₦airaland Forum

posakosa:
If he has no job, why would a man be shagging a woman without a condom on ? Do you know how any Nigerian men leave their wives because she can't give birth or even worst off, because she can't have a male child ? I concur that people have premarital sex for various reasons.

The man given in the example couldn't perform but he desired to be married, what happened to love might I ask ? Wasn't love enough to hold the marriage ? why can't she forgive ? or is forgiveness selective ?

posakosa:
He will marry her no ni, Ill never forget this story, this man and woman, they did everything and I mean every right prior to marriage. They went for counseling, took HIV/AIDS test and all that good stuff. They got married, spend lots of money on the wedding and were planning a life together, and then for about a month, the woman realized that the bobo oko no dey stand. Chaaiii, She want back to the church and said "this is not what I signed up for. The man told me that he could perform, but its apparent that he may have a medical condition and he can't."

Immediately the church gave her a divorce and now she's happily married to someone else, I mean I don't condone shagging at all times but I think that uuum, shagging SAVES a whole lot of time and one will know if they are sexually compatible prior to marriage and prevent all unnecessary drama.

hotteju:

I am just getting to know that it is against the rules of this website to have fun
and can you quote me where I said I think he is a fool

My dear friend there are better ways of passing your points across without using derogatory words. Even at that your opinion does not count

If you do not have any reasonable thing to post
just read and leave okay it is not compulsory for you to increase your posts here on Nairaaland.

Come to think of it Lemme be the big sister and leave you boys alone

If you have a hard time comprehending a better English, then that's your choice. Everyone on this forum will tell you I don't insult people. It's obvious you can't differentiate humor and fun from stern and demeaning arguments. You don't go around blanketing people with the same foolish thought you have with just a single person on here. Your insolent supposed "insult" on me is horrendous --- so it doesn't sell, it's not bought; matter of fact, it's cheap.

I was trying to mediate into your argument and trying to keep the thread clean from all sorts of derogatory stances, however, your foolishness has made you fly in the face of maturity --- but I won't blame you neither am I here to banter words with you. I'm just clarifying your stupidity in your face, that next time as you have accused Badboym of not understanding English, you should read carefully before you answer and quote people. My comment was simple : I said, if you think he is a fool, you should leave him alone and stop arguing with him; doing so will simply prove there are at least two fools in the world. I tried to make you look more matured here, but guess what, you're not even worth all the respect I accorded you anyways.

I'm trying to increase my posts? Wow! Cheap slamming! Try harder next time. A wise man once told me, "Silence is the best answer to a fool". Go figure.

FMK:
my brother thanks for this newspaper but finding good thing is a spontaneous action not by investigating. because during the time you plan to examine the person, this one can play hypocrisy

How do you know what's good when you can't even identify one? FYI, studying and getting to know someone doesn't necessarily have to be by "investigation" as you chose to call it. The guy's problem is he can't identify a good girl, as I'm sure he doesn't even know a bad one.

bilqiss:
lol@ FMK: "thanks for the newspaper". ROTFLMAooo. But on topic, are you really ready for a 'good girl'? If not, stay on your own. Mess with a good girl, and you'll get some bad karma. Trust me.

Have you finished having a laugh? . Yet again, how will he identify a good girl let alone mess with her? What you've got to tell him is how to get over his ill conceived instinct that women are bad, not threaten him with "karma" _{like women don't mess with me too}

OgidiBoy:
@ na2day,

You and who be neighbors, I live in a gated community in Preston Hallow. Me and Mark Cuban share the same privacy fence. If you come near my neighborhood you will be arrested.



Says all the white girls Nigerian men like to use and abuse.

OgidiBoy:
I'm not surprised, all the Nigerian men in Texas are . . . . . including that yeye boy na2day, he is the chief of woman wrapper

posakosa:
Ok, if you wait and then you figure out that she can't give birth, what will you do ?

Kelvinj:
C'mon, watz ar u guyz beefing 4? Or haz d advice turn 2 quarrelz as usual?

platinumnk:
Go ahead! he loves my nose!

Yes, I do --- and dare I say it's the one of the very first features I fell in love with about you [quote author=na2day? link=topic=301463.msg4281156#msg4281156 date=1249093945]abeg cry, i go get bucket. u shld learn to extend ur nose or cut it off, which ever one he did[/quote]Please leave my girl alone ooooooooooo. She's more beautiful than Jay's Queen B.

TEXASGIRL:
Well it's done. haven't spoke to him in 2 days. I've meet someone else already too. Maybe this one will be a good man. Nigerian again, I must like ya'll. Lol. Honestly I really appreciate how kind and happy the Nigerians I have meet are. Also, how God fearing and smart. I guess that is the positive I gained from this experience. The ability to see another culture and way of life. Thank everyone for the advice & support. Very appreciated. Much love & all God's blessings!

Wow! You met another man in 2 days already? You haven't even been able to sort the other relationship out -- at least amicably. Well, you must have them quite handy. If you could easily have men in a relationship as you want, now I'm wondering . . . . . Wow!