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Culture › Re: Osun -- State Of The Living Spring! Identify Here by TheSeeker(op): 10:53pm On Aug 01, 2009
FL Gators:
Ouch, must you twist the knife too? My heart is bleeding!!!

Sweetie, you need a license to call me sugarpie. If you don't. . . .you know wazzup. Either you become my number 13, or you let's give number 14 a try. What say you?
Sorry your heart is bleeding. Truth must me told grin grin grin.

I agree, and so do you need a license to call me sweetie. I ain't take none of your number. I want to be 1, no other before or behind me. What saith thou?


Gotta roll to Staples. Be back in 1 or 2 hours. I'll buzz you on YIM later on today. Laterz
Romance › Re: Is That True 95 % Of Lagos Babes Are Just Girl Friend Material Not For Wife by TheSeeker(m): 10:49pm On Aug 01, 2009
[quote author=na2day? link=topic=303498.msg4284948#msg4284948 date=1249162923]u know as i do  cool cool[/quote]Applause, you're so very great
Culture › Re: Osun -- State Of The Living Spring! Identify Here by TheSeeker(op): 10:43pm On Aug 01, 2009
FL Gators:
See why you're my personal person?
Okiez, so you like the number 14? How 'bout we hook up, and break up and hook up again. Problem solved
Another offense! Post modification, reproduction, reprint, playing, using, without authorization(you just trespassed on my copyright). I hook up, stay up, glue up and grow old. Sorry sugarpie, but imma letcha offer pess tongue
Romance › Re: Is That True 95 % Of Lagos Babes Are Just Girl Friend Material Not For Wife by TheSeeker(m): 10:40pm On Aug 01, 2009
[quote author=na2day? link=topic=303498.msg4284929#msg4284929 date=1249162586]abeg na! it is the devil's fault  embarassed embarassed cry cry


thunder go soon fire u  angry angry angry[/quote]Nice defensive line grin
Romance › Re: Is That True 95 % Of Lagos Babes Are Just Girl Friend Material Not For Wife by TheSeeker(m): 10:35pm On Aug 01, 2009
[quote author=na2day? link=topic=303498.msg4284904#msg4284904 date=1249162227]chei! e bi like say u forget to take ur meds again[/quote]Answer my questions? BTW, who's fault is it that you don't have my back? Again, answer my questions grin
Culture › Re: Osun -- State Of The Living Spring! Identify Here by TheSeeker(op): 10:30pm On Aug 01, 2009
FL Gators:
Why now? You can be number 13.
You know what they say about the number 13? It's a lucky number
My rule number 13 : "There's no love in sharing," grin I don't like number 13 anyway, I got another lucky number. Guess it twice, if you get it, I will provide an alternative scheme.
Romance › Re: Is That True 95 % Of Lagos Babes Are Just Girl Friend Material Not For Wife by TheSeeker(m): 10:25pm On Aug 01, 2009
[quote author=na2day? link=topic=303498.msg4284854#msg4284854 date=1249161454]i think say we bi brothers?  undecided undecided

i dey watch 2 of una ooo  angry angry


u like fight ooo[/quote]You're still my homie, I was just watching your back to make you're you're not mincing sentiments with true judgment.

What are you watching? Why are you watching? Who are you watching? Since when have you been watching? How long will you be watching? grin grin grin

I no like fight, refer to reason 1.
Culture › Re: Osun -- State Of The Living Spring! Identify Here by TheSeeker(op): 10:19pm On Aug 01, 2009
FL Gators:
I'm okay, the jewel of my eyes grin
Been busy, trying to catch some fun ni o jere, before my 12th husband gets back from work.
My weekends been. . . .aiight wink
Really? 12th husband? I was considering but now I'm put off, sorry sweetheart -- don't like competition. When you're a lone ranger, let me know[quote author=oyinda. link=topic=297077.msg4284826#msg4284826 date=1249160961]nothin o.i can already see it sef the jewel is blinding my eyes  grin[/quote] grin What do you see? How do you see? Describe what you've seen?
Culture › Re: Osun -- State Of The Living Spring! Identify Here by TheSeeker(op): 10:07pm On Aug 01, 2009
[quote author=oyinda. link=topic=297077.msg4284790#msg4284790 date=1249160325]hmmm. . .  cheesy
so about ur jewel seeker?[/quote]Yes, what about my jewel? Anything you wanna know?
Romance › Re: Is That True 95 % Of Lagos Babes Are Just Girl Friend Material Not For Wife by TheSeeker(m): 10:04pm On Aug 01, 2009
bluespice:
seeker pouring kerosene ontop chemical fire grin

na2day ur name resemble niggi? angry
Which Kerosene? He said he's seen it, all of a sudden, he wants to interrupt transmission and remove his "Chinesedoll".

