped should be avoided, that we can agree on.

Hehe I will really like to know about that feminist agenda to reduce the male population to a controllable 10%, I heard fermistst are killing male children and aborting the male child too. Me I have a problem supporting anybody who supports or abort helpless babies. I know some girls that hv miscarriages and I was telling my frnd that ferminist r killing male children before they are been born. Surprise surprise, the child was male.

lilmax:
Will date a feminist but will not marry one

They're easily manipulated by massaging their ego

You do not have to spend, you also have free sex too

Hehe I need to become your student. Hehe

Biingoo:
Nigga stop scaring me biko

No am not trying to scare you am just trying to tell you that people usually die alone, don't say becouse you don't want to die single, then your partner will die with you.

Biingoo:
So I should die single? My mum will just swear for me

You are going to die single. Nobody will pair up to die with you, you will die alone.
If children are important to you. You can still have them without marrige

Honest opinions only please.

Biingoo:
13 to 14yrs old already into prostitution? God, where did we go wrong As a going bachelor to marry go hard us for this useless generation oh!


Shout out to all the married men out there . Una no know wetin God don do for Una

Probably you think getting married is fun, becouse they sold fantasies to you when you wea little. There is a reason they call it wedlock, cus its a prison.

tuoyoojo:
Some women are very wicked. How can u do this to a fellow girl. If someone did that her daughter, would see like it

It is even the men brought in to sleep with underaged girls. How can u sustain an erection with an underaged girl. Na wa o


I am still wondering the best punishment to given to her

Yep underage girls is a No No.
But all women starting from the age of 17 till they can't no more, are involved in some form of covert prostitution . AKA I need money to fix my nails, buy cloths, fix my hair or buy me dinner.
I think the biggest ring of prostitution they need to burst in Nigeria is some peoples mothers.

musictori:
The founder and Apostle in charge of the koinonia ministry in Zaria has said in one of his sermon that a man is poor if he doesn't own land


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6owiy_hsALk

Yep one of the reasons I stop going to church was becouse of all the dumb things they say. Well if I can get rich by telling people their blessings is coming from heaven why I take their money, I ll say anything too

musictori:
The founder and Apostle in charge of the koinonia ministry in Zaria has said in one of his sermon that a man is poor if he doesn't own land


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6owiy_hsALk

Yep one of the reasons I stop going to church was becouse of all the dump things they say. Well if I can get rich by telling people their blessings is coming from heaven why I take their money, I ll say anything too

Roadtoyesterday:
No wonder those useless tacha fans came for my head this morning on twitter just for advising them. Why contribute to buy 15M Benz for her when she's busy signing endorsement deals, and some of you are not feeding well. Just an advise and gbam they started sliding on my Dm, and I really give them hot back.
Check below

Yep stupid is a mental disorder.
Hope these people really get help or I hope all this will go away with time.

Chelsea82:
Source: https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.thesun.co.uk/sport/football/10394803/italian-footballer-suspended-sex-nightclub/amp/

Probably set up by the hoe, to exploit him.
Women will destroy your life. Know that

infonet247:
Hello Nairalanders,

I am really in disbelief and in shock hence am writing this here for all to advice me on what to do.

I am a man of 35yrs old and have been dating a lady for three years now and told her this December 2019, my people will come for the traditional marriage having gone for introduction earlier.
Hehe I wish more guys will go through this shit so that they will all learn. All women are like this, the one that is with you I'd eaither looking for another option or can't find an option. Well the bright side is he survive the biggest disaster in his life. (Marrige)
Niggah tell that bitch to give u bak ur 1.5m do not take anything else if it dosnt come in 1.5naira

After two months of introduction, she became worried and started feeling unease. I told her ok to make things easier and for you to believe I will marry you, I transfered 1.5m into her account for the traditional and white wedding, promising to add more wen we finally draw up the full list.

Then the unexpected happen, we plan going to Aba to get the traditional marriage items last Saturday, which we later purchased but to my utmost disbelief she had accepted another guy by Thursday in case am not serious!

Am shock because during the week of us going to Aba, I had sent 100k into her account by Wednesday to hold for the journey only for her to accept or tell another guy to come. Then by Sunday after the items have been bought, she sent the new guy a txt that she doesn't want again.

My question is, should I continue with her since she could act like this? Should I go ahead with the marriage or call it Off? Pls I need advice.

Please Front page

Never turn a hoe in to a house wife.
A hoe that owns u 1.5M, how dumb can u be . Get that money back or you don't deserve to walk around with a penis.
Nver get married its a scam, its prison

efex01:
Good evening to you my lady, am Felix by name, Yoruba from osun state that was the introduction that led to another thing.

Less I forget, I started a new job in Ibadan as an accountant for a pharmaceutical store on Monday, in which I was introduced to all the staff in their branches but there is a particular lady in one of their branches that ask me a same question, can I meet?

