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In that case, when she calls again, answer the 'blocked number' call and if she's the one, give one-word responses to whatever she says - like "Ok", "Yes", "No", etc - and if it's getting too long, tell her you need to go.

^^^ I don't know what's hard

Just tell her you don't want any more problems, limit your contacts, correspondences and conversations. After a few days or weeks depending on how bold you are, tell her you want out.

Whitelexi, can I get a summary of what's going on here?

Na2Day, you don find the suspect?

Return his number now ASAP!

Who be the girl? She must return your number ooooooooooooooo

Not time for bed yet but get a life.

Nice catch for the girls here

190, make a new nomination, seems like the first one wasn't approved.

Does this place look like facebook? Go there and update your What's on your mind right now?

A girl that does that isn't the type of girl any guy wants to be with, so dump her sorry ass until she's learned that the world isn't about her.

C2H5OH:
I don't feel sorry for you.  You called your woman a pet. Wow, shame on you.

Have you forgotten that's a Nigerian way of referring to their beloved?

There's nothing to appreciate about a woman who flirts with other men when she already has a man, and it's thrice worse when she even cheats. Gone for just five months and she's started cheating already? That's more than just infidelity. How are you sure she wasn't doing that before you traveled?

A woman who you can't trust if you travel or have to leave her for somewhere for sometime isn't exactly a woman to be proud of; a woman you can't be proud of isn't worth having; a woman not worth having should be evicted with immediate effect. No matter how remorseful she feels now, no matter how apologetic, that doesn't change the fact that she cheated and that doesn't stop her from doing it again, if you for any reasons, have to be away again but she'll be more careful to conceal her tracks that time.

How do you know she's going to break up with her present date? It took a lot of process for that relationship to begin unless your girl is cheap - at that even, it still has to take a lot of process to start a date with a man and maybe she even asked the advice of some of her friends.

Leave her in peace and go your separate ways, you'll end up hurting because you'll remember all the time. . . if I am, I will.

I do have a standard, and these standards have to be met before I enter into a relationship at all. It's nothing new either that when you go into a relationship, you tend to find more things out about your partner that you didn't know upfront and you're at crossroads whether or not to keep up with these attitudes.

Before any decision has to be made, you have to study the changes (the new found attitudes) and decide if it's going to affect your perception of the relationship, and also, if you can deal with it with some little bit of patience and time; sometimes, some traits can't be worked on, some can be, but it all depends on who has the traits and how well and fair they are willing to work on them.

Furthermore, you need to check yourself and be sure you're not the one spurring these attitudes, so as not to be guilty of what you're trying to put on someone else, but I agree, everyone needs a standard and I have a high standard my lady has to meet. . . I'm almost a perfectionist, that is if I'm not.

Asun'kun r'ojo obinrin, ile l'on tu

Na2Day should receive the award of the most "date and dump guy" on Nairaland.

^^^ In that case, she should come out straight and tell us she loves the attention and that she's scared if he's for real or not, of which, if he's for real, she's going to stay! She should stop this reverse psychological question.

babyme:
whatever , i'm just being reall and u know it, u were being so efiin rude to her!!saying stufss like thats the reason she aint married, you shouldnt say that , what the hell is that supposed to mean

Whatever I say to her - rude or not - is none of your damned business. Get that straight.

American women are more unfaithful than Nigerian women. . . go figure

So what do you want us to do, tell you how to banish him?

OgidiBoy:



Anyways I'm sure you did not mean that right ? We Igbos come from very respectable families and our men don't treat our women folks like that.

Yes, we don't treat our women like that and that tells the exorbitant dowry we place on our women. That idiotic and moronic existence in human flesh but with centrally dehumanized brain, is definitely from a home where his momma was treated like a piece of trailer trash and a cheap LovePeddler.

Three things: my woman, $34,000, 2009 Camry and I'm sure I'll have them

OgidiBoy:
Nobody is bothering each other, they just had a little misunderstanding but they cool now

You're telling me that eastern asian termite isn't bothering her? They're cool now? Where are they cool at?!

platinumnk:
@ogidi- go back and read biko- this waste of sperm is here talking how he loves to beat women, seems like I have to make a rope and drag him like the pus infested animal he is.

@theseeker'- its a punk who advocates beating women.

And he's offering to meet you and show you? I see he's a scared chicken anyway, but if he indeed shows up, you know who and where to call

Platinumnk, who's that toothless rat being fed with pig shit that's bothering you?

Who are these animals supporting women beaters?

When I saw the topic, I thought it was Paris Hilton's spell on Cristiano Ronaldo.

^^^ Show me the one in your village so I can jump in there

Women want a man that:

1. Will adore her everyday in every way.

2. Gives her all the attention and support she wants.

3. Is real with her, makes her feel like a woman

4. Is kindhearted, knows what he wants, and resolute.

5. Is confident, hardworking, sensational.

6. Is humorous.

7. Is good in bed and knows all her sexual fantasies and also endeavors to fulfill them.

8. Doesn't trip over flimsy issues.


But there are some women who will go beyond the ordinary to want your life. Now, there's no doubt that some women don't want a man that will treat them queenly; they want to be treated like they are nothing and this type of women want a man that:

1. Beats and abuses

2. Is lazy and cunning

3. Is dull, a talkative.

4. Lacks priority.

My nominees:

Most brilliant male - MrBrownJay

Funniest, controversial and smart male - Whitelexi

Playful male - 190, chic2pimp

Most direct male - izeek

Stupidest male - Charles316

Most easygoing and peaceful male - IFELEKE


Most brilliant and constructive female - TopUp

Most blunt female - posakosa, ebony

Most direct female - FL Gators

Most absentee female - Secretz

Most disrespectful and rudest female - TheAmaka

Proudest and Vain female - ThoniaSlim

I will come up with the rest nominees later

Ebonyeyes:
^^^^^^^
Harsh I like sweetpie, she is controversial and exactly what this place needs

I choose to disagree miss.

Most deluded poster - - - sweetpie23