@Na2Day, can you tell me why you put her on your exception list, Sir?
Romance › Re: Is That True 95 % Of Lagos Babes Are Just Girl Friend Material Not For Wife by TheSeeker(m): 10:01pm On Aug 01, 2009
bluespice:
bitch pls
https://i29.tinypic.com/4pwb3c.jpg

lol seeker u making a black woman blush tongue
aunty mi chinese dem no fit u no see wetin i talk? wink
teju, truts me when i say them niggis on here aint worth ur time wink
Keep the blush up! You deserve it, ya know that. Unlike some disrespectful, sordid and clueless b**tchz LOL grin grin Anything else I can do for you, ma'am?
Romance › Re: Is That True 95 % Of Lagos Babes Are Just Girl Friend Material Not For Wife by TheSeeker(m): 9:56pm On Aug 01, 2009
[quote author=na2day? link=topic=303498.msg4284747#msg4284747 date=1249159536]make i no talk true again, na wetin i see i dey yan so[/quote]E get anything wey that your eyes no dey see? You sure say no be satellite?

So she wan divorce you now and you no count am put? Chinesedoll, bring the papers over, I'll show my solidarity and accompany him to all the court proceedings.
Celebrities › Re: It’s Don Jazzy Again! by TheSeeker(m): 9:51pm On Aug 01, 2009
Jesus!!! Is this for real?
Celebrities › Re: Beauty & Body: Kim Kardashian Vs. Beyonce by TheSeeker(m): 9:44pm On Aug 01, 2009
Beyonce is so fake compared to Kim.
Culture › Re: Osun -- State Of The Living Spring! Identify Here by TheSeeker(op): 9:38pm On Aug 01, 2009
FL Gators:
Hmm, okay. So, how was your day?
My day's been good. I'm just a lil' tired and somewhat sleepy, but I'm ok. What about you? How's your weekend been? Not seen you in YIM lately, hope you're ok? IM me when you've got a chance.
Romance › Re: Is That True 95 % Of Lagos Babes Are Just Girl Friend Material Not For Wife by TheSeeker(m): 9:35pm On Aug 01, 2009
bluespice:
see why lil kids should drink?
many have had that moment of epiphany during a drinking bout
but they are all wise enough to forget the stupidity of the comments made during or after the 'epiphany'

badboy, quit yapping like a lil kid! we get it, ur rich ur successfull she's a gold digger get over it! angry
hotteju, he's a fool, ur classy, act the part!
seeker, wade out of the murk before u get caught in the fray

pollmaster not everyone is as stupid as u are
Thanks girl. Now aren't they wondering why I dote on you? kiss
Romance › Re: Is That True 95 % Of Lagos Babes Are Just Girl Friend Material Not For Wife by TheSeeker(m): 9:26pm On Aug 01, 2009
[quote author=na2day? link=topic=303498.msg4284662#msg4284662 date=1249158034]i will say 95% is too high but yes must are definitely not wife material and i even dont consider them girl friend material either, i think they make good "playmates' nothing more. it is not just a lagos thing, it happens in any major happening city nigerian babes find themselves, PH, Warri, london, NYC, LA, ATL, Maryland in MD, Chicago(those ones are something else), Houston, Rome (ewww!) etc[/quote]Na2day!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! shocked Ok ooooo! Na you talk am oooo. If that girl, hotteju, catch you she go roast you. Make I introduce to am sef grin grin
Culture › Re: Osun -- State Of The Living Spring! Identify Here by TheSeeker(op): 9:21pm On Aug 01, 2009
FL Gators:
Negative. They're last names, not first names. They're automatically inherited.