After introduction the next thing she said is, you are not my type, you are too ugly to be my boyfriend.

My people, pls am I too ugly to be this lady boyfriend, cause I need to ask someone because I don’t have any girlfriend that I can ask

Hehe you are not too ugly but you do have some insecurities and some self confidence to work on.
You should know that a man sexual value is mostly measured by his status and resorces. I can tell you that you are in shape, just focus on getting alot of Money and making yourself better. Not everybody will like you, but that's fine. That girl will probably be older than you in the next 5years or she is already older than u. Your major problem is you keep screeming am too ugly. I don't want me.

merit1988:
I got married as a young virgin...probably didnt understand what love was all about then....I've never really felt love or being loved in my marriage..coupled with some other marriage issues..I wear the shoes and I know where it hurts...all I need is advices on how to build my love life and not yabs pls...it's very hurtful

Some how I feel like this is a set up question from a feminist. You know? Doing their devilish work trying to tell women to be promiscuous.

Anyways before I can give my take I have to know the following.
. did you have a job when you married him?
. are you fat now? Cus u eat everything u see, drive or take okada to everywea u go
. Have you had feminist frnds lately, since you are on nairaland, I think this is likely
. have you installed Instagram on your phone?
. Have you been watching porn!
. dose the guy have a port belly now? Yep these ppl just eat n drink anything, they end up look like pregnant women with a very low I. Q
Well tell me more and I can provide a full analysis of what's going on. As for love thou. Don't botter, its a myth and "the not yabs" thing makes me question your character. Maybe but not insults will be better but hey. I might be wrong
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emirateprince:
let's me pastor Nelson you ,I think u need it

Lol

cg

tinubulagos952:
I found out the woman I want to marry is HIV positive when we went for HIV test.

She is the reason for who I am today.
She is the one that connect me to a wealthy man that gave gave me contracts that made me a rich person today.

She stood and believe in me that I have the potential.

I love her so dearly but she had the virus.

I don't know what to do.

Help me

Ok how about you take good care of her, give her all the support she will ever want. U know the same ones she gave you but not die or doom your entire bloodline.
People always think becouse someone gave them money they mean well forthem and not playing them for their own personal interest. Yep I say support her but don't put ur self in a position that will risk u dying a slow death

Thatssobeyonce:
Yeah thts possible too
But what ur missing is Trust
For every relationship to work out there must be trust
Nd ion knw if you've had a bad experience before but not every lady is a slay queen or sexualises herself
Real women think about their respect and reputation first.
And u seem insecure nd karma is real bcox u can't sleep wit over a hundred ladies nd expect to marry a Virgin dear
Virgins deserve virgins
Thank you!

Hehe yep Trust! Why not? Hehe karma? Do I get to make money or find true love bevouse am a Virgo too? . Really don't care about the virgin thing, what I care about is not raising sombody else's kid. Yea so I refuse to accept your word of mouth which is non verifiable and its based on what I should think about you. Why am not with u half of the time. I will take my chances with DNA becouse you know like you said "that's possible too"

Khd95:
UNN belong to Jesus kho


Mtchewwww, African is still like 10 century behind civilization,modernization,social,economic, psychological evolution

What has the study of witches got to do with Jesus, if not over sabi wet dey worry us, the white that passed down the scam of a religion study anything possible, witches,extra terrestrial activities, 'satan', aliens,etc

Am starting to think modernization, civilization and that psychological evolution is not a good thing anymore. Religion might be hugwash but we need it.
The world is on the verge of self destruction. Example. Look at Feminism and all the nukes that are available right now. You probably don't have Jesus telling the leaders not to press the red button anymore.

pansophist:
If a girl stays with you when you're broke and have nothing, and can see the potential in you, and water it into maturity with you, especially when she still have in abundance her youthfulness and not in lack of male suitors, then she is a keeper.

If an influential man with female abundance, didnt cheat on his woman despite numerous women out there that will out-compete his mistress, then he loves her. (Eg Davido and Chioma).

Am still sure that davido and chioma thing won't end well. Mostly for future political purpose. Yoruba and Igbo. U know? Votes

midnighter:
I thought you had finally become sensible in that other post but I was expecting too much. What kind of stupid comment is this Do you think she has never been young? You, you no go old?

Hehe am sorry, you shouldnt expect alot from people, we are just humans and sometimes we act stupid. That was insensitive of me. Thanks for pointing that out

aishauju:
Must a lady suffer with a guy to prove she loves the guy?

Must a rich guy lie that he is poor to get a genuine girl?

How do we test true love? Is it in what ways.

Drop your contributions.

Am sorry to spoil your hopes but Their is no True love and sorry their is no soulmate eaither. A person is not going to accept you one day for who you are.
Their is only the game of surviver. The provider and the Nurisher.
The feelings women feel towords men is differnt and wat they use to measure that feeling is differnt. Women usually go for men with healthy ganes and the the resources to provide for them. Women also find older men attractive while men find younger women attractive.
A man feeling towards a lady is differnt too, the man is looking for the best place to deposits his DNA which usually is beauty and which comes with the term, thinking with your dick.
Men with Low resorces will have access to low value female
Men with resorces will get acces to high value female. So I suggest u get ur head out of the cloud and make Money if u want the best option.
People will find it difficult to fall in love more and more, as you would call it.
Becouse women go to school now, NYSC and a job. This automatically makes them high value female. The problem is women are only attracted to people superior to them or people within their class. And after all that schooling and working. The same people in their class find them a little too old for them. And the superior ones always have resorces to go for a more viable younger woman. That's why all the pre weeding pictures u see. Will have a vibrate young guy with an old female which manage to manipulate the guy out of his thirst and lack of access to woman that she is good for him knowing that she is running out of time. But she knows the guy will make it in the future. The guy thou don't know his sexual value is high and the womans value is ending and that woman is litching bevouse she can't find a superior provider. And the rich guys thou. Pre weddings pictures are usually with a younger girl. So a mans sexual value starts at 30 why the womans sexual value ends. As long as the mans has resorces he will get anytime type of female he wants. Look at buhari, buharri can fvck all those Instagram models u think thy have value. Which thy really don't actually.

Thatssobeyonce:
Tell them and i dont bliv in pre marital sex!
my virginity is for my husband
And i want a frnd nd companion in the person i will marry because my dream is a happy family.

Hehe then get married to that and discover, she is not a virgin. Anyways beware their are medical precedures that imitates virginity and their those ones that canter that, I will suggest test all and don't forget to go do DNA test on all your children too. These women are listening to feminist. If she is not a virgin thou. U probably have the greatest con artist in the hus. Hand her over the police ASAP

rtdCivilservant:
So are u now saying women are Zombies that they give in to whatever the men ask from them? They give sex just because the men ask? Are u saying Women are this stupid? God forbid my sweet mother can never be as foolish as u described.

Some times I feel like I am ignorant, I want to know from your perception. What do you consider a perfect relationship?
I don't know if you noticed but u hv a very sassy attitude that tells the brain on default that you are trouble. But I will like to see things from your view

Dulcinea:
Pure lies. Mister man, you attract your kind. It seems you're dumb that's why dumb women come your way. 90%? You've date all the girls in naija abi?

Women of potentials are everywhere but your egoistic attitude and view of the womenfolk will push them far from you. Think before you speak.

Feminist sometimes its best to understand that people have opinions, yes most of them are dumb. But you can't keep attacking everything head on with emotions all over the place. You can actually respond with love and show us how that is just rediculous and not true. If you are the president, you will lunch an invasion to a whole country if they say something you don't like. I can come here be bitter too, respond to u and call u names and we all end up enemies. Without the problem being solved. How can you show you are better when you sound exacly like that guy you are responding too? Mean this in the best way possible. If you are offended I apologize

kikake:
A few brilliant women, just a few, have more than sex to offer.

Yep but she is old thou. I wouldn't want to go near that ever. Except she is paying then am going to get wasted and do it under a dark room. God nooooo nope on second thought she can keep the money. No no no no no

franchasng:
men follow what women fancy, or what majority of women fancy.



My sister be honest to yourself, how many Nigerian lady will prefer to stay at home with her boyfriend playing computer game, solving assignments, watching CNN, BBC, etc without showing her man clearly that she is bored


How many Nigerian ladies would agree to have a date at a garden where she won't order drinks, fried rice, shawarma, goat head, pizza, cold stone, etc


How many Nigerian ladies are interested in extracting the wisdom God gave them


They are more interested on how to dress or walk or talk or move to get a rich guy that will be squandering money on them; me I love it oh, in fact, I am a fan of it but let's be honest, Nigerian ladies are interested in men for the below reasons:

1.) Money
2.) Gifts(phones, laptops, cars, houses, etc)
3.) House rent
4.) School fees
5.) Upkeep money
6.) Free vacation




Remove the above things, 99.99% of Nigerian ladies will never date or marry any man, they are ready to die single and be using candle, cucumber, finger, Biro, carrot, broom, etc to be dicking themselves whenever they are Hot


How many Nigerian ladies can swear that they have given their boyfriend a huge sum of money that changed his life, like money he used to buy a car, rent a house, travel abroad, start or expand his business, pay his school fees


How many Nigerian ladies can swear they have helped their boyfriend secure visa to travel abroad or helped their boyfriend get citizenship of a western nation


But there are millions of Nigerian guys doing these things and many more everyday even as we speak!!!


Dear Nigerian ladies please change oh, make una change for good, the world is changing, internet is making guys wiser and opening their eyes to their previous mistakes, their mumu don de do oh

Dude these types of ladies are better off single and minding their bussines, if you know this type around you, fvck and pass or don't. STD n stuff.