What I want to know is, why majority of them have  have those last names? The history behind it.
Husband's mother? Wouldn't a woman rather want he rmother to be there for her?
Well, just as you said, they are last names. The names were given to those with such circumstantial births. Till today, the names are still given to these kinds of children. You don't just give birth to a child and name them, Aina, Ojo, Taye, Kehinde, etc. There has to be a genuine natural reason.

So if they have them as last names, it's very sure that the names were given to those people. There's no special history about the names other than those earlier explanations.
Culture › Re: Osun -- State Of The Living Spring! Identify Here by TheSeeker(op): 9:02pm On Aug 01, 2009
FL Gators:
@TheSeeker
All those names you just mentiond (Oke, Ige, Aina, Ajayi, Ojo, etc) are last names of most Ekiti people.
Any explanation for hat? undecided
Hey, 352 is treating me nicely, you?

Ate? Never heard of it.
Do you know about th whole traditional thing with the husband/wife's mother spending a few weeks with the new mother and bathing the new baby?
All those names are attributed to those who have circumstantial birth. I think the questions about the names had been correctly and adequately answered on the previous two pages. So I guess there are more people who have this birth qualities in Ekiti.

As for the mother/mother-in-law visiting a new mother, I think that's common in the South. I don't know if such exists in the North. In some parts of Yoruba land, the wife's mother is allowed to come to take care of the new mom --- it's believed she'll know how to take care of her daughter more and the closeness between the two will help the new mom a lot. However, in very rare cases, the hubby's mom comes. Most people don't approve the latter because it's a wide belief that they might see faults with the wife; which is so many times absolutely unnecessary.

The same applies to south-southerners and the south-easterners. The Igbos will call it "Omugwu". It's a common phenomenon in the South though
Celebrities › Re: Jackson Was Not My Father, Says Omer Bhatti by TheSeeker(m): 8:55pm On Aug 01, 2009
No one can say what's true in this situation. We could have been sure if he had opted for a DNA test. Well, if he finally had come out to be truly MJ's son, he may be scared of whatever drama might come to surface. Besides, there's too much going on right now about Jackson.
Romance › Re: My Girlfriend's A Virgin(she Wants Us To Wait Till Our Wedding Night): by TheSeeker(m): 8:34pm On Aug 01, 2009
posakosa:
, Back for my final semester. NY.
Ok, that's nice. Very good.
Romance › Re: My Girlfriend's A Virgin(she Wants Us To Wait Till Our Wedding Night): by TheSeeker(m): 7:59pm On Aug 01, 2009
posakosa:
Lagos, Nigeria, but ill be back to the U.S. for skool when it starts again in August.

I was just curious!
Ok, that's cool. Which state are you coming?
Culture › Re: Osun -- State Of The Living Spring! Identify Here by TheSeeker(op): 7:57pm On Aug 01, 2009
[quote author=oyinda. link=topic=297077.msg4284312#msg4284312 date=1249152781]my yoruba teacher from back in the days told us that aina could be for both male n female depending on where ur from. some towns use it more than others. i'm pretty sure she told us that but it's been so long ago n memory prolly is failing me[/quote]Yes, you're damned right and your memory ain't failing ya.
Romance › Re: My Girlfriend's A Virgin(she Wants Us To Wait Till Our Wedding Night): by TheSeeker(m): 7:53pm On Aug 01, 2009
[quote author=na2day? link=topic=303834.msg4284296#msg4284296 date=1249152606]i forget  embarassed embarassed embarassed[/quote] sad sad sad sad
posakosa:
@ TheSeeker: ok.
So where you at?
Romance › Re: My Girlfriend's A Virgin(she Wants Us To Wait Till Our Wedding Night): by TheSeeker(m): 7:41pm On Aug 01, 2009
[quote author=na2day? link=topic=303834.msg4284234#msg4284234 date=1249151801]na night vigil i go ooo![/quote]Good! Hope say you pray about this health bill?
Culture › Re: Osun -- State Of The Living Spring! Identify Here by TheSeeker(op): 7:35pm On Aug 01, 2009
[quote author=tpia. link=topic=297077.msg4284166#msg4284166 date=1249150915]true.

I wasnt named Oke, for example. But I was told I'm an "Oke".

btw I'm reading a book about early Abeokuta and it seems Aina used to be a male name as well.

Along the line I guess it became exclusively female.[/quote]Yes, Aina was used for both gender back then, it gradually waned and was only appended to females. But, I used to know a man, his name was Ojo Aina.
Romance › Re: My Girlfriend's A Virgin(she Wants Us To Wait Till Our Wedding Night): by TheSeeker(m): 7:19pm On Aug 01, 2009
[quote author=na2day? link=topic=303834.msg4284137#msg4284137 date=1249150580]don know yet bro, i just keep sleeping and waking, must be saturday  undecided undecided[/quote]Yes, must be. You go club yesterday? WAKE THOU FROM THY SLUMBER, young man.
posakosa:
TheSeeker r u in NY
No, I'm not. What about you? You in NY?
Romance › Re: My Girlfriend's A Virgin(she Wants Us To Wait Till Our Wedding Night): by TheSeeker(m): 7:06pm On Aug 01, 2009
[quote author=na2day? link=topic=303834.msg4284081#msg4284081 date=1249149784]i say she is my sista and na me train am b4 she graduate b4 me tongue tongue tongue[/quote]Your mind don spoil finish. grin grin grin. Whaddup this mornning, dawg?
Romance › Re: My Girlfriend's A Virgin(she Wants Us To Wait Till Our Wedding Night): by TheSeeker(m): 7:02pm On Aug 01, 2009
[quote author=na2day? link=topic=303834.msg4284051#msg4284051 date=1249149152]no bi like so, sistawoman na my sista but her sex drive no get part 2, if i get her kind of sex drive i go kill persin grin grin grin[/quote]How you take sabi her sex drive? Abeg make we forget am. Make we talk something else.
Romance › Re: My Girlfriend's A Virgin(she Wants Us To Wait Till Our Wedding Night): by TheSeeker(m): 6:26pm On Aug 01, 2009
posakosa:
Well stated.

Then you are one of the lucky few. My dad cooks for my mom and vice versa, I can't imagine being with a man that can't cook for me.
OK. He must be a very good man, obviously. wink
Romance › Re: What Exactly Do Women Want?" by TheSeeker(m): 6:16pm On Aug 01, 2009
Nice tips. I guess all these lies in you. You can't imbibe what you don't have inside you. But sure, they are good tips.
Romance › Re: My Girlfriend's A Virgin(she Wants Us To Wait Till Our Wedding Night): by TheSeeker(m): 5:52pm On Aug 01, 2009
posakosa:
You wouldn't do that, thats what every man says until he gets pressure from his momma and family, (where is my grandchild? where is my grandchild? ) You are right in stating that marriage isn't about having children alone, its much more than that, but then societal and family pressure kicks in,

And about the lying thing absolutely, Honesty is the best policy, absolutely, the world would be much more of a better place if we were honest not just to others but to OURSELVES, Too many people cheat themselves by lying to themselves,
Yes, many men may say that and at the end of the day act differently in the face of pressure. When I do get married, I am because I can solely make my wife happy, give her confidence, satisfaction, fulfillment etc. My parents and family got nothing to do with her. I married her, not them. If I have any problem with her, I don't go to them.

I handle it with my wife. It's a very childish act for us to act on advice of parents when it comes to marriage. So many men claim to love a woman and in the heat of so much pressure from their parents, another tune is sang. If I can decide to marry my wife despite her inability to have a child, it's none of my family's business. It's either you take it or leave it. You can't live with that, that's your problem not mine. You can't come to my house and harass my wife. If it's too much pressure for her to go see my family, I will stop her from going there. Until they change their stance, they will not set their eyes on me.

The problem we have in Nigeria is that, we listen to what people would say and most times we just prejudice. Most people don't follow their heart, they are always worried about "what will people say?" "how will I look to the public?". There are lots of men who're willing to help their wives with culinary activities, laundry and so on, but what happens? He can't and won't because he doesn't want his family or his friends to think he's a fool --- that's pretense and not living up to be a man on your own.

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